M67
Consequences of posting to the forums
January 16 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
i think if people started toning down their personalites to blend in with an idealistic code of conduct, that the forums would become a very bland place indeed. and by expressing ourselves freely and openly, and discussing things (or argueing about them) rather than just agreeing or disagreeing, we give eachother the opportunity to see who we really are, rather than modified versions of ourselves with the rough edges smoothed off. isnt it better to really know someone, than to just think that you do based on how they act when their on their best behaviour?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes...My opinion of some, after reading their comments has altered for sure.Some in a positive way, others negative. My main problem is the judgemental types, who like to pigeonhole everyone..., especially on some of the recent topics concerning larger people. Oh and of course a fairly recent member who apparantely is the only person in the world, that REALLY knows anything about sex and wants to teach the world Cheers p.s. Whats happened to Whitey? Is it possible he found himself a women?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mooka We think you are right for the singles here as you are looking for relationships. As for swingers that is couples swapping partners, I dont think it matters we are looking to play and if a friendship developes that great but that is not the driver for being here. We are sluts and sluts dont care they want to fuck! But we are ethical sluts with standards.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Maxking2010' p.s. Whats happened to Whitey? Is it possible he found himself a women? Talking with whitey a month ago, he has found himself a very nice girl and they are in love . So I asked who they were in love with? Whities responce :,,,,With each other stupid! LOL What do you expect from two troolls, from the dark side.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Mooka We think you are right for the singles here as you are looking for relationships. As for swingers that is couples swapping partners, I dont think it matters we are looking to play and if a friendship developes that great but that is not the driver for being here. We are sluts and sluts dont care they want to fuck! But we are ethical sluts with standards. I knew I was doing something wrong...hehe...I have to change my profile to married to stop the other singles wanting more than sex from me because apparantly ALL singles want relationships...but I do appreciate knowing that because I am single I mustnt be a slut (maybe I misinterpreted that???) . Anyway Mooka.... . I for one do like to see a persons activity on here...maybe read some of their posts because I want to get to know as much about a person as possible to determine suitability...while I am not seeking a relationship I do still want to be able to hold a conversation occassionally and with the wide variety of threads on the forums you can often learn something about a persons sexual likes/dislikes/wants/desire too by what they post which may not be on their profile thus assessing sexual compatibility. . I know I have made some decisions about people based on what they have written in the forums and also know that people have based opinions about me using the same method (messages in my inbox and their content are a testament to this) . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' I knew I was doing something wrong...hehe...I have to change my profile to married to stop the other singles wanting more than sex from me because apparantly ALL singles want relationships...but I do appreciate knowing that because I am single I mustnt be a slut (maybe I misinterpreted that???) .Yes you have that pretty well right, top marks, Good Girl we are proud of you. no misunterpretation .
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RHP User
15 years ago
when i look at people's profiles sometimes I check out what they've written on the forums, depending on the thread title. If someone says they're into something or not on their profile, sometimes their forum posts might say otherwise and that might influence my decision to contact them or not. . I've also talked to some really nice people that i probably wouldn't have known were around if they didn't post on the forums or contact me regarding something i'd written here. . and finally, sometimes i'm only playing and amusing myself. If someone sees that and decides not to contact me, it's probably the best choice they can make for their own sanity. . all in all i think that means all good consequences for me!
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RHP User
15 years ago
mooka... immm yes darl I just blocked a guy after I sent a message this morning...It was from a post he put on forums.. Big turn off !! boooooooooooo hehehe sweetpetite41
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RHP User
15 years ago
without posting on them.Activity on my profile was fairly quiet.I was finally fed up with some of the sanctamonious bull that was appearing on a regular basisand posted my first *chomp* hahahahaand received many messages from people, mainly thanking me for having the guts to say whatthey thought but didnt have the guts to say.Either way, I dont give two hoots,keep my profile closed a lot these days.I just post what I am thinking. *chomp*
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks all for the feedback:Theone1983I am not talking about toning down or changing what you right so you can fit in. There are enough fence sitters here already that will always agree with everyone. I guess what I am trying to ask is if you see a post from someone that is way outside of your comfort zone, as in rude, bigotted etc, would you still contact them. Conversley, if you see a post from someone who says exactly what you are thinking, does that put them in a different light to you.Maxking2010I agree with what you said, there are some here that couldn't pay me enough money to even be in the same room as them. As for Whitey, I do hope he found his Barbie Doll but I suspect it wouldn't last long. That poor guy was always after perfection, and we all know perfection doesn't exist.BadRomancefor4Well I think you are wrong about couples. Yes you might be willing to fuck anything and everything but I think the majority have slightly better taste in their fun time companions. I would actually propose that after reading the forums I would say that couples are more choosey on whom they meet.FoucsI knew you would agree, hell we would nhot have meet if it wasn't for the forums lolCuriousnewgirl78I am glad you mentioned the bit about playing here. I sometimes pen the most inane, stupid thread just cos I wanted to (who can remember the great donut fiasco of 2010). If someone decided to not contact me because of one of my nonsense posts then they probably wouldn't like my sense of humour in real life either - so no loss either way.Mooka
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have had more people wanting to meet up since I started *chomping*
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RHP User
15 years ago
I think debate is healthy as are opposing views. These opposing statements help shape, strengthen and formulate our opinions. If you think about it, our legal system is founded on that idea by presenting adversary arguments. Of course, lawyers ahem... have a healthy respect for each other, do not colour their arguments with personal vilification and always put their arguments fairly so that their line of argument can be thoroughly tested. I think the best lawyers are very graceful and try to get their message across without making anyone out to be a dickhead. Without a doubt that is a skill that is rare. I think Ms Valkyrie would make a great barrister, as of course would Salina. But women have a knack of using brain over brawn... and that's why they'll always do us bloke's heads in. :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
I tend to think that the on line person can and often is a different kettle of fish than the person in the flesh (so to speak) I will read the profile first to see if any interest has been sparked but not look at the comments they may or may not have made. Unless it is a forum regular because then I do remember what they have commented about anyway. Generally I tend to give the benefit of the doubt though and prefer to chat for a while and possibly meet before making up my mind.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mooka we are with MrsS, We said we were ethical sluts with standards, we did not say fuck anyone. Nor if its warm and moves even thou we did spend time in NZ sheep were the only exception with gumboots and close to a cliff so they push back harder ok! More Aussies should try like how do know unless you try? Smiling, I use to run a 20 level accomadation building, and had lots of offers, but would not go there and thinking about it would not let my best mate go there. Quoting 'MRSSWEETIEPIE' Mooka, When we were playing together we were VERY picky and grew more picky over time once we learnt the ropes and i know plenty of very choosey couples. As for the forums, i think people opinions of you change from post to post. I'm sure many have changed about me for the negative and the positive. At the end of the day you don't really know someone unless you've met them and sat down for a long chat. We can all form opinions about each other but several people i've met on here are very different to their forum personas. I for instance am a little more PC and diplomatic in real life, not a lot but definatly toned down. Only a little more PC though, lets not get over excited now. Still an authentic person, not a sheep. Has my opinion on a certain topic changed? I think there's a problem if it hasn't at some point. If you can't learn and grow from others every now and again that means you think you know everything and have it all sorted out and i'm very worried about a person who thinks that. The older i get the more i see how many things i don't know. Some people think with age comes wisdom........which is just not true. There are just as many 50, 60 and 70 year old dim wits as there are 20,30,40 year old dim wits, age and wisdom have nothing to do with each other. Just another weak link in the chain called the human condition i guess. Thankfully there are a lot of strong links too xx Sweet xx Sweetie
