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Cougars, how do you like to be Approached.

June 12 2012

I'm a younger guy (only 23), yet I have really been wanting to find/meet some 30-45 year old women. It seems a lot harder than I thought it would be.Any tips on how I can get the more mature ladies to join me in some fun?

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  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Cougars,also known as the mountain lion like to stalk their prey....oooohhh you are referring to women,sorry.... Most women 30-45, I imagine, would recoil from that term,actually most women of any age ,it implies predatory behaviour and wishfull thinking on the part of young men. You are a guest,waiting for women to contact you,most women are guests ,men contact them,so therein lies your problem zacarak.You need to upgrade to have any chance.x Hugs H

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Cougars,also known as the mountain lion like to stalk their prey....oooohhh you are referring to women,sorry.... Most women 30-45, I imagine, would recoil from that term,actually most women of any age ,it implies predatory behaviour and wishfull thinking on the part of young men. You are a guest,waiting for women to contact you,most women are guests ,men contact them,so therein lies your problem zacarak.You need to upgrade to have any chance.x Hugs H

  • Tart_Du_Jour

    Tart_Du_Jour

    14 years ago

    I agree, I am 30 years old I would not appreciate being called a cougar. First thing you need to remember, just because you are younger than them doesn't mean you are doing them a favour. Secondly don't assume they are interested in you because you are younger. Thirdly don't treat them like a novelty because of their age difference.As a wrinkled crone in my early 30s like anyone else you should treat me like an individual.

  • Tart_Du_Jour

    Tart_Du_Jour

    14 years ago

    Sorry if my post seemed a little harsh. I really think the best thing to do like I said is approach them as an individual not as one homogeneous group.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hmm, this is news to me. I better strap myself in for the ride once I tick over that milestone in 5 months.Uh, I can give you some advice for approaching women in generally on RHP:I've just read back over this post before submitting and it sounds pretty demanding, but I'm rolling with it anyway. I guess you could say it's my ideal - obviously, there is room for people to be human.- Pay attention to detail. This covers lots of things such as reading the profile thoroughly, having good spelling and grammar on your own profile and in the messages you send. It shows you actually care and this is important.- Don't flirt or message off the hook. That shit is annoying and will get you blocked really quickly. If she doesn't reply to your flirt or message, it's not an invitation to send another one. She may not have gotten around to replying to it yet, but if you send a second one, that can be a bit creepy and may put you in the no-reply basket.- As the other women here have said, be interested in her as an individual person. I like to get to know a man - usually by discussing politics, travel, books, food, wine, sports or other activities. There may well be women out there who don't want to get to know you first, but I'd suggest they're in a minority. So maybe think about questions or topics you find interesting to discuss (other than sex). If you can get inside her head, you'll find her much more open to other activities.- I agree with Tart_Du_Jour, most of the younger men I've met haven't been doing me any favours. I have one younger friend (not by much I might add), who is incredibly pushy and it's the biggest turn off. Please also remember manners i.e. if you're ever invited for dinner it's nice to bring a bottle of wine or whatever. I can't think of a better example of good manners just now, but you catch my drift. Being respectful is really important to anyone.And so on and so forth.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hi hon I am beyone cougar here is an old pole cat. approach     Make sure you have a back seat of a car and that the lights do not go on when you open a door. Sudden light of any kind will make the pole cat look for something tocover herself, much like a vampire in sunlight   Sudden light will also turn you into a stone, as in greek tales...no I do not mean greekbums kido, go google   Make sure you have your wobble boots on, as in so much booze that you have to stagger to the car. Pole cats do not need to be drunk, as they are drunk on the very thought of a young studly dudly like yourself.   Pole cats have a bag full of condoms, lube and incontance pads   Do not under any circumstance let them on top,as if you happen to open your eyes you wll think you are bonking fred basset hound the jowles are so floppy and we drible when excited.   no we do not wax, we just have a bald spot on our flange when we are so old   oral sex...no teeth your dick and my mouth,could this be love?   comeon sonny , give the cougars a miss, stuck up tarts that they are once you had a pole cat there is no going back to under 60...grrrrrrrrr

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    You are terrible Muriel,lmaox Hugs H

