Can you be sexy if you don't like sex?

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Just because you choose to abstain or aren't interested.... does not mean you are not seen as sexy to others (like my ex wife.... sexy as hell to me and almost everyone else.... but asexual and unsexy to herself). Similarly, your interest in sex is not inextricably linked to you feeling sexy..... you might be very selective and therefore only engage very rarely.... or feel sexy but lack the confidence to express it for yourself. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  Cheekyarses

  12 years ago

  Absolutely - some ppl who shag themselves senseless have no sexiness about them at all!! Being sexy is a lot of things - the way a person may walk talk listen look - I find an incredible mind very sexy

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  MsSuperFoxy

  12 years ago

  Sexy without having sex....it's called SMEXY! SMEXY is the new sexy. foxy

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  madotara69

  12 years ago

  A look that eyes give, that is a little different when it comes to express sexy, hard to explain, though it changes things quite a lot when sexy gets sexy. It is certainly a unique thing. I know for myself, that when Tara looks at me with her sexy smiling eyes, there is something else that makes me flip my lid. I don't get that look if she does not feel like having sex, it happens sometimes. It does not change the fact, I find her naturally sexy, that would never change, even if for some reason we could never have sex again, it is different never the less, I would miss that very much, sure she would too. Mado Tara xx

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  sweetgem

  12 years ago

  Sexiness has the same theory as beauty......it's in the eyes of the beholder. Therefore, it has nothing to do with one liking sex or not. It's more about one's self confidence, how they feel about themselves, and how one presents themself in the public, etc. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Figure this one out... I feel sexy. I like sex. But I come across as the comedian, and not sexually appealing. So.... Why can't the reverse occur?? - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  monks who many women found sexy....but part of that was that they saw them as a challenge....some people find intelligence extremely sexy regardless of the physical appearance of a person.....that person may not necessarily be having sex for all sorts of different reasons......there are people who don't like sex,I read here all the time about husbands or wives no longer wanting to have sex with their partners,it doesn't mean that their partners don't find them sexy or still want to have sex with them.....xx Q.

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  madotara69

  12 years ago

  Monkey, great sage equal too heaven, think that's called Monkey magic, Miss Q

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  a sister who is an absolute prude, but she always had guys hanging off her. My mum always thought she was the one to watch as she was outgoing and naturally flirtatious and had a lot of boy 'friends'. She has little to no interest in sex but she still knows how to appeal to guys.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Sexiness is the air or aura around someone that appeals to the beholder. It is the way they hold themselves and the image they project. It is about creating or observing desire. It can therefore lead towards sex, but is not linked to the enjoyment of sex other than someone who loves sex going out of their way to attempt to create that desire. - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  ..otherwise it wont happen.. Theres a perception here Im unapproachable. Probally right if you're rude, stubborn and want it that way. Truth is ' I'm very approachable as they who tried have found out. But I need something to attract me.. You dont need to be a Angelina Jolie, just comfortable in your own skin and a naturally nice person..

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Sometimes the least "sexy" looking person in the room is the most sexual. It's the quiet ones...

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  Do you think she finds herself sexy..... she's an actor who plays characters.... pretends... after all - Posted from rhpmobile

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  conversely OP I often find that the most overtly sexual person is the least attractive xx Q

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  him_and_me

  12 years ago

  Quoting 'Qefenta2' conversely OP I often find that the most overtly sexual person is the least attractive xx Q I would say that I've observed that at times too! Sir Stir, are you the comedian all the way through an evening or only at the beginning? x Me.

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  RHP User

  12 years ago

  @ the Angelina referencw Do you think she finds herself sexy..... she's an actor who plays characters.... pretends... after all - Posted from rhpmobile Angelina is not only a actor but a very giving person who gives lots of herself to the under privlidged.. I find that attractive..

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