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Blackout Sex
December 28 2011
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RHP User
14 years ago
La Petite Mort (the little/small death) is what the french call it. Generally occuring at the point of orgasm. Fascinating stuff. Not that common an occurance, I"m impressed....you must have done VERY nicely.
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RHP User
14 years ago
maybe this woman had a 'petit mal' brought about by the onset of orgasm? Un 'petit ajustement' tandis qu'en butte à la passion ? sensationnel !
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RHP User
14 years ago
Kind of.... Back about 30 years I was giving it to a sexy young thing doggy style and just as she orgasmed she had an epileptic fit. Talk about shudder! Everyone else is a starfish compared to the moves from that lass. :)). We're still good friends incidentally. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
14 years ago
BDSM'ers call it 'breath play'. Hypoxia, oxygen starvation, a form of 'edge play'. Google 'breath play' and you'll get a real good idea of why you need to be very careful. It does give an intense orgasm, some think it as strong as a 'cocaine-assisted' orgasm, but not done right, it'll kill you! (or a fair number of brain cells). I don't have enough functioning brain tissue to risk losing any more.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I became somewhat experienced at breath play some years back with a particular tall, leggy, busty brunette. The only time I ever did breath play was with her, but over the course of a two year relationship, I became 'practiced.'At first, I wasn't aware of what was going on, as she nor I was aware that this was a form of 'edge play'. She told me she wanted to scream as loud as possible during orgasm. After a few episodes which were quite satisfactory, I remembered something I had done as a teenager, without sexual content: I held my breath while some big brute compressed my chest by squeezing me. I passed out, and he thought I was faking, so he dropped me. When I collapsed into the ground and showed no signs of life, he and all the onlookers panicked and ran off as they thought I was dead. I woke up alone in a deserted playground with a mouthful of dirt: every kid there had piled onto the bus to escape as fast a s possible.Lesson 1: When you do breath play, make sure there is someone to rescue you when you're helpless.When this nascent memory surfaced, I wondered if my brunette girlfriend and I were doing something similar. I began to modify her breathing and discovered by accident perhaps the safest form of 'breath play': chest compression.With me actively engaged in stimulating her pink bits, I had her masturbate almost to orgasm (her preferred method, anyway), and at the moment when she was certain that her orgasm was certain, but not yet attained, I would rise up between her legs, and in one motion as she screamed, penetrate her to the full length of my shaft. As she continued screaming (emptying her lungs of air), my weight (100 kilos) on top combined with my arms wrapped around her squeezing her rib cage, would induce a state of euphoria brought on by hypoxia. Then, as I pounded my manhood into her, I would listen carefully, and at the moment her screams peaked, I would empty my load into her (she loved bareback).I thought it was my sexual prowess (my dick!) that made her pass out. My fragile male ego was a bit bruised when I figured out that the poor girl was out of breath and oxygen starved.She told me she never failed to get 5 of the most intense orgasms ever.We had a great relationship for about 2 years, then she dumped me for a rich lawyer ( at least she traded up).And that taught me a good lesson which I have learned well:"You can lose a lot of money chasing women, but you don't lose any women chasing money"I never forgot her, .... or the lesson!
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RHP User
14 years ago
not to me but a similar thing has happened to a friend of mine, he was down doing his best tounge massage on his girl's clit when she came so hard she was litterally parylised for 6 weeks from the waist down and spent time in a wheel chair .. fully recovered now but it certainly scared the both of them until the Dr told them it was only temporary
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'mikeandshel'maybe this woman had a 'petit mal' brought about by the onset of orgasm? Un 'petit ajustement' tandis qu'en butte à la passion ? sensationnel !
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RHP User
14 years ago
sexe dangereux ?
