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Balloon On a Slinky

December 05 2009

Hey guys, I wanted to try and get to the bottom of a miff!!! You see I know this guy who freaks out at the idea of same room sex, he can't perform infront of a crowd and spent most of last week texting Sal saying how he knew he wouldn't be able to perform when we (two couples) met up. We kept saying stop putting yourself down, if it's gets to be a real problem we will get a paddle pod stick and a rubber band and make a splint. Now this guy wasn't a newbie, but had always been with separate room players and had tried to convert us over. so anyway he couldn't get it up and was texting afterwards saying 'how crap he was' Now I should tell you all that I had the same issue, so i took pills for it. Now i use to it more or less and don't use them as much, but sometimes it's nice to have a boost. So the question is to all the male players out there. Have you used stiffie pills? Why? Is it a big deal? Is it all the time or just when you try and put a condom on? I want to blow this thing wide open. Because i think some guys out there think that it's just them and give themselves their own problems. Most importantly something for the newbies to see so that they are aware of stage fright. Also how did you get your hands on said stiffie pills. What tactics did you explore? Because lets face it there is nothing worse than trying to put a balloon on a slinky when you're about to try and have sex!!! Andy

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16 years ago

OK... first cab off the rank. Anxiety is a direct cause of E.D. (erectile dysfunction)... so if ever I feel anxious, I have trouble. It's interesting because I often employ sexual activity to reduce anxiety.. lolz. For the longest time, I avoided m/m contact because it caused me anxiety... well, for more personal reasons which I don't want to go disclose on the forum. In any case, by reason of this, I virtually found it impossible ot get aroused with another guy in the vicinity. Despite how I may have wanted to react, my genitals decided that they did not wish to participate. Difficult for a young man to come to terms with... and very frustrating, since all my goods functioned appropriately when women were involved and I resigned to the fact I would never have the pleasure. Well, I thought, I'm clearly not gay since I prefer having sex with women anyway... so I gave the idea up as a bad one. My junk knows what it wants. Then of course, in the last 5 years or so along comes stiffie pills. With the use of them I'm almost passed my anxt and I generally don't need the pills any more, although, I choose my situations. Like you Andy, I enjoy a boost every now and again especially when I know I'll be at it for a prolonged session in a group situation. lolz... Even then, my equipment knows when it has had enough of a good thing... hehe. Aside from anxiety, condoms can also be a problem for me... and of course.... some people just dont manage to get my engine revved... I think pheremones have a lot to do with sexual attraction. If its not working... no matter how intellectually connected you are to a person or how much you want to fuck them.. well... your body knows what it likes no matter what you have to say about it... so sometimes you just have to agree with the one eyed guy in your shorts! Thanks for bringing this subject up, Mate. A lot of guys think they are alone but E.D. for guys in unfamiliar circumstances is actually quite common. Despite popular opinion, blokes don't always get an erection on demand. It's very common in group sex situations for guys to suffer a soft on... and I see that happening all the time, young or old, experienced or inexperienced guys. But there's so much a guy can do in group sex situations despite having a flaccid cock, frankly I dont know why there's such a fuss about it. Naturally, some women could be a little more understanding and a little more sensitive to the anxt a flaccid cock can cause the bearer of same. Hugs and hard ones Gazza

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16 years ago

personally...i dont get upset if a guy cant get hard....coz then he has to be imaginative and use his hands and mouth instead! but there are herbal pills you can get from the sex shops that work wellfriend of mine got some called Top Gun and they were $25 for 2 tablets...he took half and it worked for 3 days!!I think guys and girls need to chill out if a guy cant get hardcoz worrying about it will only make it worse!Just my opinion....BJxxx

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16 years ago

O will keep my answer short.Yes have used the pills- CialisYes it worked very well, even though at the time i "Thought" i didn't need it.It was just a play session between the the two of us and i decided to drop it one night to see what the fuss was all about!Glad i did, Mrs Rough reckons i was a lot harder than normal, good thing, lasted a lot longer than normal, great thing, and was ready to go again very quickly (Remember your teens guys?) awesome thingAs for how did i get them- Fronted up to my GP, told him i needed a bit of a hand in that department, as stress and overwork had killed my libido, and voila, couple of trial tabs to see if it helped.Worked well fr us, and would not hesitate to organise them again if a big night was afoot!

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16 years ago

I too have problems from time to time. Esp in the early days playing and esp with another guy in the room and more so if he was hard and I was not. Disaster!! I tried Viagra...gave me a headache, then Cilias which was a bit better. Now I use Levitra which is much better headache wise and it does give me a real boost. Frankly ED is all in my head and I bet most guys heads. An understanding woman or man helps of course. Good post Andy Mars

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16 years ago

Not that I need them, but sometimes for some extra help if I want an alnighter.....I go to my sex shop and get these tabs called So Hard....they are herbal and you only need half a tab for a full on three day, touch it and it jumps to attention boner! Best part is that you are not wlaking around permanently hard, but just a brush against your cock or a naughty thought gets it up again......and yes, even after cumming six or seven times........I highly recommend these......

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16 years ago

When my partner suggested(hes it was her idea) swinging years ago, I was shocked, confused, interested, but also puzzled. How the hell was this going to work? LOL The male/male in same room made me pretty nervous(and too much booze is NOT the answer).Like mentioned, I used my tongue and hands, and as I got a little more comfortable it got better. The KEY to me getting a stiffy turned out to be when I saw and heard the pleasure my partner was getting!I am still pretty modest, but in a room full of hard dicks, as long as my partner is laughing, moaning, and smiling, I stand proud for the occasion. :)

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16 years ago

Would of made for an interesting open casket funeral.

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