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Being BBW sucks in the online world

September 28 2015

I wish there was a search filter which displays couples/women looking for or at least willing to consider talking to BBW. I'm attractive (I'm actually pretty humble but reading through everyone else's profiles it seems as though everyone says that anyway lol) great conversationalist, love a drink, love to joke around & more to the point LOVE fucking and my hubby is exactly the same. It's just hard to find anyone who will give me a chance when they all specify "must be fit and have abs of steel" ok not word for word but you get my drift lol #rantover - Posted from rhpmobile

Comments

  • aussian43

    aussian43

    10 years ago

    Going the other way, you can set the search function to include the larger ladies. I use it occasionally when looking for sexy pictures. I find BBW to be more attractive, and fun to cuddle with. Unfortunately you are hunting for the almost mythical unicorn, and the few ones out in the wild are spoiled for choice. Good luck in your searching.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You are limited in your choices,women and couples ...and you are guests ..so you can't be proactive in your search...single women who are guests can't message you,nor can couples who are guests..Single women are very in demand here so I doubt it has anything much to do with your looks OP,just that your opportunities are limited by your choices.xxFreya

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I feel the same. Being a BBW is limiting. I find that most guys want a woman who is trim taught and terrific lol. I'm terrific!! he he

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Easy solution ,go and loose the weight and get your self into shape . - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You seem like a lovely down to earth couple don't be discouraged. Good luck on your healthy journey, I'm currently on one myself. Be positive and don't let any knock backs on here discourage you. Being a paid member will give you an advantage and be creative with your couple pics. Best of luck x - Posted from rhpmobile

  • compressor

    compressor

    10 years ago

    well to be honest by your photo you look very sexy and if I had the chance I would love to pleasure you from head to toe

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hi OP, I agree to a point that large sized women are less in demand here than slim or average sized ones (in my experience anyway), but I think Freya nailed it. You have other things working against you that have nothing to do with looks, and I agree with her suggestions. Good luck!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I highly doubt BellaRH are even a genuine couple..... But.... At least he/she/they/it is good at projecting and advertising their own state of mind publicly so it makes it easier for the genuine people to meet other genuine people :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    looking at your profile, it'd probably be advantageous if you could add to your general/sexual and fetish interests if possible.Also, even as a BBW, it is possible to take some pretty hot pics e.g. cleavage shots, ass shots etc, this would probably give you another edge over the competition for snaring the elusive unicorn lol Best of luck

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I guess RHP forums wouldn't be interesting without the nasty bitches. Oops.....did I say that out loud? You may find this hard to believe, BellaRH, but not everyone moulds themselves to suit your preferences. Imkaea, you're both gorgeous and at least you have the confidence and openness to show your faces on your main profile pic. Not all of us shine like that (me included - however, my face isn't public for other reasons too). xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    There are some things that can be changed if people wanted to (weight, for example), and there are some things that can't be changed (an ugly personality, for example). BellaRH, you belong in the latter category. Imkaea, there've been a number of threads asking about 'curvy' vs. 'slim' on here, and the overwhelming consensus seemed to be that people preferred 'curvy' over 'skinny'. So there's some food for thought :) Your profile pic is fine, although one where your man isn't wearing sunnies and is smiling might work better for you, as will becoming members so you can initiate contact. The other thing I'd say is don't focus on your weight so much in your 'looking for ' section. I'm not saying don't be honest, but tell us more about what you're attracted to in terms of playmates. And then take some sexy pics for your PG's as langton11 suggested, and let those do the talking for you in terms of your bodies :). Lastly, ignore anyone who tries to 'body shame'. That sort of behaviour/comment is just a reflection of the other person's narrow mindedness. Not cool.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    pretty face over abs of steel any day! The general consensus would be to include some more pics (even if its in your private gallery and share with those you feel comfortable with) and perhaps consider upgrading so you have an opportunity to send a message (with access to your pics) and strike up a conversation :) Good luck x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Sister attitude is everything! Loving yourself and embracing the sexual being inside of the voluptuous hot thing you are is fundamental in this game. I fully understand where you are coming from being a big hot thing myself, nevertheless know that there are plenty of men and women who enjoy the sexual delights of a big beautiful woman ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    People who don't provide a full length photos of themselves, instead use carefully framed/cropped pics that show them in a flattering light,or worse still, from so long ago that they have changed significantly since, then turn up to meet me in an extremely unhealthy and poorly presented state (IE: obese, poor hygiene). Just be honest about your presentation and appearance by using a recent, genuine, full length pic, please. That way we can all make informed choices and not waste anyone's time. This isn't JUST something that overweight people are guilty of btw, it just seems to be a commonly hidden thing with online profiles.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I think BBW are so sexy...they give feelings in my balls.......love them....Im avaliable to any.....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It really makes me sad about some negative comments about BBW. And I agree Wiccan your guys are gorgeous and there is nothing wrong with you. People are mean and to quick to judge. I would prefer a BBW who has manners and laughs and that wants to really be there and connect. So don't be hard on yourself or what anyone thinks. Xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It's NOT always about size. Its mostly about attitude. Own it and the rest follows. Sook about it and nothing happens. 🙊 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    but the hordes of outnumbered single guys will still have it harder on here. That being said the routine advice for the single guys I think would be worth taking on board as well I think, being; Make your profile stand out by playing to your strengths with well thought out/ creative wording. Being honest and up front about your BBW status without writing an essay about it. Agree with the full length photo. Showing your personality with confidence in who you are and owning it. Being patient if you are being choosy without getting bitter or resentful if it takes some time or you have some rejection. Cheers W. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I agree with your post, but if it's aimed at the OP: she hasn't said she herself has any issues with her size, just that some others seem to. (Which made that earlier "lose the weight" remark besides hateful also rather dumb.)

