Breaking the Ice at a Swingers Club

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  We are not good at starting conversations etc, but if there is a spa wait for others you like to jump in, Then you two strip naked jump in with them. Can assure you conversation will not a problem and them hands will start a wondering!

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  This is a really corny line but has worked everytime for me "do you come here often?". The other thing that I finds breaks the ice is having a fancy drink that you're willing to share. Going to costume parties also makes those first connections easier. Then of course there is always a spa that is the best. But I also think maybe taking time to get to know people and break the ice slowly is not a bad way to go we have met some wonderful people this way.

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  DonnaBrett

  15 years ago

  .....you're at a private party or a club? At a small private party, if the hosts are doing their job right, everyone will be introduced and sometimes the ice can be broken with party games. At a club (although they seem to be a dying breed nowadays), the 'Mexican stand-off' is quite common. We found that if it was a club with seating and you see someone that takes your fancy, go up to them and say "You're welcome to join us at our table?" This is better than just going up and sitting yourself down with someone invading their space & who may not be interested in you..which creates an awkward moment. By asking them to join you the pressure is off both parties...then if they join you take it from there..if they don't within a few minutes well it's obvious you're not their type...so keep looking.

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  DonnaBrett

  15 years ago

  Unfortunately the dreaded clique happens too often, it's a mystery to us why because people who are like that are only possibly making themselves miss out on meeting some nice people. It seems to be more common in the club scene, the now closed Mike's Place was the only club that seemed not to suffer from this type of thing which was good. "Generally" it doesn't happen at private parties unless most the people invited are from a club clique to start with...then it creeps in and alienates new comers. It's up to party hosts to ensure the right mix of people to prevent this happening.

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  At a party recently a man aproached us and introduce himself , then had a lenghty conservation with my wife about having performance difficulty ''sometimes', i remember thinking to myself ''thats a new one'' But then i thought about it, this is his thing, hes got her feeling sorry for him, he's not a scary stranger because his dick is shy. ''its frustrating cause i know how good i am'' haha he was a ice breaking jedi master;

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  RHP User

  15 years ago

  Hi, Try Stilletto's in melbourne. We went as newbies and the owners were great and we hooked up with another new couple very easily. Just start chatting to others who look like they are new too and you all get embarrassed together and who knows what it may lead to....we had a sensational time back our motel afterwards until about 4.00am.

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