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Been thinking of you....

April 27 2011

sex

Lately I have had a few guys that I have met up in the past for sex get back in contact with me after not hearing a word from them for a couple of years or so. They all have the same "line" when they contact me...."Hi, have just gotten out of a relationship and been thinking of you alot, would love to catch up with you again"! I will admit, some I don't even remember meeting at all! My question is ... why contact me after all this time? Couldn't they have the decency to tell me in the first place that they were in a relationship rather than just disappear into the night? Are they getting THAT desperate for sex that they are going through their "Little Black Book" and contacting all the women they have had sex with before their relationship? Am I meant to be "thankful" that they remembered me and therefore should drop my knickers and spread em? Would you meet up with them again if you can't even remember what the sex was like or even if you did have sex with them at all? Is it just that maybe they have changed in the last 2 years that noone wants to touch them so you are their last resort before they go to the nearest cheapest brothel? Ahhh, so many questions.... xFunlovingx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well, maybe when they met you, you came across as an easy going ~ no strings attached~ kind of acquaintance that could enjoy a shag out of the blue... and thus, certain men felt compelled, after having their arses fried by some vinegar spitting ball buster, to get right back up on that wagon and contact someone from their little black book... someone who they KNOW is understanding, easy going.... and loves a root out of the blue...Now tell me it aint so!HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Care to share why guys prefer to have their arses fried by some vinegar spitting ball buster over an easy going~ no strings attached~ fabulous and fun in the sack kind of gal in the first place? . I have always wondered about that one...........

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Sure I think you right Stalky... woman meets man and says that she is only here to have fun... man reads it as .....well she doesn't might if I keep going and fuck as many and then slips up and thinks he has found the one... all the promises are made based on the kinkiness of their sexual experiences and boom she become the vinegar spitting ball buster. He splits and then says aaaaahhh..I remember there is a chick in Caroline Springs who say she was always here just for fun.... Of course he'll call her for a leg up...root and shoot until next time....Sorry that's how most man think in this sub culture.... did you expect any different...more hugs Coffee

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Funloving, if you can't remember them then the sex was obviously average. So I say no don't meet up with them again. What for? There are so many men out there why go back for round two of Mr Forgettable. xx Meeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Care to share why guys prefer to have their arses fried by some vinegar spitting ball buster over an easy going~ no strings attached~ fabulous and fun in the sack kind of gal in the first place? . I have always wondered about that one........... Obviously lulled into a false sense of security with the nudie pajamas and the really soft fluffie cushions... words are exchanged.. emotions are invested.... then SNAP... the legs grow velcro.. the crows feet start showing through the foundation and those pursed lips start pissing spit and vinegar soon enough... It's not our fault you know. We are just men... we are muscle and testosterone.... we are not made of the sneaky underhanded manipulative co-ersive jelly that women are molded into by their nagging mothers. Ask yourself this one question ladies.... Are you like your mother? Smash the mold and set yourself free!Hugs Stalky < :p >

