M45

BDSM, bi M, and swinging

June 24 2018

I love all 3, and have been involved in scenes in different cities but have always struggled to find parties or gatherings that are accepting of all 3. BDSM parties generally don’t incorporate sex, and swinging/swingers parties are more than accepting of bi FF but never bi MM.

The closest I’ve ever found is the Couple’s Room at Torture Garden in London where it’s a free for all. Although there are direct flights from Perth to London these days, would be great to find somewhere more local!

Anyone else looking for something similar and what have your experiences been?

- Posted from rhpmobile

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Lovinit28andKC72
7 years ago
My girl and I love our kink and live the lifestyle when we're able. She's my baby girl and submissive (sometimes LOL), but when we play with others we're both tops and she's a very dominant woman. We love bi play with people that are complete bottoms. We're not in the swinging scene as far as public parties are concerned but in saying that we wouldn't be able to freely do what we enjoy at any of the events/clubs that we know of or have been to in the past. Instead we keep this form of play private at my home with select people. We love bondage and discipline, forced bi, pegging, service, water sports and sensory deprivation to name a few things. I've also found that, when some people see pictures of some of the more intense scenes we love they shy away stating they're not quite ready for that :)
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aussian43
7 years ago
I have only been exploring bdsm for the last 6 months. When I went to my first party as a very vanilla person, it was a shock, so I can understand the reactions you get KC72, though I was wielding the flogger over the weekend while my partner was tied up and blindfolded. :)

I think you are going to struggle to find events catering for the same range of things you are interested in. Easier for them to target a few things to get the numbers in.

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RHP User
7 years ago
Check out Noosa edge retreat. We can cater for you and your select friends if you wanted to have a private gathering to play. We have many guests like yourself that are not necessarily into the "swingers " scene but want a place they can freely explore and express their sexuality.
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RHP User
7 years ago
Noosaedge can you look me up onkik ?

- Posted from rhpmobile
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Hottie1
7 years ago
Thankyou for letting us know ... I need a weekend your way soon :)

Mary xx
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kinky_and_bi
7 years ago
The forced bi and pegging parts are also things I love being in the receiving end of and exactly the things that I would never see at a public party. For a swingers party it isn’t hetero sex and for a BDSM play party it’s too sexual. The B&D and sensory dep parts are more likely to be seen at more smaller and private play parties which are probably the best ones for me as more intense play happens there and pansexual play more encouraged.

aussian43 - enjoy your journey in BDSM! I think what I’m looking for isn’t the bigger parties in Australia and more likely the intimate private gatherings that select individuals hold at their homes.

Noosaedge - sounds brilliant! What a great excuse to visit Noosa!!

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