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Clique in chat rooms

August 28 2022

Is it just me who's been about for a while now or is there a clique in some rooms that you need to be accepted by or just ignored. Feels that way at times. Maybe being a bit soft. Just asking.

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RHP User

3 years ago

Clique here in the forums too. Incoming in 3, 2, 1...

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RHP User

3 years ago

It's like any community - people get to know each other, the longer they are there. Just be yourself, be well mannered, try not to be sleazy etc It can be more difficult all over this site for single men. Sit back and read the room, then jump in when you feel comfortable x

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OpalRose

3 years ago

There is. Just push yourself into the convo. But be respectful.

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Ex007

3 years ago

I have no idea sorry, I don't use them.

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RHP User

3 years ago

There’s cliques everywhere in all walks of life, if you don’t like one find one you do like, if you do like that one then join it. Unless you’re offensive people won’t exclude you 😉

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RHP User

3 years ago

P.S. I’d avoid you because of your name, maybe it’s nothing to do with a clique..?

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MsSuperFoxy

3 years ago

Mate, you should have been in the chat rooms 5+ yrs ago! You think the clique is bad now, you should have seen it back then. There's real history in the chat room. The riff raff trouble have moved on. Lots of people know each other and have formed friendships. Just be your real authentic self and build solid friendships with those you have common interests with. It doesn't matter if it's the chat room's or out in the community. Like attracts like. Ms Foxy

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RHP User

3 years ago

I sit in the chat room and lurk. I'm a overly introverted person and struggle to have conversations. Occasionally I do. Sometimes I open up and talk to people but I'm not cliquey. I do have my main people I talk to (females) mostly because I have met them.

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RHP User

3 years ago

stick around and that will change

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Chevymetal

3 years ago

I never had a problem in there. I'm extroverted no doubt and not afraid of being judged which I understand far from everyone. My theory is to be offended is my problem generally if the comment us directed at me. I can choose to with that as I will and if clever or funny I'll gave a giggle and move on or just move. Life's got enough dramas without letting random folk on the internet upset my day

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RHP User

3 years ago

The key is persistence. If you don't keep putting your name in there you won't be one one of the regs and you can't build a rep as a fun chatter. So yeah harden up and get amongst the chat! 😂

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RHP User

3 years ago

I never go into chat for that reason. Those few that talk to each other might as well swap phone numbers lol. Also found the club scene very similar. If only people were more inclusive. Chatting to others and engaging isn't going to make others think they're going to get lucky but it will improve an already stressful situation for some.

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