RHP

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Broken hearts

October 02 2010

How many times (if any) has your heart been broken and how many hearts do you KNOW you have broken? I've broken two hearts... hope it doesn't happen again. I've had mine broken once.... hope it doesn't happen again. And if it happened when you were young, do you still occasionally feel the twinge of pain (if you're the breakee) or do you still feel guilt if you are the breaker? Sweet

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just the once.....Shame some people are unable to express themselves and respond by smashing your heart into little pieces...I am blessed to have 2 beautiful daughters who mend it everyday...Chill

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Twice, once at 19 the next time at 29. Over it now, but too a looooooooooong time. Not sure if I've broken any hearts. Maybe my ex husband. Relationships are hard, casual sex can be hard, everything can be hard. Guess i just want to feel that I am really loved, but I never seem to get there!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Had my heart broken once, but I don't regret it - it's chiefly responsible for me being the person I am today. I've probably broken two hearts, but I know I've done a lot of work to repair one.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    As far as I know i have never broken anyone's heart and i have had mine broken once by my first husband but as it turned out he did me a huge favor and i got over it pretty quickly Mrs GC

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Oh yeah hello heart break my old friend. It's now wonder there are so many songs about it. I have had my heart broken a few times. I always beat myself up about not being able to read the signs that the person was unhappy or about to break my heart. Or what did I do or should have done to keep the love. I always feel so stupid that I let someone get close enought to break it without being aware of it. I have broken a heart too. I was in a relationship for a short time but was feeling so suffocated and felt like the person was trying to control me that I had to make a break. He was devistated and talked about killing himself. I was so guilt ridden and distressed at what I had done I felt physically ill. I was conflicted what to do because if I went back to him I knew I'd be unhappy but if I didn't I would feel terrible if he hurt himself. In the end I went to a psychologist to ask how to handle the situation. Her response was he is an adult and if he chooses to hurt himself thats not something I can control. She reinforced that I had made the right decision. The funny thing is 1 month later he was living with a new woman.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    have had mine broken 3 times the last time was just recently when my ex broke it off she had done it 14 times but we kept getting back together then when i was completely in love with her and knew that she was all i wanted she dumped me again so i had to just let her go i do miss her but cant allow myself to go through the emotional trauma again so its the single life for me know dont think i want to risk my heart bieng broken again

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hearts get broken. Well they dont really but the actual ache can be soooo bad that it feels like there is something wrong. It can feel like restricting steel bands tightening around the rib cage. Sometimes people never get over this and just lose the will to live. We grow apart, we move onwards and upwards, one partner grows emotionally or mentally and they find there is little left in common. There is always the grass is greener syndrome. Sometimes the lust just stops. No a girl does not really learn to hide her heart. Man (or woman) is not meant to be a solitary being and so we strive to find one to share that life with. This does not mean that we can not love another just as deeply and in many cases more deeply than the one before. Each cut gets a little deeper than the last. Yes I have had my heart broken a few times and broken one or two in return. No I dont regret a minute of my life and what has gone before. Each broken heart and the time I spent grieving, each moment of pain has gone into making me the strong, independant woman I am today. Knowing more aboout what I want from life, love and a man and not being willing anymore to settle for less than what I deserve! Fionabee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Had my Heart Smashed to pieces just the once that realy counted .. took a long time to get over it but i would like to think i am a better person for it. How many did i break.. Wel that i dont know the answer to other than the girl who broke mine told me later it broke hers also.. Gd that was a little touchy for me what the fuck was i doing there ???

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Should someone attempt to wound my heart..it's always the same.. they can never break my heart...it's fun to watch all the things they try though... my sexy elf Molko sings all that needs to be said..and how it goes down... F*** U There's a look on your face I would like to knock outSee the sin in your grin and the shape of your mouthAll I want is to see you in terrible painThough we won't ever meet I'll remember your nameCan't believe you were once just like anyone elseThen you grew and became like the devil himselfPray to God I can think of a kind thing to sayBut I don't think I canSo f**k you anywayYou are scumYou are scumAnd I hope that you knowThat the cracks in your smile are beginning to showNow the world needs to see that it's time you should goThere's no light in your eyes and your brain is too slowCan't believe you were once just like anyone elseThen you grew and became like the devil himselfPray to God I can think of a kind thing to sayBut I don't think I canSo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywayBet you sleep like a child with your thumb in your mouthI could creep up beside, put a gun in your mouthMakes me sick when I hear all the shit that you saySo much crap coming out, it must take you all dayThere's a space kept in hell with your name on the seatWith a spike in the chair just to make it completeWhen you look at yourself do you see what I see?If you do, why the f**k are you looking at me?Why the f**k are you looking at me?Why the f**kWhy the f**k are you looking at me? There's a time for us all and I think yours has beenCan you please hurry up, 'cause I find you obsceneI can't wait for the day that you're never aroundWhen that face isn't here and you rot undergroundCan't believe you were once just like anyone elseThen you grew and became like the devil himselfPray to God I can think of a kind thing to sayBut I don't think I canSo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anyway. Hearts I've broken? When in most cases you can do and will do anything you want to their bodies .. There is no need... Power isn't not caring-it's having seen all the monsters up close even been bitten, drained or scratched by a few and still being able to care...that's a power that I've been told terrifies some people... That's ok I don't like a fraidy cats... I like a man that can read and write...but can he comprehend? NymphetamineDrm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    F*** U - PLACEBO There's a look on your face I would like to knock outSee the sin in your grin and the shape of your mouthAll I want is to see you in terrible painThough we won't ever meet I'll remember your nameCan't believe you were once just like anyone elseThen you grew and became like the devil himselfPray to God I can think of a kind thing to sayBut I don't think I canSo f**k you anywayYou are scumYou are scumAnd I hope that you knowThat the cracks in your smile are beginning to showNow the world needs to see that it's time you should goThere's no light in your eyes and your brain is too slowCan't believe you were once just like anyone elseThen you grew and became like the devil himselfPray to God I can think of a kind thing to sayBut I don't think I canSo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywayBet you sleep like a child with your thumb in your mouthI could creep up beside, put a gun in your mouthMakes me sick when I hear all the shit that you saySo much crap coming out, it must take you all dayThere's a space kept in hell with your name on the seatWith a spike in the chair just to make it completeWhen you look at yourself do you see what I see?If you do, why the f**k are you looking at me?Why the f**k are you looking at me?Why the f**kWhy the f**k are you looking at me? There's a time for us all and I think yours has beenCan you please hurry up, 'cause I find you obsceneI can't wait for the day that you're never aroundWhen that face isn't here and you rot undergroundCan't believe you were once just like anyone elseThen you grew and became like the devil himselfPray to God I can think of a kind thing to sayBut I don't think I canSo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anywaySo f**k you anyway. I really can't be bothered with anything else after all that driving today.... Catching up with an old friend can be quite tiring... NymphetamineDrm

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Had my Heart broken MORE times then I've had Hot Dinners!...and I haven't broken a Heart YET!...I've always been the"'Dumpee"...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ive broken 2 hearts and mine has been broken twice ;p

  • RHP

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    15 years ago

    yes, and regret. but its no less than i deserve for making that sweet angel cry. i still love her, even though i havent seen her in 12 years.