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BDSM on RHP

December 21 2016

What have other people's experiences with BDSM play with others on RHP been like? Given RHP has a more mainstream audience than dedicated sites like FetLife or Recon, I would say that you're more exposed to a different variety of understanding and wondered if your personal experiences have been generally good or bad? If I'm meeting someone for a play from RHP, I find I tend to try and tease out a bit more about the other person's experiences and expectations.

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RHP User
8 years ago
...you know the ones with the vinyl masks and latex whips? I have no clue...hell I don't even own a Harley and don't want one!That said, I have had some absolutely positively incredible experiences sharing the arts of Shibari and Kinbaku with very well chosen partners that communicate well. Try that first... talk about it?
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RHP User
8 years ago
I've had some experiences with bdsm with people ive met on here in fact i would say my first 'proper ' encounter with BDSM was with someone i met off here however, it wasn't on the first play or even the second - these things take trust and time in my opinion. To answer your question it was good but as with anywhere in the kink scene beware the fakes.
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kinky_and_bi
8 years ago
Definitely agree that talking and communication is key. I think the main problem I find is that people have this idea that the Dom/me they play with will be able to magically mind-read what they want, or vice versa that the Dom/me knows exactly what someone wants when they say they like "BDSM". Personally it is the male Doms that think I as a bi-male submissive will automatically want to be called names and to suck cock and be fucked hard. They seem to fail to understand the breadth of what constitutes BDSM.

- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
BDSM, kink, bondage!

I just kinda fell into BDSM and Kink by accident as I realized I could get girls, woman to come just from my voice! Whether via phone sexbor video! I would play the part, every time, totally spontaneous and unrehearsed. I would hear the slight whimperbthen murmurs on phone! I jump straight into character!

" Oh Baby", I, do believe... I can smell your sweet....scent......ah!!!! Yes and I am going to......

Anyway... Lol

Always great for them!!! I never even got hard!

So off to the land of porn I went to, no not that!!!!

But watch and really feel what turned me on whilst being attentive to the positions, restraints, instruments used/etc!!!!

And Yes absolutely I must have complete trust almost a lustful " I'm all yours" state if mind!

I wouldn't do anything if I felt was not suiting the submissive participant! But I have been told I have the gift of the gab and can talk my way into anywhere!!!!

And I will say ladies!!!! If 50 shades of grey was um! Getting u going!!! Get on over my way and I'll give you a safe but totally mind blowing experience!

So far all have came back for more and more!

No bull here! Just found I had a talent and persona which fits well and I get so turned on doing this stuff!!!
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