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Beppy sponges: a question for the men

October 23 2013

Step right up, step right up gentlemen of the forum, I have a very delicate question to ask of you which I am asking on behalf of all the lovely women. Beppy Sponges. We use them when we have our period. There is no string and pretty much no sign at all that we have our period or that we are using a beppy sponge. So our questions are: 1. Have you ever had sex with a woman who had a beppy sponge inserted... could you feel it during sex? Or fingering, etc2. Do you have any preferences. Would prefer the woman to tell you she is on her period and has a sponge inserted or do you prefer not to know, assuming that you will never feel it and never know. (By the way, it completely blocks anything so oral sex is completely fine while the Beppy sponge is inserted.)3. Or would you prefer just to let the blood flow. So, what say you?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    1. No2. It may certainly block everything but for me I would want the courtesy of being told so I can can choose as opposed a - Oh BTW .... during or afterwards.3. Not for me but hey, each to their own is fine by me.Cheers W.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    12 years ago

    Meeka,   1) Ex never used them - don't think she knew about them.   2) & 3) Personally have never bothered me as far period flows go, but I know some ladies & guys are not particularly fond of sex when flows are heavy. Individual tolerance issues ?   Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm thinking about trying these, so am very interested in the responses....

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    12 years ago

    Interested to hear if men can detect them.... I used them with my long term partner and he couldn't feel them - or at least never said he could! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Will be following this thread with much interest- Posted from rhpmobile

  • On_Safari

    On_Safari

    12 years ago

    Thank 🙏 GOD i DON'T DO THAT SHIT anymore!!!! God Bless my gyno and not having a womb anymore!!!! And I don't get headaches/migraines either 💃- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    How the hell do you get them out if there is no string and you can't feel them while be fingered? How do you reach it?- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Isn't always easy and a few times I have been tempted to get the kitchen tongs. Let's just say you have to fish around for it particularly if you have had a vigorous pounding. Know wheat I mean ;-) JessicaRabbit, my regular friend looked at me like I was nuts... He said Of course he could feel it. Mind you the times I have mentioned it to him he hasn't said anything so.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    That was meant to say the times I haven't mentioned it to him and he hasn't said anything so.... Was he really aware of it? Amarella, sure it feels different but can a penis detect the difference in texture? Would it be that sensitive?

  • luvsilver

    luvsilver

    12 years ago

    have not had sex with someone using the Beppy. However a stripper/escort that I use to do some security work and driving for use to use them all the time.Her bucks nights strip show use to involve the use of dildos on herself as well as a large dildo she had placed hanging out of the bucks open zipper (the balls holding it in place) that she proceeded to bounce up and down on. No one was ever the wiser that she was using the sponge including her clients on the escort side of things. Mr Luvsilver

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    when it's on it's on, and it ain't on unless it's on

  • Paradisepair

    Paradisepair

    12 years ago

    But he knows my body intimately so maybe with a new partner he couldn't tell...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    In quick answer to the questions:1) Yes, strangely (or not) with several ladies... and sometimes I could feel it sometimes I couldn't. It all depended on the position and how she was feeling at the time (go hard and deep or slow and gentle, on top or from behind etc etc). The last time I felt it was because she had used one of those sea sponges you can get from the chemist, the kind you trim to fit, and she didn't quite trim it enough (she complained of feeling uncomfortable).2) My preference? It is her body, her menstrual cycle and her emotional state. I prefer whatever she felt comfortable with because if she isn't comfortable then she won't enjoy herself and thus neither will I. Have only had one lady tell me she had one in before getting busy and I didn't feel it that time.3) See answer 2. I've never been squeamish and so never had a problem... unfortunately most ladies I've been with have been more embarrassed with the results (messy sheets/clothing and the shocking "Dolmio grin") and on a few rare occasions have fled to the bathroom and locked themselves away (takes quite a lot of effort to talk them back out so we can discuss like adults).(OK so not such a quick answer)So since the question is related to the thread, here is a small bounce back to the ladies:a) How do you feel about question 2, would you prefer the man to know and would you in all honesty tell him, would his response change your attitude to him?b) Do you, like some of the ladies in my limited experience, get so horny at that time of the month that you wouldn't really care what the man thinks (until after the horndrenalin subsides)?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    The sponge is the prostitute's best friend . It maintains productivity . I have had sex with Women who use this device but I don't care if she uses one or not . GG♒️- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I'm happy to allow the blood to flow during sex but as for oral I'd like to be told of any devices so I can make my own mind up... It's simply called respect :)) besides if one is good with the hands the need for oral may not be required ?? The old saying goes never just something that bleeds for 4 or 5 days and doesn't die lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Then why wouldn't you just fuck with the flow?? Seems to be another pointless exercise fishing around inside your body to retrieve the sponge. All I get from this, is that those who use them - each to their own of course - only do it to appease their partners desire/insecurity. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Gee, so if men like it we have to go with the flow, if men don't like it we should have the sponge. Well I never realized women don't have a choice in the matter and aren't allowed to have a preference. How silly of me to think that. FFS! 👎 I find not all women are comfortable with a man going down on them while they have their period. So SL of you like having a clown grin good for you... Doesn't mean the woman is going to like it. Seriously I can't believe your comment. I hope you are more sensitive than that if a potential lover mentions it to you.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's not a device it's a sponge. Also it completely stops anything passing the sponge so going down on a woman shouldn't be any different to any other time I don't think? I have gone to swingers clubs using a sponge.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    By the way the sponge is fantastic... You can completely forget you have your period and allows you to go to the nude beach, go have your Brazilian done, play your sport, etc etc. so you know what.... Not everything we do is for men. Think about it.... Would you like having a string hanging out of your arse for 5 days? LOL!

