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Paradisepair

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Born/Drawn This Way

April 21 2013

It recently occurred to me that I'm am simply a sexual being. That as a child I regularly played Dr's and Nurses and (it was the 70s) I remember playing 'wife swap', I guess something was going down in one of my friends' households for that concept to come up. As a teen I was sexually active before most of my classmates, I was also happy to engage in NSA type encounters until I 'settled down', again at an earlier age than most. Of the 3 major relationships I've had, 2 were built on a sexual foundation. I was always open minded but I did have one particular lover who taught me a lot about sex but it's not like he made me who I am today, he was merely an ingredient in the recipe. So my question to y'all is, assuming that you are here because you are sexually liberated, do you think you are intrinsically sexual or did something or someone trigger that part of you?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Sexuality.Its in me.DG

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Intrinsically a part of who i am

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It was destroyed a very long time ago and it has taken a life time to reclaim it. I'm now making up for lost time.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm yet to figure that out OP. I do like sex, but fear I'm a little too vanilla for this site at times. But am working on it :)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    My sexuality went dormant a few years ago and was re-awakened last year. Let's just say I'm back with a vengeance.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    In part we are all sexual beings. If you raise a boy and a girl child together, without benefit of tv (and this I have done), give them both access to boy toys and girl toys, a little girl will rock her dolly and a little boy will play guns. If no guns are provided they will make them out of sticks. It is atavistic, intrinsic. A convincing case can also be made for nurture over nature as well. Our environment does influence the way we act and think, how we perceive ourselves and others around us. To play wife swap, something indeed had to have been happening for that to come up and the majority of kids play Drs and nurses, mummies and daddies is another one. (Mummies and milkmen was always fun). For you to be liberal, sexually active at an early age, you would need to have been raised in a more open family life than that of many. I know myself, I have embraced NSA fun since I was 15. I also raised my two children and two stepchildren in a liberal manner. Two are out there embracing the lifestyle and two are stitched up prudes.,.. go figure!- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have always been keen and kinky...just never found the right stage to let it play out...or the right partners....

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I vividly remember when I was seven or eight I was playing with two girlfriends, A and M, in my parents' shed. A, who was a year older than M and I, decided we should get naked and kiss and touch, and she would tell us what to do and "film" us. Oh, if my parents had walked in on us... Though the real beginning of the end was when my niece pointed out my uncle's very extensive porn magazine collection to me...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    a traumatic childhood for making me the sexual deviant freak I am today

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yes, I'm guilty, definitely a sexual critter :) But, there's nothing better than being sexually intimate with someone special. Some people may be happy with faceless, nameless sex, but me, I prefer to know the person/people involved, and for me the more intimate the better. Hp xo

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Yep I remember the good days of doctor and nurses and the touch n feel games. Being the youngest in the family my sister always had her older girlfriends over and my curiosity as to what an older girl looked liked,felt like with no cloths on always got the better of me. I lost my vaginity a lot younger than any of my mates did and i have always been experimental/couirous when it came to sex. I remember finding some videos and toys in my pearents room in my teens and thinking wow WTF is this (yep i was snooping) There is a saying the fruit don't fall far from the tree so guess its in the geans. Or just makes me a dirty/kinky bastard :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I played Dr's and Nurses as a child and I still want to play it as an adult. FOXY

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'sirlurkalot'I'm yet to figure that out OP. I do like sex, but fear I'm a little too vanilla for this site at times. But am working on it :)- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I was always sexual and very interested what sex concerned. I read everything I could get my hands on. And yes played doctors and nurses and got punished for it when our parents found us doing it. Sex I saw all around me, the adults did it played with it. I couldn’t understand why sex was so “dirty” when everybody did it. To get a healthy sex life you have to get your head around it. I think people born like me had a lot of hang-ups. Sex, being sensual is now very normal for me. However I can not just have sex when someone just sends me one message and wants to meet. I need a bit more and to get to know the person I will engage in sex with.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    When I was about 7 - 8 yrs old, a much older 11 yr old neighbour took me by the hand ' lead me into the lantana bushes in her frontyard.. ( they had a very bushy front yand ) and told me to take off all my clothes. She did the same and I can remember my little stiffy standing up when I seen she had some hair on her pussy.. Then she laid down and instructed me to be the doctor and look her over.. I can remember one of my instruments was a stem on paspalium grass which I whisped all over her pussy and she giggled ' she asked me to keep on doing it.. All of a sudden her mother appeared and told us to get dressed and me to go home.. THAT was the start of my awareness of my sexuality which I consider is a instinctive part of what we are all about...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I am shy and reserved, so i was a late starter. Its hard for me because i need sex, but i will not initiate it (I will not lead).LOL lucky men know their job.Ive mostly always been in a relationship since i was 18 (i love sex, wanted it alot more than my ex) Being single sent me here :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    always been very interested in sex, and remember some very early naked games with my (female) next door neighbour. Then I found my mother's old Cleo and Cosmo magazines from the early 80s which of course gave me some very strange ideas about sex and made me all the more curious. I don't think it was until my mid 20s though, after coming out of a very long term relationship - that I realised just how much I did love it. I hate having to go without....I'm in the middle of a drought at the moment and I'm climbing the fucking walls!!!!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I consider RHP to be reasonably straight/conservative when it comes to sex. Don't you agree?? Or have I been corrupted? I too was always interested in sex and joked about it and spoke about it. Yes I convinced the boys in my kindergarten class to show me their willies, I also played nurses and nurses with other girls (lol). Someone dubbed me Porn Queen in high school. But overall I was not sexually active as a teen...again the Nuns drumming into out heads that it was wrong. It's only when I hit 40 that I really felt comfortable to explore my full sexuality & have began to understand that I am not cut out to be vanilla. :D

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    It just seems to be a very big part of me and always has been.I just adore sex

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I have been busted as a child so many times playing sexual games, I can think of 10 instances of humiliation immediately. As a teen I would be so more daring than my peers. In my 40's I chat openly with neighbours who are still shocked that I have my 'brown wings'. If only they knew the full extent.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Ok to start off with hubby was always a naughty boy and probably wasnt spanked hard enough (but thats OK, im more than happy to put him in his place as and when we role play...he he. As for me i was a late bloomer and right now, i crave it sooooo much more than he does that i wish i had of got it over and done with when i was a younger and maybe i wouldnt want to be so wild these days....but am loving it despite taking my time to get here. Mrs Bi- Posted from rhpmobile

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm the youngest and the only boy in the family where I was brought up with mum and several sisters.So, I'd say I have always been comfortable with females being around, having all my sis friends around and etc.There were always cleo and cosmo mags in the house and though I never paid any attention to them until one time (not at band camp) I used them as shin pads for soccer. Whilst waiting around at the field and having a sausage roll, I just opened it and started to brisk through. I was facinated with the sealed section which was about orgasm. I only knew general primary school science. From that day, when no one was around I would look to read (& perve) the mags and educate myself. Through to my first sexual experience in early high school, and after my first time, I thought sex was over rated, but oral sex...far far different. I dunno, just loved how one moves to the beat and stroke of my tongue, the breathing, the throbbing and the taste between a girls legs..that and how to press one's buttons from where to touch and where to give goosebumps.. Though there was a big gap from my first experience to more consistent experiences due to sporting commitments when older, I never forgot what I learned and have experienced to grow more and more..

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