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Being stood up at the last moment
February 25 2018
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RHP User
8 years ago
Unless they want something, then, once they got what they want.... They suck again... 😒 - Posted from rhpmobile
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
It probably never was a unicorn, but rather a male or at least the male half of a couple, posing as one - Posted from rhpmobile
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MsJonesy
8 years ago
Good chat, do you mean on the phone? If not, how did actually confirm it was a woman you were talking to? I don't think anyone should have to exchange lots of pics; requests for that is a big red flag to me. They may have sent you a lot, but no guarantee they are of the person you are chatting with. Thats happened to me before and I picked it up from looking closely at the pics I had received; although the pics seemed to be of the same person they weren't. When I queried a couple of them, the reason given as to why they were of the same was so clumsy it made me laugh.....and close down all conversation. As to the last minute request they made, I would have put the brakes on quick smart and suggested a public meet. Be mindful of having random people in your private space.
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Zarabyfar
8 years ago
You got catfished, buddy 👎 Can I suggest next time arrange your meet ups in a bar or cafe. And lighten up on the sexy messages first because in my experience that’s a path that men go down and not women, and it only piles on pressure which gives a girl an excuse to run. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Call me silly and naive, but I keep seeing the phrase 'Unicorn' on here. What exactly does that refer to? As for your situation, seems there could be a few possibilities. Could be better off in the end there was no physical meeting, if the other party intended to or not.
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gazpacho
8 years ago
I’m also deeply suspicious of people who ask for lots on line... it’s so much easier to meet at a sex on premises venue and if they don’t show up, it’s not an issue... Women can get into Couples Club, for instance without a partner, but if they have one, then they can both get in. Best practice, I think, to only meet in private with people you already know! Hugs Gaz - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
you sure it was a woman?I don't have woman bits so my reply is useless
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HungGent
8 years ago
The unicorn is a legendary mystical creature that has been described since antiquity as a beast with a single large, pointed, spiraling horn projecting from its forehead. They are said to be non-existent ...but I sure have seen a few in my travels ;)
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'InkedExplorer' Call me silly and naive, but I keep seeing the phrase 'Unicorn' on here. What exactly does that refer to? Is a single Bi woman that helps out couples as the third wheel lol
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RHP User
8 years ago
This happens alot. I use to have groups on facebook and use to be in other groups where a couple would ask for a unicorn to join them. They had very little responses and the ones that did respond never showed up or stopped responding on the day they were suppose to meet. I was always asked to join couples, Im only Bi curious not Bi. I ended up helping a couple of couples out, I felt bad for them as they were my friends. Just be patient, they are out there. You will more find them if you have clubs to go to and if they have large groups you will get to meet alot of couples.
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RHP User
8 years ago
to talk the talk but can't walk the walk, bloody time wasters! They ask for photos, fire back tons of loaded questions and then when you out the acid on them to meet you gets donuts! 😂 We've all experienced that I think, very frustrating! - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Correction - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Cue all the “omg but you’re hot!!” Comments lol - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think the inquiry about bringing a male along, as Zara put it, was actually a male... And if they ever met, there’s have been some kinda excuse that the lady conveniently couldn’t have made it...her pet goldfish caught the flu or something.... - Posted from rhpmobile
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WineAndFunTimes
8 years ago
We never give out our address to people we haven't met. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
It sounds like you were catfished, we have been before but were getting better at weeding them out, now we ask for a pic of the person/ couple holding a piece of paper with something we choose written on it even if it doesn't include their face just to make sure the person or people are indeed the people from previous pics, Good luck with future plans - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Just another day playing the game. I'm hearing Kentia, I'm hearing ya... I'd rather not have the f**ktard excuses if I'm honest, it just insults my intelligence further. - Posted from rhpmobile
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justforthefun44
8 years ago
hi all rph users. we have had to cancel at the last mint kids family issues have come up. we always call the person we are going to meet. we have had women and men just don't turn up no reason given. try calling or message them no response. just rude. or we get a message from a man when we are trying to meet a couple sorry wife cant make it I will still come NO way just time wasters. lots and lots of them.
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RHP User
8 years ago
we have met and been stood up by a few guys now, last minute excuses like met the girl of my dreams? my grandmas sick or just called into work is a pretty common one, we are sick of guys standing us up after we have book apartments and got ready to play, theres a heap of them on here, we think once the reality of them joining a couple hits them they get stage fright and have wanked themselves silly before hand and have no guts left to finish whet they started, if we mentioned all their names we would need another 100 characters to write it all. maybe some single guys just arent really single?
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'share_me_now_69' we have met and been stood up by a few guys now, last minute excuses like met the girl of my dreams? my grandmas sick or just called into work is a pretty common one, we are sick of guys standing us up after we have book apartments and got ready to play, theres a heap of them on here, we think once the reality of them joining a couple hits them they get stage fright and have wanked themselves silly before hand and have no guts left to finish whet they started, if we mentioned all their names we would need another 100 characters to write it all. maybe some single guys just arent really single? Couldn't agree more. Have been strung along by numerous guys. I have learnt though, if they aren't ready to meet that weekend or the next, they never will.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Some are genuine but some are not... it's a luck of the draw in any situation...we had a couple of success but it does takes time to find one😉 - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
As a single guy, who is pansexual, I have occasionally had plans cancelled by couples at the last minute. As disappointing as it is, I try to work on the premise that as a couple they have the prerogative to change their minds, they likely have many more choices and that they often have the real lives, the regular, public ones to consider and many factors can play a part in a meet up being cancelled or postponed. And the male pretending to be a female profile is far from common and defies logic as I see it. But, some people are desperate or have no real social skills. For those couples that I have met and enjoyed some great experiences with, thank you for including me in your fun. It has always been wonderful and a true pleasure.
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curiousnhorny05
8 years ago
We had arranged to meet someone who was all keen he had to work which was fair enough. But he then got annoyed because we made another arrangement. Too bad. - Posted from rhpmobile
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rupamohan
8 years ago
Unfortunately most rants tell more about the ranter....any let us anyway assume your story exact recollection of events. If you don't have sufficient evidence of unicorn genunity it says a lot about your blind greed and or naivety. If it was real unicorn..May be she fainted with excitement and lost memory. There was no intention to disrespect you. If it was a rude person imagine what worse could have happened if she did make it. Consider yourself lucky. Finally yes this world is full of lowly people..consider taking break from desires. I hope ranting has helped you to feel better. We have our full sympathy for you.
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RHP User
8 years ago
We are only new here but have experienced a similiar thing where i am chatting to the single girl and before we are to meet suddenly up pops a guy who she has been talking to and we would love him and how respectful he will be. I say no thanks she says still happy to meet then get ghosted. I have chatted to a few single girls on here and the amount that say they have a male FWB and can he join is amazing. Why not have a couples profile. Yes we all have last minute excuses but the new man that suddenly is on the scene the day before a meeting is not kosher.
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