  • JessicaRabbit

    JessicaRabbit

    12 years ago

    a vagina feels spongy anyway. I don't think with the beppys (maybe other sponges are different) you could feel it unless you knew your partner..err...inside and out? Hahaha. Anyway I think they're a God send! Jess xx- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And I repeat the subject line.... IF IT WAS THAT IMPORTANT. And I will repeat my last comment.... It seems as though women that use the sponges are only doing it to appease someone else..... Why would you do that??? - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'sirlurkalot' Then why wouldn't you just fuck with the flow?? Seems to be another pointless exercise fishing around inside your body to retrieve the sponge. All I get from this, is that those who use them - each to their own of course - only do it to appease their partners desire/insecurity. - Posted from rhpmobile I don't even know where to start with this comment...It's not only some men that don't like having oral sex / intercourse while the woman has her period, a lot of women don't like it either. The idea that women only do this to appease men, is absolutely ridiculous. I don't mind having sex when I have my period, but only with someone I know well / a long term partner. So if there's a method that will allow me to have sex with a new / more casual partner during that time, then I'm damn well going to want that option, and I don't care whether the guy says he's ok with it, I'm going to go with what *I* want, thankyou very much. And a bit of 'fishing around' is an extremely minor inconvenience in the scheme of things.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Messy kinky dirty fun!!! Hot!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Did you actually even bother to read my comment? Seriously of that's working for you .. Keep on with it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    It's important to women... And sorry a man is never going to know how it feels. So a bit of respect please.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' By the way the sponge is fantastic... You can completely forget you have your period and allows you to go to the nude beach, go have your Brazilian done, play your sport, etc etc. Just don't forget to take it out... toxic shock can be a bitch... just ask my first girlfriend!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    if a woman wants to use a sponge, because that is her choice and her preference, do you want to be told before sex or are you happy to not know about it. My question is not want a man things of period sex or what he prefers in regards to that. That is another question all together.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Your posts usually scare the pants off me (not in a good way!) but this one made me giggle. Well put :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Actually that was my third option. Oops. So SL you have made your views known, may I request that if you are not prepared to stay on topic that you do not contribute to this thread any further. Thanks.

  • him_and_me

    him_and_me

    12 years ago

    Ok, I couldn't resist I've gone to look these things up online. For those who use or have used them do you recommend the dry or wet option? x Me

