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Branding men like cattle.......

January 27 2011

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So lately in the chat rooms it has come to my attention that some women (and particularly one at the moment!!) have taken to "branding" the men that they have meet up with and/or had sex with. Now personally this comes across as tacky and rather childish.....but it also begs the question.....why would you want to announce to 100 people ALL the men you have hooked up with??? And trust me....this one particular woman seems to he racking up the notches on her bedpost!!! Another question that arises from Cattle Branding is would you want to sleep with a woman ( or in some cases, man) who brands partners like beef????

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    sounds like she has serious daddy issues.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    What am I missing in the Chat Rooms? Lol.... < To answer your questions ... No, I would never ever ever allow anyone to brand me. If I met a guy that was branded I would point him to the closest Slaughter House as he must of got away from the herd! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I agree Alpha_Bitch I wouldn't.But I know some lovely people on RHP who may not advertise it but they could be considered Australia's largest Cattle farmers. And I say that with all due respect xxxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Out of bounds.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i really need to get in the chatrooms haha what the hell goes on in there??? so people have sex and leave marks to let others know they have been there??...do i have that right?? thats bad...BUT...i do know a girl that done that when she was a teen...use to bite them on the shoulder haha...which i always found funny cause she slept with a lot of boys and you could see each and everyone that she had been with but im a bit of a private person...yeah who would have guessed...so i really dont want anyone knowing who iv done and i really dont want to know who he has done either...im a bit fussy sometimes haha roxxy...hoping i have that right, or sorry for the ramble off topic lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well.. do you mean trophy welts? I had to admit to sporting those from time to time... errr... if they don't come off with a warm spar bath my mummy's going to see them and I'm in for terrible thrashing when I get home so I always try to be a good lil boy and come home welt free. What I hate most are nibble marks on the head of my cock... 'cause they take days to disappear and they look bad to my next customer... having to explain it all and that. HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I dont go into the chat rooms so can not comment on what goes on in there. However, I guess some people find solace in sheer numbers. It makes them feel desireable. Yes they will shout it to the rooftops, declare loudly to all within range how many they have had as a boost to thier own low self esteem. I have always found that those that crow the loudest are usually the ones doing it the least. Recently told by one I must be too fussy and by another that he was glad I was so fussy...cannot win either way. l I personally do not feel the need to have a huge stable of guys and a revolving door. I like a select few that I see repeatedly but each to thier own. I once explained it to a friend that if I had to stand in line at the supermarket, I join the shortes queue. When the queue for his attention becomes to long, I change to a shorter queue. The shorter the line, the happier I am. I am not a patient person. l When it comes to branding....Can I have the branding iron? I promise to only brand the arse. I can just see us ladies all lined up in leathers and high boots, whips in hand mustering the "men" into a corral. Hot and sweaty around the fire, drop your pants guys, but lets use a tattoo machine and not a branding iron...less pain.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ..... that people use it as a warning to "not go there".....personally I would not go where this particular Brander has been....just coz I don't want her slops (technically everyone is slops but some people's slops are nicer then others!!!!)....it also comes across as her being a bit of a grasscutter.....for example if you show interest in one of her cattle then BAM!!! She starts getting her violins out and reminiscing about her conquer :S If a friendship has been formed with a woman and they have shown interest in a guy, then cool...for me he's off limits but the way this Brander goes about it really gets my goat!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    To Burn your meat ... your choice. Me = No Thanks i dont get it but hey like i said each to thier own

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Ok please clear this up for me..are we talking bruises resulting from play (love bites, welts etc) or an actaul brand that is placed on a persons skin (as I was informed last year this is actually undertaken in some BDSM relationships) ? . If its bruises I wish to pass on some invaluable advice which was given to me - Arnica Cream (Have I told you I love you lately BBD?). This will clear up bruises quite quickly and effortlessly leaving your skin nice and clear of marks once again - dont know w=how this will go on the head of your cock Stalky - but please keep me informed. . I bruise very easily and often have marks on me not just from play but also from work and general day to day life. It cant be helped though sometimes it is intentionally caused...lol...but I draw a line at marks that are visible for everyone to see. . If we are talking BDSM style branding then sorry but he/she is definately off limits - thats their Masters and none elses . Personally though by what you have said - I think this brander has emotional issues - wanting to appear the Queen of 'her' domain and woe betide anyone who comes near 'her' subjects. She may also have a hard time dstancing herself from the physical act of sex and emotional attachements she may have (all of which is just my opinion of course) . Kisses Focus

