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Couples: How often do you have sex?
April 17 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
She could have it 24/7, so we could in effect do it multiple time per week BUT I am the recalcitrant one and therefore only once or twice.
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RHP User
15 years ago
At the moment it's generally every second night in some form or other and always on Sundays ! I'm not sure whats with the sundays but I guess it's a nice routine way to cap off a weekend together before going back to work on monday.But it has changed quite a bit over the course of our 20 + years of togetherness, from 3 times a day as horny teenagers, to only every weekend in the couple of years after each child. There has been quite a resurgence in the last 18 months since I had the snip and she stopped oral contraceptives. Both of us are still fairly horny for each other, and she gets quite turned on by the odd guy that takes her fancy. That's how we ended up here....
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RHP User
15 years ago
With each other or including play partners??
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RHP User
15 years ago
Because of time constraints and kids etc we are limited for time, but we try to get it on as much as we can. 2 - 3 times a week is normal for us.
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RHP User
15 years ago
we dont get to see each other every day of every week so when we do its good we like to do it a few time's in one day and if we see each other 3 days a week well you get the idear but we would love to do it more we both love sex and want it more and more also hard finding a hot cpl or female on this website lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sometimes twice or thrice!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks all for your comments.We have been together 3 years and have a young baby. At best its weekly for us :)Id like to poll the cross section of couples out there and find out what the norm and varying answers are for sex with partner :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
At the moment, not that much. too busy which is so sad to admit but in this case I can put up with it. It will soon end. I saw on Oprah today the average amount of sex that American couples have is once or twice a week and 18% of all marriages are sexless.
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RHP User
15 years ago
we have a 2 year old and it's hard to find the right time we have fun when she go's down for her lunch time nap and we have fun when she go's to bed at 7;30 well after 7;30 we go nut's lmao if that help's you at all
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RHP User
15 years ago
For us it can be a bit of a sexual roller coaster, at the moment life is busy and time is short so not as often as we would like but generally when life is going smoothly we tend to have sex with each other most nights of the week and then add in the 'extra' play dates and parties and woohoo life is great.I do wonder if swinging couples have more sex than the general population so perhaps the results of this 'pole' will be a little off lolWhen you have a young baby it is very normal to have the sex drop off, you are tired, hormones are crazy, if you are breastfeeding it can just all seem too much, but it does all go back to normal eventually, so long as you make the effort to still be close to each other.I happen to think 'rollercoaster' is pretty normal i think there are times in your relationship where you fuck like rabbits and other times when you are close to signing up to the convent/monastery lol (ok well maybe not THAT bad but you get my drift) Mrs GC
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athletic_couple
15 years ago
No children, limited work commitments, families over seas, so once a day for us, sometimes more. We also get together with others at least once a month with some months having multiple sessions each weekend. We're not in the 'honeymoon' phase either, we both have a high sex drive, we've enjoyed the same level of sex in our past relationships.
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RHP User
15 years ago
well my partner and i try to have sex with each other approx 5 times a week and when we go to swingers club or parties we also pick up there so all in all our sex life is great
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RHP User
15 years ago
If so about once a day minimum I make sure my man is pleasures atleast once a day.. When we first started could be up to 7 times a day but reduced slowly
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well if your asking how often do we have sex with each other well as often as we want generally depends on fatigue and stress levels aswell as opportunity but most days at least once and on others 3 maybe more and it might be a week between norties for various reasons called life. If you mean playtime with other that varies a lot too but if we averaged it back over 12 months probably once or twice a month sometimes more sometimes less. We have played 3 times in a weekend and gone months with out a play. It can take a fair bit of coordination with schedules work and family wise and the same goes for our play friends. I can say this we get it enough to always want more and have never become jaded with our sexlife. Just have fun life is way too short and unpredictable to live it any other way. MR SRFUN
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RHP User
15 years ago
Daily at most we go is 2 days with out it......