  • yankmychain56

    yankmychain56

    10 years ago

    I have dated women who would class as 'model' material. Have also dated women who were 'BBW' .still trying to work out what 'bbw' is. Some 'larger' women have curves in all the right places, and most guys get lost in big knockers and love pounding a woman with some ASS on her. I have also found that some women who are 'bbw' will RIP a man apart. Screamers, biters, suck you off until you have to push them away to make them stop. I like a nice, hot looking woman as much as he next guy, but sometimes, they have this 'stuck up' attitude that just pisses me off. a hot body means NOTHING if there is a dark, smelly TURD living inside it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    @inspirit Totally agree. Definitely comes down to confidence @yankmychain56 you crack me up! I'm a voluptuous woman who enjoys much attention (both online and in the real world) from men who appreciate my physique so I don't agree we curvy women get less attention ;)

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    10 years ago

    Get off the net, got to a few parties and let your self go with the the flow.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Learn basic spelling before handing out advice 😉

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Im a BBW lady & have never been short of attention or lovers. Many men love our curves just keep looking & don't give up!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Who is truly beautiful. A majority of the women and men we fuck to seem to think so too :) Don't be discouraged, there really are people out there who much prefer curves over slim people. My wife is upfront with her size, letting any potential play partners know as of the first message. I only recall maybe 6 blokes stating that they weren't into big girls in the 20+ years we've been swinging. Not to mention a friend who wasn't into big girls, started flirting with my wife after a few months, telling me he'd give her a crack. It's not the chassis but the drive train underneath. That's where the fun emanates from :D Haters gonna hate. Fuck the world who judge you by your weight. Happy fucking :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Now go and read "Does a guy's body matter"

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Wet_Paint' Now go and read "Does a guy's body matter" Maybe it just shows that when asked a question about physical preference, women are more likely than men to say what they really think and less inclined to only say what they think the opposite sex wants to hear.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Not at the OP. Just saying. As you know Im BBW and have plenty of attention. Confidence does count for all sizes. Im sure the slimmer chicks have the same issues if not confident. I just get tired of whoe me.. As for your post Craving... Somewhat harsh. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Yeah sorry to be harsh, I had just had a date with a guy (from another site) who had done that trick, his pics were well flattering compared to his real presentation so it was disappointment and frustration speaking mostly. Sexiness and appeal are completely unrelated to body weight IMHO. Loving yourself and your body is all it takes to be lovable.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm sure your right, men don't say what they really think and women believe it and the illusion/delusion continues. Trouble is, when they do, the truth hurts and the messenger is promptly shot.

  • Tall74nHard9

    Tall74nHard9

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Wet_Paint' I'm sure your right, men don't say what they really think and women believe it and the illusion/delusion continues. Trouble is, when they do, the truth hurts and the messenger is promptly shot. when a guy is being asked "does my ass look big in this" scenario. Lose/lose. Tall

  • AussieStriker

    AussieStriker

    10 years ago

    If you think it is bad as a BBW, you would be shocked how bad it is as a single guy. To be honest I think there is a lot more BBW on here than there is the trim and taught ones. Probably because those ones don't need to go looking hard to find something. So the competition in here is not as bad for you as it would be in say your local club.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've just met a gorgeous BBW. Clothes do nothing for her at all, but when she's unwrapped, beautiful curvy softness for days. She knows what she wants, knows what she likes, and isn't afraid to let me know, try new things or just pamper each other. In my experience, you don't get this with a conventionally beautiful woman.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Absolutely yes! I am a larger man and I must say that women of all sizes are truly beautiful you just have to take some time to get to know them. Those who discriminate do so at there own loss

