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Chemistry – what do you feel?

March 13 2011

When I have the ‘horn’ for someone, I generally end up flushed and wondering who turned the temp up, I can internally hear my own heart beat, I say stupid things (even more so than normal), but I am sooooooo magnetised to the person that i persevere (acting like a weirdo)!! I yearn to accidently brush against them, or touch them somehow (and I uncontrollably do sometimes to my own horror and embarrassment!), to get that electric feeling you get with someone new to discover that chemically sends you crazy. I find it just ‘happens’ no conscious thought, just a reaction to pheromones or something!? I wonder about John Safran and his knicker sniffing experiment, where he was attracted to girls that he liked the ‘smell’ of lol! He knew he was attracted Euro-Asians, not Jews, to his family and friend’s disappointment, and it turned out that all the ‘scents’ he liked the smell of were 100% Euro Asians (Nature states that we shouldn’t be attracted to someone too closely related to our blood line?! Weird tangent...)! Anyhoo, this is one of my most favourite things in life, having that total physical and mental charge just by being in someone’s presence and unable to stop yourself from wondering what it would be like to kiss them and do other very pleasurable things to them.... ;) It is an unbeatable feeling and experience, if I could bottle it I'd be a zillion are for sure I think :) Can anyone share what they go through when ‘lust’ becomes so strong for someone that you cannot focus or concentrate on anything but wanting to smell, taste, touch them, because simply looking and talking to them just isn’t enough?

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  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    The problem is, I have SO many things I could say on this, that I would be here forever attempting to explain my beliefs. . Further, these beliefs are now coloured by having experienced a connection so strong that it makes the 'lust', the 'sexual attraction' that you speak of here seem insignificant in my mind, when I know that it definitely IS NOT. The chemistry that you are talking about is a principal characteristic of human nature and I really enjoy observing it in different people. . Great post and one I will watch closely with interest!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I for one can go sexually nuts, the thing is though I had one guy in particular from here that just sent me crazy when I was in his presence.... and I ended up making a total dick out of myself.... and was never able to show him exactly how dirty I wanted to be with him, it is a long story but condensing it somewhat, it is rare for me to emotionally connect, I can shag till the cows come home and enjoy the sexual connection for what it is and keep it impersonal but when I actual feel something - woo hoo - light bells and whistles are going off every where inside me.... and OMG the shuddering - every touch from him just sent the most unbelievable thrills through my body..... bloody silly emotions at times but hey, I guess we are who we are... Ladywholovestheshudder.....

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I have the same reactions Boobalicious. Terrible when you start blusing - sooo embarrassing. Then I realise that I am staring at their lips as they speak & unconciously licking mine. On another point I have realized recently that I get a little zing in my girl thang when I ever I get a text message. Terrible that most people have that universal "you have mail" notification. I am in a constant state of excitment all day. LOL. As I sit here writing, at least 3 motorbikes went by - so horny!!! Well memory association I suppose. xxxMeeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'I have the same reactions Boobalicious. Terrible when you start blusing - sooo embarrassing. Then I realise that I am staring at their lips as they speak & unconciously licking mine. On another point I have realized recently that I get a little zing in my girl thang when I ever I get a text message. Terrible that most people have that universal "you have mail" notification. I am in a constant state of excitment all day. LOL. As I sit here writing, at least 3 motorbikes went by - so horny!!! Well memory association I suppose. xxxMeeks.. Is one of those sms-activated vibrators! Yes, they exist, but in the interests of safety, I have refrained from purchasing one!

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    If I got a sms-activated vibrator I could never tell anyone - my god I would never get an work done. Now that you have told me that I really really want one. How hornyxxMeeks

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yes I get that tingly feeling and then the major clenching / severe butterflies in the lower abdomin. I never get uncontrolled though...well certainly not in public. I dont stammer and blush and carry on. But oh boy, thse delicious butterflies.....when he rings, texts and sends me naughty pics. Tells me in chat all the wonderful toe - curling things he is gonna do to and for me....... Yep. I do have a serious case of lust going on atm.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Yeah Booba, men get the fluster too. I do enjoy observing someone else in this state when out, it's so obvious they've lost their composure and are wrought with Desire. It's times like these that I wonder if I also carried on like a zoom-dweebie when I was smitten like that? I bet I was coz when obsessed you can easily contemplate the becoming a stalker. . Buddah said: "Desire is the root of sorrow" and I'd like to add that "Desire will get you a root" (apologies to avid followers). . Call it chemistry because of suspected trace elements in the air oozing from you giving you the aroma of a potential molesterer eager to pounce. . If you've got "The Hots", and you cannot hide it - you got it bad.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'flirty_bi_fem' .. Is one of those sms-activated vibrators! Yes, they exist, but in the interests of safety, I have refrained from purchasing one! That's a sensational idea.... it obviously needs a sim card... so it could double as a telephone... just listen to the knob... and talk into my balls.... I can see it now... the possibilities are endless.... I mean, there doesn't seem to be a law against talking to your dildo while driving.... and it will buck the fashion trend... I mean to say... mobile phones will get larger and larger rather than smaller and smaller.HUgsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' As I sit here writing, at least 3 motorbikes went by - so horny!!! Well memory association I suppose. lmfao..... Common rides. You gotta stop dating guys that ride kawasakis. :p You should hear my trumpy rumble. Unmistakable sound of the Triumph triple.... a beautiful glistening street fighter machine in black and burnt orange.... like a wasp with a boom box.HugsS

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' Yes I get that tingly feeling and then the major clenching / severe butterflies in the lower abdomin. I never get uncontrolled though...well certainly not in public. I dont stammer and blush and carry on. But oh boy, thse delicious butterflies.....when he rings, texts and sends me naughty pics. Tells me in chat all the wonderful toe - curling things he is gonna do to and for me....... Yep. I do have a serious case of lust going on atm. Yep....what she said.BJxxx

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Maybe time to pipe in with the scientific thingo (just hold on I'm putting my science outfit on - forgot I still had the birthday suit on)... It is called "chemistry" for a reason as the circumstances such as described by many here actually trigger the chemical reactions in our brains (from where the signals can be sent everywhere in the body - even the girl thang as Meeka calls it) and those reactions lead in various way (as we are all different) to the release of hormones that prepare our bodies for procreation (you know how that's done).However, simply put we just get arousd in different ways as our brain "computes" the advance moves that can (and sometimes would) possibly unfold leading to the desired situation when we basically just f%#k the brains out of the person we're looking at... nice... if this was an ad I wish I could say I'm having one now... but heck I'm here on my own atm :-(

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    Quoting 'joemelfi2640'However, simply put we just get arousd in different ways as our brain "computes" the advance moves that can (and sometimes would) possibly unfold leading to the desired situation when we basically just f%#k the brains out of the person we're looking at... nice... if this was an ad I wish I could say I'm having one now... but heck I'm here on my own atm :-(It still works when I am alone and just thinking about the person.

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    I'm pretty sure the brain trigger chemical J2640 is referring to, are called Peptides and their array of peptide receptors. Apparently if the visual stimulus locks the peptides into their receptors in the right combination, then a chain reaction starts and next thing you know the 'Lust-gate' (usually in a closed state) get gets blown off it's hinges. , Tomorrow we will examine the function of the Lymbic system in the brain and the small person that resides there, commonly known as "That little voice in my head" and why it constantly tells you what you cannot have. . Dr Pill