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RHP User
15 years ago
i agree a lot with everyone on this one i have met some wonderful people from the forums...some i love dearly...that i never would have met otherwise i get some messages telling me i have written something they were thinking but never would have said but then i have only ever had one accusing me of something that i didnt do...which came from the forums my opinion doesnt really change about a person because of what they write...there hasnt really been anyone on here that has annoyed me that much i cant stand them...a few make me laugh and think dickhead lol i rarely go into profiles to have a look at forum people...i just go by whats written i also think the forums are just one side of a person...in real life we dont just sit about giving our opinion on everything, we chit chat and have conversations, things that show a different side to people i have no idea if i answered that of if i just rambled...but im sure someone will let me know, cause thats the fun of the sand pit lol roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lolz@ Petticoats! I love the way you *chomp*!! There's no doubt being active on the forum can get people more interested in checking you out.... on a site like this with thousands of guys bleating about not getting any profile hits, participating in the forums can draw people to your profile and to sending you messages... if that creates opportunities for you then the rest is up to you. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
consider yourself armpit licked before *chomped* (love the tongue)
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey Mooka, I left RHP for a number of months and when I came back I was shocked to see the amount of anger and personal insults that fly around. Was it always like that? lol. I think maybe I was remembering things a little differently but didn't feel as if was like this before. . I have quite a few emails from people saying they like what I post on the forums. Some even saying they agree with things that I have said - and when they explain why I realise that they have completely misunderstood what I was saying. So at the end of the day people still read what they want out of your posts. . Yes what people write does influence my view of them - helps me understand them a little better. . xx Meeks
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RHP User
15 years ago
back off the *chomp*its mine!hahahahahaNice to see you backWas wondering when you would start spreading the petals again*chomp*
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RHP User
15 years ago
not after any pick up messages.Just sometimes, I cant help chomping some really dumb, inarticulate post that arebegging to be brought back into line.Must be the closet superhero complex I have. hahahahahaha
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N4November
15 years ago
I'm sure I'm not alone when I beg you to change your profile pic back to your delicious BUTT!!!!!!!! Yes, your tongue does make me quiver but your ass.... your ass!! xx
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RHP User
15 years ago
ok
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RHP User
15 years ago
Never take it with a grain of Salt. Allthough i do love it when there is a ranting LOONY on the forums .. i tend to like them more
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've made a couple of friends from the Forums, however I really don't like that everything on the forum is visible to the entire internet. You don't even need a profile to a) browse the forums and b) see the picture/age/location details of posters.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Boring_Name'I've made a couple of friends from the Forums, however I really don't like that everything on the forum is visible to the entire internet. You don't even need a profile to a) browse the forums and b) see the picture/age/location details of posters. i agree with you there...people that arent members shouldnt be able to see the forums or who is posting in them sometimes its hard enough with people that are on here being stalkerish we dont need others being able to do it too maybe RHP should look into its privacy for us and our forums roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well breasts really...when all else fails :p Works a treat for Andy, I can plead a case till I am blue in the face so it is far easier just to press the bare skin of a naked pair of breasts against his body somewhere!I tend to form opinions of people from what they write on the forums, but I do not really read into any more than to think 'Oh s/he is funny' or 'What a toss pot' Taby is the only person we have actually met face to face and we would not have done so but for the forums as she is quite far away from us and not seeking couples. I very rarely look at the profiles of forum posters and when searching profiles I don't go out of my to read their forum posts. Maybe I should I see how it could be beneficial in getting to know more about a parson as well as give me something a little more meaningful to write when I contact someone. Hmm, I might try that.xx Salina
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RHP User
15 years ago
mooka, it was through the forums that I have been able to meet with some fabulous folk that I would never have met otherwise. It was around this time a year ago, that forums were fun, silly, there was plenty of good natured ribbing and flirting.......from there, Meet & Greet drinks nights were born with Stalky leading the debauched way....YaY. \ Melbourne followed soon after and so did the other states, I doubt this would have happened without the forums. People can be who ever, what ever they like on here, but meeting face to face at drinks nights you do get to know the person behind the pic and their words......it certainly sorts out the real people from the pretenders. Those who do show up to drinks nights are pretty much as they portray themselves here. I dont really base my opinion on someone until I have met face to face. \ I left rhp towards the end of last year, as meeka pointed out, the was an unpleasant change here and I needed to take a break from this crazy site. There were some here who did judge many on their input here, not on the individual. \ Curiosity has bought me back ( and the ribbing/urging of petticoats lol), seems many others have also taken a break and now returned as well. Lets hope it signals an upturn for the forums again.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' \ I left rhp towards the end of last year, as meeka pointed out, the was an unpleasant change here and I needed to take a break from this crazy site. There were some here who did judge many on their input here, not on the individual. \ IIIII wonderI wonder if RHP would release any numbers to quantify what you say. Number of threads and posts say nov 2010 vs nov 2009. Or measured as traffic visiting the forums. I know when you log in cookies and registry keys are installed in your computer plus your IP adress recorded to track what pages you view, and make the loading of web pages quicker this info is mainly for marketing and if you get a bit naughty and have two accounts, so they can police people who do that if required. There is nothing wrong with this practice most subscribtion based web sites do this. It would be interesting to put numbers on what you say to quantify, but it may be commercially sensitive as well.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I don't really understand why people would both to frequent a forum to act like someone they are not, unless they don't like themselves I suppose? So I take things on face value here although can be hard to figure out the nuances of humour on just a few posts but long term posters usually show their personalities through their posts. There are a few profile on here that we wouldn't meet due to their posts but most we'd give the benefit of the doubt and meet for a drink. There's a few profiles we wouldn't have met off their profile but are tempted by their postings - Stalky for one comes to mind! What I hate is when people confuse hatred, racism, sexism and any other "ism" with "freedom of speech" and "opinion".
