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Correct Application of EWWWWWW

June 19 2012

Something I've been thinking about a lot lately, either from a reaction to something I've said personally, as well as read on a forum post, or even just observing the fast moving goings on in the chat rooms is...............What seems to be a backwards movement in acceptance and or tolerance of another human being's sexuality, kinks or fetishes. It's really not all that long ago that people started feeling comfortable enough to 'out' themselves with something they find incredibly hot, or wickedly twisted n kinky to an open hearted audience who instead of piping up with a big EEEWWWW would ask sensible questions of the person in order to find out more, to understand, to at least TRY and see it from another's perspective..Lately I have been witnessing more gay bashing and bi-male bashing on the forums than I ever have before, not only that....but instead of hearing out a persons fetishes, they have been shoved back to a place where they only feel comfortable talking about 'vanilla' situations..Why? Why go backwards? this is a site where people come for exploration, not only 'extra sex' .........finding like minded girls n guys to take it from fantasy to reality in most cases.We have no right to 'EEWWWWW' anyone for what they enjoy, how fkn dare we?? .Oh that's right! There must be something incredibly wrong with them , for them to like anything out of the normPffffft get over yourselves!The only thing that should be rigid and inflexible in an open sexual based forum is the dicks when they read something they really get turned on by.....and you know what? Not even then, because god only knows there is probably a soft cock fetish out there too .Here's a test for all you supposed non-judgemental, free thinking, sexually open people........The very next time you see or read something and your involuntary EWWWWW comes out.....STOP......dont say itGo and ask the person to explain their side of it, ask them why it turns them on so....you may be surpised by the harmless simplicity of it, or at the very least ...just confirm that it is not for you.Challenge yourself to be truly open minded on a sexual level I double dog dare ya!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

and sit here wondering when such a wise, sassy, sexy woman will take on an International Diplomatic role ..Today RHP......Tomorrow the World !!!!!

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RHP User

14 years ago

I know when I first discovered the forums...there was many things that me think ewwwwand I sometimes responded on my instinct rather than consider what was being said.A couple of years down the track here I find myself rarely thinking ewww.....and marvel how the forums have really opened my mind and thought process about others kinks & fetishes..For all those who do enjoy fresh dog poo squelching through your toes, no offense intended.....I just know it doesnt work for me.

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RHP User

14 years ago

I'll do my very best to comply. Just one question; does your "no eeewww" rule apply to scat and prolapse porn?

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RHP User

14 years ago

Whatever blows your hair back dude I won't say EEEWWWW right in your face if that's what you're into........I think thats the biggest insult EVER when someone has opened up a very private part of themselves to me..I have in fact asked people what the draw is in both those instances and was quite surprised at the explanations in fact though many people's kinks or fetishes aren't for me....just like the lovely Ruby's dog poo between the toes lol)...I thank them for sharing a deep part of themselves with me, and for trusting me enough to know that I won't judge them as a person for it afterwards.It is afterall only a small part of what that whole person is made up of

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RHP User

14 years ago

I haven't noticed that trend at all, I don't think? Whaddimiss??

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RHP User

14 years ago

I was discussing with a buddy where my 'line' was, i.e. what wouldn't I do. He asked if I would let someone shit on my chest.I didn't think ewww, but 'hell no' certainly came out of my mouth immediately.I've been on RHP for about three months now, and it has been a baptism by fire experience. I look back a few months and I think I am much more open minded, tolerant and accepting now. There are a lot of things that don't surprise me anymore, even if I am not into it myself.As long as the participants are consenting adults, who are we to judge?

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RHP User

14 years ago

I tend to agree with you Dont Grab That. It does take a lot of courage to open up and we have to show respect when someone does open up. I know that there are something in my head that if people here they might go Ewwwwww :-).You like what you like... The biggest favour you can do for your self is accept and embrace it..

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RHP User

14 years ago

I say EWWWWWWWWWW to men in g strings and refuse to appologize for my distaste :) Other than that ewww is saved for people who eat shit, fuck dogs and wear g strings :)

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RHP User

14 years ago

ghjn nmn , olll

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QLDtwo4fun

14 years ago

We usually work on the basis that if it's between freely consenting adults then who are we to judge.......... then DBC and jensman brought up some topics that got a EWWWWWW response, but I keep it to myself. Sorry, I have not idea what multiples_xxx response means, I'm lost in text language.

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