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    every one has their sexual references...you can't really control who you are attracted to...somebody gets you going, or not....simple as that i think...i could be more than happy to be friends with people i am not sexually attracted to...and do have many of those...but i wouldn't want to sleep with them cause they are not my type...it doesn't mean they're not a lot of other people's type though :) we have approached lot of ladies and couples, who were not into us for one reason or another...or we started communicating , set up a date, and they just disappeared last minute not responding anymore, left us wondering what went wrong...we used to take it to heart at the beginning (it's hard not to lose a little self confidence over it sometimes)but then we realised it is what it is..you can't make anyone want you who doesn't ...we are who we are, both in appearance and personality...be who you are no matter what...and you might find quality over quantity is not a bad thing after all:)just sayin'

  • rupamohan

    rupamohan

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Stirry' I highly doubt BellaRH are even a genuine couple..... But.... At least he/she/they/it is good at projecting and advertising their own state of mind publicly so it makes it easier for the genuine people to meet other genuine people :) - Posted from rhpmobile I guess two wrongs doesn't make it right. I am not sure casting doubts about genuity of others will pass a strict RHP forum policy test.I think it is being underestimated how complex people can be.There is a very good chance that this couple is very nice to meet. However I do get a feeling this couple is visiting forums in not best mood or coming here with a specific agenda or perhaps have a narrow range of compatibility. When they click they really click.Trust me there will be small minority whose behaviour on-line will have no resemblance to real life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Fadgy' I feel the same. Being a BBW is limiting. I find that most guys want a woman who is trim taught and terrific lol. I'm terrific!! he he or at least I think so but I hardly ever feel that being "bigger" is severly limiting. if someone is looking for a skinny woman to play with then he is not looking for me, so I don't get hang up about that. The men I find interesting and want to play with are happy with my looks and that is what matters :) I do state on my profile that I have extra padding (it is not pounds it is PADDING) on all the right places -and I have full body photo (2months not 5years old!) in my photo album - so it is all out in the open.. I do agree there is nothing worse than claiming to be a certain body type or having a certain set of characteristics then it all turns out to be fake in the first moment people meet in real life - I don't see the point of pretending so I refuse to play that game. I do agree with OP that being a BBW, or slightly bigger- whatever- can make establishing contact harder - we are all conscious of our body and self-confidence is not something that is constant in every minute of our lives - but I got to realize that self-confidence comes from myself and it is my decision whether I allow external parties (media such as the model photos of skinny people all over RHP etc) to take it away from me or not..some days it works..some days it does not but I am just human :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love bbw! Pure sexiness! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    We have recently adopted a Paleo lifestyle and are dropping the kilos like hot starchy spuds but in the meantime I simply wrote in our profile that I am a big guy. I ask that if the people reading our profile aren't willing to have sex with a big guy then it would simply be better to continue searching somewhere else. That way when people do contact us, it's no longer something I stress out about bringing up. I find that now, when people do contact us, they genuinely don't see the opposite couples weight as a barrier.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    It is the second B that is the critical element in BBW... oh and the W... I don't recall hearing anyone labeled as a BW or SBW.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Doesn't matter if you're a BBW, SSBBW, average, slim, have extra padding, or are cuddly, all woman have something that is beautiful as far as I'm conerned - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Real men love all women,I love all types of women,fit n slim women are ok but not so much,who wants to pound a skeleton right? lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I agree totally with Yank..being stunning doesn't make you sexually attractive, far from it a lot of the time. To me the attraction is a woman who knows what she likes and isn't scared to say so. Just present yourself well and smell good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    i agree 100% we're all 80% water, 2 arms, 2 legs, bleed red!!! So why the intolerance. Im more than happy to catch up with BBW - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Being someone who has played with quite a few couples from various web sites (RHP is actually pretty terrible for Tasmania), I can say that the first assessment is visual, the second is from the profile. Honestly, your profile pic is fine, but your actual written profile makes you sound ashamed of who you are! Be proud, you guys are hot :) Others have said that you are limiting yourself with your membership level, which is true, all you are going to get is guys trying to edge you into a threesome and... well that is about it. People seem to be of the opinion that if you sign up on these sites then the pussy and cock will just get thrown your way, which just isn't the case. You have to have a good profile pic and a good written profile (mine probably needs work...) and if people just aren't biting then you need to get a membership and talk to a few people.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    As a couple who had browsed your profile in the past it wasn't a size issue that was off putting but as Astrild said the picture where the male half has his hat glasses on and not smiling which to us was a little ofd putting - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You're not a real man if you don't love all women, but slim ones are unattractive skeletons?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I've had a lot of unpleasant comments thrown my way because of my body shape, and I have to say that yours takes the prize for being the nastiest.

