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Can single guys read?
June 08 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
the answer is simply....NO they wont change, they wont stop, they are single, they are stupid and they are men sorry but its one thing you have to get use too...good luck xx roxxy xxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Thanks for that info, you learn something new every day. Dont get me wrong I am not tarring all single guys with the same brush, just the ones that think with the wrong head.BadKitty
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'MrsPeachypear'"I think you're hot, what do you think of me?"If so, that's because they come from the Amateur Pics 'Hot or What?'. They're sent when the flirt box is ticked and the profile is rated hot.As if the single guys don't get enough of a reputation on here already. I think it would help if RHP would change that flirt so it's clear where it comes from.Cheers Mrs P' Thanks Mrs P' Your post has cleared up a question I had too. I don't usually get much time to read the forum posts, but having been home sick for the past few days I had the chance. Cheers J x
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RHP User
16 years ago
That's hilarious!! The dudes see a hot lady in hot or what, have the "send flirt if Think this person is hot" toggled on... and then get lampooned by some other dude for ignoring the profiles none of them obviously read. Well... can they read? Answer "yes".... you know flirts sent to flatter people needn't be taken as an offense. Jeese, they could have voted so low that your good wife got no flirts at all... so what's worser? Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Some couples can't seem to read, either. We keep getting messages inviting the missus to play alone. Pretty sure we put up a sign saying we don't play separately ... or didn't we? Whoops, time for a quick review!
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RHP User
16 years ago
It is not only single guys who cant read, it is everyone, so why single out single guys??? I get couples messaging me and females and i dont want them. i just delete and ignore, easy, no need to stress about it!!!!!!!!!!!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi, I've been on here and other sites previously as both a couple and a single guy (married with permission, not separated or divorced lol). I've done this for a number of years so I've had a LOT of experience dealing with exactly this problem. As MrsPeachyPear has pointed out there is that problem with the "hot or what" wink, something I agree that RHP should fix. I'll ignore that one and just talk for a moment about the guys who deliberately send them. No it's not all single guys (I don't contact couples like that and never have), some of us have some respect and understand that people already know what they want. But for the ones who do go down the path of "Pick me! I'm different!" it's another story. I've come to the conclusion it's simply hormones raging out of control, their little heads ruling their big heads. My response was usually "Go away. Have a wank. It'll calm you down and you'll feel better for it." And funnily enough they do! Lower those hormone levels and the normal brain takes control again Lol These are the same guys who are straight and after a while start looking at the couples here who are looking for biguys and start to think "hmmm... Do I really mind if a bloke sucks me as long as I eventually get to shag her?" Again, a wank cures those thoughts. For the ones that carry through though they either have one of those "Crying Game" moments afterwards or find that they actually like it lol (Note:I'm not bi or ever have been. Not that there's anything wrong with that lol) And no, its not just single guys either. Every group has some who try it. It's just that the single guys are the most obvious ones :) In conclusion.... It's not going to stop, there will always be some trying their luck as their hormones rage out of control. Smile, shake your head, delete the message or wink and just move on. And if they get aggressive or refuse to give up... suggest a wank, or offer to have anal sex with them in exchange for your partner, that works too! Lol
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RHP User
16 years ago
I am never afraid to admit when I am wrong. Did not realize my wife's pics where automatically put up for rating when she opened her own profile. A sincere sorry to those we blocked for that, we will undo that. However that does not explain all the messages and other flirts we get from single guys on our couples profile. By the way "worser?", I am pretty sure that's not even a word. Desserts.. we don't stress over it at all, just knew it would be an interesting thing to put out there as it's a common complaint among people we have met from this site.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lordy Lordy more evidence that people use thier innate "primal" urges and move on ........ Perhaps we need a "hot pics ..... thats all I wanted to say" flirt ! Sheesh anyone would think this is some kinda of meat market or worse still a sex site !!!!! Brae (again not edited or spell checked by miss sarah as Brae throws caution to the wind again !)
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RHP User
16 years ago
What if you got no attention? I can imagine the pissing and moaning then... I get flirts and messages from guys, I'm not gay or bi and nothing on my profile suggests I like it in the arse. Now do I get upset or do I just plod along and be flattered? Hmmm decisions.. Positive or negative? Half full or half empty? Half full and flattered, that's a more attractive look I think.
