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Conversation HIJACKERS...it friggin bugs me to all hell!
May 26 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
What exactly bugs you? The fact that she has done so much in her life that she has many stories to share? Maybe she doesn't feel like she is hijacking...maybe she likes talking to you and others about her life...Maybe she is lonely and the only company she has is at work. You know they do say that when you meet a person and there is something about them that you don't like...it is usually because you have that trait in yourself that you don't like! Do you believe that women should be seen but not heard? Food for thought xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I was on a site similar adult site like RHP a very long time ago and i used to go to the social drinks nights and OMG. The guys are really bad. I assume RHP drinks nights are very similar too although i never been to RHP drinks night yet. Whenever i talk One on One with a Guy I am remotely interested in. I always find about 5 guys who I am not interested in all end up butting in and hijack the conversation and not giving me and the guy i like any space. Then those same guys would follow me around everywhere during the drinks nights and basically butt in and hijack in into every conversation i have with everyone specially if they see it was with another guy. lol They think ohhh i will get her attention and impress her this way but it was really annoying. The guys that did that ended up in my not to meet again list. lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Shhh Some of us thrive on it mate. I mean... This one time in band camp I...... Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi JJ, Are you talking about me again ? Wow... this sounds like certain people who hijack every forum post, just HAVE to get their point across ! I promise I'll keep quiet next time... otherwise you can gag me ! Hope you will make it to the next Drinks night. Hugs, Miss Sat
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RHP User
16 years ago
I hope that you are refering to My pals and I. They will be here before me or sooner than later. Something like this is honey to us. I don't aim to hijack any thread and talk about me only. Hey I will even interupt myself. Lol. Even in the throws of passion. So chill it is all harmless fun. Fab RFB5.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i wasnt on that list! lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Know what you mean Jules and it is bloody poor form, especially when you are having a private conversation. These same people are often the laziest in the team and see it as just another way to skive off work and generally waste time and spread gossip! I usually say "where talking about you, not to you" or "don't you have something to do!" what i really want to say is FUCK OFF YOU LAZY OXYGEN THIEF! but mostly i am to polite.But in a social situation i don't care who joins in the more the merrier! But i am not real fond of the mine is bigger/faster/shinier than yours type conversations......probably cause i never manage to outdo anyone....i swear everyone i talk to is better in every department than me....except for humility perhaps.....lolCheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mrs P if they arent talking about you then its me hahaha i got told by a fella, im on here way too much and he was sick of seeing me here... but to answer jules's question...i have a friend that does the same thing, drives me batty, whatever you say he will just cut in and go on his own little tyrade or worse if your upset and whinging about something he will interupt and tell you about something else and not even listen to you and your problem geez when its all written down holy shit why do i bother lol roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' Mrs P if they arent talking about you then its me hahaha i got told by a fella, im on here way too much and he was sick of seeing me here... but to answer jules's question...i have a friend that does the same thing, drives me batty, whatever you say he will just cut in and go on his own little tyrade or worse if your upset and whinging about something he will interupt and tell you about something else and not even listen to you and your problem geez when its all written down holy shit why do i bother lol roxxy xxx You can never have to much Roxy, to quote HG Nelson, when to much Roxy is not enough
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RHP User
16 years ago
It has nothing to do with RHP members at all...or not directed at women particular either...Just some ppl have knack of trying to get in on any conversation, and i think it can be a little rude. But even more funny, if you dont talk to her she starts having convo's with herself.lol. Miss Saturn, you are welcome to hijack any convo:) gagging you...mmm now ur teasing but i like it....keeps me on edge like a caged ani...ok i better stop. will try my darndest to get to the drinks nite x
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RHP User
16 years ago
yeah the men on here are so rude Mrs P i dont know how i put up with them its funny cause my friend he is a great person would do anything for you...just a pain if you wanna chat lol maybe they go together...i wonder Jules is your workmate a wonderful person apart from that??? roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
HEHE hey Jules...........excuse me but could i just let everyone know about the change of venue for the MELBOURNE DRINKS NIGHT ??? ta hun didnt think you'd mind....sounds like your used to it..... ..spank me or is that bite me !! lol ok NEW VENUE FOR DRINKS NIGHT IS ET s HOTEL 211 HIGH STREET WINDSOR/PRAHAN. Just around the corner a wee bit from the union......see you all there sorry.............................................. what was it you were saying again ???Oh yeah i hate that too....bloody students..wait till you finish explaining and then ask exactly what you just spent half an hour explaining !!! "whack" i may be a pacifist and a light Buddhist...................... ...but whacking is just correct for some really i am nice miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
god yeh mate, sooo know what u mean.