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    What Hesione and Tuscan said plus...I don't really think of young guys as all that attractive...having discussed sex with people on here and my own observations, guys your age tend to be quite selfish, short lived lovers. Give me a man of refinement, culture, experience, or perhaps experience and big strong hands and possibly loads if staying power and I am going to have more interest. Also, not seeing oneself as gods personal gift to all women helps, even better if you don't see yourself as better than god...also, being willijg to stop, look, listen, learn ...and then cross the road is helpful before such encounters... If you consider it your pleasure to give her pleasure, you will have far more pleasure yourself, as she will return the favor unless she is a starfish in bed...can't help you with those ones... People with imagination tend to be better lovers also by the way, as they can think of new ideas, positions, locations, so it never hets a boring routine of same same sex...note Tuscan's highly imaginative answer,.infact all the above ladies have demonstrated that... But we are individuals, I hate the idea of a car seat, its so teenager, and if I have to 'break you UN's I am going to find it pretty boring...unless I have my whip out, but I am thinking you havent even seen that sort of stuff yet sonny...additionally, some women can't stand the idea f bonking someone young enouhh to be their son, especally if they have sons, and its that whole maturity thing... For me, if i am going to invest an afternoon, its not cause I think you are doing me a favor... I could feel quite the opposite... I would hae started with the approach mountain lions with caution, but Hesione said it for me... P.S I am a bit feline, but a whole lot human...Tuscan, I hope I have your volume of humor when I get to 59. Love you ladies. X x. Good luck, son

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    My phone and I aren't getting along...I don't want to have to "break you in"... Also, some guys have sent me emails on here stating they were after some "cougar action" with me... Big turn off, by the way.... I bothered to respond to one of them once, with "then you have a choice, your local zoo, or certain parts of North America, enjoy your trip, and remember to follow your tour guide's safety directions."

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Nope, that wasn't a sexy cougar growl, that was me expressing my distaste for the term cougar and for the idea that young men should be able to click their fingers and get one into bed. I like men young and old. But when it comes to sex and relating, I like maturity, experience, intelligence, and a great deal of skill. It's not inconceivable to find this in a 23 year old, but bloody unlikely I reckon. If you want to stand out among the crowd young man - and it's a hell of a crowd - you'll need to put some effort in. A profile pic, tasteful and enticing (no, not your cock, unless it's 9" and fat, which will draw some lovely women in for sure). A well written profile talking a bit about you, a bit about what you like sexually, a bit about what you have to offer. A paid membership so you can contact women. Remember it's a numbers game - you'll make a lot of contact for very little response. That's just how it works. I'm also curious about why you're so keen on older women. Age is not a guarantee of good sex so be careful what you wish for ;)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I can give you one piece of feedback. One rookie mistake that I see in chat quite often.Under no circumstances whatsoever should you say to a mature woman:You're beautiful FOR YOUR AGE!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Tuscan, you are too funny!       30 year old cougars! lol     The term conjures a 25+ age gap to my mind, not that i use it.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    My Son will be your age. That blows any chance, IMO.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'MrsTri'I can give you one piece of feedback. One rookie mistake that I see in chat quite often. Under no circumstances whatsoever should you say to a mature woman: You're beautiful FOR YOUR AGE! Yep, nothing makes my blood boil more.....and the guy who said it to me was only 4 years younger!!   My tiny bit of advice, show that there is something different about you and you never know, it might just spark some interest. Oh, and definitely upgrade as Hesione said! Mrs Waterbabes xxx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Theres a presumption here that all us women over 30 are just aching for you or one of your mates to come please us poor old soles... Pffft Sorry' but not so young man... the minute you mention the word 'cougar' is the moment you signal where your mindset is, so more likely than not ' we just move to the next profile looking for something with abit more maturity...Sadly' there's a common miss beleif amongst young guys that married or older woman on here must be unhappy, oversexed , or just plain desparate, and waiting for a young stud to come and satisfy them ? Wrong again...My advice is the next time you're sitting around chatting with your mates' let them know the perception they have is wrong' negative and untrue .. Yes' cougars do exist' but they will choose you if they want you.. not the other way around... so dont hold your breath..Sorry to be the bearer of bad news' but you might be luckier at the clubs and pub's... thats where we all started at your age....

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Tart_Du_Jour' I agree, I am 30 years old I would not appreciate being called a cougar. First thing you need to remember, just because you are younger than them doesn't mean you are doing them a favour. Secondly don't assume they are interested in you because you are younger. Thirdly don't treat them like a novelty because of their age difference.As a wrinkled crone in my early 30s like anyone else you should treat me like an individual. As an old dodderer with one stiletto in the grave I hate the term cougar.Now hand me the walking frame......

