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Confidence is super sexy
June 15 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
....but rather the descriptions available to us. I too would rather see curvaceous, voluptuous, Runbenesque but we dont have that choice so we go with what describes us best - especially to societies view of us. But its nice to see soeone sticking up for us. Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey Grob...I already posted something along the same grounds not long ago...You can see it at: http://www.redhotpie.com.au/Adult-Forums/Is-Confidence-Sexier-Than-Size-28162 The answers in there are really eye opening for the more curvaceous women....but with some unfortunately its like banging your head on a brick wall. xFunlovingx (Love my curves)
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RHP User
16 years ago
your right its about time i told the world im perfect and im proud thanks Rob for giving me the confindence to say that....the weight of the world has been lifted welcome to the forums and have lots of fun babe ohhh and i really agree with Focus..we deal with what we are given roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' your right its about time i told the world im perfect and im proud thanks Rob for giving me the confindence to say that....the weight of the world has been lifted welcome to the forums and have lots of fun babe ohhh and i really agree with Focus..we deal with what we are given roxxy no sarcasm or am I just getting a quick fire course in understanding roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
lets start a petition to get body types overhauled in the profile sectionI want to see "Curves for the luuurven""Smouldering"/discussshow me what you would want added?
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RHP User
16 years ago
young padwan Rob... The reason so many ladies feel and act like that is because of the dickhead guys who treat them like shit. The same dickhead guys who expect every girl to look like a barbie doll, when they themselves are no Ken dolls. I'm sorry Rob, many guys have treated the girls here like shit and as a result many of the girls bite back... those that don't bite back end up bruised and deflated... not good. Anyway - good on ya for saying something nice about our gals... they give great hugs you know hugs Wayne
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tamworthguy46
16 years ago
Yes i to have harped on about confidence issues until I was blue in the face also !.......A bigger or less attractive woman That has confidence or carries herself well "so to speak"........is so sexy......and is as much of an asset as having a super hot bod,and in a lot of ways probably more.........But I suppose we all have issues about our looks and personalities that are so deeply rooted.....that we can't see them ourselves. Love and peace Tam.
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RHP User
16 years ago
I cannot believe how this site seems to revolve around definitions. Am I straight or bi or wtf was the new one.. heteroflexible *eyeroll* . Thin, Slim, Athletic. Which one of these would be more suitable for these 'curvy ladies' you speak of. . Hmmmm and which is bigger anyway Ample or Large? . Sure I've seen profiles that are claiming to be 10kgs heavier than their photo... but who cares. As Stalky says - follow your erection... . PS - Are the skinny girls feeling left out - sounds like Average or heavier is flavour of the season... is it a winter thing maybe?
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Cougarxx
16 years ago
Well Said Rob. Over the past 3 yrs I have many wonderful Sexy women, who I do think Under Rate them self's. Oh, Focus you are right as well, you don't have much of a selection. Shane
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would use runbanesque anyday instead of ample or extra padding ..... I am comfortable with who i am .... so i'm really of the mind set .... take me or leave me .... but this is me and i am not changing for anyone ... lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
Sexy, vivacious, confident, bubbly...yep thats me for sure!! BUt even someone who is like this has a bad day...and sometimes i have days where i doubt myself...and measure myself against the society cliches... But then days like today, when i read a thread like this i remember its not aboutt society...but about me...so thank you GCRob..oh and wayne for your lovely comments...oh ok...thanks everyone...hehe Mrs Shy xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I recently had one of my curves likened to a corner on the Laguna Seca race track ... there is no category to sufficiently cover this description ... I'm real. I have curves. It is not because I lack confidence that I list my body type as average. It is more a consequence of RHP lacking an imagination as good as that of my lover!