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RHP User
15 years ago
Im only new to this forum caper, and after a forum i wrote into recently without realy thinking about others i might offend which i did not mean to but it is out there and i did. Then someone that likes to be-little people for his own amusement, tried his hardest to do it to me and i sunk to his level which is (lower then a snakes arse) im sorry to say i acted like a child and retaliated to his insults but no that is not the real me and the people that get to know me and people that do know me, know i might say something at the spare of the moment out of some form of emotion that, in hindsight i could have said differently. But at the end of the day will say im good person and a great freind.(most anyway) I would hope that people didnt judge others on something they said in the forums because the person that said something in the forums on one topic that others might disagree on and if you judge a person what they right in forums for something they said that you disagree with, you might be missing out on meeting one of the best people you could ever wish to meet. I feel like im rambling now. anyway im sam keckovich eat lamb on australia day. There is a lot of ver good responses but i think MRSWEETIEPIE said it best.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'puppy'I don't really understand why people would both to frequent a forum to act like someone they are not, unless they don't like themselves I suppose? It really has nothing to do with liking or disliking yourself. More a confidence issue I would have thought. Many people are very shy but way more articulate with a pen (keyboard) than the tongue. There are people on here (and I have actually found one such person) that have actually created a complete persona. If you chat to these people long enough the cracks start to appear - especially if you actually really do know a bit about thier supposed job. These are the ones that wont cam or find excuses to cancel out on meetings at the last minute.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You have totally lost me.... All I have mentioned are my personal thoughts, experiences and observations. Nothing there to quantify.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'ruby_blossum' You have totally lost me.... All I have mentioned are my personal thoughts, experiences and observations. Nothing there to quantify. So without quantifying anything the reverse could also be true, Forum paticaption could be up and RHP profits because you and peticoats left? Plus more could be getting laid. Quite a stupid comment, Dont u think?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting Bad romance... "What are you saying then Quoting 'ruby_blossum' You have totally lost me.... All I have mentioned are my personal thoughts, experiences and observations. Nothing there to quantify. So without quantifying anything the reverse could also be true, Forum paticaption could be up and RHP profits because you and peticoats left? Plus more could be getting laid. Quite a stupid comment, Dont u think?" Once again, you have me perplexed, I have no idea what you are trying to say..... other than Yes , you have made quite a stupid comment. .......Now I am seriously thinking that coming back to rhp and forums was a silly idea.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Gentle_Jester - people will forget your comments soon enough - just keep things true to yourself. But yes always keep in mind how it may read to others. Some subjects can be very emotional for some. . Good luck xxxxx Meeka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Boring_Name' I've made a couple of friends from the Forums, however I really don't like that everything on the forum is visible to the entire internet. You don't even need a profile to a) browse the forums and b) see the picture/age/location details of posters. I agree!! 150%!!! RHP really need to do something about that!JMO....BJxxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not sure if the belittler was aimed at me but yes I took great offense to Jesters post as whether meant or not it went well into the realms of racism. Now IF it wasn't meant then the bigger person would have just posted a "sorry I didn't mean it that way" but not only did this not happen but he openly stood by his right to "freedom of speech". Anyone who wants freedom of speech should set up a soap box in a public place and espouse their wisdom face to face with the people and let them judge. This is a sex site so is supposed to be fun, it IS NOT FUN to put others down, especially whole races. Now where was that fun again, oh there it is running off to bed...outa here!
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RHP User
15 years ago
puppy if you go back to the forum you are talking about, you will see you are not the person i im saying is a be-littler and you will see what i wrote about him then you will see the be-little wasnt about you at all.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sorry we did not mean to hurt you tonight and hope you stay here with us. If us or am sure any RHP Forum makes you think like that private message us and just say stop, I will smack your bum if you continue and we will. My excuse carry over from another thread. All the best Have a great Week Quoting 'ruby_blossum'Quoting Bad romance... "What are you saying then Quoting 'ruby_blossum' You have totally lost me.... All I have mentioned are my personal thoughts, experiences and observations. Nothing there to quantify. So without quantifying anything the reverse could also be true, Forum paticaption could be up and RHP profits because you and peticoats left? Plus more could be getting laid. Quite a stupid comment, Dont u think?" Once again, you have me perplexed, I have no idea what you are trying to say..... other than Yes , you have made quite a stupid comment. .......Now I am seriously thinking that coming back to rhp and forums was a silly idea.