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Like all cats, I bite, I scratch and have been known to roar...loadly....

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    From Behind

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'GreyEyesHobart'Hmm, this is news to me. I better strap myself in for the ride once I tick over that milestone in 5 months.Uh, I can give you some advice for approaching women in generally on RHP:I've just read back over this post before submitting and it sounds pretty demanding, but I'm rolling with it anyway. I guess you could say it's my ideal - obviously, there is room for people to be human.- Pay attention to detail. This covers lots of things such as reading the profile thoroughly, having good spelling and grammar on your own profile and in the messages you send. It shows you actually care and this is important.- Don't flirt or message off the hook. That shit is annoying and will get you blocked really quickly. If she doesn't reply to your flirt or message, it's not an invitation to send another one. She may not have gotten around to replying to it yet, but if you send a second one, that can be a bit creepy and may put you in the no-reply basket.- As the other women here have said, be interested in her as an individual person. I like to get to know a man - usually by discussing politics, travel, books, food, wine, sports or other activities. There may well be women out there who don't want to get to know you first, but I'd suggest they're in a minority. So maybe think about questions or topics you find interesting to discuss (other than sex). If you can get inside her head, you'll find her much more open to other activities.- I agree with Tart_Du_Jour, most of the younger men I've met haven't been doing me any favours. I have one younger friend (not by much I might add), who is incredibly pushy and it's the biggest turn off. Please also remember manners i.e. if you're ever invited for dinner it's nice to bring a bottle of wine or whatever. I can't think of a better example of good manners just now, but you catch my drift. Being respectful is really important to anyone.And so on and so forth. Great guide, GreyEyes.   Conversational skills are a must. The 'cougars' aren't always interested in sex alone.   And now I have first dates with two lovely 30-somethings lined up

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Maybe you young 'uns are a cougarette.....a cougar in training.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Approach with care from down wind and once in range take carefull aim and fire that tranquiliser gun. Probably best to have a plan B in case you miss, maybe a net or something.Happy hunting :)Cheers Felonius

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I really resent the term.It is far from a term of "endearment" , it's disrespectful and demening to women, and everyone who even think to utter that term or address to a woman as such - is A TOOL. Youth it is a relative state, the essence and character of an individual it's what will set one apart from what I stated above. Now maybe you may like to give that a though, it may in fact be the answer to your quest.

  • Tart_Du_Jour

    Tart_Du_Jour

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Krissy_G' But quite simply KILF Thank you sweetie theres two of you on that SILF with list now. Damn straight you are missy!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I think I am pretty well qualified to answer this, but keep in mind it is only my personal opinion and maybe not that of other women. As a cougar, and yes I am definitely one, I prefer men that are a tad older than you. Despite the fact that we may want men younger than ourselves, it doesnt mean we want toddlers. Don't be offended by that, some of us have sons way older than you and may feel uncomfortable with one so young. Personally I will only respond to males who are respectful to women. The way you approach us initially makes a lasting impression, if you stuff that up you have blown your chances. Even though you may be in your early twenties, you are technically an adult so always behave like one. Hope this is helpful to you.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Couldn't have said it better myself. Hope they learn from your post. Dacougarbitch

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Don't assume that a woman is into younger men. For me its a total turn off - younger men just aren't in the same head space as me. I was 21 when you were born - ew!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I just realised I'm in the right age bracket now (I think)... does that mean time to stop with the young 'uns?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    His:cheeky smilesense of humoura libido that matched mineno references to cougar or being older than himand dammit, a cock so big and delicious that he's ruined me for all others - except when we play of course!