  • playfulminx

    playfulminx

    15 years ago

    Man... It's been ages since I've posted but forever since I chatted... WTF goes on in there??Didn't girls at high school do that sort of thing? Leave or get hickies as a sign that they've done it etc?I really would not appreciate being marked. I did get a bad carpet burn once tho :(

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just a dog marking its territory really. Not happening!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I don't mean branding in the literal sense with a hot bit of metal seared against a persons skin. I meant it in the sense that she is making it known who she has been with from this site. Perhaps she DOES leave hickies on these guys......but I'll be damned if I am getting close enough to the guys to see!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i personally dont mind love bites, but only so long as they are out of sight... there is nothing more tacky than seeing a huge red bruise on someones neck.. all it does is make me think.... well someone got laid last night..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Alpha_Bitch'I don't mean branding in the literal sense with a hot bit of metal seared against a persons skin. I meant it in the sense that she is making it known who she has been with from this site. Perhaps she DOES leave hickies on these guys......but I'll be damned if I am getting close enough to the guys to see!!! That's tacky. And uncharitable LOL. Surely some things around this place should be sacred. The more people you've slept with, the less I am interested in you. However, I guess it would make for great disease history-tracing when you catch something from one of them!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Alpha_Bitch'I don't mean branding in the literal sense with a hot bit of metal seared against a persons skin. I meant it in the sense that she is making it known who she has been with from this site. Perhaps she DOES leave hickies on these guys......but I'll be damned if I am getting close enough to the guys to see!!! You sure I cant brand them with the irons? Not even one? pretty please?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Alpha_Bitch'I don't mean branding in the literal sense with a hot bit of metal seared against a persons skin. I meant it in the sense that she is making it known who she has been with from this site. Perhaps she DOES leave hickies on these guys......but I'll be damned if I am getting close enough to the guys to see!!! Isnt that just what the VALIDATION report is that RHP suggest we record on the profiles of people we have been with and how we find them so as to give others a 'headsup' on how good /bad / sexy /dog they are ..... Personally i would not validate someone unless they asked me to .. and then I would question the reason .. are they wanting to clock up a resumee of references ..??????????? and then ditch them like a hot potato ..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I can't agree more with Aplha... makes the brander sound way worse to me than the guys she has met or not met and just branded....and frankly having to read the dribble about it is boring ...and definately makes her look very childish indeed.. P.S this is my 1st post ever ..lol hope I did ok ...lmao

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    hahahaha wtf - i like the girls & guys who mention their roots/conquests etclets me know who NOT to meet...p.s & for the girls/guys who keep theirs quiet....i hear about them too in whispers lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    ....yes validating could be seen as the same thing as "branding" but I would only know about validations if I read them on profile I had searched for.....my point was that this is done in the chat rooms.....so that 99 other people all know at once.....that's why I wondered if it was a warning to others that she has laid a 'claim" over these men.......the other funny thing is that the guys don't confirm or deny....wonder what they think of it??? And yes Valley you did great for your first post!!! xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    that's rather distasteful . doing it in a chat room where the guy has no choice over whether it becomes common knowledge seems unsportsmanlike. . I'll write validatations for people but i'm not making claims on them, if they want to put it on their profile that's their choice, if the fact that they've had successful meetings helps them get more meetings then more power to them. That's what it's all about, IMO. . xx Sarah

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    isnt the same as branding.....i have validated people that i havent had sex with ....but have met...so know them to be genuine.the guys seem to dig the chicks that do the branding....but the chicks dont...and most wont fuck a guy thats been there.JMO...BJxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    These can also mean that the person actually knows you. It is not always about the sex. Many of my friends are just that....friends and if they validate me, it does not mean that I have had sex with them at all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee'These can also mean that the person actually knows you. It is not always about the sex. Many of my friends are just that....friends and if they validate me, it does not mean that I have had sex with them at all. so you didn't fuck Waggy? i'm kinda disappointed... ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I guess you dont mean my kind with a hot Iron in the forge and onto the raw hide ?????? you people just know how to get a cattleman going then let him down fast and hard //////// if you wish to leave a mark please make it somewhere where granny wont see OK Andy xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'fionabee'These can also mean that the person actually knows you. It is not always about the sex. Many of my friends are just that....friends and if they validate me, it does not mean that I have had sex with them at all. so you didn't fuck Waggy? i'm kinda disappointed... ;)Maybe I did and maybe I didnt. I do not kiss and tell.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'fionabee' Quoting 'curiousnewgirl78' Quoting 'fionabee'These can also mean that the person actually knows you. It is not always about the sex. Many of my friends are just that....friends and if they validate me, it does not mean that I have had sex with them at all. so you didn't fuck Waggy? i'm kinda disappointed... ;)Maybe I did and maybe I didnt. I do not kiss and tell. i'm just going to imagine that you did. oooh you naughty girl.... :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Gawd its bad enough they put there trohpy roots on cam everytime they score a different one.....Now i am not knocking cam play at all so don't jump at me...But when you are doing anything and everyone and on show for all to see how many different ones you have its ummm yeah...Oh and without condoms like hello STI city....No way i'd do the guys they just done thats for sure after seeing no protection and let alone something that has no self respect for themself to fuck just anything let alone brag about it.....But hey thats just me hehehe....I never brand my beef its spoils the meat hehehe Titty