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N4November
15 years ago
and yes, I really am that shallow
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' when i look at people's profiles sometimes I check out what they've written on the forums, depending on the thread title. If someone says they're into something or not on their profile, sometimes their forum posts might say otherwise and that might influence my decision to contact them or not. . I've also talked to some really nice people that i probably wouldn't have known were around if they didn't post on the forums or contact me regarding something i'd written here. . and finally, sometimes i'm only playing and amusing myself. If someone sees that and decides not to contact me, it's probably the best choice they can make for their own sanity. and mine (ND) . all in all i think that means all good consequences for me! curiousnewgirl78, Thanks for saving me the trouble of typing that part except my addition in red x Some days even I can't be bothered....as I live a busy life with many responsibilities. I'm usually online/reading the forums whilst making calls, waiting on calls/emails etc. so I may show up as online but I'm really elsewhere. I got the xmas flu that was going around so was on a bit more in the last few weeks as you can't really do much else than tv/online when you're coughing/sneezing etc. and the devil will find work for idle hands to do-well especially when there is so much temptation to counter one's boredom online...and then that Sudafed can make you "twitchier" than Christopher Walken in the Deer Hunter to say the least-not an excuse however an explanation of how things unfold.... I think social isolation and loneliness has a lot to do with how personally some people take these forums-if you have people you respect that validate you by their continued meaningful interaction with you and provide emotional support-it is unlikely you are going to take anything some random stranger says to you or about you too personally. Would you really care what a stranger said about you on the street? I know I don't although I may be tempted to toy with them-and "When choosing between two evils, I always like to try the one I've never tried before!" and say yes you are right! I can't understand how some people are surprised that others here may have online personas, when there are so many people that live this way offline-in real life it would be far less likely as you are interacting in person. What is the real danger of this anyway? If this is a real fear or concern I can't understand why anyone would then engage in a public forum to discuss personal issues with their "friends", why not use the phone/email/sms like the rest of us do to discuss the important things with our friends? I suggest if you are truly concerned just have fun-and only expose the parts of you that you are prepared to have people remember and examine closely. If you really want to research someone here Google their username and it will bring up all their rhp posts...and if they use the same name on another site...you get all that's there too. I don't care if people think I'm a very strange, sensual, kinky, perverted, mischievous (at times), inquisitive, experimental, challenging, jovial, loving, kind, nerdy, loyal, intense and at other times a pathetically hopeless romantic to a fault that also really doesn't take myself too seriously...as they'll find out the truth eventually if they get to know me. My friends are amazing, have supported me through the most difficult 2 years of my life and they still call to tell me they love me so I can't be too bad. If you don't have these kind of friendships and you are going to water or war over comments by randoms on the forum of a sex site I would suggest that perhaps you take a little break from spreading your "good news/views" in the forum and invest in your emotional well being more than your pursuit of a forum Pulitzer, hardbodies, anybodies or orgasms. I'm really not sure it matters here if you are a rocket scientist or a cleaner....an acquaintance of mine is a paediatrician yet she now works in another field-I wonder if the Nancy Drews or Hardy Boys amongst us could crack the mystery behind the enigma and reveal her "secrets" about her real job too. Does this make her a persona non grata or does it mean her opinion is of a lesser value? Presently, I'm doing the most important job I'll ever have in my life-no random's opinion really can change my mind of how important that work is, nor will they shift my focus or my dedication to it. I don't believe anyone should attempt to make you feel bad whatever job you do to validate themselves. I recognise that life isn't always fair and some people don't always get to where they should be-yet it doesn't mean they can't make it, or aren't on their way. There are a lot of Good Will Hunting's out there-however there are a lot of jealous, insecure Prof Lambeaus fearful that the obvious emerging talent and success of another will mean they have failed-not realising it is they that fail themselves by being so insecure and naricissistic. Someone suggested a psych test should be a requirement of a dating/sex site-I propose an a***hole factor test, as to attempt to make someone feel ashamed about their lot merely demonstrate the true darkness in a person's heart-that someone should take pleasure in the misfortunes of others. It doesn't take much effort or skill to put the icing on someone's s***cake of a day or a life. Charity I'm told, starts at home-I feel if you are constantly infoming others you are one of its gold standard registered authorised franchisees you really can't sell how good you are at it convincingly-if you are not equally charitable towards everyone else you encounter, otherwise you potentially run the risk of someone you encounter forming the opinon that you are nothing more than white trailer trash attempting to seem "legit" whilst supplementing your income via lost urchins with the tax free income and subsidies they bring to your home with their suitcases, tales of tragedy and broken hearts. When you do things...there will be consequences-likely ones you don't expect. In my case I'm not scared of veiled threats, I'm not scared of direct ones. I almost died 2 years ago. I've lived through how it goes from regular to end of days real quick, that look of pity from the doctors when they know you want an answer and they can't give you one-I've seen it...and yet there is this person that bugs me, and it appears constantly wants to try it on with me? I wonder how they believe they can scare me? And over what a difference of opinion? A perceived humiliation? A posting on a sex and swingers site? Well there was that other weirdo that killed someone over a cat I guess...so you never know...maybe I should worry. I find there are only problems or rather consequences from the forum or anywhere-when someone wants me to be someone I'm not or they pretend to be something they are not to use me, or if they abuse me...of course that's always going to cause consequences as I won't take it lying down like a doormat as I do have a spine and strength even if you may not possess either of these attributes. It's usually said "the older are the wiser" and although we should ideally respect our elders-I feel if they believe this then they have to fulfil their responsibility in ensuring that they are worthy of our respect. Mae West said: "Don't cry for a man who's left you, the next one may fall for your smile." In my experience-they always do, and very often the one that made you once cry will end up telling you they miss you-eventually if what you gave was good and true and they did deserve it. I feel we should always kiss and make up if you can-we're here to love, love on each other and celebrate each other not to hate-what is the point in that? Life's short and fragile and if I'm lucky enough to live a long life if I look back I would prefer to see the people smiling back at me rather than burnt villages and pitchfork wielding lynch mobs? Of course when I look back I know there will always be some ugly trolls that I've passed that lurk under bridges to better places or are out roaming in the countryside. I've lived long enough now to see there are consequences to everything-I hate to break it to some people but even living with your head in the sand will bring about consequences. I hope this post brings about some positive consequences, by possibly encouraging someone to not live in fear or allow themselves to be bullied or prevented from going after what they want or expressing how they truly feel. To all the kinky, twisted men I've loved before online or in person extra xxx's cause I know it's you that need them so much more than all the rest! You know you do-even the evil, cross-dressing, shower loving hungry ones! To the forum policemen: "Is that a pistol in your pocket or are you just glad to see me?" x NymphetamineDrm "A woman in love can't be reasonable--or she probably wouldn't be in love" Mae West Turk182!!! 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RHP User
15 years ago
I have changed my mind about a few people. Some I like more and some less since reading their posts. However it's not a popularity contest so who gives a toss?
