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Attached Women v's Single Women

August 04 2010

Why is it that single men will walk over broken glass for attached women when they have an array of single women to choose from? I sometimes go into chat and am amazed at how single men almost break their necks to meet up with women that are in couples or attached women (usually these women get pissed off and just block them). I saw a guy the other day plead to be with a woman that was part of a couple and although she kept telling him that she is only looking for bi men for her hubby he still persisted that they all get together. Looking at his profile, I noticed that he was "straight" and not interested in men at all. Now I know that he said that he was interested in a threesome with both partners but only had his dicks eye set on her...she wasn't stupid at all though and just blocked him (as apparently many couples in chat have)! Apart from this though, I do notice that many single women go unnoticed and most of the "single" guys put all the attention into the attached women over single women, only to hear the men complain about never getting any!! Some of the single women want nothing but sexual encounters, but they still don't get as much attention. So guys, come on...enlighten me...would you rather go without than be with a single woman? Or are you all really attached and another attached is the safest way to go, even though your profiles say you are single? Just wondering xFunlovingx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    maybe they think they're gods gift to women that regardless of what the woman says that she's only interested in no strings, she won't be able to help herself but fall for the him and god forbid make life complicated for him.attached women apparently are immune to their charms.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Awwwhh funlovin' it's simple. Everybody knows that married women put out. :p Hugs stalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In my opinion, I think the single man likes married women, because he knows he can have sex without the fear of commitment / strong attachment. Regardless of what a woman's profile states, I'm sure a lot of single females enjoy relationships and the benefits attached. Maybe the single man fears commitment after a few hot lust filled evenings? Or is that all too cliche?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Over nothing, feel sorry for some guys who get strung along by women on sites like these.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    A lot of single guys write to me and tell me that they want an attached woman cos they want sex only and not the whole dating thing and no attachments etc. These guys range in age from 20's to 60's. I tell them to read the profile properly; i only want attached guys 45 or thereabouts  and over!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'SensualSexy69'Over nothing, feel sorry for some guys who get strung along by women on sites like these. never strung a guy along ever...but plenty have strung me along well no one wants this single girl...maybe il put married on my profile...then i might get someone by the sound of it roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    New to the forum scene... But not sure if I agree with the census... I'm single and it would be nice to find one of those so called single ladies out there that are willing to invest the time to reply to a message. May be the allure that an attached lady is generally and potentially uncomplicated... but life / relationships are inherently complicated.

  • N4November

    N4November

    15 years ago

    .... especially the pregnant ones because you REALLY know that they are good for it!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Count G This single girl answers her flirts and messages, maybe not with the answer you want (particularly at the moment) but you still get a response but this thread isnt about whether the girls respond or not but more that Funloving has observed that single guys are chasing the married women and rarely the single girls. To this I would have to disagree. I get a hell of a lot of single guys messaging and flirting me. The majority of my playmates that I have met through this site have been single guys just after some fun. Some of these have told me that they can be turned off by the single girl profiles that read they are looking for something a bit more than fun and hey! thats everyones choice. I am not saying you should lie on your profile about what you want but everyone should be a little more open minded to what a single girl/guy can offer. Kisses Focus BTW Stalky - you funny fella do we need to check to see how long she has been married as to whether she still puts out? Rose - let me know how that goes for you could be a blast.... Baygirl - they do say actions speak louder than words and that is DEFINATE proof right there

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Its the chase thats important, the degree of difficulty that excites guys No point in the chase being easy!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'den0010' Its the chase thats important, the degree of difficulty that excites guys No point in the chase being easy! On Sites like this...that makes no sense at all to me. I would understand if you met a girl out and about but don't understand when you are on a site that is mainly perceived as a sex site. The chase is meant to be a bit easier on here. Focus, I too get alot of messages and flirts from single guys and reply to them all (except a couple of flirts that I feel there is no reply). But my question was about what I had noticed in the chatrooms. You could have an attached woman on cam doing the exact same thing as a single woman on cam and one is as gorgeous as the other...but the men will 90% of the times, throw themselves at the attached woman rather than the single woman! Does that make sense? It makes sense in my head lol. xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    FunLovin , i cant work it out ..Maybe it is a numbers thing ..I react to a profile of the person if i like them i make contact , otherwise i dont waste my time...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i used to get way more male attention when i was married, then now when i am single. even though i state quite clearly all i want is casual sex (both people i meet on here and real life) it is always the guys who want me to be their girlfriend, or get jealous i am seeing other people grr! maybe it would just be easier to say i am married and after married men only?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Single, Single only single. When I was married I stayed faithful and I guess along those lines I will not even contemplate a married or attached woman. I don't need the hassles of a third party. When it comes to friendships, that's a different matter. Open slather. Male, female, single, attached, gay or straight friends are friends. I guess I am just a simple bloke with a simple (if not somewhat old fashioned) idiology.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Yes,,,, what is it with men and married women!!!!! Some blokes are annoying and a pain in the arse!!! But not my SensualSexy69 xxx Haven't spoken for a while !!!!!!!! Kittycat49