  • hotdigettydam2

    hotdigettydam2

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'Astrild' I've had a lot of unpleasant comments thrown my way because of my body shape, and I have to say that yours takes the prize for being the nastiest. ugh i cop this all the time.. see so many people say they hate slim guys yet they would never call someone fat but are happy to call us skeletons or skin and bones, beanpole etc. as a guy it seems to be more acceptable to have a few extra kilo's rather than needing a few extra kilo's.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    You are very attractive, i love girls with curves, as your husband does, don't worry about the superficialities of others. Im not thin with a six pack myself so yes i feel intimidated by really fit people, at the end of the day attractions arent always physical, take it as it comes, and those who do like curves will give you the pleasure you seek 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love all body types, i probably have an unreal expectation that thinner ladies wont like my physique, having a few extra kilos.. I know thats just an insecurity, i can see that, hmm yup - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I absolutely love BBW, I have since I was very young. I can't explain it, and I don't care to understand it, I just know what I like. There are other men the same as myself, who just prefer bigger girls, if you don't find them, I'm sure they find you. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    My advice. Love your curves and rock them with confidence.. There's nothing sexier then a curvy woman with confidence who loves her figure - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    So the first be in BBW stands for bloody?? 😉 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Being a big man I like a woman who has curves. And any chic that can fill out a pair of jeans gets quite a few perves on her ass from me. Anyone got a copy of SirMixAlot handy? Cheers Natural - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'hotdigettydam2' see so many people say they hate slim guys yet they would never call someone fat but are happy to call us skeletons or skin and bones, beanpole etc. I think all body shaming sucks and it's a real shame that people in order to give one group positive reinforcement feel the need to put another group down to achieve this. And then there's idea that you better look like A, B and C, think D, E and F and act like X, Y and Z or you're not a real Man or Woman. I'm curvy, but that doesn't make me a "real woman" any more than a slim one, and the fact that I'm not attracted to BBW doesn't make me any less so. That whole notion is ludicrous, in my opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'marshallz_79' I love all body types I hear men say this all the time and I wonder if they have actually thought this through and could indeed be attracted to a both 35 kilo severely underweight woman as well as a 350 kilo morbidly obese one (if they were both great people). It's like guys having on their profile they are looking for women ages 18-99. Really, you could do it with a nonagenarian? If so, great, but somehow I doubt it.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    BBW are the best lovers. There is more to cuddle witch I love. Cheers xxxx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I can say, to the responses from women who think guys want trim taut and terrific that is far from what guys are thinking. I can't speak for guys in general. I speak for myself. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Good lord. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Hoping inw or two may be as hot and ready as I am 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Oops... typos in previous post. But I hooe you SA BBW gals get the drift 😆 - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I love bbw. They are the best. My partner is bbw. She is beautifull. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I prefer bbw I love to cuddle can't think of nothing better than snuggledouble up to a larger women - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Have faith there will be someone out there for you. You should try being a married guy on here, pretty sure it comes parcelled up with leprosy in your membership package lol - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am BBW women and get showered with attention from all sexes men and women. I am confident and believe in being only myself...I display honest and not so forgiving photos...simply cause I love how I look.. I could go lose a bunch of weight if I want...but here's the kicker I will still be the exact person on the inside. To quote Marilyn Manroe "if you can't accept me at my worse then you don't get me to have me at my best" Confidence is key, everyone lose to be confident, own your body and fuck the haters we only have one life live it how you want and don't conform to society!! 😘 kisses sexy - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I'm a BBW too but I find it very difficult to find other people that are ok with that as well. I don't want anyone who are into BBW's as a fetish but more that they don't care about your size either way. you know?

  • trypilot

    trypilot

    10 years ago

    For me bbw is neither here nor there, a beautiful soul must come first, second to that, curves and proportion . Nothing beats curves , hips, bum , boobs, for me it's all about curves and soul, but thats just me x gg

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Absolutely love a BBW. Always go for a women with curves and generally find they are so much more fun and easy going than the gym princess. Nothing better than a hot curvy arse and a soft cuddle. The beautiful part is the what women r all about. Yum!