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incognito7776
15 years ago
We are quite regular with probably 4 to 5 times a week on average :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'butterflybabe90' If so about once a day minimum I make sure my man is pleasures atleast once a day.. When we first started could be up to 7 times a day but reduced slowly Oh BFB you must get that average up again!!! Us Pups used to be bunnies and fucked every spare minute. It would be normal for her to have at least 5 orgasms a day with me having a couple, sometimes more. This lasted for at least 5 years. In the last few years things have toned down a bit, we still regularly have sex on a daily basis but often there's also weeks we're too knackered and would prefer just feel each other up and fall asleep every night.We don't feel like we've lost it though as our passion for each other has deepened and doesn't seem to need as much physical reassurance. Also it's sometimes nice to abstain and really yearn for it.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy' Quoting 'butterflybabe90' If so about once a day minimum I make sure my man is pleasures atleast once a day.. When we first started could be up to 7 times a day but reduced slowly Oh BFB you must get that average up again!!! Us Pups used to be bunnies and fucked every spare minute. It would be normal for her to have at least 5 orgasms a day with me having a couple, sometimes more. This lasted for at least 5 years. In the last few years things have toned down a bit, we still regularly have sex on a daily basis but often there's also weeks we're too knackered and would prefer just feel each other up and fall asleep every night.We don't feel like we've lost it though as our passion for each other has deepened and doesn't seem to need as much physical reassurance. Also it's sometimes nice to abstain and really yearn for it. did you live together for the whole 5 years you were doing that? i think we have gotten past the stage of physical reassurance thats all...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'butterflybabe90' did you live together for the whole 5 years you were doing that? i think we have gotten past the stage of physical reassurance thats all... Oh we went on a first date and refrained from bonking for the night..I did spend the whole night with my tongue in her nether regions though but being a gentleman I kept my dick in my undies..ok well she took it out and used it as a lolly pop for a while. So night two, the night after we consummated the union in earnest and she never left my bed again. Yes we lived in each others pockets for so long, still pretty much do. I get you on the physical reassurance though..spot on really...we just needed a few more years reassurance than most I guess hehe. An aging relationship is a wonderful thing though, everything is always changing and it's always interesting.Oh and for a blatant drooling come-on ....we would both love to physically reassure you butterfly babe
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RHP User
15 years ago
He works away, so we go for weeks without any... But when he is home... anywhere from 3 - 4 times a day?! I think thats pretty impressive for having 2 kids!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'pocahontaswolfie' we dont get to see each other every day of every week so when we do its good we like to do it a few time's in one day and if we see each other 3 days a week well you get the idear but we would love to do it more we both love sex and want it more and more also hard finding a hot cpl or female on this website lol Same here, personally all day every day suits me just fine! But work, kid, life, living separately etc, u make up for it when ur together though :) 3-4 days a week at least twice each day, definitely more if i had my way hahaMissF
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RHP User
15 years ago
Daily, except for one week a month :'( but that's where hand-jobs come in!!! 8 years together and still just can't get enough of eachother!!! DnK xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
only as often as circumstances, jobs, children etc allow...... was supposed to get easier as we got older, but we just get busier........
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RHP User
15 years ago
It varies for us. We go through stages where its every day and all over eachother then it stops and we can go a couple of weeks. Hubbys a chef so work hours and kids make it difficult. We do find though once we have sex once its like it kick starts us to constantly for about a week then nothing.
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RHP User
15 years ago
depending on the day really, I mean a good day, two to 3 times, on a bad week - only couple times a week...but we both have high drives (so i've been told, always thought it was normal) We've been together a couple years now and it does help that we now live together.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'LustfullLovers' We do find though once we have sex once its like it kick starts us to constantly for about a week then nothing. I have often said to Gomez after a spell of enforced abstinence ...."Daaarling....thank you for clearing the pipes, now are you ready for some more??" I guess our monthy allowance is 8-10 times...overtime and bonus's pending :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Daily....
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RHP User
15 years ago
with me working now its once a week was all night every night.....wish i could have it all the time....im always horny but with work n hubby looks after kids we dont get much time.....rednwetpussy.....xxx...female half wrote this hubby cooking tea ...
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RHP User
15 years ago
I'd say every other night, but that's not prescriptive. We have fallen into a bit of a pattern of late though, for saturday and Sunday early morning play, all quiet and sneaky while the kids are watching TV....a bit of fun the start the day. The same family constraints apply to us also, so our sex life is often dependent on wellness of the children, stress at work and time. All up, we are happy with our lot ;-) J xx
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tomrach79
15 years ago
Every day, at least once. We would like to play more. We make time for ourselves, but struggle to make the time to meet others. I guess we should just try harder!! We are not in the honeymoon phase either and have never experienced this level of sexual attraction before. We just cant keep our hands off each other!! And hopefully more others!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mmmmm twice a year if im lucky... Hence Im here :(
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RHP User
15 years ago
daily and most days multiple, but it includes a lot of play not just fucking as you can just fuck anytime cant you
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RHP User
15 years ago
2-3-4 times a week depending on whether I'm traveling on business or not...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Just had to say, loving couple you are so lovely. So beautiful to see such a loving loyal couple. Renews my faith in romance and love etc. (Sorry I'm new here, just had to say that.)
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