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Aussie men and dirty talk?
June 27 2013
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Claire Welcome to Aus. Good on you if you are into it. Personally I find it too distracting and really annoying but each to their own. SF
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hi Claire, as with many things, taking dirty I think means many different things to many different people. A couple of examples would be......during some roleplaying, suiting the language to the roleplay, being descriptive or just using words not normally acceptable in polite society. I remember talking to one woman who was aroused by talking descriptively about what I was doing or going to do or thinking about doing. In that case it was less about the words used (vast vast majority were acceptable in polite society :)). That can be contrasted with other women who like different body parts referred to with words that would make most people blush, anything and everything. Sometimes it's contextual and sometimes not. For me personally, I like a bit (maybe a lot) of talking dirty on occasion. As long as it is natural and arousing for us both. If it arouses the woman I am with and enhances the experience then I am all for it. Unfortunately it can often feel stilted and unnatural like a bad popcorn movie but when it works it can be a lot of fun :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Hmmmmm....bloody autocorrect.....should be porn movie!
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RHP User
13 years ago
Gday Claire and welcome to Oz.. Consider myself respectful enough to find out what the lady likes before letting loose with the dirty talk. Once I feel the time is right' I'll let loose with a few words to match the moment. Specially if she looks me straight in the eye and says 'fuck me' or fuck me harder... then its on for young and old.. lol.. Jay.
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RHP User
13 years ago
you're asking whether Australian men in general tend to talk dirty in bed or not? And the answer is (in my experience anyway) that you really can't make a generalisation one way or another. I think it's much more an individual thing. Some guys I've been with love to talk dirty and are very good at it (I'm like you, I like a bit of talk during sex, it definitely gets me going as long as it's appropriate to the situation and not a constant commentary lol). Others are silent as a stone, which I definitely find a bit boring and offputting because I have no idea whether they're enjoying it.Have a great time on your travels and in finding those dirty-talking Aussies
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RHP User
13 years ago
I believe what I refer to as "aural sex" is an individual trait and subjective to both parties involved at the time. But I DO consider it essential.... to the point that the deep resonating dominant tone of a mans voice can play a powerful contributary role in a woman's arousal and even her climax. There may well be cultural differences, but like all things.....learning how to adapt or improve only relies on the thought that you CAN or there is room to. DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
Ahhh fuck shellah , you have a great cunt, let me pound it harder? jeezzzes luv, can you ride my cock harder but make sure nothing gets in the line of sight of the footy game. hey babe, this ute sure has good springs , and this is me best mate Bruce, we share everything. Ripper, sit sit you fucker, bloody blue heelers sorry about that hon....he must have thought you were a sheep speaking of sheep, I am really from newzeland you sure that good root was an Ausie? (Lady T ducking for cover )
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yankmychain56
13 years ago
I am from the states and have only recently found that i really get off on talking dirty during sex. not all the time, but i guess for a particular moment. Everyone is different i suppose and some people take offense to it. while some cultures might be different, human nature is pretty much the same everywhere.Are you sure it wasnt the accent, and not the dirty talk?I have found that women like hearing me talk, just not talking dirty, but the accent. I had an aussie friend that went to the states and the women wouldnt leave him alone because of his accent. He was proud to say he got laid in every state he went to:)
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quite good at it actually..But I've only been moved to put the effort in on a few occasions..
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RHP User
13 years ago
The short answer is Some guys like to talk dirty but don't know if the girl will like it.. Some guys are useless in the bedroom or selfish .. I get to play with younger girls as they like the knowledge older guys have which is cool but it don't last after a few weeks they have learned and are gone. Even then I have to delve there mind and find there limits and desires to find out what turns them on and hey some don't like the dirty talk but just like being dirty
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RHP User
13 years ago
..about talking dirty. He tells me he thinks 'she' wouldnt like it much but still wanted to know more. After a heart to heart , he piped up saying; bugga it , he's going to give it a go..Next time I seen him ' he tells me it didnt go down too well.. Told me she started abusing him, pushed him off and slapped him in the back of his head... so much for my good advice.. poor bugga..