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RHP User
16 years ago
love your reply couple30ssydney.my husband is oldschool,hard,caring,and oh so hot.u no when your out and husband is so confident in any situation?makes me oozeeeeeeeeee.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Gcrob83' Quoting 'geturroxyoff' your right its about time i told the world im perfect and im proud thanks Rob for giving me the confindence to say that....the weight of the world has been lifted welcome to the forums and have lots of fun babe ohhh and i really agree with Focus..we deal with what we are given roxxy no sarcasm or am I just getting a quick fire course in understanding roxxy there will be no understanding of roxxy thanks mister Rob and dont you go picking on sarcasm...she has got me through life roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'Gcrob83' lets start a petition to get body types overhauled in the profile sectionI want to see "Curves for the luuurven""Smouldering"/discussshow me what you would want added? word of advise babe...dont petition or protest...it will get your thread deleted...shhhhh i didnt say a thing shhhhh roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Trish SEX IS IMPORTANT EVEN WHEN GETTING PLENTY! For me I am very comfortable with myself! lifes to short not to be! Confidence glows! Infact its noticed, Its like glowing light within, Even when lifes challenges are put in front of us I say be happy! deal with it! It takes way more energy to stress! and worry is wasteful. We attract what we are! So dont worry be happy, and do what ever and however u want without worrying about anyones opinion, as we are all living our own journey of life, Everyone is BEAUTIFUL Take the time to look at ourselves and others u will see! Jensta xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
I cant believe beyonce hasnt got a mention yet ... cmon there has to be some "bootylicious" out there! I know I've seen lots of hot booty so farand as far as the sarcasm quotes go I love" I can only please one person per day. Today is not your day... tomorrow isnt looking good either"
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RHP User
16 years ago
..my fav has to be from a woman I knew who worked in a video store.... "I am only allowed to tell one customer a year to fcuk off and i am not wasting it on you" Kisses Focus
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'focusliason' ..my fav has to be from a woman I knew who worked in a video store.... "I am only allowed to tell one customer a year to fcuk off and i am not wasting it on you" Kisses Focus best ever i work in a contact centre and im going to use this when i can
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RHP User
16 years ago
its a song ... i think sometimes .. i use it as my theme song lol ... play it in the car on the way into town lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
my theme song is....dont cha wish ya girlfriend was hot like me...by the pussycat dolls hehe cause these men wish their girlfriends were hot like me hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha (roxxy quoting Earl) ohhhh theres that confidence you were talking about Rob roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'geturroxyoff' my theme song is....dont cha wish ya girlfriend was hot like me...by the pussycat dolls hehe cause these men wish their girlfriends were hot like me hahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha (roxxy quoting Earl) ohhhh theres that confidence you were talking about Rob roxxy just a girlfriend other than Jess the pittbullwould be niceishahahahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahashe pretty confident though hardly sexy.ahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'tamworthguy38' Yes i to have harped on about confidence issues until I was blue in the face also !.......A bigger or less attractive woman That has confidence or carries herself well "so to speak"........is so sexy......and is as much of an asset as having a super hot bod,and in a lot of ways probably more.........But I suppose we all have issues about our looks and personalities that are so deeply rooted.....that we can't see them ourselves. Love and peace Tam. what does confidence LOOK like? How does one carry themselves well? I know this stuff has been talked about a lot, but I still have a little trouble switching my confidence on. I wonder what it's supposed to look like.All help appreciated :)lilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'lilmissfussy' Quoting 'tamworthguy38' Yes i to have harped on about confidence issues until I was blue in the face also !.......A bigger or less attractive woman That has confidence or carries herself well "so to speak"........is so sexy......and is as much of an asset as having a super hot bod,and in a lot of ways probably more.........But I suppose we all have issues about our looks and personalities that are so deeply rooted.....that we can't see them ourselves. Love and peace Tam. what does confidence LOOK like? How does one carry themselves well? I know this stuff has been talked about a lot, but I still have a little trouble switching my confidence on. I wonder what it's supposed to look like.All help appreciated :)lilmiss x While I'm no expect on confidence as its a battle I'm fighting every day I do try to draw on the basic principle.1) I am who I am and I'm the person person for the job2) my strength is my source of power3) I have survived heart break, self destruction and disbelieve and I'm still kicking ass and alive4)I cant make everyone love me but I have to love me!