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    . I am in a quandry now.... .....Do I really want to buy some really soft fluffie pillows?. If I do purchase them will I beome the sneaky underhanded manipulative co-ersive jelly that women are molded into by their nagging mothers? . Or do I stay with my firm japanese style neck rest and remain in little black books as a spot place to fall? hmmmmmm.... decisions, decisions.......lol Thanks for the insight Stalky... *funloving* Once a man has left the easy going , no velcro, undemanding time spent with me, for the attraction of the grass is greener relationship without the courtesy of an explanation.....he does not receive a second chance with a woman who may have just been the best thing in his life.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' .... we are not made of the sneaky underhanded manipulative co-ersive jelly that women are molded into by their nagging mothers. Ask yourself this one question ladies.... Are you like your mother? Smash the mold and set yourself free!Hugs Stalky Noooo. Nothing like MY mother. (ThankGod) and fortunately Focus is her own woman as well. Too funny Stalky!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    GirlTuesday I doubt anyone would have used Funloving. Seems to me that she does things on her own terms. It's simple isn't it? They are after a root, if you feel like it, I say go for it. If you can't remember them, well they are not good enough for a second go. Don't let men toy with you... toy with them instead much more fun :) xx Meeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    You are right Meeka, I do do things on my own terms! And if I feel like just sex I go out and do it with no expectations and no promises of him calling me or me calling him! < I never wanted a relationship with ANY of these guys at all. It would be nice to find a regular FB though...get so sick of attempting to have great sex with duds! And I have had plenty of them in my time! < A couple of guys I remembered what the sex (if you can call it that) was like, so told them that I have moved on and have no interest in meeting them again! One guy not too long ago contacted me after a couple of years and although all that happened in the last few times we met (so many years ago) was me giving him head..I thought I would give him another go...Soooo glad I did...WOW, what a great intense most wonderful orgasm I had...was certainly worth the giving him another go! Not sure when or if we will meet up again...but meh, I got what I wanted! < Stalky, I understand where you are coming from and it did make alot of sense and you also understand me....I don't want to be the big ol' Vinegar tits to anyone...I want FUN FUN FUN (hence the nic)! I guess it all got to me as in the last month alone, I have had 7 guys contact me from the past wanting to catch up again...and thinking to myself WTF? One or two I can understand...but SEVEN? And I guess cause they all said just about the same thing kind of got me a bit confuddled! < All I want is 2 or 3 regular fuck buddies...is that too much for a girl to ask? (Batters eyelids and twists hair around finger)! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    OMG that line cracks me up...."Hi, have just gotten out of a relationship and been thinking of you alot, would love to catch up with you again" It's like permission to go straight to 3rd base...no wining, dining, coffee or foreplay conversation required. Basically the equivalent of a cattle prod!!! . Oh puh-leese guys...and you wonder why we say "no".....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' < All I want is 2 or 3 regular fuck buddies...is that too much for a girl to ask? (Batters eyelids and twists hair around finger)! xFunlovingx . Not too much to ask at all! That is pretty much on everyone's wish list isn't it? . I want a Bi friend I want a fun couple (that is counted as one by the way) I want a boyfriend I want a girlfriend . Oops that is 4 .... well you gotta thing big. :) . Good luck finding them Funloving. I like your style. xx Meeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I have seen you battter those eyelashes of yours... .....they could be classed as weapons of man destruction....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Well it seems we are late to the party but will answer anyway For those that you cannot remember, the answer is relatively easy - PASSTo those whom did provide any level of enjoyment/comfort for you - consider it for what it may be, a simple recovery shag that may well lead to some fun for you and potentially them.But, like Stalky says it is in all likelihood just a lonely response for a guy who had the intimacy at some stage and no longer does for whatever the reason and is off hoping to rekindle something and relieve his 'stress', afterall Mrs Palmer is only accomodating so many times.Shell and Gaz

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    one has to be attracted to the attitude of some of the ladies around here... I mean to say... burn your bra (or not) but please liberate your sexual desires... it's very attractive interpretation of women's liberation in my opinion. Did anyone else watch Cleo? I mean to say.... that chick with the lisp is my new hero! Go Ita!HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' one has to be attracted to the attitude of some of the ladies around here... I mean to say... burn your bra (or not) but please liberate your sexual desires... it's very attractive interpretation of women's liberation in my opinion. Did anyone else watch Cleo? I mean to say.... that chick with the lisp is my new hero! Go Ita!HugsStalky For you I will even thrown in a random every now and then but I can't burn my bra. That would not be pretty :l xx Meeks

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Quoting 'ruby_blossum' Care to share why guys prefer to have their arses fried by some vinegar spitting ball buster over an easy going~ no strings attached~ fabulous and fun in the sack kind of gal in the first place? . I have always wondered about that one........... Obviously lulled into a false sense of security with the nudie pajamas and the really soft fluffie cushions... words are exchanged.. emotions are invested.... then SNAP... the legs grow velcro.. the crows feet start showing through the foundation and those pursed lips start pissing spit and vinegar soon enough... It's not our fault you know. We are just men... we are muscle and testosterone.... we are not made of the sneaky underhanded manipulative co-ersive jelly that women are molded into by their nagging mothers. Ask yourself this one question ladies.... Are you like your mother? Smash the mold and set yourself free!Hugs Stalky Oh Stalky... such a wordsmith lol