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    while I understand a lot of women don't like being called cougars, I generally use it as a term because most women when i refer to them as Older flip out at me. So I was using it to try and not infuriate people by saying they were old/older by using a word which generally I felt was less harsh than that. Sorry if I offended any of you ladies.Also I'm not just trying to go after older ladies because of it being an easy shag, or because I think they will automatically jump on me for being younger. I just genuinely want an older woman to have fun with, not just sex actual fun. Would love to have actual deep conversation with a woman about something other than Home an Away, Neighbours, or Twilight or any other kind of soapie or boring bullshit fad that seems to engulf the girls around/younger than I.I've dated younger girls, and a couple a few years older than I, but they acted really childish. Not going to stereotype them all as childish because others my age I've met have been smart and nice yet they weren't my type in the dating department.So yes, in ending I'm not doing this for ease or because I think I'm gods gift to women etc etc. like some of you have said in this page, I am just genuinely interested in having fun with an older lady. Hell if I got along with them enough I maybe even would consider dating.Thanks anyway for the couple that answered me :)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I really hate the word cougar. It just putting a label on those women who seek younger guys. And it is wrong to label things but society does it mothers which are called milfs and the elderly which are called gilfs. Yeah, I am interested in older females and I have it on my profile as that is why i am attracted to but I would never ever label someone in that way. I have many friends of various ages. I see it as derogatory. And I believe this is something that is making women say that "Sorry you are too young for me" etc etc. I think that if two people can be friends and connect then age is no freaking barrier for fun or relationships. It pisses me off that because of the labelling and the media nice young males with a high level of love, care, respect, intelligence, and common sense are shot down in flames.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Are the cornerstone of our society, that's partly how we got to where we are today. Labels are merely descriptors, to categorise, and you used quite a few in your post.Cheers Felonius....Don't hate the Labels

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Sex and then maybe dating......irresistible x Hugs H

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Stuart89' I really hate the word cougar. It just putting a label on those women who seek younger guys. And it is wrong to label things but society does it mothers which are called milfs and the elderly which are called gilfs. Yeah, I am interested in older females and I have it on my profile as that is why i am attracted to but I would never ever label someone in that way. I have many friends of various ages. I see it as derogatory. And I believe this is something that is making women say that "Sorry you are too young for me" etc etc. I think that if two people can be friends and connect then age is no freaking barrier for fun or relationships. It pisses me off that because of the labelling and the media nice young males with a high level of love, care, respect, intelligence, and common sense are shot down in flames. You are trying far to hard to Whiteknight.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'zacarak' Quoting 'Stuart89' I really hate the word cougar. It just putting a label on those women who seek younger guys. And it is wrong to label things but society does it mothers which are called milfs and the elderly which are called gilfs. Yeah, I am interested in older females and I have it on my profile as that is why i am attracted to but I would never ever label someone in that way. I have many friends of various ages. I see it as derogatory. And I believe this is something that is making women say that "Sorry you are too young for me" etc etc. I think that if two people can be friends and connect then age is no freaking barrier for fun or relationships. It pisses me off that because of the labelling and the media nice young males with a high level of love, care, respect, intelligence, and common sense are shot down in flames. You are trying far to hard to Whiteknight. I am not truing to hard at all, and yes I did use labels in my post. If you are making a statement about it then it is hard not to use them to support the statement. I guess you could say I am too much of that whiteknight label. Sorry if my post came across as offensive in any way. I always treat females with respect. It is unfortunate that we label by it is how we get through in life anyway.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Nice sentiments,welcome to the forumsx Hugs H

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'zacarak' Quoting 'Stuart89' I really hate the word cougar. It just putting a label on those women who seek younger guys. And it is wrong to label things but society does it mothers which are called milfs and the elderly which are called gilfs. Yeah, I am interested in older females and I have it on my profile as that is why i am attracted to but I would never ever label someone in that way. I have many friends of various ages. I see it as derogatory. And I believe this is something that is making women say that "Sorry you are too young for me" etc etc. I think that if two people can be friends and connect then age is no freaking barrier for fun or relationships. It pisses me off that because of the labelling and the media nice young males with a high level of love, care, respect, intelligence, and common sense are shot down in flames. You are trying far to hard to Whiteknight. but calling him on it directly is a rookie mistake. You probably just won him a few more fans by sounding pouty and combative about it, cos a majority of the "older" women here won't know what a whiteknight really is.;)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    I'd like to junkpunch any 20something who calls me cougar at 33..xx Sarah

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    mmm...love em...that peppermint nougat covered with chocolate...but I assume I will find the meaning in Urban Dictionary

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'MissSarahCurious' I'd like to junkpunch any 20something who calls me cougar at 33..xx Sarah Junkpunch for the win. I'm claiming that as my own from now on.