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RHP User
13 years ago
Jay.... the principle of your advice is sound.... but obviously, the application of whatever you told him was flawed. Perhaps, he simply didnt caibrate his new use against what they had experienced in their past...... and it was too much, too soon. Im not going to speculate on you, him or her any further..... but clearly, his method failed. Women "need" what I call Aural sex. It is her feedback....... and a mans silence is as uninspiring as a womans potato-sack is to us. But do it right.... and the results are profound. Woman can be brought to climax via voice alone. DG
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RHP User
13 years ago
From what he told me, he jumped the barrier too quick and just went for it... As much as I like the guy, he does not have much finesse when it comes to the opposite sex. Just one of them really nice guys who bumbles his way through life. I advised him to build up to it slowly to see how she would react before going to hard.. From what he told me, his slow build up took all of about 2minutes...
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RHP User
13 years ago
I'm your huckleberry! Think the right words at the right time can only enhance your experience... Time and place for everything;)
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RHP User
13 years ago
I GUESS IT DEPENDS ON BOTH THE MOOD AND YOUR PARTNER. IVE BEEN KNOWN TO TALK DIRTY FOR ENCOURAGEMENT AT THE FINISH LINE!!!!
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RHP User
12 years ago
I hate anything that detracts from my full focus on making as mindfuckingly amazing for both parties involved :).Dirty talk that transcends "this feels so good" or the odd "Fuck yeh", "God", "Holy shit" - to me, it is just distracting and takes away from the experience. Personal preference I guess :P
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RHP User
12 years ago
Slickz Just be aware that what creates a 'mindfuckingly amazing' experience to you.... a man.... .... can be enormously different to what creates it for a woman. Read a few so called romance novels and try to put yourself in the mindset of the women who are the target demographic. Youll quickly see that these books aren't really that romantic, but are heavily descriptive, they drive ("manipulate") her emotions, and fire her cerebral centres, which control her physical ones. They focus on escapism and leading the female characters out from the mundane, to what is seen as the unorthodox of emotion.... lust, and desire through a connection. 50 Shades does the same. And describing to a woman how her you observe her arousal growing, how her body is responding to you and your touch, and how her body and responses are making you feel and build your arousal for her... does it for her too. That IS full focus.... because you are in the moment, and proving that to her. You might find it distracting..... she finds it..... exciting and connective. DG
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Lifes_great
12 years ago
Quoting 'Lady_Tuscan' Ahhh fuck shellah , you have a great cunt, let me pound it harder? jeezzzes luv, can you ride my cock harder but make sure nothing gets in the line of sight of the footy game. hey babe, this ute sure has good springs , and this is me best mate Bruce, we share everything. Ripper, sit sit you fucker, bloody blue heelers sorry about that hon....he must have thought you were a sheep speaking of sheep, I am really from newzeland you sure that good root was an Ausie? (Lady T ducking for cover )Is coming for your ass Lady_T!
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RHP User
12 years ago
all m y exes had been rather boring you know like th eones that are missionary and only at night in bed. I always have had a high sex drive and fantasies. After splitting with my ex I've decided to do what works for me and only look for people like minded. I have had sex with a couple of women since and just instantly went into dirty talk, and turned out they went ballistic over it as I fully took charge which is what I like. Just told them to do this and that and said how much of a slut they where. Then when it's over I treat them like princesses everywhere else. So thats what works for me, and if it doesnt work for the person I'm with at the time well she's not the one for me and we'll just chalk it up as an experience.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Dirty talk is only part of stimulating the senses.I like my mind to be stimulated and dirty talk plays a big part of that.Knowing that someone can push your buttons with words and then also stimulate your body with touch gives a complete package of sexual enjoyment.Dirty talk should not put your partner down but should make them think of what is about to happen to them physically.Mind ,body and eventually touching someone's soul is the complete package IMHO of great sexual experiencesCheers
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RHP User
12 years ago
I really don't enjoy the "Oh yeah baby, don't you just love my huge cock in your wet pussy?". Silence is usually the deafening reply. I'm humbled by little cubs self-talk to themselves "Oh my God I can't believe I've got my cock in your arse." expecting no response, just can't believe their luck. That makes me egg them on.... and twist their nipples But an imaginative dirty talker coaxes you on the play at hand, setting up promises, telling you how good it feels. Like dancing. It's all in the rhythm.