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RHP User
15 years ago
i reckon the forums are great.havnt posted for a while due to recovering from being slammed.pity those who speak their mind.happy new year everyone.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I know myself that with some of my replies I have given over time that I have not done myself any favors and have come off as being either bitchy or other. I think with a lot of replies your mood at the time can dictate a lot on how you reply to a certain subject matter.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Mooka - A formal bow (or curtsy) in front of the Sage of the RHP forums .... the Man that put the "G" back in Gentlemen ! Mooka I make many many decisions based on coomments from the RHP forums and it contributors ! Some examples I list below. Sarah and I made our recent purchase of a new car solely on the information garnered from the RHP forums about dogging and "where have you had your most risky sex" forum turns out cars need certain features to be comfortable. Once about 12 months ago Miss Sophie suggested all men should wear cologne from Burberry I now bath in the stuff! I am only into BDSM because Focus is ! I have considered being a Sub purely to be trained by MistressT (ok maybe just watch) I now only wear deoderant that is alumnium free as Gaz (stalky) says the other stuff makes your pits taste vile ! I only like Blondes cause Funloving is one ! I am now into 6ft redheads cause Val is one! I bought a Kelpie because Fiona bee trains them ...... Woof....... Fi ......woof woof ;-) I am trying to be a gentleman Mooka because you are one ! Brae ................................... Looking for suggestions for a new tooth paste
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RHP User
15 years ago
nothing anyone writes on these forums could or would have an impact on us. we put our faith in real conversations with real people face to face. this means nothing, just the collected ramblings of a few people spread out across the country. it has though, been an eye opener, in that it has revealed some truly vile personalities. some of the people who frequent these pages are truly offensive. surprisingly, most of these have been women. but hey, we wont be meeting with them, so it don't matter. others have just been outright confusing, stating opposing views on the same subjects in different posts. they should remember what they have previously written before offering up contradictory opinions, it really makes them look very foolish. others just treat this like their own personal playground and set out to make as much mischief as they possibly can, without any thought of who they might offend and upset along the way................all in all, just a little amusement and a diversion from the drudgery of a real life.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3'Once about 12 months ago Miss Sophie suggested all men should wear cologne from Burberry I now bath in the stuff!I now only wear deoderant that is alumnium free as Gaz (stalky) says the other stuff makes your pits taste vile !lmfao Brae. Sophie was right. Burberry colognes do taste good ! :pHUgsGaz
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ah see some of the fun contributors to lighten my day. Hmm where did the wonderful Miss Sophie disappear to? I'll have to try Burberry and see how it goes although scents don't stick around on me, even B.O. - I'm guessing that fact will have me lower on Stalky's armpit sniffing list! As for toothpaste, choose one you like the taste of, they are mostly just detergent and flavouring anyway.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Sometimes they say too much, but that is another topic maybe... I made a decision on a forum post to contact someone the other day, solely on his comments. I liked the way he thought, checked his profile and decided to jump in. Forums aren't a bad place to go if you're looking for something out of the "ordinary" not that anything on RHP could be classed as ordinary.... Stalky it's a shame your tongue and the butt pic's can't be on at the same time, both are hot ;) although I must say the tongue does get a gal to wondering what magical moments could be had with it! I'm a big lover of the butt shot though too :)
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RHP User
15 years ago
You described us in there its a playground , serious one minute, get up to mischeif the next. We like others with a similiar attitude like its playtime! We dont look at the forums as a means of advertising our profile, When we are hunting for a couple or male, we believe you have to be proactive and message them direct. Maybe there is a different reason for being here couples have their relationship and all this is fun, same as swinging its just play being sluts. Where some singles (not focus ???) take it more serious they are here to find their life partners, so if they say stop we should, they want to look the best they can. Quoting 'mikeandshel'nothing anyone writes on these forums could or would have an impact on us. we put our faith in real conversations with real people face to face. this means nothing, just the collected ramblings of a few people spread out across the country. it has though, been an eye opener, in that it has revealed some truly vile personalities. some of the people who frequent these pages are truly offensive. surprisingly, most of these have been women. but hey, we wont be meeting with them, so it don't matter. others have just been outright confusing, stating opposing views on the same subjects in different posts. they should remember what they have previously written before offering up contradictory opinions, it really makes them look very foolish. others just treat this like their own personal playground and set out to make as much mischief as they possibly can, without any thought of who they might offend and upset along the way................all in all, just a little amusement and a diversion from the drudgery of a real life.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'NymphetamineDrm' . I don't believe anyone should attempt to make you feel bad whatever job you do to validate themselves. l you potentially run the risk of someone you encounter forming the opinon that you are nothing more than white trailer trash attempting to seem "legit" whilst supplementing your income via lost urchins with the tax free income and subsidies they bring to your home with their suitcases, tales of tragedy and broken hearts. When you do things...there will be consequences-likely ones you don't expect. x NymphetamineDrm Maybe you should practise what you preach. Either that or lay off the sudafed. l Do not think for one minute that because you shroud your insults with such long and boring tiatribe that the insults are not recognised by others. Further more, what gives you the right to make such snap judgements on people? What makes you think you are qualified to express such distain for others?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'NymphetamineDrm' . I don't believe anyone should attempt to make you feel bad whatever job you do to validate themselves. l you potentially run the risk of someone you encounter forming the opinon that you are nothing more than white trailer trash attempting to seem "legit" whilst supplementing your income via lost urchins with the tax free income and subsidies they bring to your home with their suitcases, tales of tragedy and broken hearts. When you do things...there will be consequences-likely ones you don't expect. x NymphetamineDrm Maybe you should practise what you preach. Either that or lay off the sudafed. l Do not think for one minute that because you shroud your insults with such long and boring tiatribe that the insults are not recognised by others. Further more, what gives you the right to make such snap judgements on people? What makes you think you are qualified to express such distain for others? @fionabee I don't believe anyone should attempt to make you feel bad about your job-this is quite different to questioning the person that is behind the continuous assaults on others, about their true motivations when it appears their saintly image is incongruent with their behaviour... I did try "not" thinking for one minute once-but then I started thinking about that... "distain" ....I'd never use fabric stain remover for someone else-I only usually do my own clothes. The only "shrouding" that's ever interested me is the discussions about the artefact that's associated withn Turin... now that interests me how the Vatican gets all excited and then there's also whether Atlantis did exist and did Houdini finally contact his mother in the afterlife. Too much "in search of..." as a little one methinks. "tiatribe"? Transient Ischemic Attack tribe-a roaming mob whose sole purpose is to cause mini strokes in the unsuspecting and deserving-I hadn't considered it but I like the idea. The vein vigilantes for the terminally vain-their stealth strikes are strokes of genius. I believed I was being quite clear-that I do not find hypocrites appealing and it usually causes "consequences" for me as I really find it difficult to ignore them and then they find it difficult to cope when I react... I am entitled to this opinion-and to being me-I didn't name anyone and unfortunately in this world there are many that are similar to the person I described. In my work and social life I have encountered a variety of people-including numerous examples of these undesirable types of