Paradisepair

Paradisepair

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Claiming their prize - definition please

October 18 2012

I've heard this used on the forums a few times to describe the behaviour of some single guys. Can anyone explain this to me, I kind of get the concept but don't really understand how it comes out in behaviour or mannerisms...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    interview prospective lovers I always give them a ticket,at the end of the day I place all 20 tickets in a hat ....the winner gets to claim their prize....does that help Paradisepairx R

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    But perhaps it refers to bedding a long awaited person that they had been chasing for some time??

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    13 years ago

    Maybe it's a sense of ownership or entitlement? I don't know though, that's why I ask...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Well....when you find out can you let me know?? Lol I can't say I've seen that phrase used at all. And if I'm missing something from my arsenal...lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sounds a bit like boy bingo Freya 13〠

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Night club cricket: score for kissing a person, score for touching them up, score for fucking them in the loo ( that’s 100 points)   The ugly duckling queen: guys go out pick up the ugly woman, then invite her back to a pre arranged restaraunt , and crow her. Yes I know a guy that did this, and he told me as we were driving, laughing his arse off.   I did an Ikea, STOP the Fucking Car! , he was my boyfriend at the time and I had ask him what he did the night before.,as he had a night out with the boys.   What a fucker, never spoke to him again.   Plan B: the woman you get the number off in the pub and when you finish drinking with your mates go tap on her window, the plan B girl is usually second prize   Boilers ticket: is a woman twice your age Steamers ticket: is a woman three times your age.   Its the hunt in the pub Olympics, no wonder my daughter hates going out at all. At 26 she has had a gut full of the Pubs In Perth, and men in general.   Cant say I blame her if when she goes out chances are she will be some lame twits bet for the evening. There are beautiful single women in Perth who would rather not be the prize these days.   Somewhere along the way , we have lost the ability to meet in a nice way and develop relationships we are the McDonald people,   One fuck burger to go. The prize is that your often to drunk to enjoy and have to embelish to your mates when you get back to the brag zone.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ... posting. Off to join a convent :-( I give up... KK xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It's so uplifting being a male sometimes, NOT.Think I'll eat some worms.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Its about the social situation they find themselves in.   Perhaps with both parents working, or sole parents that young ones do not always get a balanced perspective. Nothing wrong with sole parent, I was one. So long as you have both male and female role models. But we are all busy and exhausted and lots of things are learnt via their friends or the TV. People do not even know how to eat properly at the table any more and talk, its TV and shove it in with your mouth open as you talk. Its people sitting at the cafe not talking to each other but texting all and sundry. Its people talking so loud on the train that their whole life is public, and up there on facebook, twitter and yes RHP.   We can talk to the world, and say what we like   Yet there is the lack of confidence and skill or even desire, to go and ask a woman out, to get away from the herd. To go on a date just because you like the company and actually getting to know someone before you get your pink bits together,   I can see by a lot of women’s post, that’s what they want , dispute all the sexy pictures and the come get me baby. Some just want a guy to treat them decently, to be intimate with them and to be there spooned up as they sleep , nuzzling the back of their hair.   Unicorns and magic and romance are drifting away like a boat in the mist.   In Australia its so obvious, the girl pack and the male pack and hardly the twain shall meet unless its a quick shag. Somewhere along the way , we lost something.   Women also have a bit to answer for, as nice guys do finish last. Those not so handsome men, who may not be the “Alpha Dog” , get looked over all the time.   Now we have a Cool hand Look cultural barrier " Failure to Communicate"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hi! Paradisepair. Thanks for the Topic;) I Love the Forums because no matter what our age we can always learn something :) I'm certainly Learning this Topic and the Replies .I'm just sitting here shaking My Head in dispair and disbelief.. Thanks Tuscanred for explaining what Labels mean and how they work..Thank God I can Connect with People's true self and Pick up on Negative actions as well as Positive Intentions.. If a Guy Approached me with a Boiler Ticket ,steamer Ticket He'd certainly get a reaction 1 he wouldn't expect .I'd be Boiling Mad steam of Powerful Intimidating Energies out of My ears ,nose, eyes I'd be Royally Pissed Off!!! One should never Irritate a DragonLady ,it's not good for their Health ...Ha!ha!ha! Cheers Lu :)