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Great post zacarak probably the first one on cougars or older women that is kinda helpful in this area.Yes for some of you im too young to know anything, but just from being inexperienced it is understandable that guys approach older women as the term cougar. Too us saying im interested in older women or the fact that you like older women isn't the first phrase that comes to mind because well approaching someone as hey im interested in older women (you) doesnt exactly set the mood right from the get go. So the next word that naturally comes to mind is cougar. Some women like to be called this others dont as seen from this forum, quite alot, i for one never realised.Thanks to the helpful posts, its always interesting to find out peoples opinions on the topic.Also from all the other immature guys who go out and make a bad name for youngs guys for example being immature, just for the sex, rude or even just plain boring. I just hope some women will give a young guy a break from the stereotype and maybe get to know him..Not sure if this would make sense to most people but lets just say i tried :)Well thats my 2cents worth,YHAS

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hi! Zacarak:) Firstly Hun I think it's taken guts to ask Women about how to approach them and learn from them rather than remaining Ignorant..so Way To Go You :) Sure you made the Mistake of Labelling Mature Women as "Cougars"... but you only went with what you have heard before...Now you know ..We are Individuals and Like to be treated as such as was mentioned before... Yes you do have more Intertest if you Upgrade as Many Women are Trial Members only ... Regarding Your Profile... .1.No Pic No Interest ..I suggest a Face Pic with No food or Booze in the Pic. 2.Hun Focus on Your Individuality your Talents Positive things about you ... I read your Profile I thought OMG!!! Remember Hun You are virtually Advertising Yourself to Women .. with so much Competition between the Guys . What I read you would have a snowballs chance in Hell of succeeding... 1.You told us You've not been Interesting enough for People to want to know you in Brissy. 2.You told us you don't even Like yourself the way you Look and more ..You know you better than we do So why the Hell would Women be breaking down your door to get to you... 3. You virtually told us I don't care who I get just anyone will do ... Now...... 1. Buy MSGs for about $13 fior 20per day I think ....You don't have to really Upgrade as such .Atleast you will be able to approach them. 2. Get some Pics UP as I mentioned. 3. Tell us some great things about you if you're funny whatever Do Not Mention Your Weight it's not required... Share your Interests ,,,,how you'd like to treat a Woman ...if you also want to chat meet see where it goes ..Be a Little selective put down something you Like in Mature Wimen ie Know what they want are easy to be with etc.. 4. Just chill be Positive and you'll get Positive Results... What's yours will come to you that goers for Money Opportunities Relationships when it's the right time.. Good Luck!! Cheers Lu :) PS .. To You "Old Pole Cat " I Loved your Descriptive Reply tho I'm 60yrs going on 38yrs in Attitude . I can't entirely Relate to it but it was so Funny Thanks for the good Laugh he!he! Cheers Lu :)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Drop the 'Cougar' label for a start......please. Such a crass & bogan term to use..   Lubes xx

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Awwww poor lad....he was only after a bit of nooky bless him....how can he get any experience if no one will give him some sugar.....come to mama honey...I'll make you feel better....I don't mind what you call me, as long as it's not late for dinner.   Only women who are getting 'older' will mind the tag 'cougar' those of us older again, don't give a shit. I don't.   Don't take any notice of those girls babe....you need a real woman who is so sure of herself, she can handle anyone. If you cum quick that's ok, cos you can reload just as quick - I ain't dying so soon :)   What I want to know is, how can I help to blow your mind?

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    HI ,I have the opposite fantasy, I would love to meet up with a much younger lady (25 to 45)........Ian

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hey Zac, Im 37 and have been with older women when I was in my 20's, and found that stereotyping any woman older than you as a cougar is a no no....just some general respect for each induvidals age and making them feel like a woman rather than an age bracket is a good start,others may think differently but hope it helps :-)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Ladies,and I use the word in its proper meaning, over 60 are the best much more patient

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    i Literally peed a little bit....lolQuoting 'Hesione' Cougars,also known as the mountain lion like to stalk their prey....oooohhh you are referring to women,sorry....

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    theres not really anything positive in any reply is there zacarac i think you must have got up the old girls noses a bit with that cougar werd you poor bugger..when i was yr age it was even harder to scramble into a more mature womans bed no internet no mobiles but i looked listened and learned and theres nothing more beneficial for a young guy than to be with a passionate and patient older woman who is expressive and responsive enough to show them what a grown woman needs

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Well zacarak I often hear the same thing you have stated that older women arent into younger guys....I only have encounters with guys aged from 20 to 30 as I have no attraction to men my age or over 30...The thing here is to find women who are into younger guys as the older women who arent generally wont go there at all nor try....Another thing is approach a woman with respect and have a general chat with them first and see what happens, as I find alot of the younger ones can be quite blunt and rude which can be a turn off, just hang in there keep looking and Im sure you ll be having some fun very soon..