people I described prior to ever joining rhp as I am certain many others that read these pages have "other" lives. When I wrote it I was actually thinking specifically about my friend's adoptive mother and how she would present one view as the pillar of society to the government department/agenciy that was paying her, another to people that knew her (ie my friend) and another in the local community/her social network. We had had a conversation about her via telephone prior to my posting on the forum. Thank you for your concern (?) regarding my Sudafed use however I take my medical advice from my GP that graduated in medicine from university and has known me for >20years. In my work I've often had ready access to morphine, amphetamine etc. Personally I don't understand why anyone would want to create more problems for themselves. My preference is to be sufficiently lucid to enjoy life, appreciate its beauty and its pleasures-not sure if you had read my entire post because if you had this would be obvious and you would realise how redundant your comments in regards to me or about me have been this afternoon. As stated I had taken these whilst suffering from a cold/flu prior to xmas. Why would someone take these tablets if they did not have the symptoms they alleviate? May I suggest if you do not like what you are reading-ignore it-or skip it-as many of us do. Qualified? Well the Angel of death gave me a pass-he obviously thinks I've still got more to do here-love, light, laughter and pleasure that's what I'm going with- if you disagree you can always take it up with him-in fact I welcome it. He never usually sees the same person twice though, so maybe you could just accept that maybe I'm not your personal Antichrist-and consider why it is my existence amongst 2 million or so on a sex site forum appears to set you off. As it stands, I do not know you and am truly not interested in associating with you-life is really too short to waste it doing this...I'll go over here and you can have all of that over there-I'm really not interested as it's quite contrary to the way I prefer to live my life. I am aware that the more I engage in this kind of negative interaction the more it changes me into something undesirable. Recognised? fionabee-Honey, "It's better to be looked over than overlooked" Mae West NymphetamineDrm x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Maxking2010' Quoting 'mikeandshel'nothing anyone writes on these forums could or would have an impact on us. we put our faith in real conversations with real people face to face. this means nothing, just the collected ramblings of a few people spread out across the country. it has though, been an eye opener, in that it has revealed some truly vile personalities. some of the people who frequent these pages are truly offensive. surprisingly, most of these have been women. but hey, we wont be meeting with them, so it don't matter. others have just been outright confusing, stating opposing views on the same subjects in different posts. they should remember what they have previously written before offering up contradictory opinions, it really makes them look very foolish. others just treat this like their own personal playground and set out to make as much mischief as they possibly can, without any thought of who they might offend and upset along the way................all in all, just a little amusement and a diversion from the drudgery of a real life. LMAO...thats all i can say! surprised you didn't throw an insult or call me a name then. impressive.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'NymphetamineDrm' Been dieing to ask you a question for a long time in a nice way. My brain wont handle much more than 5 lines. Why so long every post?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nymphetamine, I am really intrigued about your writing style, I admit i don't read most of your pieces, I often scroll down and feel as though i might need a back pack complete with thermos of coffee, cut lunch and machette to get out the other side. In saying that, sometimes i challenge myself, and i have questions. Please, this is in no way a personal attack, just interested. How long does it take to write one of those pieces, do you spend time planning it all out and constructing it and researching various references, or are you the type of writer who just starts typing and it all just pours out, and before you can draw breath you have layed down a thousand words?Cheers Nev.....somewhat in awe!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Yes, my mind has been changed by a couple of people on these Forums in the negative. Where once I found them funny and witty now I find them rude, have only their opinions and God help anyone else that differs from theirs and then have a go at others for making things personal when they don't even realise they started it first! When I first started on these Forums everything was lighthearted fun and it was great to post on here. Now I am afraid to form an opinion! < And what is it with people stealing your material for other posts? I don't get that...if you can't think of something funny to say yourself...then don't use other people's posts!! I will Copyright my stuff from now on hahaha! < Also, people in here don't realise that when they send a message to rubbish someone...you almost always have the message forwarded to you! < Plus, there are people who I would not have gotten to love as a person if it wasn't for the Forums! I have many, many, many contributors I would love to meet from here one day! < Bring back the sex talk I say! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Also, people in here don't realise that when they send a message to rubbish someone...you almost always have the message forwarded to you! < xFunlovingx Or they may want the message forwarded that person could have them blocked, or its the way that person wanted instead of making direct contact. Is the validity human behaviour is predicable especially as a group?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Lots of people come on here with self esteem issues to begin with. More than two thirds of the women I have met I would characterize as having self esteem issues. Of course this is not an ideal medium for them to play, but I think its important to be careful not to exacerbate their problems.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'looking2try3'Miss Sophie *wistful sigh*
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'CarlosSpicyWienr'How long does it take to write one of those pieces, do you spend time planning it all out and constructing it and researching various references, or are you the type of writer who just starts typing and it all just pours out, and before you can draw breath you have layed down a thousand words?Cheers Nev.....somewhat in awe! All the best authors use stream of consciousness Nev. I however have to be careful what I say out of fear of retribution so I try to choose my words carefully and purposefully. Still, people read between the lines and apply their own meanings to things. I'm probably most guilty of that, if truth told. Don't do drugs young people!HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
that you dont read and keep scrolling down. I for one wont read a particular person's posts. I wont say why because it will give that person's identity away suffice I find the post arduous. I dont mean to be offensive, and that person might be different in 'real life' Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
FFS LOL Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Maxking2010' Quoting 'mikeandshel'LMAO...thats all i can say! surprised you didn't throw an insult or call me a name then. impressive. Surprised u didnt throw in an "FFS" In there. Obviuosly you must be learning manners. For someone who has basically insulted everyone on here, you sure are up yourself,,,FFS...LOL... Well Stalky was telling me he reckons you two make a good pair and I think I agree with Stalky apart from the sissy bike he rides.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ducati Monster 620 dark, I presume. I like the streetfighter style.... Has that model got the dry clutch? First time I heard the ducati rattle I thought someone must have dropped ballbearings in his sump.HugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'aniceone71' that you dont read and keep scrolling down. I for one wont read a particular person's posts. I wont say why because it will give that person's identity away suffice I find the post arduous. I dont mean to be offensive, and that person might be different in 'real life' Cheers I know it is me as the other day I went to look at your profile because of something I read on your post in here and I was blocked...no idea why...but hey, that is your choice! I just returned the favour! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Honey I dont think its you, I cant see his profile either...ooooo maybe it's me? hehe. Actually who knows who cares if it's one person or a few.Can't please everyone but I think sometimes they may miss something poignant in a post. Nym Dom is one of those for me. I find her posts sometimes testing on my poor limited brain matter but they are generally an excellent read. I remember wanting to go to the meet and greet to see some of the more prolific forum writers there. Some were as I'd imagined some most certainly were not. More in regards to their pics then actual words that were said though. XfunX Id love to meet you, your posts are always a good read.
