Brisbane Wife Seduction - What Do You Think?

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I think she would feel very deceived and upset when she finally found out, even though you probably feel that you are just trying to help her. I like my wife getting attention from other men, but she draws all that in herself, then tells me about it.You obviously have a strong desire to see her lead a more sexual lifestyle but that doesn't seem to be what she wants. Maybe there is some middle ground that could be reached ?MrA

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  So go for it. Have fun. She either accepts or doesnt and ultimately the decision is hers to make anyway. Yes I would do it. It appeals to my sense of challenge.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Thanks for your encouragement, Fionabee. Did you take the time to read the full description on my profile? If so, even more thanks!

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  What happens if your wife does indeed get it on with the "applicant", not tell you, go through all the feeling of guilt and anguish, finally comes clean and then you admit that you have known all along? That is just one big head fuck game you are playing there...hope it doesn't come back and bite you on the arse... If you think her lack of interest in swinging and visiting nude beaches stems from her body issues that you have so clearly stated in your profile...could you at least try offering to support her by offering to start a healthy lifestyle regime together, take her away for a weekend to a spa resort... If your intention is only to build your wifes self esteem then good luck with that, but if the whole exercise is just to simply get her back into the lifestyle that you used to enjoy, after she has told you that she is not interested anymore..then you are wasting your time

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Yes she will be hurt if she finds out you have deliberately set her up but hey, no one is going to go through all that if they dont find her attractive anyway. I think it may just be what she needs. Even a little innocent flirtation can make a woman look differently at herself. Self esteem is a funny thing and if you have some dysfunction, her subconscious may be telling her she is in part to blame. Even if she does not actually have sex with the person, talking, laughing, flirting, the odd coffee or lunch may just be enough to spark an interest in herself.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Anyone else want to comment? Anyone want to give it a go???

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Yes, it is nice to have someone find you attractive but in this instance I would leave it at getting someone to simply chat her up. She seems to have found her comfort zone and no amount of subterfuge by you is going to get her out of there. She needs to find her own way and forcing the issue may make her feel worse. You say she may have once liked the swinging scene but if that was the case why did she not continue with it?I know that if my partner did it to me I would be wondering why, if I was so attractive, did he have to ask someone to chat me up? I would be happier if my partner put more of an effort into finding treatment for his dysfunction or even brought home some special toys for us to play with.From what you describe in your profile it sounds like she may have depression. I suggest you sit down and try a gentle but honest talk about her feelings before trying anything.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  AKA MOOB. Well I don't know about anyone else, but i want to lick on that cherry nipple and dip my finger and that belly button. Unique choice profile photos. Umm not comment on your subject... Sorry :PAndrew

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  I dont think you should get anyone to deliberately chat or up or anything. What if she found out that she was set up?? If she was that unhappy would she not say so??

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Sooo...yeah i went and read your profile and gotta say you're either one evil son of a gun or the most loving husband ever (prob both haha) that shit is genius good luck to you buddy hope you find someone for your endeavour and all is well :)p.s. what the fuck is with your display pics tho?? both are of your nipple? hahahaha staunch mate

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  If its a paying gig, I'll seduce your wife. Your money is as good as anyone else's.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Thanks for your advice, all. I have taken it on board. But it would still be nice if someone were to run into her in the city and make her feel desirable, at least. Or even better, is there a nice, quiet near-Brisbane couple on here who could help me get her back into swinging? I know she loved it years ago but her self esteem has taken some big hits. She (we) are great value once we get going! I would love her to get more fun out of life than she is allowing herself to. Yes, of course I might benefit too, but it kills me to see her after work when I know how much fun she can be.

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  RHP User

  14 years ago

  Quoting 'Nick_Wilde' If its a paying gig, I'll seduce your wife. Your money is as good as anyone else's. Nick's a deviant, but he makes a good point. The difference between providing your consent and paying someone is only details. Far from bolstering her self-esteem (if that's what you're trying to do), you may cut it to ribbons. To me, your strategy has disaster written all over it.

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