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RHP User
12 years ago
I loved what you wrote I laughed hard but watch it as in some cases its true.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Each to there own, and if it makes the experience for both parties more enjoyable and satisfying then why not.
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Beachlover1999
12 years ago
Hi Claire I to am originally from the Mother country - ***coughs*** 25 plus yrs ago!!!! So I can rather unashamedly say that I have liaised with a few Fair dinkum Aussie blokes!!! I think during my research ....lol I would say metro guys are more likely to talk than regional/country guys.....might be there previous sheep experiences!!!!! Lol But I would say without a shadow of doubt generally Aussie blokes have farrrrrrr the better bods and good looks, taller, broader and their cocks are cut...........That to me is farrrr more important!!!!! Good luck and enjoy the ride!!!! ;))))
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RHP User
12 years ago
there is something about the tone of voice,not just the words,that can send me into the stratosphere. But if you haven't got the voice and delivery right it's best to keep your mouth occupied in other ways
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madotara69
12 years ago
When I tell/cry/yelp at times where Tara takes control over my ability to make any sense at all. She gets very horny and tests my ability to remain conscious.Tara just has one dirty word, just different volumes hmmmmmmmmmmmmhhh and often repeats it over and over. heheMado, Tara xx
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RHP User
12 years ago
Hi Miss Brit.. I need a lover who can talk it and do it..Just as I do..Walk across Abbey Road together !
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Tall74nHard9
12 years ago
Isn't that supposed to be 'Nu Zuland' along with your fush und chups, apart from the luv for sheep ? Tall
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RHP User
12 years ago
I enjoy it when the woman talks cheap about herself during sex, even though she is is an absolute lady. Its pretty hard for me to talk dirty during sex because i always have my tongue working elsewhere.
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RHP User
12 years ago
undertaken the task of corrupting a sixty year old born again virgin...of course he is virgin no more and along with the joys of light spanking he is learning to talk dirty...oooohhh how I do love the blushes
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RHP User
12 years ago
Claire im a huge fan. To have it demonstrated youll have to cointact me again though. You messaged and were keen, now just follow through
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RHP User
12 years ago
I know it's wet, I have my dick right in there.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Clair, some girls just don't get into dirty talk, and the others love it. you can pretty much tell soon after meeting if the girl like a little dirty talk. I am all for it and love to talk dirty, its a great way to spice the night up. plus it also has to be respectful.
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RHP User
12 years ago
''even though you are a naughty,naughty dirty slut,I shall respect you in the morning"
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RHP User
12 years ago
Love the way you think Freya lol
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RHP User
12 years ago
When I was a lot younger I had a guy talk dirty to me, I mean filthy, I found it really hard to keep the flow going, because I was trying hard not to piss myself laughing at him. I think he thought if he talked really dirty to me it would hide the fact he had no idea what he was doing. Hehehe
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RHP User
12 years ago
I love to dirty talk in bed is the biggest turn on love to tell my wife how good she feels and just get it all hot n sweaty;)
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RHP User
12 years ago
Yeah I love a bit of dirty talk...often I can't help myself. But I don't find many women that reciprocate. It is wonderful to have a woman tell me how she is enjoying my touch.
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RHP User
12 years ago
Can't talk right now as I have a clit in my mouth and pussy juices flowing down my neck ;),,
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RHP User
12 years ago
Forgot the simple take on life it's self... Actions speak much louder then any words ;),
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RHP User
7 years ago
It's an essential part of role playing I believe. I have a music playlist that I use and when certain lines in songs are sung, I make sure I'm right in their ear saying it to them. Indulge as many senses cleverly as possible and the experience is heightened. Generally the more dominant the male, the more talking you should hear
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