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RHP User
15 years ago
and comes back to all sorts of stuff on the forums!I am going to try really hard not to *chomp*Just imagining water off a ducks backno *chomping*....well maybe just a little nibble.....nibble.......nibble.....badnibble.....nibble......hahahaha
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've gone off a few people just by reading their responses and others have sparked my interest
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RHP User
15 years ago
How could it be either of you. You are both georgous and enjoy reading your posts. I had no idea why my profile is blocked. Will look into it. Maybe that is why no one looks at me???? cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'aniceone71' How could it be either of you. You are both georgous and enjoy reading your posts. I had no idea why my profile is blocked. Will look into it. Maybe that is why no one looks at me???? cheersProfile unavailable.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'FFS LOL Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Maxking2010' Quoting 'mikeandshel'LMAO...thats all i can say! surprised you didn't throw an insult or call me a name then. impressive. Surprised u didnt throw in an "FFS" In there. Obviuosly you must be learning manners. For someone who has basically insulted everyone on here, you sure are up yourself,,,FFS...LOL... Well Stalky was telling me he reckons you two make a good pair and I think I agree with Stalky apart from the sissy bike he rides.Were you adressing this to me or mikeandshel?...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'aniceone71' How could it be either of you. You are both georgous and enjoy reading your posts. I had no idea why my profile is blocked. Will look into it. Maybe that is why no one looks at me???? cheers I believe you just this once lol....you are now out of the Sin Bin! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'sydneyboy3au' Quoting 'looking2try3'Miss Sophie *wistful sigh* Double sigh my brother .....double sigh I noticed someone else sighing with us the other day I think Ruffy ........ OH well We drag ourselves on ! Brae ............. looking into the distance thinking of what was ......................
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RHP User
15 years ago
I promise to be very gentle and use my silkiest rope and my softest floggers.
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RHP User
15 years ago
What? I mean... this cannot be true! I dont like it. It does not compute. I'm a non believer! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT'I promise to be very gentle and use my silkiest rope and my softest floggers. How soft is that flogger again ???? LOL ........ Brae ............... I tried it once .......... does that make me soft ???? LOL hugs to all !
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'Maxking2010' Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'FFS LOL Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Maxking2010' Quoting 'mikeandshel'LMAO...thats all i can say! surprised you didn't throw an insult or call me a name then. impressive. Surprised u didnt throw in an "FFS" In there. Obviuosly you must be learning manners. For someone who has basically insulted everyone on here, you sure are up yourself,,,FFS...LOL... Well Stalky was telling me he reckons you two make a good pair and I think I agree with Stalky apart from the sissy bike he rides.Were you adressing this to me or mikeandshel?...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'aniceone71' that you dont read and keep scrolling down. I for one wont read a particular person's posts. I wont say why because it will give that person's identity away suffice I find the post arduous. I dont mean to be offensive, and that person might be different in 'real life' Cheers I know it is me as the other day I went to look at your profile because of something I read on your post in here and I was blocked...no idea why...but hey, that is your choice! I just returned the favour! xFunlovingx and here i was thinking it was just me he blocked roxxy
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'BadRomancefor4' Quoting 'Maxking2010' Quoting 'BadRomancefor4'FFS LOL Quoting 'mikeandshel' Quoting 'Maxking2010' Quoting 'mikeandshel'LMAO...thats all i can say! surprised you didn't throw an insult or call me a name then. impressive. Surprised u didnt throw in an "FFS" In there. Obviuosly you must be learning manners. For someone who has basically insulted everyone on here, you sure are up yourself,,,FFS...LOL... Well Stalky was telling me he reckons you two make a good pair and I think I agree with Stalky apart from the sissy bike he rides.Were you adressing this to me or mikeandshel?... I ask cause it was an interesting comment, especially as i havnt said anything to you, and why Stalky would talk about me is beyond me cause i dont know the guy. So whay would you agree with what you say he said?