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Amicus75' Quoting 'Meeka100' By the way the sponge is fantastic... You can completely forget you have your period and allows you to go to the nude beach, go have your Brazilian done, play your sport, etc etc. Just don't forget to take it out... toxic shock can be a bitch... just ask my first girlfriend! Toxic shock syndrome is sometimes associated with tampon use (I don't think that many people realise though, that half of all cases are found in non-menstruating people - female and male), and occasionally with contraceptive sponges. I'm trying to find info on whether beppy sponges can also be associated with TSS but not having much luck. It's not actually known for sure why tampons can cause it - whether it's from them being left in place for a long time and breeding bacteria, or if the super-absorbent fibres scratch the surface of the vagina and allow bacteria to enter the bloodstream.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    but didn't realise I still could with the merina in place. Doesn't it damage the strings?No-one has ever noticed and no I didn't inform, irregular bleeding patterns make it hard to organise play around periods, so it's an option other than cancelling or having to talk periods with someone I may not know that well. I do however have short fingers and boy can getting it out be a bitch, lucky Hubby isn't the squemish sort!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'sirlurkalot' And I repeat the subject line.... IF IT WAS THAT IMPORTANT. And I will repeat my last comment.... It seems as though women that use the sponges are only doing it to appease someone else..... Why would you do that??? - Posted from rhpmobile Sirlurk....I must say....with the utmost respect....that you are talking out of your arse. Sometimes you make so much sense and then sometimes you come out with crap like this.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    something designed to be used for having sex during a period, or just one of the five hundred billion types of sanitary thingies?Mado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Thank you Meeks and Luckdragon, for that explanation. It's sometimes like extracting teeth to find out some more information. But I think you both answered the question Meeks has posed. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I don't take offence to much. I may struggle with my articulation at times. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    This is from the website....... 😎 Beppy Comfort Sponges (also called stringless tampons) Beppy Comfort Sponges are specially designed, cordless Sponges. They are invisible and unnoticeable.Moreover, they are safe and hygienic and last longer than normal tampons. Up to 8 hours even. For the good things in life. Like sauna, sports, swimming, going out, making love (without loss of blood!) and all other things you happen to fancy. You are an active person and the last thing you want is to have to hold back during your periods. Beppy is a hygienic, soft, round sponge with a flexibility adapting it to your contours. You really will not notice it. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Soft tampons which are much cheaper than the beppy brand.

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    since they are designed for use with having sex, then I don't think it would matter, if I knew or not.Mado

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' , do you want to be told before sex or are you happy to not know about it. I think it may be wise to let a guy know just in case he actually reaches it and isn't quite sure what it might be. He may be thinking that he has come about something unusual inside your body or even injured you in some way, particularly if he may not have crossed paths with these previously. Tall

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've never heard of these things before, I've heard of things like diva cups but beppys are new to me. Does the name mean anything in particular, or refer to something?Answers to Meeka's OP:1) No, or at least I don't think so. I really doubt it though.2) I'd REALLY like to know, because things can shift and fall out and about during sex. If I saw that inside a vagina and wasn't expecting it I'd be very surprised. If they work well I'd have no problem performing oral on a woman who had one inserted.3) Let it flow, let it flow.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    So I'm curious now, I have never heard of these things but a few thoughts crossed my mind, if a guy doesn't notice it, that means it is at least 6 inches or so up there, so even the longest fingers couldn't retrieve that? Secondly I was going to ask if it feels uncomfortable with it up there? But then I thought it would essentially be the same as a tampon, just me being a typical boy am imagining something about half the size of a dish sponge... Minus the scourer of course :P- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    No I have never had sex with a woman who has used one. It would be nice to know...just in case I feel the sponge or we do have some leakage/mess. I have not ever stopped having sex because of a womans period. If she is ok with it then I am ok. Towels to catch the mess and a shower together after is quite nice. A few women I have dated have been very aroused during this time of their cycle, so it would be a shame to waste those horny hormones.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    if you have a cord hanging out of your arse, your aim is not too good

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    My ex used them and I can only remember ever feeling it once. As far as knowing before hand that a lady is using one,I'd rather know if for no other reason than saving her an awkward explanation if I did happen to find it. And finally,when I'd hear mates complaining they were getting none for a week,I'd be cheerin' lol uninterrupted sex life.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'good_chap' So I'm curious now, I have never heard of these things but a few thoughts crossed my mind, if a guy doesn't notice it, that means it is at least 6 inches or so up there, so even the longest fingers couldn't retrieve that? Secondly I was going to ask if it feels uncomfortable with it up there? But then I thought it would essentially be the same as a tampon, just me being a typical boy am imagining something about half the size of a dish sponge... Minus the scourer of course :P- Posted from rhpmobile I haven't tried sponges myself (yet), but from having to fish out condoms that have come off and lodged up there, I can say that there are always ways of getting things out of there. Any object that goes up there should only be able to travel a certain extent, because the cervix (entrance to the uterus) in its normal state is very narrow and prevents most things getting past it. Of course, women's vaginas do vary in depth, so if a woman had a particularly deep vagina I guess it could be more fiddly if something got stuck.And it shouldn't feel uncomfortable...just like tampons you shouldn't be able to feel it at all if it's inserted correctly. Apparently the beppy sponges are a bit bigger than a golf ball, so they're not very big.I just ordered some to try, very interested to see how they go!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'him_and_me' Ok, I couldn't resist I've gone to look these things up online. For those who use or have used them do you recommend the dry or wet option? x Me After having a read about them I ordered the wet ones.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I just noticed your other question and no I will not have sex with a lady that's having her period. Firstly it's messy,and I'm squeamish,Secondly it limits foreplay,and probably not doing myself any favours in this environment but I think my strengths lie in the area rather than penetration.....Jess women are naturally spongy but it is a denser kind of spongy. I also can only speak from my experience,but my ex never had a problem removing them after use,they are easy to clean re usable and as for toxic shock syndrome,of course anything left inserted in the body will cause this,prompt removal and basic hygiene is all that is needed to avoid the problem. And I can't say that I'd care to meet someone that would leave something like that long enough to cause a problem such as that.