  • webbffan

    webbffan

    10 years ago

    oh hun you are so sexyi would love your bbw body

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I have no problem with larger women - after all I am looking for playmates rather than a life partner. However there does come a point at which pleasantly plump becomes unhealthily and unattractively obese ... however I prefer real woman to slim, blond gym-bimbos any day.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I am also a bbw and have had points when I send photos they stop talking and you know what I think honey? They obviously don't have the right equipment to handle a big girl :p my partner loves me and finds me sexy and that's all that matters :) xxx - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    Quoting 'BellaRH' Easy solution ,go and loose the weight and get your self into shape . - Posted from rhpmobile Maybe true but skin and bones isn't every 1 cup of tea, I prefer a woman with some meat on the bone, They bang harder and you don't have to be scared of breaking them,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    If your guests you'll be hard up finding people who will talk to you, we're member and people hardly talk to us, especially if your looking for a single lady ,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    10 years ago

    I personally enjoy all shapes and sizes so feel free to msg me anytime ;) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    9 years ago

    Know the feeling Try being not in south east Queensland What we found It is about you as a couple Go to clubs to enjoy your selves. If you swing it is a bonus Go to adult cinemas but on a show We go to grays lane when we can. Remember about yourselves A lot what local but they themselves look elsewhere We travel to Ipswich where family is. Have an AMM profile where we can contact Contacted 20-30 couples eith no or no reply. Mrs gets very disheartened Remember swinging is a bonus just enjoy yourselves

  • dayks

    dayks

    8 years ago

    Couldn’t be happier!! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I enjoy mature BBW but find they are shy and self concious about their body size.Once they are comfortable and explore their desires they are very sensual.Massages are a way of helping them loosen up

  • curiousnhorny05

    curiousnhorny05

    8 years ago

    As someone who would rather be smaller I haven’t had any issues. Obviously some ppl will say no and I avoid the profiles that say they don’t want curvy or bbws. I hate it when ppl use the word obese as kind of a insult or negative term. I’m open and honest with others about my weight when chatting. But most guys have been so lovely and it feels they don’t even care. Me on the other hand still finds it hard to forget it. We can be size 8 and most ppl don’t want it. Be confident and know your worth and others will treat you likewise - Posted from rhpmobile

  • NaughtyCuddles

    NaughtyCuddles

    8 years ago

    You are a hottie. Some like curves, some like other things.I love to watch the hot curves of my lady and feel her soft body. I don't enjoy the feeling of hard muscle. Enjoy your body, plenty of us love your body.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    too, and like firenice mentioned, I have found that I am far harder on myself than others are. Personally, when I look for others, the first things I am attracted to is the face and personality. If I find someone attractive and they can engage my mind, then the rest kind of falls into place. A beautiful soul will definitely shine through whatever exterior it is in :) Plus ultimately, if I am not to someone's taste, then we simply don't communicate so no issue :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I have no probs saying that any ladies with that juicey discription wish to chat.. hola

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Would I say I was a BBW? don't know. Someone I know from here told me I had to change my profile as I wasn't above average as I had indicated I was average. Ones perception of BBW and another's is different. I love my curves and carry them well. Occasionally I feel like I need to do something about them, so I reach for a wine and move on......As Swing says he likes BBW, as do many. Those that don't shouldn't be a problem for you. Move on. If they insult you block them. Own who you are, and be comfortable with who you are. The rest will 'cum' in time.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    Recently my wife's desire for sensual/sexual contact with other women has been rising. She really wants to rub her boobs together with another woman and for them to kiss and caress and body slide each other. And in the course of our (very enjoyable) conversations about this, she said she gets most aroused by chubby women. I think to her BBW are ultra-women - she can get leanness etc in concentrated form from men but for her, voluptuousness is a world of feminine delight. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    It’s up to individuals who they play with. I have no issue with that. Yet, I often think to myself. They are being judgemental. Judging a book by its cover. I believe the same, for those, looking for a man. Who must be cut. My thoughts. I’m not at all, saying I’m right. So for mine. You are an attractive couple. With probably a lot going for you. Move on from these people. I’m sure over time. You will get to meet yours. Good luck with it all Wang

  • RHP

    RHP User

    8 years ago

    I actually prefer BBW or curvy i find them a lot more attractive. Its all i pick up on rhp :)

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    RHP User

    7 years ago

    Hmmm god no so long as not morbid big or disproportionate then I find myself more attracted to ladies bbw I find them more sensual and comfortable for cuddling. However u need to be comfortable in your own skin to be confident enough for your role in mmf