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Attractive versus Very Attractive
June 16 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
hehe.. this reminds me of that web site for "beautiful people".... you submit your pics and profile for review by the moderators.. and they decide if you are beautiful or not. I can well image those who think they are "beautiful" making genuine applications to be included in this exclusive club, failing to realise that in many eyes, in making the application, they lose points for beauty straight away. hehe. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hi Sach,I agree but can go one better. What about those that put down the "very Attractive' but have no photos and a load of 'Ask Me's" in their profile - yep they can be believed can't they lolSeriously, some people consider themselves drop dead perfect when it looks like their face has launched a 1000 shits (as a battering ram), whilst others describe themselves as 'average' are stunners! It is all a personal perspective I guess.Mooka
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RHP User
16 years ago
and nope this aint no fairy tale.....lol I met a lady from the ACT who rated herself as Very attractive, and didn't have a picture!and bloody hell.....she was...Absolutely gorgeous in mind, body and soul.So there ya go it can happen!!Cheers Nev.......chalk one up for taking a chance on someone!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'stalky' hehe.. this reminds me of that web site for "beautiful people".... you submit your pics and profile for review by the moderators.. and they decide if you are beautiful or not. I can well image those who think they are "beautiful" making genuine applications to be included in this exclusive club, failing to realise that in many eyes, in making the application, they lose points for beauty straight away. hehe. Hugs Stalky I absolutely agree...just the act of thinking you are better than another makes you ugly in my eyes Mrs Shy xxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Beauty is subjective, I look at "super models" and in more cases then not Im repulsed by what I see. the same can be said in reverse about stereo typically unattractive people... who have rocked my world because they know their body and how to show it
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RHP User
16 years ago
Slim , athletic , average and then you meet and probably extra large would have been the better no make that more accurate desciption. But Sach your Dam Hot and extremely Lovely but i tell you that all the time xx
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Tart_Du_Jour
16 years ago
If I put "attractive" or "very attractive" does that make me sound like I think a lot of myself? But if I put "average" does it mean that I am lacking confidence? In the end I wasn't sure and just sooked out and left it at "see my photo". Attractiveness is highly subject, just because I find one person physically attractive doesn't mean someone else will or won't. There is no one person everyone wants to sleep with or that nobody wants to sleep. So in conclusion, I think that section should have a "Depends on who you ask"
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RHP User
16 years ago
I cannot believe that someone has to have "an amazingly fit" body to be classed as very attractive. If you think that way then you are very shallow! Attractiveness has nothing to do with the body at all. It has to do with personality moreso than anything else. I used to date a top male model many many moons ago and at first to me he was a knockout...but within a month..he was the ugliest guy that I have ever met...and I told him so too. I used to date what you would call an Unattractive male (as he didn't have what your perception is of a Body of a God), but the more I dated him the more attractive to me he became as he had a good heart and a great soul. No wonder people have body issues... I know many voluptuous women that are absolutely attractive...inside and out!! xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Xfunlovingx has hit the nail on the head......awesome post
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RHP User
16 years ago
For highlighting that a beautiful soul can outshine the "prettiest" face. The term attractive is very subjective and we all have our own concept of what makes someone attractive. Some people are caught up in stereotypes of beauty while others were taught and have embraced the notion that you see the "whole" person. My mum used to say "beauty is as beauty does" when I was bemoaning my red hair freckles as a kid. It took me a while to get what she meant. Now I see the wisdom in her words. Cheers WILDly average
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RHP User
16 years ago
i asked the boys at work what they classed as very attractive...boys as in between 22-25 years old and all four of them said...hot body and gorgeous looks...didn't really care what was between the ears...marvellous thing, testosterone....and then i asked a couple of the girls as well...they were more interested in how a guy related to them, looks played some part, yes they did, but it was more about what they talked about...so i think i fit very nicely into the category of very attractive, attractive, ordinary and downright ugly...what?...that category doesn't exist??oh well...jose...
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RHP User
16 years ago
In our profile my partner is down as very attractive thats what i think to me she is.Being average, fit ,attractive or more is only one part of the make up of a person.You can be super attrative and have no inner beauty what so ever i think thats more attractive in a person In some profiles read if your average we your not what were looking for now thats shallow Thats what nick thinks anyway
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RHP User
16 years ago
I would describe myself as having a head like a smashed crab...so can someone please define that for me............
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RHP User
16 years ago
Lmfao@ "eye of the beer holder"... wish I said that! :p HUgs Gaz
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RHP User
16 years ago
Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I cannot believe that someone has to have "an amazingly fit" body to be classed as very attractive. If you think that way then you are very shallow! Attractiveness has nothing to do with the body at all. It has to do with personality moreso than anything else. I used to date a top male model many many moons ago and at first to me he was a knockout...but within a month..he was the ugliest guy that I have ever met...and I told him so too. I used to date what you would call an Unattractive male (as he didn't have what your perception is of a Body of a God), but the more I dated him the more attractive to me he became as he had a good heart and a great soul. No wonder people have body issues... I know many voluptuous women that are absolutely attractive...inside and out!! xFunlovingx the field on the RHP profile relating to 'Attractive' is under the physical tab, and specifically, looks. In that case I agree with Sach that I would expect someone who rated themselves as Very Attractive here would be pretty spectacular to look at, a head-turner, jaw-dropper etc. I also agree that there are plenty of pics of fairly average looking people that have rated themselves as very attractive.While physical beauty is in the eye of the beholder, it's can also be identified objectively through mathematical analysis i.e. http://www.intmath.com/Numbers/mathOfBeauty.php. So, it's subjective to an extent, but also objectively verifiable.Objectively speaking, some people seriously overrate themselves.lilmiss x
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RHP User
16 years ago
Um Customer 69, I dont think we were specifically talikng about "bananas"!!! It was a discussion on overall attractiveness :-)
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RHP User
16 years ago
I 'm sure think the attractive versus very attractive is referring to one's body NOT their personality. There is a personality section that one can select. And believe me I definitely appreciate a lovely personality. But hey this IS an adult site and one's body status is important to SOME members. The discussion is directed towards those who say they look this that and the other. When you meet they are nothing like they said. And its embarrassing when you think the person you have chatted to looks a particular way. Then you meet and it's like!! OMG thats not what I was expecting which is One: very embarrassing and two: very disappointing
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RHP User
16 years ago
I agree with everything you have all said but wanted to expand on Comeandgetme68's point. I think that what we find attractive changes as we get older (and maybe wiser) unless viewing through a beer glass of course ! So a person's age also has a lot to do with what they will find attractive when you are young it is all about looks... Comeandgetme68 - There is a definite theme to your photos! Can I ask how did you manage to get those lovely kisses on that VERY ATTRACTIVE butt??? Meeka
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RHP User
16 years ago
We know where you are coming as we know one couple personally (outside of the AMM/RHP scene) who we know are on here and their username. Their profile describes them as extremely attractive and fit, yet from our eyes they are as attractive as a piece of two week old ham left in the sun - and smell much the same, SERIOUSLY unattractive people in a sexual and even conversational sense (from our point of view).But it ist he point of view that is crucial.For us, attraction is as much mental as physical and where one person may turn heads as they walk down the street, once they open their mouths you so wish that you were elsewhere (my sister in law is an example). Alternately we have met may people who arent gym fit, but have very striking features yet do not know of it, or at least do not show it.For us, we avoid people who describet hemselves as very attractive as for us it is a sign of what they seek as much as what they feel of themselves. Confidence is a turn on, but over confidence is a massive turnoffShebagazz
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