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N4November
14 years ago
I'm not sure if its because I'm multi-orgasmic, but I find that I do hold my breath between orgasms, which now that I think about it, does increase the intensity. I especially love when I am in the doggy position and I start to loose consciousness and it makes me feel like I am floating down in the most wonderful feeling of euphoria... until my body physically shifts that wakes me again to draw breath. Maybe it lasts only a couple of seconds in reality, but in the moment it is wonderfully long and leaves me in such a state of sexual bliss. I laugh and say its nature's natural high ;)
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ouah ! Je suis vraiment la vanille, je pensais que c'était des rapports sexuels lorsque l'alimentation a échoué!
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just wear my snorkel and flippers.... stay close to the surface though!
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RHP User
14 years ago
la vanille est sexy !
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RHP User
14 years ago
That's when the baby boom begins isn't it...Blackouts - no power ergo no television and nothing else to do but go to bed early :) I have never blacked out but have experienced an acute headache after orgasming - coital cephalalgia - sexual headache - the pain was severe and sharp behind the eyes...and left me thinking that maybe what the Catholic nuns had told me was true..."don't masturbate or you will go blind!" The headache lasted for a few hours... Thankfully I have never experienced it again...the eyesight is failing a bit though!
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RHP User
14 years ago
Msboobyz here Never blacked out but there have been quite a few times where I have been left completely numb from the waste down for 5 - 10 mns after a very intense orgasm. Mr thinks its very funny
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RHP User
14 years ago
Erotic asphyxiation is said to heighten orgasm, Lots of elderly men die from it & mr INXS may have died from it. Years ago a young artists did die from itAs far as blackouts go, in a 3-some a few years back the lady who joined us who'd been tampered with as a kid & was doing some kind of cosmic psyche treatment would go to another planet when she orgasmed. She did it a few times from G-spot stim & she really went off with the pixies for about 30 seconds then she'd land back here & go wow! I asked my wife who is a psyche professional if she was maybe experiencing buried trauma & she said it was possible. Tampered young often go back to that era & there was pleasure associated with it which of course builds the guilt associated with what has happened to them.Just my 2 cents worthDamon
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting Damon_Diggler: Tampered young often go back to that era & there was pleasure associated with it which of course builds the guilt associated with what has happened to them. OMG!!!! are you for real...I hope you are not speaking for ALL "tampered young"
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RHP User
14 years ago
Cat i think i can explain what Damon meant. I have an adorable male friend who was molested by his brother, he is not capable of enjoying sex now as an adult becuase every time he feels pleasure he looses his errection BECAUSE although what he experiences was horrifying, the pleasure that his body felt which he was horrified that it did but of course it did through stimulation has completely fucked with his head forever and now he can never have sex again. Psychologically his head is done in because he feels guilty that he couldn't stop his body from responding the way it was designed to even though he was being abused and he's utterly ruined because of it now. It has rubbed salt in the wounds of the abuse and made it even more difficult to deal with. Just added another nasty twist, another horrible layer. He's a darling too, would make an amazing partner and daddy but he's too injured psychologically.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I deeply feel for your friend goodgrlzsayplz...but at the risk of exposing my inner demons...I have experienced this trauma...and not once was it pleasureable or stimulating...frightening, scared of threats that were made...bruised internally and externally...unlike your friend I can enjoy sex now - but that was only after a few years of therapy... so I reiterate: I hope Damon_Diggler is not speaking forALLtampered young.
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RHP User
14 years ago
A similar experience for me
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RHP User
14 years ago
Just by way of experience, I mean, I am no doctor, but your friend would likely benefit from popping a slug of the big blue V. Anxiety will cause a dude's erection to fail miserably, but Viagra is capable of helping him through it, physically .... and then of course, having faced the desirable situation confidently, without fear of flashing back, ultimately he wont need it at all... a case of been there done that.As for Damon_Diggler's comment, we all know people create defence mechanisms that suit themselves... that is, they're individual... so, even if there are recognisable patterns of behaviour, there's no one predictable universal long term "symptom" attributable to child sex abuse. HugsStalky
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