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Being An Amateur in all this I was just wondering....

May 25 2011

First let me just say, we've hooked up with girls a few times, randoms from drunken nights out and friends of friends who stayed after the party to 'help tidy up' we've also done partner swapping at a shitty little resort we stayed at up in cairns and a couple we worked with once.What I'm curious about , we haven't met any body off here and I suppose we're a bit hesitant perhaps because, although neither of us have any problems doing the old swap-a-roonie, even in the same room,Neither of us really want to see other people ''cracking'' onto the other one. if you know what I mean?When we stayed at the resort there were a string of old sleazy guys there drooling over the missus, which made me want to fuck her all the more really and it didn't bother me because they were grit and she wasn't into them either way.But we were both thinking , you know meeting someone off here and going out for drinks or something, it's nothing we've really done... I kind of think it's a bit disrespectful to be flirting with and sleazing all over someone else's partner, even if you're all there to meet and quiet possibly shag later.Does this make me a bit of a party pooper or is it normal to feel this way?I'll just stress, the sex part I'm fine with, any un-comfortableness kind of goes away when you're banging someone else's missus

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15 years ago

Well, if you go out as a couple don't you flirt as a couple as well? I don't think it has to be a sleazy thing and if you find that it is, well then you are probably meeting up with the wrong people.Why not go to a sex party or a couples club or something and see how you go. That way, you can always leave when ever you feel like it. xxMeeka

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RHP User

15 years ago

think you need to grow up

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15 years ago

Quoting 'nice2benaughty' think you need to grow up

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15 years ago

re read what you posted, absolute gibber and crap. "bangin sumone elses missus' you went to a resort knowing full well what goes on there, you that niave or even know what that means. flirting is part of the game and lots like it. we dont but dont carry on like 6 year olds about. "next you'll come back with 'hows about a fuk" but anyways whatever you think is your opinion and entitled to it. thats what makes the world so great.

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15 years ago

Quoting 'nice2benaughty' re read what you posted, absolute gibber and crap. "bangin sumone elses missus' you went to a resort knowing full well what goes on there, you that niave or even know what that means. flirting is part of the game and lots like it. we dont but dont carry on like 6 year olds about. "next you'll come back with 'hows about a fuk" but anyways whatever you think is your opinion and entitled to it. thats what makes the world so great. What's wrong with saying that any un-comfortableness the first time we ever swapped partners went away when I started banging the other guys wife? It's just a fact.As for what I wrote being gibberish are you sure you even comprehend it?You seem to struggle making much sense in your reply with your English so perhaps you misunderstood?Is it immature to have doubt about something new and fairly unknown to us?Is it immature to ask for the opinions of more experience people their views on these doubts? Sorry I didn't realise having concerns made us idiots.The people we did hook up with we did for one reason alone , they were not sleazy they were just nice easy going people.

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15 years ago

there was another topic regarding advantages of elder men, and you little boy are a typical example why older men are preferred, yes grow up. your terminology regards to banging some one elses missus is crass. naive and utterly pathetic. i hear mcdonalds has play rooms for little boys

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15 years ago

Quoting 'northchina' there was another topic regarding advantages of elder men, and you little boy are a typical example why older men are preferred, yes grow up. your terminology regards to banging some one elses missus is crass. naive and utterly pathetic. i hear mcdonalds has play rooms for little boysNow that i'ves topped laughing and picked myself up off the floor. i'll pay that BOO YA

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15 years ago

Quoting 'northchina' there was another topic regarding advantages of elder men, and you little boy are a typical example why older men are preferred, yes grow up. your terminology regards to banging some one elses missus is crass. naive and utterly pathetic. i hear mcdonalds has play rooms for little boys use whatever terminology you wish that doesn't change the pure simple fact that that's what it is. :)

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Being An Amateur in all this I was just wondering....

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