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BDSM Venue's ... are they like the internet?

June 24 2021

BDSM Venue's ... are they like the internet? No Ok well maybe we should go more into that .... BDSM as shown on the internet is not what you will find in any BDSM venue. There is no slave in the stocks waiting for everyone to flog then fuck them .... BDSM Venues are not swinger clubs or sex venues either. While our venue has no objection to sexual play of any type in a BDSM scene, and we have had some pretty hot scenes here, just getting a blowjob because you are horny is frowned on. It may seem strange that "Kinksters" in the kink world don't really have public sexual play but that is how the real BDSM community feels about it. Nudity is fine, being fisted is great, having your Dom flog you then fuck you is awesome, the two people on the lounge beside you having sex because they are horny is bad manners. And there is the crux of it, it is all about good manners and respect for those around you in these venues. Private parties are a different thing but most are pretty much like the venues although some aren't (the party organiser will let that be known on invitation) - BDSM Fetish play is great, sex in a corner is just the wrong place, go home or find a motel. Now you may think otherwise and that we have no idea what we are talking about but we can assure that we have been involved in the BDSM community for many years and one of us has run parties and venues for many years including some fabulous swinger events as well as private BDSM swinger parties. BDSM venues are about exploring kink and fetish and things that aren't usually in the "normal" world - we call it the "vanilla" world. Our Venue is very open minded about sexual play and other fun things but most venues and private BDSM parties are not that generous ... some don't even allow full nudity (usually for legal reasons). So why would you go to a BDSM venue if it isn't about having a full on fuckfest with a whip and cuffs? It is to meet others in the BDSM community (and it is a huge community) and find new friends and discover kinks and fetishes you hadn't even dreamed of or find the kink you have dreamed of but didn't know where to start. It is to learn how to play safely since there are many kinks and fetishes that are potentially dangerous. It is to have a common place for your kink friends and you to meet and socialise and play safely in a space where no one judges you for your choices or kinks or sexuality or orientations. It is a place for "newbies" to come to and safely explore and meet others without embarrassment. There are many reasons to go to a BDSM Venue and the above are just some of them. Remember, the basis of BDSM is about Respect, Honesty, Protocol, Caring, Safety it is far more than being tied up and paddled before being gangbanged in public (in all our years we've only ever seen that in porn films lol!) Come and explore a BDSM Venue soon, there are only a very few of them countrywide but it is worthwhile and you will have a memorable time and learn things you never thought of.

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RHP User

5 years ago

Yes!! And Chrystal Chateau is run by one of the most respected, old school kinksters in Qld. New visitors who are curious to go and have a look down the rabbit hole will be looked after in a safe environment that is run by dedicated people who love and respect the lifestyle, and those in it. Come check it out.

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RHP User

5 years ago

As someone who is brand new to the Kink scene, I love this post. It’s been truly difficult to find real examples of BDSM and Kink venues, online. They’re all so hyper-sexualised and porn driven. Knowing not a single person within the scene is daunting at a minimum, and terrifying at worst. So to hear that you offer such a truly safe space is awesome. I hope that your post, gifts many new people to the scene an opportunity to finally dip their toe into the naughty waters of the BDSM pool. 😈❤️😈❤️😈

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countrytouch82

5 years ago

Interesting and would be lovely if I knew of somewhere in Melbourne although I'm sure there is something similar. I've been to fetlife socials, and have my own toys such as a flogger, the hard part is finding someone who is on the receiving, or giving end. Like above, I don't have any actual fetish contacts, not sure what my actual non sexual fetishes might be, or where best to wander along on my lonesome in order to find out.

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BDSM Venue's ... are they like the internet?

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