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Can straight women enjoy swinging events

May 28 2015

I am 100% straight and single. I've fanticised about swinging. I get the impression that women that go to these events are almost always bi. I have no desire to be with a woman. I could probably lay back and let a woman go down on me but I couldn't recipricate which I personally think is unfair. Should I try a club if and when I get a chance or avoid them? - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    And you don't have to do anything with anyone unless you want to...Swingers clubs are not just about people fucking. It's like RHP, like minded individuals coming together...but if you like someone then it's on!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm straight ... I have been ... I loved it :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Personally I don't think most women at events are bi at all, but even if they were I doubt many of them would have sex with any other woman there just because they were. I don't think there is an expectation to have sex with anyone you're not attracted to, whether they are men or women. Your choice, and anyone who makes you feel bad about that is the narrow minded one in my view.

  • Lovinit28andKC72

    Lovinit28andKC72

    11 years ago

    I'm not bi and I go to events, but what I am is, open to experiences....💋

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I would say that most women that go are bi or at least comfortable enough for some touching. Otherwise for me it depends what event you go to. In Sydney the swingers clubs have rules that couples have to stay together all evening, mainly so that the men don't walk around on their own, so I find normal nights when it's very "coupley" pretty uninteresting as a single woman who isn't interested in couples. I don't enjoy those nights and only attended a few and haven't gone back. I do enjoy theme nights when there are more people there, more single people there and couples split up a bit. For me those nights are exciting and more wild. Just depends what you are after. Do you want to be with couples? Or are you after group sex?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Men are so different when their partner is there. :p

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    You can enjoy what's on offer, no means no, If a woman or couple make a move on you, indicate your level of interest. It's the same with anything there are no expectations of a single woman at an event. Many women are bi or hetroflexible but many are also straight. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    I'm straight and had an amazing night at a Swingers! The social side was excellent and the people were fantastic! There was no pressure to play, although I chose to and had an amazing night! I went there open minded, friendly, respectful, non judgemental and would do it again in a heartbeat! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    then you should give it a go! Make sure you choose a venue and an event that is aligned with what you're looking for. Swinger parties, like people, come in a variety of shapes and forms. My experience at a range of different events has been great. Everyone is respectful and when approached by guys (I'm pretty straight) then all I needed was a polite no thanks and everyone moves on from that without any hard feelings. Hopefully there are some great options for you up in tropical north qld!! :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Forget fucking...foreplay with courtesy and respect is the delight...barrybingoo

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    11 years ago

    There are a couple of important club and party rules. Don't touch without asking, and no means no.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    have never been to a swingers evening but always wanted to try and see what it's like as I am single I am more than willing to get involved but how ?? - Posted from rhpmobile