M39 F54
Couple Attraction
March 17 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
Much more harder finding a couple that all 4 people can click with. Never take one for the team. Dosent end well. Just takes abit more time to find that special couple that all will get along with - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Neva take one for the TEAM. All in or not in at all when it comes to couples!
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blondes6365
8 years ago
As said above is true but never judge a book by its cover
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pizzadogs
8 years ago
Were in
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RHP User
8 years ago
We have really struggled to click with couples as girl on girl action is not our thing so it really comes down to both of us being happy with our potential partner in the other couple. It has always been the male in the couple that has not met Mrs D’s preferences but she can find her type easily with single guys so we continue to play separately mostly. We’d love to play together with a couple but it seems all too hard. Couples with a handsome, fit male please step forward 😂 Mr D - Posted from rhpmobile
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madotara69
8 years ago
I like Tara's thoughts she reflects of experiences, She tells, 'everyone is different and the sex is never the same, funny thing is the best sex we have had has been with the guys I've been least attracted with when we first met" The most disappointing times have been with some most attracted with when we first met. Age has been variable in both the better or for worse times and guess you have your experiences with threesomes in making any sense for meanings. Guess you guys meet in the middle and careful not to rule out the unique qualities in others that seem to come as a surprise.(some of the best moments are those spontaneous where energies of our spirits meet and want to dance, :La Creme da la creme)Sometimes you may find taking one for the team just happens, not always so predictable and it ain't all a bed of roses, there is always risks and by chances, we don't always see things the same way as each other and agree to disagree happens, common sense, instincts, should filter out the type of folk to avoid, there is two of you and if in tune with each other it's the moments most challenging test your bonds in each other, taking one for the team may just be something you experience and learn to better understand, not so simple as 'never take one for the team'. We have and you probably will if you have a dabble in a world where strong emotions come into their elements of nature. Take care Mado Mado Tara
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RHP User
8 years ago
you are perfect what a lovely couple.....we too have an age gap and find the matching quite difficult. If you get an answer let us know :)
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FredAndGinger2
8 years ago
Totally worth the wait to find the right couple(s). We've had some really great times and when everyone clicks then it's an amazing, memorable experience - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hard to find the right combinations but when you do you keep them as friends and fwb till either cpl feels the need to move on.age isnt an issue its also about what all 4 are into and whether you all match.hardest part is women can be the most fussiest in a cpl swing - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
This is a good topic....apart from the obvious mathematical factor of probability of four getting along being smaller its true as many have pointed out that you could find yourself taking one for the team more easily than you would expect. We adore each other and will go to great lengths to please each other and on 4 occasions we have been saved by good luck/providence from doing something we didn't really want to do because we thought the other wanted to... she has done it once and I have twice...we hope we now have it sorted with better communication but its not like picking up the milk at Coles...nerves are jangling, desires are fomenting, alcohol is soaking in and awareness can be affected. we are not experienced but we think if theres something in your craw that you cant seem to put aside...speak up to your partner ..even if its awkward or looks odd to any potential(s).
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RHP User
8 years ago
Think there's still have a stigma with the lady being older than the guy. Less it seems if the guy has a much younger partner.In your situation the the obvious difference might put some off. The ladies might appreciate the younger guy but not so much the male partner if he is the same age as you ( jealousy etc). Or the lady has kids around the same age. (ouch I said it) not with malice just a thought.I hate to suggest you lie about your age as I thought it was a typo after looking at your picture. Yes we find it difficult to find compatible couples who like each other enough. My partner is bi and sometimes that's a deciding factor. She doesn't push it and we get along with straight couples just as easily without any hint of bi play. We have made mistakes and each of has "taken one for the team" but not anymore. We try to be as relaxed as we can when meeting people and profiles don't necessarily prove true. Its a means of advertising ourselves which some take liberties with. It's only a face to face meeting which determines whether we will get along, but it's getting to that stage first which is the hard part. I might suggest private parties or clubs where you can meet several couples in a relaxed setting. Age might not be a factor when you're chatting and no one knows your RHP names or ages. You might also consider being flexible about playing as a couple, as long as there are no jealousy issues. A couple might want another female involved or another guy. At some point everyone gets involved with someone and leads to both parties joining up together. Flexibility.We've tried that and not had any problems. Had some great nights where she has had the pleasure of a couple of guys or a couple alone and we've played as a couple too.
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happiestcpl
8 years ago
if you caught up with your partner's friends for a coffee, movie, or a night out and you really don't enjoy their company- because you find them boring etc. Would you believe it would be worth spending time outside when you could just stay at home in your pyjamas and watched a nice doc or a movie on your couch? In our case it would not be worth it. So this is normal and worth worrying about. We "downgrade?" this whole thing to an occasional night out with our "other" circle of friends with a bonus (and potential) ending. So regardless of the age factor, or physical compatibility, if we both enjoy their company (socially), laugh with them, and we feel like we can respect their intelligence, it is a good start - this is what we both find "sexy" anyway (more than the looks, stamina, age, penis, boobs, muscles, curves and all other technical things etc.). And as said by FredandGinger, "totally worth the wait!!". We think this is the only way to "Bingo"! We found out that when we choose our "naughty" friends solely based on these, they usually end up becoming our "normal" friends which is the most awesome thing!
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happiestcpl
8 years ago
*NOT worth worrying about
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RHP User
8 years ago
Hi there - Posted from rhpmobile
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