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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  alot to be said about proof reading..... I meant i feel she has a deep seeded need to feel loved etc cheers anice

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I can understand your friend's sentiments but her motives are her own. We all have or own motives... for example... Sex is like drugs to me (without the extremely paranoid side effects.. or the unhealthy attributes of either smoking or drinking)... for me sex results in a moment of euphoric peace... (something like meditation, only with sweaty armpits and a cheeky grin) ..... a quietly calming moment in time where nothing else matters at all. Where my body is overloaded with stimulus and my mind is consumed by it. I think I've felt this way my whole life. At least for me it's not about being loved because I'm actually surrounded by people who I feel truly love me. Anyway, I think it's dangerous to do the amateur psychologist trip on anyone... especially when they are more likely to appreciate the why for than you are.. and maybe she just doesn't want to share her real thoughts on that question.Let me give you an example.... As I see it, many sexually driven people I've met have been sexually abused when younger. I wonder if that is just because our nature attracted that kind of attention... or whether that kind of attention is one of the causes of our nature?In any respect, all of life's experiences help shape our responses to circumstances and help direct our desires, needs and expectations... so everyone's "story" is an individual journey.good luck to your friend. What's her phone number? :pHugsS

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  is the longest i have ever gone (not without choice-i was camping with my dad NOT the best time to pick up hehe). otherwise generally 2-3 weeks if single, cpl days if i am in a relationship

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  When married no sex for at least the last 7 years (thank god for batteries). And yes it's true and my only regret about being married is so many sexually wasted years. I hate going without sex but still do because I can be a bit fussy so I still have long periods without sex. Ummm need to lower my standards maybe

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Healing after a broken relationship takes time. Most of this time I did not even think about sex. Didnt want it and thought I would never desire a man again.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  I am quite active on the dating scene and the reasons are i cannot go with out sex for more than 2 weeks. (have tried and end up climbing walls) l like the companionship and closeness of someone for the time we are together (as i am single and choose to be). Realeasing natural chemicals in our body for pleasure makes u unconditionally happy - call that an addiction if you like - one that i am hooked on then. i have different partners because i lke different things and different personalities. as for the love bit - only your friend can answer that. For me it is a case of loving to be wanted for my ego and nothing more.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  was not to trying to judge her.. she is a good friend... i have to pick up the pieces sometimes but that is ok.. was actually more about how long I/we can go without sex in or out of a relationship

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'aniceone71' was not to trying to judge her.. she is a good friend... i have to pick up the pieces sometimes but that is ok..I appreciate that mate. I think people's lives are so complicated that I don't try to ask anymore. Some people want to blurt it all out and if they do, I listen, if not, then that's also ok... the longer you go without sex, I think the easier it becomes... least that's what Ive been told.HugsS

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Until about 2 months ago, I hadn't had sex for about a year. I honestly didn't miss it, then all of a sudden my sex drive came back with bam! I've been worried that it will go again but I think it I realised what had been missing. The lust factor! Feeling chemistry or lusting after someone makes a huge difference to your sex drive!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Over 2 and a half years without sex...just got back on the sexmobile since January! I have always been highly sexual, so, that time almost killed me! I was the biggest bitch going around haha! And it is not from a lack of offers (plenty of them around), just had alot of things going on in my life and didn't realise how fast time went by! < Sex in a relationship? OMG it has to be at least once a day...isn't the one that you are with in a relationship meant to be the one you lust after, you want to make love to them, you want them to fuck your brains out...no matter where? On the side of the road as you are driving somewhere, over the bonnet of the car, against the wall, on the stove, in the bed, or not even make it to bed and do it in the hallway? < Casual sex, really suits me at the moment as I just want playthings not something permanent (hence why I only fuck the younger guys)! I can't get enough at the moment although I meet up with someone every week or twice a week! It's mainly someone new as I tend to get bored with the one guy and lets face it, as I have whinged about in other posts...none of them have gotten me off anyway! xFunlovingx

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Quoting 'xFunlovingx'Sex in a relationship? OMG it has to be at least once a day...isn't the one that you are with in a relationship meant to be the one you lust after, you want to make love to them, you want them to fuck your brains out...no matter where? On the side of the road as you are driving somewhere, over the bonnet of the car, against the wall, on the stove, in the bed, or not even make it to bed and do it in the hallway?Damn girl - if only my ex-wife thought the same way you do....I totally agree :-) xx

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