  • Genius_Ironman

    Genius_Ironman

    12 years ago

    An ex lover had used these, she said it was fine with guys who were average or smallish, but a decent size dick caused problems.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'good_chap'I thought it would essentially be the same as a tampon, just me being a typical boy am imagining something about half the size of a dish sponge... Minus the scourer of course :P They are similar to kitchen sponges in the way they feel. Tampons are much denser, and though it's certainly possible to have intercourse wearing a tampon, a beppy is much more comfortable. In my experience they add an inch or so to whomever is fucking me, which is great in most cases.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'Soft tampons which are much cheaper than the beppy brand. JoyDivision and Gynotex, both much cheaper!

  • cbteager

    cbteager

    12 years ago

    1 - No 2 - Yes please, I think it only polite and as others have mentioned if something does happen with it there are no surprises. 3 - I love having sex with a menstrating woman, used to do it lots with the ex. As long as she has a shower immediately before sex then I am happy to do the whole thing, oral and all with no sponge or tampon. After all my ex was so horny when she got going with her periods and that got me so much hornier.   What do I prefer a woman to use, whatever she wants. I'm with Meeka. It isn't for me it's for her. If she wants a lover to go down on her during her period, love to, if she doesn't, her call. We must all do what is comfortable and desirable to us first as long as it isn't wrong for the partner in which case I guess you just find common ground or say good night.   Steve

  • Mistress_Fukery

    Mistress_Fukery

    12 years ago

    I want to know about removal.. Does it involve some sort of kinky after sex game of fetch or taking role play to a whole new level; 'excuse me whilst I fetch my forceps'- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Question 1.We just "did it" every second weekend. It didn't matter whether she was menstruating.She didn't use sponges, she used tampons. There were times when we were that excited that we forgot about the tampon.Yes, I've "Gone Fishing" , Yes, I've "Chewed String"When you care about someone, When you're hot for her and she's hot for you, When you both want to be together, When you're in love, menstruation is just a word.Question 2.Again no sponge experience. But yes, I'd like to know if my Friend is menstruating. Personally, Doesn't worry me a rat's arse. I'd just like to know so that I can be considerate of her.Question 3.If you're in love with someone and she's in love with you, then if the cycle starts a day early or runs an extra day, whatever position both of you are in, you'll laugh about it and just keep going.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    What about casual dates or the first time you are with a woman? Lots of women use them when meeting up with casual lovers. And I bet most of the time they don't say anything.... Not too sure if I would but all your responses have been interesting.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I used a sponge, not a beppy though. I could not remove it for love nor money. After a couple of days I went to my GP and asked him to remove it. Never tried again after that.

  • cbteager

    cbteager

    12 years ago

    If a casual hook up occured on a menstrual cycle it would appear that a lot of guys here, me included, wouldn't mind but would like to know. Then again a lot of guys would probably be put off. Deep dark quandry there my dear.   Steve

  • madotara69

    madotara69

    12 years ago

    if you sneezeMado

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I guess your butt plug will come flying out.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100'if a woman wants to use a sponge, because that is her choice and her preference, do you want to be told before sex or are you happy to not know about it. My question is not want a man things of period sex or what he prefers in regards to that. That is another question all togetherno I don't mind its up to the lady if she want to tell me or not if they are that good that I cant tell .then I don't need to know.

