Jame1959

Jame1959

M62 F54

Confused

March 31 2025

Hi
A question I have wondered for yrs why is it men can have multiple partners and there heroes but if a lady does this there not marrying material seems double standards
Second question
All men like to see 2 ladies together or fantasises about it but if 2 bi men are together with lady’s present it’s a total looked upon as weird can someone shed light on this or do I have it wrong

Comments

  • PrizeSize

    PrizeSize

    2 days ago

    The judgement society puts on a sexually active woman is ridiculous to me. Tbh, I find a woman that knows what she needs and goes out and gets it to be the most attractive of all. While I say that to clarify I’m especially into women that are classy, elegant and confident.

    A few years ago I had a FWB in her mid 30’s that was then and had been quite “active “ all her adult life. She was stunning and had all the above mentioned attributes.

    The first time we “hooked” up was when she’d been told by a friend about having slept with me. Afterwards she told me that she’d been told that I had the perfect dick and she had to find out if she agreed. Haha. She agreed and came back many times. It was the greatest compliment and confidence booster imaginable tgat a woman that had plenty of comparables chose me.

    Life changing moment where I lost any feelings if intimidation from comparison

  • PrizeSize

    PrizeSize

    2 days ago

    Also have had multiple experiences with younger women that have been wild because I was never considered “bf/husband” material. They would always be able to be their craziest, dirtiest little slut within her without concerns about being judged and “unmarryable”

  • boobsandbusted

    boobsandbusted

    a day ago

    Wrong audience ,you might get a better response to agree with your perceptions of what people think on reddit not here ,

    Mr b

  • OzKiwi

    OzKiwi

    a day ago

    We do not agree with your assumptions on both questions.

    Simple as that

  • MsSuperFoxy

    MsSuperFoxy

    a day ago

    Is that so.....

    Ms Foxy

  • Pangolin28

    Pangolin28

    a day ago

    Societal BS that sadly people have taken on board. Depending on the group of people or friends you hang with. For me and my mates it was you either sleep with lots or you don't.
    As far as that 2 women together fantasy goes. Man that is the biggest load of shit I have heard. Never have had an interest in two women and many guys I've known are the same.
    Now being bi, cannot comment on as I am not. But that is a very old way of seeing it as so much is accepted now. Shit I even chat to my old girl about shit like that and she is in her eighties.
    So most of what you speak of is the way you are or have been brought up to think.
    Just my thoughts

  • FeistyFatty

    FeistyFatty

    a day ago

    I couldn't disagree more ..... With both positions ... And don't find it to be accurate in 2025.