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'desserts'A lot of single guys write to me and tell me that they want an attached woman cos they want sex only and not the whole dating thing and no attachments etc. These guys range in age from 20's to 60's. I tell them to read the profile properly; i only want attached guys 45 or thereabouts and over!! By "attached" guys you mean married ? Would separated also be the same as consequences for them would be as great as if they were married ? Separated means they are still married, they are not divorced. So is there a real difference ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Focus, I too get alot of messages and flirts from single guys and reply to them all (except a couple of flirts that I feel there is no reply). But my question was about what I had noticed in the chatrooms. You could have an attached woman on cam doing the exact same thing as a single woman on cam and one is as gorgeous as the other...but the men will 90% of the times, throw themselves at the attached woman rather than the single woman! Does that make sense? It makes sense in my head lol. xFunlovingx Makes perfect sense now to this poor brain lol... the whole concept of forbidden fruit maybe??? ..or how about if she is on here her man cant be doing a good enough job to keep her satisfied she's definately going to need some attention from me.. There is one thing we have forgotten to take into consideration here though Funloving and thats when you can begin to understand a mans brain will you let me know I've got a few things I want answers to myself. Lol... Kisses Focus

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    i am now officially attached....now to get into the chat rooms hehehe this could be fun roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    The guys like married girls because thay are not going to want more. Also, obviously they must be okay because they are still married. Men are inherent hunters and want what belongs to someone else. The grass is always greener etc. They just dont stop and think that once they get to the other side, greener grass tends to need more mowing soooo guys, that greener grass COULD translate to high maintenance woman! I try to steer clear of the married men anyway as I think that there are enough single guys out there for me, if I am good enough to fuck, I am certainly good enough to be seen out and about with. No sneaking around corners for odd moments of intimacy for me!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Hello

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Awwwhh funlovin' it's simple. Everybody knows that married women put out. :p Hugs stalkyIf that's the case, why are there so many married and attached men who are looking for some sex "cos they don't get any at home!" Maybe the partners are putting out for someone else and not their husbands.

  • erotictouch4u

    erotictouch4u

    15 years ago

    @ WildTassieGypsy to Stalky Hahahahaha SNAP !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    People always want what they can't have, the elusive, the forbidden, the hard to attain. It drives us to great feats and also drives us to distraction!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I am hijacking my own OP as I am a proud mum at the moment. My son's Rep basketball team finished 2nd on the ladder after beating the team that WAS 2nd on the ladder. That means we have a double shot!! Not bad for the team that was written off for the season and always named the "underdogs". And ahem...but to further brag...my son was named as one of the BOC (Best On Court)!! Now who wants to be our cheerleading bitches for the Finals...ahahahahahahahahaha xFunlovingx A Happily Bragging Mum

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'xFunlovingx' I am hijacking my own OP as I am a proud mum at the moment. My son's Rep basketball team finished 2nd on the ladder after beating the team that WAS 2nd on the ladder. That means we have a double shot!! Not bad for the team that was written off for the season and always named the "underdogs". And ahem...but to further brag...my son was named as one of the BOC (Best On Court)!! Now who wants to be our cheerleading bitches for the Finals...ahahahahahahahahaha xFunlovingx A Happily Bragging Mum well done funloving...i can see why your so proud...its great to see...give your boy a big hug and tell him well done from me mwahhhh roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    THERES LOADS OF SOCIAL RETARDS IN THE CHATROOMS AND IV WATCHED THE EXACT SAME THING AND ITS PAINFUL AND THEN I HAVE TO START COMMENTING.....I BELEIVE PART OF THE REASON IS SOME MENS ABILITY NOT TO UNDERSTAND THE WORD NO. I PERSONALLY WOULD NEVER WANT TO MET ANYONE OF HERE THAT CANT UNDERSTAND THAT WORD.....SO LET HIM SHOT HIMSELF IN THE FOOT.....IM SURE HE DOES IT IN THE REAL WORLD ALOT TO.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Lol couldn't help myself...my son and his team made it into the Grand Final next week...Even though we are playing a team that is undefeated all season...I am so proud of all my boys. But I tell you...these 1 point wins when you are down by 4 with 58 seconds to go...not good for the heart lol xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Wish the single women were like that. Being married seems to be somewhat of a handicap to me...lol den0010 ....speak for yourself "Its the chase thats important, the degree of difficulty that excites guys No point in the chase being easy!" Actually seem to have a few handicaps....too old, married, don't have a 8/9 inch penis. lol Roles reversed...IF ONLY!!!!!