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RHP User
15 years ago
I didn't know my profile was set to say invisible! so my humble apologies to anyone who thought I had blocked them. It was not something I had paid alot of attention to. Now as for the content, it doesn't have a great deal. So I must spend some down time updating it. Cheers
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RHP User
15 years ago
Thanks all for taking the time to answer my question. Yes it did get a bit emotive at times, but I think a thread on "Is the sky blue" would become a pissing contest for some here!In summary I think most fall intofour groups in relation to the question:1. Those, like me who take note of what people right and rightly or wrongly form opinions about other posters here. I do believe that someone's personality does show through, whether it be good or bad it does tell me far more about the person than I can gleam from their profile.2. The second group is the majority, tend to take a lot of what is written here on face value and tend to give everyone the benefit of the doubt on the odd bad post that may be against their personal paradigm.3. The next group think this is all an act, everyone is hiding something and nothing is what it seems. Personally (and I repeat for emphasis PERSONALLY) I think some here take that view because it matches their own. To those, this is just a bit of a game, a giggle and nothing is taken seriously.4. This last group is quite select, I call them the 'try-hards'. These are the ones that will post on any subject, on any threat but all they say is something nice about someone. Seriously a woman could point to an apple and say that's an orange and some guy will jump online and agree with her, then suggest how much fun they could have dripping bits of orange over her and he brings her to the most mind blowing orgasm every recorded in the history of sex. I would like to think most (if not all) women see through this and just have a chuckle at the guys expense.I guess finally I should answer my own question. There is a select group here that I would dearly love to meet - and I mean meet, not sex - because I enjoy what they write. To me they would be the perfect guest for a BBQ or even a dinner party. Sure the conversation would be risque, it definitely would be humerous and I know that everyone would respect differring views and be willing to learn another point of view.Then there is another select group, which is unfortunately growing larger. These are the ones that I couldn't be paid enough to even be in the same room as them, if I was at a party or gathering and they turned up, I would make a discreet exit. These are the ones with often ego's that know no bounds and tend to take things personally. In their deluded little world, they are always right, anyone who disagrees with them has to be wrong, no other opinions matter.Again, thanks everyone for the comments on this topicMooka
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' 4. This last group is quite select, I call them the 'try-hards'. These are the ones that will post on any subject, on any threat but all they say is something nice about someone. Seriously a woman could point to an apple and say that's an orange and some guy will jump online and agree with her, then suggest how much fun they could have dripping bits of orange over her and he brings her to the most mind blowing orgasm every recorded in the history of sex. I would like to think most (if not all) women see through this and just have a chuckle at the guys expense.Hahahahahaha OMG Mooka you had me wetting my pants with this one...it is so True! I see the same single guys that message me and tell me "You are the hottest girl on here, I really want to take you out for dinner/coffe/sex" and yet see them come onto every other girl in the Forums! It is good though...because I can then see who the players on here are and that there makes up my mind about them! You can tell the ones that contribute to the Forums just to get laid by whoever will take them! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'mooka'You can tell the ones that contribute to the Forums just to get laid by whoever will take them! Oh no.. the gig is up! :pHUgsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Quoting 'mooka'You can tell the ones that contribute to the Forums just to get laid by whoever will take them! Oh no.. the gig is up! :pHUgsStalky Not you Stalky...we all know you are the King/Queen of RHP Sluts! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'mooka' 4. This last group is quite select, I call them the 'try-hards'. These are the ones that will post on any subject, on any threat but all they say is something nice about someone. Seriously a woman could point to an apple and say that's an orange and some guy will jump online and agree with her, then suggest how much fun they could have dripping bits of orange over her and he brings her to the most mind blowing orgasm every recorded in the history of sex. One time i saw a pic of someone with a whole orange in their butt. I don't actually have a point here, i just wanted to post for the sake of posting.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'mooka' 4. This last group is quite select, I call them the 'try-hards'. These are the ones that will post on any subject, on any threat but all they say is something nice about someone. Seriously a woman could point to an apple and say that's an orange and some guy will jump online and agree with her, then suggest how much fun they could have dripping bits of orange over her and he brings her to the most mind blowing orgasm every recorded in the history of sex. One time i saw a pic of someone with a whole orange in their butt. I don't actually have a point here, i just wanted to post for the sake of posting. Shhhh Curiousnew...and actually it was a watermelon hahahahaha xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
I will see your orange and raise you a coke bottle, and not a little 300mL one either....lol Cheers Nev....sorry couln't help myself....hehehe
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RHP User
15 years ago
best toothpaste EVA! But the tube lid is a pain...hard to open. Seriously - or perhaps not so seriously, I have learnt a lot from these forums, like how to give a good head job, and can someone tell me is there a link for how to give a good pussy finger and lick please.Sometimes posts like emails and txt can be read differently to what the sender intended so I would always give people the benefit of the doubt.Agree with the Burberry and also try Drakkor Noir, very sensual. Love all your posts. Mrs xxx
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'exploringfunnow' Agree with the Burberry and also try Drakkor Noir, very sensual. Love all your posts. Mrs xxx I secretly have a bottle of drakkor noir that I occasionally use.. and I like it... but my kids told me it shows my age. :p I also have some Dune Pour Homme by Dior.. which I've used for about 10 years but I haven't been able to buy it in Australia for the last 5 years or so... I found another bottle of it to replenish my stock when I was in Dubai last month. :pHugsStalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not so much due to the forum posts but friends lists. . There was a profile I looked at the other day after they contacted me and their one and only addition to the friends list has shown herself on the forums to be quite a poisonous peice of 'class' so it turned me off completely. I know that sounds bad to judge someone based off such a small thing, but it made an impression on me. i.e. if that's his ideal, I can already tell we're not going to get along. Kinda made me wonder if maybe she's why he only has the one 'friend'....
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RHP User
15 years ago
We only played in the forums because we had to take a break from swinging for 4-6 mths. (medical) Now we find instead of looking at who has viewed us, winked or messaged we look for who has replied on a forum topic we have been involved in. Not sure if this is good it distracts from playing. But what has surprised us since we have taken our note off our profile that we cant play till the end of Jan, we have since had way more than the norm winks recieved and messages recieved. Which makes us believe the forums do advertise , totally unexpected and whats more ...... Just be yourself Express what you think Dont go with flow if you dont agree, and have fun express your personality (not everyone finds riming anal and bi essentail) And there are heaps out there for you!
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JessicaRabbit
15 years ago
I've been browsing the forums and come across posts by people that I normally wouldn't actively seek out, but what they have written has encouraged me to click on their profile, which then has a few times started off messaging and ended in meeting once or twice. On these cases, what they had said was much more interesting than what you can convey in a profile and whether I agreed with what they said or not, I found it enough to spark my interest in them in a way that their profile alone might not have, had I even sought them out actively. It can most definitely be a positive thing, although I do see where you are coming from with the negative thing, but as theone said, you can't tone down your opinions, otherwise what is the point of the forums? Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, whether everyone else agrees with it not and this a medium that was made to allow people to express theirs. Dida xx
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Discover what RHP is doing offline
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RHP member's RL secrets
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