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RHP User
16 years ago
NNNEEEEEOOOOOORRRRRRRWWWWWWWWWWWWRANDOM BOMBING RAIDahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaRFB2, Blue Leader
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RHP User
16 years ago
but i really do just say how it is...I have said to my dim and witless boss, whose nickname btw is ol' windy on account that he never shuts up and interferes in everything....well, i have said to him, "Would you do me a favour"..."Duh, what?", he would say and i just said "fuck off!"...yes, i am still employed and yes, he is still my boss and no, he didn't...sigh....So I'm sorry if i disappoint ya Jules, but just turn to them and say, "Excuse me...fuck off!"....and yes, it does work...except with ol' windy...maybe if i showed him a pencil and asked him to bend over the nearest chair.............heheJose....
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RHP User
16 years ago
I have unfortunately worked with exactly the type of person the OP described on more than one occasion. They always have something more outlandish to say, retell some deed that is more improbable that the one being discussed. Just remember if they are pissing you off, it is a fair bet they are pissing everyone off. So do what we did. We set them up. Quite simple really, just get together with one or two people and with a bit of planning it works a treat. Start a conversation about something already pretty outrageous and sure enough, Mr or Ms Big Mouth with butt in with a tale to top that. Then get someone else to top them with something more outrageous. The boor can't help but retell yet another tale to top that and soon enough you can look them in the face and call them a bald face liar infront of everyone. That will, 99% of the time, humiliate them enough to shut them up for quite a while.
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RHP User
16 years ago
is well underdone in modern society. It's a skill, a talent and a grace to be able to listen to someone with real attention and interest. If you're planning your response while someone else is talking, you're not really listening. Listening is a true gift to others. We all know how wonderful it feels to really be heard. Those who constantly interrupt, turn topics of conversations to themselves, are overbearing and dominating, are often just wishing someone would really hear them.Just my thoughts :)lilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Kind of reminds of Monty Pythons Flying Circus...The Four Yorkshiremen skit! funny stuff and i reckon it was created with just this situation in mind! Cheers Nev
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RHP User
16 years ago
seriously - enough of this talk about thread hijacking... and more talk about me..
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Jean_Girard' seriously - enough of this talk about thread hijacking... and more talk about me.. Or, for something slightly more exciting, ME! Seriously though, I'm attempting to study the art of listening further. I talk too much. I agree with lilmissfussy, but am a constant interruptor. But I would still like to believe that my ears are as responsive as my mouth.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'couple30ssydney' Quoting 'Jean_Girard' seriously - enough of this talk about thread hijacking... and more talk about me.. Or, for something slightly more exciting, ME! Seriously though, I'm attempting to study the art of listening further. I talk too much. I agree with lilmissfussy, but am a constant interruptor. But I would still like to believe that my ears are as responsive as my mouth.Erm.... Im pretty sure this conversation was going to be about me... !
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RHP User
16 years ago
just breathe before you butt in, you'll soon discover what you urgently need to say is not so important after all.And if you really want to practice the skill, find someone you feel comfortable with and set up a practice session. First, they talk for one solid minute about themselves. In fact, they might even choose to be silent for some or all of that time. Your job is to just listen to them, or if they are silent, still give them your full presence and attention. Then swap roles. Do this a few times, and then practice it (unofficially) with colleagues, strangers etc. You'll be amazed how liberating the art of listening is :)< gets off her soap box!lilmiss x
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