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'lilmissfussy' Quoting 'tamworthguy38' Yes i to have harped on about confidence issues until I was blue in the face also !.......A bigger or less attractive woman That has confidence or carries herself well "so to speak"........is so sexy......and is as much of an asset as having a super hot bod,and in a lot of ways probably more.........But I suppose we all have issues about our looks and personalities that are so deeply rooted.....that we can't see them ourselves. Love and peace Tam. what does confidence LOOK like? How does one carry themselves well? I know this stuff has been talked about a lot, but I still have a little trouble switching my confidence on. I wonder what it's supposed to look like.All help appreciated :)lilmiss x being happy in yer own skin?Earl
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RHP User
16 years ago
your spot on there Earl...being happy in her own skin...happy with her curves or lack of them...happy with the size of her arse and boobs...happy in herself it all shows in the way you carry yourself its not just women either a confident man is very sexy roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
makes Earl a very happy lad...ahahahahahahahaahahhahahahahaEarl
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'niceguy0068' young padwan Rob... The reason so many ladies feel and act like that is because of the dickhead guys who treat them like shit. The same dickhead guys who expect every girl to look like a barbie doll, when they themselves are no Ken dolls. I'm sorry Rob, many guys have treated the girls here like shit and as a result many of the girls bite back... those that don't bite back end up bruised and deflated... not good. Anyway - good on ya for saying something nice about our gals... they give great hugs you know hugs Wayne Thank you Wayne... and Robxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
confidence is sexy in men as well............as long as it doesnt tip over into arrogance.......mmmmm a confident man who knows himself and his way round a womans body.........yummy...so is a confident curvaceous feminine woman drool miss b
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RHP User
16 years ago
its so easy to talk about being big and proud...curvy and self confident...but when you are constantly reminded...that you are NOT what society deems attractive...and they way some men treat you...(or dont treat you)...seems to back this theory up....well....it's kinda hard to change that thought pattern.I KNOW I am a top chick...guys wanna be my mate...girls like me...im friendly...easy going...well regarded by my peers...yet...still it seems....not quite good enough.This is reinforced by the skinny nasty bitches fighting them off...while i sit here twiddling my thumbs.Oh..and my saying that is not proof of a lack of confidence...its just my reality.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
apparently i am scary and intimidating, but take the time to get to know me and you will find i am really quite shy and easy to get on with. Leesa
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'couplesint'apparently i am scary and intimidating, but take the time to get to know me and you will find i am really quite shy and easy to get on with. Leesa oh thank you Leesa...someone finally understands it all roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MissBJ'its so easy to talk about being big and proud...curvy and self confident...but when you are constantly reminded...that you are NOT what society deems attractive...and they way some men treat you...(or dont treat you)...seems to back this theory up....well....it's kinda hard to change that thought pattern.I KNOW I am a top chick...guys wanna be my mate...girls like me...im friendly...easy going...well regarded by my peers...yet...still it seems....not quite good enough.This is reinforced by the skinny nasty bitches fighting them off...while i sit here twiddling my thumbs.Oh..and my saying that is not proof of a lack of confidence...its just my reality.JMO...BJxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
what are the things that shatter your confidence? For me, it's insensitivity and thoughtlessness, feeling like I don't matter or am not being considered. Don't know what it is, but those things pull the rug right out from under me ... kind of pertinent tonight :slilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
I lack confidence. Does that mean I am not sexy? My profile states "shy at first.." Am I discounted because of that status? If confidence is sexy then why are we shy ones even bothering? Confidence is not always size relevent. but a personality trait. C xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Rob I so agree with most comments on those ladies with curves ( i always thought curves are normal ) After my many years of experience i can say that my best times have been spent with ladies who have a bit more to cuddle that most women rather than stick figures. Great sex is not gaged by weight rather by the way we do it...right !!!! cheers Brad
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