Countdown to a hook up

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Monicab it all depends on the situation, sometimes it can be the same day, other times it could be over the space of a few days or weeks. First meetings dont have to be sexual they can be purely to get to know the person and see if you want to take it further.   I like to take my time and have a meet first to see whether we click and if the interest is mutual. If it is then you can plan for another meeting and do whatever you feel comfortable with. If on the otherhand you dont click its fine to say thanks nice meeting you but not this time. Dont be put off if a guy says the same thing to you. Just take it in your stride.   Always meet in a public place, no housecalls and no motel, hotels. Even if they seem nice in messages and on the phone you dont want to leave yourself open to being abused or used.   Have fun.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Seriously, it all depends on how horny you are :) I have met people after exchanging a few messages and then met them that very afternoon and I have met people after lusting after them for months and months and then sending them "nice" emails about their European holiday to get them to notice me. :P There is no true and tried method unfortunately. Some people you will just click with and others will be a hello/goodbye with the occasional - why not I will bonk this one. Just don't take this too seriously and try to meet people with too many expectations. I haven't really met very many people that I have met online but I know that when you meet the reality often is a completely different to what you expected. Some good and some bad.Good luck!!xxMeeka

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  As fnqlady says, be SAFEI've taken my tme with some, and been happy I did I've taken my time with others and wondered why I bothered I've jumped some and thought "oh dear maybe I shouldn't...."I've jumped others and been so eternally grateful.... lol.....Therefore, I also agree with Meeks But always, ALWAYS, meet safely. People are scary lol. Or at least enough of them are that the ones that aren't look much juicier by comparison

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  It's jumping into the unknown....moving outside your comfort zone....and it's thrilling and exciting! . Some great advice from the other posters :) . Follow your gut instinct. Sometimes the head gets confused about what is right or wrong...because it is all new and we have no experience to base wise decisions on. But as long as you feel safe, it's up to you as to how and when you want to bonk and with who. . If it doesn't feel right at anytime, just give a "thanks but no thanks" and move on. . Have fun!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  We agree with the girls, Safety is the most important thing and we have always used a public place for the first meeting just to be safe as u never never know. Tryit3

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