  • pashfever

    pashfever

    12 years ago

    In regards to caring about periods and sex I have a saying- Every good sailor needs to sail the Red Sea atleast once in his life.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I think it's funny/stupid that women use this brand as they are relatively expensive compared to.ordinary makeup sponges which work exactly the same, are just as effective/absorbent, and easier to find in retailers.- Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I did all the reading about alternative brands etc and decided to purchase the Beppy anyway. Haven't used one during intercourse, though.If I am still up for it, I tell people if I have my P and let them decide. However I am usually in too much pain and discomfort to want sex when I'm menstruating. I think this is probably the case for a lot of women - not squeamishness.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I've used the beppy with great success. Whether I tell the guy or not really depends on how well I know them. A regular lover has commented that he can feel it, but not in an uncomfortable way. A casual partner I wouldn't bother telling. My lover always knows when I have my periods anyway....apparently I'm a little snappish   They can be fun to retrieve......there is a technique that makes it easier, ladies check out the thread in SWB.   Sir Lurk.....I choose to use them because I like the freedom they afford, I don't mind period sex......but not everyone is into earning their red wings!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Naive hmmm maybe I am Never heard of them where are they available??? Not that a little blood bothers me Let's face it not much stands In the way of a good time with me ;) I wouldn't mind weather I was told or not to be honest - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Only ever had one encounter with them, I personally couldn't tell it was there but the women I was with told me prior I still practise safe sex regardless though always do, usually if she's on her period I'm not overly fussed but usually move things to the shower hope this helps - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Sponges are not a contraceptive nor will they stop you getting an STI.... So always practice safe sex. ;-)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    To those that asked about the Mirena IUD and the use of beppy sponges. I can't find any specific info however on the official website it states you may still use tampons but you must take care not to pull the Mirena IUD strings when removing the tampon So I would assume that it's definitely not a good idea to use the beppy sponge when you have the Mirena IUD as damaging the strings or even potentially pulling the IUD out is definitely a possibility. Does anyone know for sure??

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    He said he couldn't feel it... But neither of us liked that the sponge seems to absorb all the good fluids as well as the not so good. So less lubrication which is not so good so maybe use with a ton of lube.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Does it stop the smell on Day Three?Just curious! Don't like possum on my breath.RA

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I noticed a similar reaction!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Quoting 'janey666' and easier to find in retailers.- Posted from rhpmobile S'nP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    so my answers would be:1)...no2) and 3)...however she feels about it, I'm not squeamish about a bit of blood...showers are great ways to clean up..or a bath...S'nP

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    And I never need lube normally.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I haven't actually convinced anyone to try them yet. :/ Maybe it's a generational thing?I reckon it'd work for the male ego. If he feels it as he's going hell for leather, he could just think it's the cervix. 'Damn, I'm HUGE!'Oh fyi Meeka, put the kitchen tongs away. Try sitting in a warm bath instead and getting it full of water, should be easier to retrieve then. Also, remind me not to come to a BBQ at your place, like, ever again. :P

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Possum Breath??Day 3.Please explain.FOXY

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    You have a way with words.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    Prefer not to indulge in play when one is being used. Have tried, didn't like the experience as they can seep a little and not interested in getting the "Dolmio Grin." But each to their own!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    PMSL.......   There are some things better left unsaid........

  • Two_Tarts

    Two_Tarts

    12 years ago

    Mrs we_want_to bought some a year or so ago after reading one of Meeka's posts that mentioned them. We gave them a try a couple of times as an experiment and see what they were like for future swinging reference. The outcome of our very clinical trial was pretty good, although I am not sure that my lovely wife has used them more than once or twice in swinging. Having sex without a condom I could definitely feel the courser texture on the head of my cock, but it was not unpleasant. Had it been with someone I was not so familiar with I doubt I would have noticed the difference, and wearing a condom I am certain I would not have noticed. Have I ever used them with anyone else? Not that I am aware of, but who knows??   Would I like to be told in advance? Given there are no obvious signs and I am not going to notice anyway because we would be using condoms then I would not be concerned either way and so the ladies are entirely welcome to keep their secret if they want to use a Beppy. As for using them with Mrs we_want_to, we simply wouldn't bother because after more than 20 years of having sex together it would take a lot more than a period to put us off if we are in the mood.   If it was with someone new then I think the Beppy is a much more comfortable situation all round than just letting the blood flow, but I am not that bothered by the whole thing. However if we are going to just let the blood flow (as you so delicately put it) then I would like to be told so that I am not surprised by the unexpected and I can keep the towels handy just in case.   Hope that adds to the perspective.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    my wife used them and other partners that I was in a relationship with, hence knowing them well used them also and we always found them to be a real turn on and looked forward to them. Could always feel the sponge either way.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    12 years ago

    I only use them for sex. My partner thinks they are the best thing ever. We did have leakage one time. But it was on round 2. But thumbs up for me. I don't use them to appease him. I just don't like the mess of sex with period. So these are fantastic - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I wouldn't have thought to tell new lovers, didn't think they would care.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Coming at this from an ignorance perspective... wouldn't it depend on the depth (from V opening to cervix)and the length of a penis... I ask this... having felt the odd cervix... and other times not? Being a mere male here...

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    10 years ago

    Correct mastr_full some guys feel them some guys don't. Getting them out is always fun afterwards, lucky for me I have small hands

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Don't care at all what is used, or not used, as it is the women's choice / preference. However, I would want to know prior so that I could make my own decision (or prior to meeting if I may be travelling a distance for a mutually agreed good night).