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    A Note To Super 5656... I hope you're saying this as a stir ..If not there's certainly no excuse for your I'll Mannered Insulting Comment. Zacarak is Ignorant of the way to treat Mature Women but he asks for advice and wants to get it right .. Your Comment just shows your Ignorance nothing more....I'm Yet to see any of your Charm and respect being displayed in your manner here as stated in your Profile.. .How's your Charm working for you Online...Don't tell me It's quite Obvious... A word of Advice work on that so called Charm of yours .Treat others with Respect regardless of age etc.. Doing this you maybe surprised by Interest from atleast 1 Woman.. A Sincere Good Luck! with that.... From a Very Selective Mature Woman.. Cheers Lu

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    A Note To Wulfa:) Hi! Hun :) I love your sensitive complimentary Reply... I'm so glad you have experienced this awesome Encounter with Mature Women ....You are so right in what you stated .. I am disappointed about 1 part tho. As you've Put all our replies in 1 Negative Basket....I know there's a few to go through... but I have read some funny ones ie Tuscan Sun...Some sympathetic ones towards the Young Guy... I felt for Zack. I complimented him on wanting to learn how to approach Mature Women etc I went to great lengths to instil in him a very Positive lesson which he can use in the Future ..ie Where he went wrong in composing his Profile by focusing on his Negative qualities instead of Advertising his Positive ones..and how to do change it . However this is his Profile I can't literally do it for him... I hope you and Zack go on to enjoy the Sexual Encounters with some awesome Mature Ladies.. Cheers Lu :)

  • RHP

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    14 years ago

    Hahaha I`m gonna try my luck at someone else`s topic. lol shame on me. But since this subject is on-going i figured i might as well do so. So here it goes: Ladies, would any of you like to give me a private lesson for both of us` pleasure?XChris

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    14 years ago

    Poor baby...he asked so politely!Honestly...in my not so humble opinion...it doesn't matter the label...We could all walk around wearing the multiple labels that we get every day...it doesn't define us and therefore, should not offend us...it's basically up to us to accept it as a compliment and move on...there are young men that find it far more pleasurable to be with women over a certain age...and sheeyit...who are we to complain? our bits and bobs are not always in the same position that they used to be...and frankly...if a younger man is happy to accept that then he deserves to have a shot at an older kitty...And one willing to learn? pfff...stop bitchin ladies...he's gonna be older one day...and have a few tricks up his sleeve that one or two of us might have shown him...maybe some that some of the more mature males may not yet have learned and can't be arsed to do so!You go Kiddo...hope your pride overflows with Cougars.Looney

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    14 years ago

    Old ducks we may be,but honey we aint quackers.xHesione Peking

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    14 years ago

    No doubt about it, these cougar threads always have the quackers flocking to the pond. heheheheCheers Felonius

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    14 years ago

    cougar or not..... any yowie will do

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    14 years ago

    I have big feet,will that do?x Hugs Hesione Yowette

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Hesione'I have big feet,will that do?x Hugs Hesione Yowette ..... big gloves

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    14 years ago

    This from a 39 yr old "Love your profile, and not just 'coz of your cleavage......It's funny: as a younger man I'd never have thought it, but as I get older I find cougars, such as you, with older, mature womens' figures all the more appealing. Who knew? " ............. My response ..... Delete and block, whilst thinking to myself... 'way to go dickhead' looking at the far from Olympic body his pics portrayed him as being. Apparently its not just the 'young-uns' after pole cats and cougars, 2 years older and he sees me as a mature aged cougar wtf is that any way and how old do mountain lions go to anyhow? And p.s... Dear OP... I wasn't referring to you thinking you were gods gift to women, but I know a guy who is cougar hunting who does think that... And Hungry Jacks does make everything better (in joke. happy to share privately if wished.) X x

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    14 years ago

    At least it aint that gene pool we is atx Hugs H

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    14 years ago

    plenty of time for that age group later, whats wrong no one within a decade of you wants to have sex. Any way plenty of talk about them is the best way, show a interest in them and listen. Most woman that age will love it if you can use your tongue well ,giving them a very good licking of their pussy , that usually makes them hungry to please.

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    14 years ago

    you old bags

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    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Hesione' Nice sentiments,welcome to the forumsx Hugs H No worries. :D

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    14 years ago

    How about you just try not to target a specific age group? If you see someone on here you are attracted to, spark up a conversation and see where things go, age shouldn't come into it if the attraction and chemistry is there!