RHP

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Coming out of the closet....

May 21 2010

How would you feel if you found out that your dad has been gay for 20 years +...I don't really know myself, find it hard to imagine...and yes, i'll come out of the closet...as soon as trish finds the key and unlocks the door !!!!ahhh...punishment....such a wonderful thing....NOT!!...i think i would be so shocked...but then again, me mum is no oil painting...oil yes, painting no...unfortunately me dad is dead...so don;t have a chance to ask him what he thinks of all this...but i DO wonder where his spanish blood would truly lie...cheersjose...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    When I was a young boy my friend and I would hide in the wardrobe when his mum told us to. It's only as an adult did I really understand how sinister it must have been to have to hide children from "the man". Anyway, it was kind of fun as kids, playing these games not truly appreciating what all the fuss was about. Every day an adventure. The "Coming out of the closet" that you are referring to is "an exciteable" thing to do.... I think queens must have invented the concept... you know.. with a swish of the hand... darling... I really have no difficulty accepting other people's sexual choices as long as they're lawful, but I just do not get why a person's sexuality has to involve a fanfare. Come out of the closet.. stay in the closet.. whatever you choose to do, it wouldn't change my attitude towards you unless of course you suddenly turned into a complete bitch. :p Men can still be men.. and be gay. If coming out of the closet means you have to be a queeny guy then for fuck sake spare us all the drama. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i have nothing against gay men, bisexual men, men who are gay and say they're not, and so on...so maybe i have given you the wrong message...i'm not in any closet for one..and the question is really about: how would you feel if you found out your dad (or mum) was gay...being 42 i don;t think it would faze me either way...but if you were a young kid, or teenager or even a young adult, would you be going ewwww...cheersjose...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lolz.. my answer was simple.... it wouldnt phase me unless you/he also changed your/his persona. Interesting thing about the NSW politician caught cxoming out of a Gay club in Kensington. I've frequently attended that club. I can have a steam and a spa, a nice dip in the pool swim, log in to the internet catch a video or watch tv.. talk to a few mates.. and there are no women around pestering me. Sure there are gay people there and yeah, they have sex. So what. I dont know why he resigned over such an insignificant thing. Hugs Stalky

  • RHP

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    16 years ago

    Lets face it the thought of parents or any adult over the age of 30 for that matter having sex fullstop is probably more the concern. By the time you get to the point about it being with another man (or woman) their fingers are already going to be firmly in their ears and they will be humming lalalalalalalalalal.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I just wonder how can a wife of 25 years not know that her partner is gay? Surely there must of been some signs? Pusscat xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    I know a few people this has actually happened to........ one now does not want to have children of his own, the others became under achievers.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    lets see 'Jose'....if your dad was around and he came out....... mmmmm would you exist or not.......lol well you are around, so at some point he wouldnt have......so all good for you then.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    i am not so around...i do have my pointy bits too....hehe...and my square ones...and my triangular ones...jose..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    16 years ago

    geez jose, i only see round bits.......i mean they right in your face.....oh thank god for that.....but whose complaining.......NOT ME....... check list........ round - tick pointy bits - ??? square ones - ??? triangle ones - ??? so far 1/4, yep no complaining atm.....