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Body Language

July 27 2011

now we all know most communication is non verbal. now i will be the first to admit that i am rubbish at working out body language. people who have a naturally flirty and bubbly personality i find most confusing and have had a few times i completely misread the situation and gone in only to realise that is just their personality (after making a fool of myself and going in for the kill).there is only one signal that i am able to decipher accurately. say for example a guy is talking to a girl in a pub/club and he compliments her in a crude and slightly sexual manner and the girl bites her bottom lip it means she is interested. in the bedroom in response to a bit of dirty talk is basically giving the green light to proceed.so what are other subconcious body language expressions that mean one thing, that the sender of the body language can't help but display?

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RHP User

14 years ago

Great topic !! I have no idea if I bite my lip? But I think I tilt my head when I am talking to someone I really want or if I am flirting, I can't help looking at their lips and I think I might unconsciously lick my lips as well. If I touch you, particularly on the leg, well I reckon you have a pretty good chance of getting in my pants. : ) xx Meeka

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RHP User

14 years ago

i usually crank up the humour and cheekiness if i like someone

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RHP User

14 years ago

If you cross your arms, you are not accepting of the situation or what is being said. People who are lying look down and to their left Someone who actually likes you adopts a softer tone in thier voice when they are talking to you. Two people sitting together who mimic the other's way of sitting...(eg one elbow on the table) are comfortable together. Person leaning in towards you over a table, they are into you.

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RHP User

14 years ago

nice, will keep an eye out for those things next time i am out. think everyone has had some frustration with someone saying one thing with their mouth and another thing all together with their body language

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RHP User

14 years ago

@meeka In that case, I'd be happy to let you touch my leg!

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RHP User

14 years ago

If I got a compliment in a crude manner...the only reason I would be biting my lip is to stop me from abusing the absolute hell out of him! If a woman plays with her hair that means she is into you...but...if she is looking at her split ends...then I reckon she is bored! xFunlovingx

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'xFunlovingx' If I got a compliment in a crude manner...the only reason I would be biting my lip is to stop me from abusing the absolute hell out of him! If a woman plays with her hair that means she is into you...but...if she is looking at her split ends...then I reckon she is bored! xFunlovingx tempted to go there but a bit of sense kicked in and decided it probably isn't a good idea :)

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RHP User

14 years ago

If people don't like what you're saying they might pull or scratch their ears or put a finger in it like they are cleaning it out and sometimes, they just have an itchy ear... also A persons pupil will dialate in relation to interest in or empathy with another person or if they are sexually arousal.... err... or just if they are in low light. So don't forget to bring along your standard issue night vision gogles when going on a date, so you can check. Jjust to be sure people!

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RHP User

14 years ago

assuming all the chit chat is fine , i will always make my decision from the way a woman looks at me...her eye contact ! i have tried to read everything else...but i'm never too sure. so for me , its her sexy looks......mmmm

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naughtymissxena

14 years ago

I think when the girl in question seductively rises from her seat and slowly runs her hand down your arm till she reaches your hand then grabs it and starts dragging you in the direction of the bed you can take that as a bit of a hint she may have sexual intentions towards you. x

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RHP User

14 years ago

Mr JJ here... The eyes are the windows to the soul and can speak a thousand words with just one look. I can usually tell if a girl is interested when they lock eyes even for a few seconds. Nothing is said ' its just a moment that seems like nothing else on earth is important but that moment. That is the signal , and like 'burngeorgebush' says,I feel comfortable and I crank up the cheekiness then take it from there... The eyes have it.... I have no doubt about that

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'naughtymissxena' I think when the girl in question seductively rises from her seat and slowly runs her hand down your arm till she reaches your hand then grabs it and starts dragging you in the direction of the bed you can take that as a bit of a hint she may have sexual intentions towards you. x it is within the realms of possibility

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RHP User

14 years ago

you have the capable art of captivating people as your posts show, activating a woman's desire remains elusive(for many of us) and initiation unknown. Perhaps give subtle eye contact at her as you converse and notice if she admiringly looks at you in kind. Be present but not a pest. A crude compliment is not a compliment at all to most women. I should know, I am one.

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'MrandMrsErotic' you have the capable art of captivating people as your posts show, activating a woman's desire remains elusive(for many of us) and initiation unknown. Perhaps give subtle eye contact at her as you converse and notice if she admiringly looks at you in kind. Be present but not a pest. A crude compliment is not a compliment at all to most women. I should know, I am one. i have the art of captivating people? well that is news to me . thanks for the tips. with crude compliments i play things by ear, i don't just jump into crudeness unless i think that will go down well with that particular lady. where possible i like to use my sense of humour and cheekiness to my advantage but it isn't always sucessful. oh wells

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RHP User

14 years ago

The perfect test would be to get into my personal space, so that. Can basically feel the heat of your breath, make body contact, like hand on my arm, or if in a busy bar, leaning so there is touch (not grope) and try to hold my gaze or stare deep into my eyes. If pretty much any of those things are done to me, I'll instinctively react, if I wasn't interested I would natural step back so the close talking and touching wasn't possible and I won't look into your eyes, as the last thing I want is to send the wrong message, which could lead to awkward? BUT... If the I was interested I think the attraction I feel makes me try those things out to see if the feeling is mutual. So if a girl for no real reason stands closer to u than normal, touches your arm, catches your gaze for a moment or two more than normal, and in my case maybe giggles a little to much, say the odd thing that makes no sense as experience mind blanks for conversation because my mind has moved to a norti place, fidgety, blushing and could quite possibly just run off embarrassed if u let her ramble too much! Haha love those adrenaline combined with a billion butterflys fluttering inside and also those electric shots that fire thru your groin when your mind flashes an x-rated idea of what u really want to be doing ;)

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RHP User

14 years ago

Quoting 'BoobaliciousFG' The perfect test would be to get into my personal spacebut if someone went straight into your personal space before you had even talked to them that wouldn't go down too well right? would definately be trying to assess the situation before going into the personal space. either way you got some pretty good advice there

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RHP User

14 years ago

Then it would only work for me if there was an appropriate amount of staring at each other beforehand, sometimes you can tune straight in when holding an eye gaze and the body language that follows ;) non verbal truly works best in seduction as sometimes talking can take the focus away from those perfect windows of opportunity :)

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