Checking messages/Flirts

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  If you are one of these people why not just let it go and move on to someone who DOES answer?

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  It is also possible to check/messages and flirts but still have them show as unread.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Some people have a life outside of RHP and do not check their messages 100 times a day or sometimes as a couple we may not have both had a chance to check out the message and the profile before replying. Some people are just a little too impatient from my experience, we have had a few times now where we get a message, one of us has logged in read it and thought 'Ok shall let (insert partners name) check it out and see', then other partner checks out, both say 'mmm yes please' a few days later and when we go to reply we have been blocked i am assuming this is because we have shown up as having read the message and then been seen to not reply.It is true that there are a lot of people on here who don't reply and that is rude and there are some who for whatever reason are only on every few days and don't check their messages very often and also i have been known to log in quickly on my phone while out somewhere waiting for an appointment or something, read the message but don't reply straight away because replying from my phone is the pits!So as you can see there are many reasons people may or may not reply/ check messages but i hardly think that requires a disclaimer/warning to others and i dont think that it means they are not genuine either, you just have to be patient and have no expectations when you flirt or message and that way you wont be disappointed.Just my point of view,MRS GC

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  if you are obviously not what we want, we absolutely refuse to respond as we really detest people who waste our time..... maybe you are experiencing this as well.... read the profile and consider properly whether you match before making initial contact. we wish there was a 'fuck off and leave us alone ' flirt to send....especially to those who send us 17 flirts and various messages when its clear they are not what we are seeking.....

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  a simple no thanks is just called respect we do understand that some people have very biz lifes thats fine but it is a intereative site so intereact or rack off

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  we do move on just stating a fact as others we have met have the same issues

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