  • platinumblonde69

    platinumblonde69

    15 years ago

    I agree totally Alpha...I hate how in the chatroom is public knowledge at times....Ive also discussed validations before as well...Sure at times it is great to know a person is real....but i find it distasteful to use validations as a "recommendations" for sex...cause they made me "cum and cum" and had "the cock to die for"...hahaha..Tacky...ewwwwww.... Plat xox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You have worked wonders ith this post...Valley's first post..Plats, MissBj, MsBlu all commenting on the same post..not forgetting your beautiful self. Ladies whose chat I miss considerably. It speaks wonders for this persons personality but I will go with a serious case of lack of self esteem..this gives her the benefit of the doubt as she could have one of ....a couple of personality disorders that spring to mind...lol Having been the recepient of ...no not one of her conquests.. but malicious gossip in the chatroom.which is how I would describe this, I let my membership lapse. Miss all five of you ladies xxxxx

  • N4November

    N4November

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'platinumblonde69' I agree totally Alpha...I hate how in the chatroom is public knowledge at times....Ive also discussed validations before as well...Sure at times it is great to know a person is real....but i find it distasteful to use validations as a "recommendations" for sex...cause they made me "cum and cum" and had "the cock to die for"...hahaha..Tacky...ewwwwww.... Plat xox I go through stages of popping into chat alot and then not very often.... Don't know about this branding thing, but it is an open chatroom afterall and most are there to flirt a little and who like to watch ;)  If people who have played together and want to have a flirty banter with each other in the room, who cares?  If someone is openly saying stuff and making claim on someone while that person ISN'T in the room - that would be totally INAPPROPRIATE!! However, I often hear and have seen several men get into an argument with a woman because she behaves like she has a stake on their opinions and who they choose to talk too!!  WTF?!  This communication is done by a barrage of whispers to the male while they go about their own business.  God, its like their mother is watching them and telling them "oh, don't talk to her, she's a skanky ho"...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'andreweagle' I guess you dont mean my kind with a hot Iron in the forge and onto the raw hide ?????? you people just know how to get a cattleman going then let him down fast and hard //////// if you wish to leave a mark please make it somewhere where granny wont see OK Andy xxxI did offer Andy. Seems like none were ...up....for it.

  • platinumblonde69

    platinumblonde69

    15 years ago

    Hey Now_or_Never...I did wonder where u got to...Its a shame that those kid of things have led to u no rejoining RHP..but I can fully understand why...Miss your friendly, genuine comments....xoxo TIT..I must say I also watched in amazement some cam sex where condoms were not used...Kinda a bad advertisement..But as u say...thats just our thoughts...lol.. MsBlu...Yes...Thats a definite plus when people discuss openly their conquests in chat...lol. Just another thought here...Do these women who brand men realise that men talk, just like women talk??? But like anything, never assume...If in doubt ask...You might be surprised in the answer u receive... Plats xoxox

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I'm lost now..

  • twowithnolimits

    twowithnolimits

    15 years ago

    Hmmm the general thrust of the majority on this (adult sexual dating site) seems to be that the more you have slept with someone the less popular the postees will find you, some even attempting to avoid you if you admit to having been with someone other than them lol, the logical conclusion to this line reasoning then is that if you remain a virgin you will be the most popular person here, but obviously unavailable!!! I am not sure exactly how many men a woman is allowed to sleep with openly admitting it? Is it the same number she is allowed to sleep with if she doesn't tell anyone? Smacks a bit of the old "a girls a slut" but "a guys a stud" mentality. Of course if the girl enjoys sex as much as the guys but admits it we could always fall back on the "she is immoral" attitude, or the "she has mental/emotional issues"..... btw i dont have a clue who you are all talking about because i avoid the chat rooms....they are too full of gossips ;-) Paul