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Brains or Muscle?? or Both?
December 03 2010
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RHP User
15 years ago
What I have learnt over the years.. you automatically put up a invisible barrier when mr muscles trys his usual terrible one liners on you. The first thing I think of is'.. is he getting off on trying to be the charmer because HE thinks I like his body as much as he does ???.. Pffft.. You always know when these guys are going to hit on you because they usually strutt into a room looking to see who might be looking at them and then position themselves somewhere in your line of vision and stand like they just got out of a fashion shoot.. ( yes' I can see you girls nodding' you know what Im saying ).. Truely' its finger down the throat stuff... and usually has a opposite effect. I dont care if a guy is muscle bound as long as he is a normal human being and doesnt pump his chest up to get attention. I meet a guy early this year who looked and acted quite normal and when we meet at the pool later on I was surprised how well built he was.. Now that was attractive because he behaved like a normal human being should.. Big Difference...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Is a 3some out of the question? xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
...asked me this morning to be naked in the bedroom at 2pm. So I was....but there wasn't anything "average" about it...he is still mysterious to me and blows me away with his thoughtful surprises. I'm a sucker for a Mr Average (not to be confused with Mr Boring). But you know, 10 years ago I didn't appreciate men as much as I do now....
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RHP User
15 years ago
Intelligence is sooo sexy..will always win me over........................providing he isnt too battered and out of shape.........hell can always take him to the gym with me !!..........dumb just stays dumb........would bore me to death.....and dumb men are dudes in bed anyway lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
Ladies, ladies, whilst I appreciate the sentiment expressed above, lets face reality - well RHP reality. Venture into the chatroom and have a look, the guy with the buldging biceps might not be able to string a coherent sentence together but the majority of women will be clamering over each other to get his attention. But the guy who might not have the physic of his youth is lucky to get a hello. Even here in the forums, a guy with abs will post and you can bet your left boob that there will be a pethora of women posting suggestive comments - even if the guy's message reads like a failed 3rd Grader's attempt at a sentence. Humans are visual creatures, well at programmed to respond to certain physical signs, we just can't help it. Mooka
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RHP User
15 years ago
if a guy rouses my curiosity, and he can only do that by talking to me and making comments that are a bit off the wall, he's got my interest. I don't know that looks have been that important to me, maybe cos I don't consider myself the most beautiful woman in the world. Anyway, someone has to stimulate my mind to get me into bed. . . . 90% of the time. WTG
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RHP User
15 years ago
Engage my mind and the body will follow. There are many sayings about this and most of them are true. You dont look at the mantel piece when stoking the fire. When you are 80 you are both gonna be ugly anyway so go for the one with personality.
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RHP User
15 years ago
i agree with fionabee , sorry can't type neck still sore ow Much Love Jonesy76
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RHP User
15 years ago
Having been fortunate enough to have sampled (what I would consider to be) the finest of both, I'd far prefer the brain over the muscles any day!
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deltoid
15 years ago
Muscles and brains that is. There are some guys that do have both, they are not mutually exclusive
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RHP User
15 years ago
Deltoid... All have both ' but in which order ? For your profile you choose a posing body pic' so is it your mind or body ??? To me it looks like you using your body ?? yes ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
Deltoid... seems your profile pic and user name suggests you are all about muscle ... ?????? What else can one think ?
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deltoid
15 years ago
Quoting 'justjuice' Deltoid... seems your profile pic and user name suggests you are all about muscle ... ?????? What else can one think ? I suppose the same thing could be said about your profile pic justjuice, all boobs no brain or anything similar. Of course I am not that judgemental and I try to not pass judgement based on narrow minded stero typing. But that is just me.
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RHP User
15 years ago
if I am out and a hot guy comes u< to me you all konw I ma not really going to care about what he can say just what he can do!!!!!!! for something a little more substantial than a one night sure I am going to want converstaion but damn it when I want sex I want sex and the hot guy standing in the corner is looking mighty fine.... so i can be shallow - oops! Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
All boobs and no brain just because I made a observation ? I think you would agree' my observation is correct or do my eyes deceive me ?
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RHP User
15 years ago
but its not a perfect world so i would pick muscle first because I am not looking for husband, just fun. Sometime dumb guys make me laugh so whay not? lol
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RHP User
15 years ago
He said exactly what you said to him, how can you get upset at that?'he just made an observation'
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RHP User
15 years ago
give me a guy with an athletes body anytime. Sorry don't mean to offend anyone but hate muscly guys and wouldn't touch them at all. Especially those guys that OBVIOUSLY take steroids to get where they are! I saw a profile on here and looked at the pics as he was very muscly (I like to play spot the steroid user) and to be honest his first pic was a turn off as it looked like he was a gorilla but with no hair in his pose lol. For sex only: Athletic guy For relationship: Give me a man with a brain over all else in a heartbeat But, I am greedy and want both! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
15 years ago
No... Im not upset' I know what he said was in retaliation to what I posted' and thats OK .. No dramas there.. This subject was always sure to put someones nose outta joint because the differences of opinion... But I must admit ' I had a lil giggle when you came in defence. Your pic was almost identical in pose' reminded me of a before and after..lol sorry' just seen the funny side of things..
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RHP User
15 years ago
I will choose neither; -I wont start conversation with a guy I'm not physically attracted to. -I wont continue conversation if the guy I'm attracted to happens to be a bit hollow up there neither. Both qualities are pretty important for me if I want to open my legs for him ;-)
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