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RHP User
16 years ago
If you don't want to hear from single guys...then make your main pic of either the male or of both you?? Not sure if it would work...but men are visual creatures after all. Also when you do a search it is the main pic that comes up and that might be the only one they look at?? Also with the wink thing...I agree with the others..its just when they rate you in hot or what...and it isn't only single men...I too get messages and winks from couples and other girls even though my profile states that I am straight!! I don't mind getting them from people that are in the Forums....but more often than not, they are not from here at all. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
As I said we were not aware that pics from a new profile were automatically put up for rating, we apologized to those guy's for our mistake..so lets move on. As for the attention we love it, knowing people are checking her out, just not the advances. Am I the jealous type?...Most definately not! We are certain there are many single guys out there that are fantastic people, but you have to admit there are some that push it a bit far. Yes this is a sex site that's why we are all here ..right? We have to admit we have contacted a one or two profiles where we did not quite fit in the box they were after. But our messages were never brash or confronting. Respect to all. Over and out.BadKitty007
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RHP User
16 years ago
Worser? Struth.. You haven't lived if you never heard of "worser"....... "Worser" - adv and adj... as in... "She's worser at it than me"...... " She tried to kiss it better but that only made it worser"....... "That bitch was worser than his last one"... "worser is a better adverb than badder".... Anyway... no wuckers. I've been bitching about that "hot or not" thing for years... one day I filled in hot or what for about 100 people and I kept getting these reply flirts from people I didn't recognise... took me ages to work out what was going on. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
By the way... Rugged.. I forgot to mention you look hawt. :p Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Single guys are like Nick said the lowest common denominator, and If I personally got a profile 'view' from someone who said 'no single guys' then I wouldn't message them 9 times out of 10.But, then there's always the 'if you don't ask, you don't get' factor, and who knows you may just strike it lucky that one time out of 10! I guess 'that single guy' doesn't think about the fact you have tonnes of single guys doing it to you over the course of a week, merely just thinking about his own needs which whilst it may seem selfish, is probably brought on by the fact a lot of people don't bother to have the decency to reply to you even when you DO match what their profile says they are looking for. That my friends, is my number one pet peeve on this site. Take it as a compliment that 'that single guy' finds you attractive enough based on your profile to message you, because if the shoe was on the other foot and you were 'that single guy' and you spent your time writing a message that you try to relate to your 'target', giving up your anonominity through means of unlocking your private gallery, only to get completely ignored, then you would be a lot more fucking pissed off (ahh it's good to vent) than you are now - especially if you believe yourself to be a decent person with a lot to offer (which no doubt everyone thinks of themselves).:):):):):):):):)The extra 7 smiles didn't do anything to brighten my current mood.
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RHP User
16 years ago
To be fair, all you genuinely disinterested in single men couples are being let down by couples who advertise themselves the same way but ARE actually interested. I have been approached (completely uninitiated by myself) many many times by couples who have "NOOOOO SINGLE MEN!!!!" blazoned all over their profile page wanting to see if I will play with them. This obviously will send out mixed messages to the single men of this site. I'm not sticking up for those guys that seem to harass the couples, just trying to show you why sometimes it might happen
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RHP User
16 years ago
It does suck being a single bloke around here. I don't generally message couples because I do read the 'NO SINGLE GUYS! bit. It's also not what I'm looking for either :)In terms of messaging at all, I do take into account what each profile says. Generally don't bother to look at ones with no photos and am slowly turning away from the automatically generated ones that say very little of the person I'm trying to find out about.As I've read more than once on these very forums, it can depend on the mood of the woman you message. So yes we can read, but maybe we're hoping to catch you in the right mindset, and even stand out by our own personality.Having said that I appreciate (and often abhor) the single guys out there that don't seem to understand 'Hey baby u r cute wanna fuck' isn't the best way to communicate with women or couples on here. So I can certainly see where the frustration comes from.Having said that to those who are bothering to write out a message with more substance than 'my dick is hard have a look lol', it'd be nice to see a reply, even in the negative. *ducks for cover in preparation for the incoming salvo*Cheers,ZP.S. Yes I know that some blokes don't take the negative well, but not all of us are like that. But those fellas are usually describing how good they are in bed? :P
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RHP User
16 years ago
Now I admit, I am a, what I would say, a normal guy - I am a visual creature and an observer of humanity. I fully confess to occasionally flicking through those online and if I see a profile picture that looks interesting, I will open that profile. Yes sometimes, quite clearly stated is "NO SINGLE MEN", "WOMEN ONLY" "NO FAT OLD GUYS" (that one hurts lol). Now lets make one thing clear, I do not send a flirt, I don't send a message, I just peruse the profile and go back to 'observing'.I guess most here will know the result, I have received a couple of abusive message for daring to look at their profile, always blocked after they send the message so there is no right of reply on my part. And often I am just blocked.Yet I would bet my left nut that those same women would readily bitch that no one reads their profile, no one contacts them etc. Really us single guys here are up against the wall. We get abused if we don't read, we get abused if we read, we get abused if we contact, and sometimes we get abused if we don't contact. No wonder some guys just give up and be arseholes, they have nothing to lose in the end.But back on topic, yes I agree there is a percentage out there (not just guys but all) who can't manage to get past the photo before clicking on which ever applicable contact button. It is rude and shows a distinct lack of manners and should be treated as such.
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RHP User
16 years ago
i agree with the few fella's above me...it isnt just single men that ignore whats written in a profile, until recently i had NO MARRIED MEN but i got heaps of mail and flirts from married men...just like there is nothing in my profile to say i want women, couples or gangbangs but i have had mail from women and couples and the people that have told me id be perfect for a gangbang is amazing ohhh and Z i always reply...man, woman, couple and moron always gets a reply and like i have said plenty of times before its the morons i enjoy the best roxxy
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RHP User
16 years ago
Yeah I think I've seen one of those you posted on the forums. Was a good laugh.Cheers,Z
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