M54
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June 15 2010
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RHP User
16 years ago
Why did she still do the deed? She obviously was in contact with them as a couple...I don't understand why she still went there! Am I missing something? I have had guys contact me under "couples" profiles and they tell me they have split up and the whole sob story...only after I tell them I am not into couples sexually...Then I ask them if they are now single then why don't they have a singles profile...I mean after all they are meant to be "separated" from their other half. Guess what? Yep..you got it....I never hear from them again. Surely there are plenty of other real couples or single men or even attached men that would have loved to get their end in with her (as you so eloquently put it). If you lay down with dogs...then expect to get up with fleas. xFunlovingx
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RHP User
16 years ago
Unfortunately this happens and will continue to happen and not only the male will be the offender. It may be wise for your friend to cam with the couple so she is able to see both. Although it could be someone else I know, but better odds then not camming. Next time, someone says they are split up if they are in the room, perhaps your friend could ask or if uncomfortable with that, perhaps ask how is such and such, what are u guys doing on the weekend sort of convo. That may assist. xxMiss Honeyxx <<
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RHP User
16 years ago
Oh him. Yeah maybe he did split with his wife for a day or two and they got back together. Ain't love grand!!! It makes for a great read though.. All this treachery to dip the dick! Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
16 years ago
Seriously, it's guys like this that really make my blood boil. It's unfortunate that there is always going to be people like that. Seriously, if you are going to take that step and involve a third (for forth, or fifth, or.....) in your relationship, you should be mature enough to be honest with your partner(s) and at least discuss the idea. My wife and I have an agreement that nothing will happen without the other and it is working very well for us. We have a very open and honest relationship and after an 11 year marriage, we are still desperately in love and find each other exciting (much to the embarrassment of her sister who has just had to move in with us). :-) I'm not just targeting guys. I've personally known some women who have done the same. One of is my wife's (ex) best friend. GROW UP!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Mate it happens all the time. Who is to blame?. If your female friend honestly believed what he told her, then she cant be blamed. She would have got abused by the wife because the guy would have convinced his wife that the other girl had preyed on him. The way i see it the guy is to blame here...period. BTW this is nothing new..i could right a book about the amount of times i have seen it happen..from both parties. The obvious sign are when this person is accesable. Can she text him or call him anytime? Is he only ever on msn during the day?..etc...a single guy has nothing to hide and can meet at anytime, day or nite. Cheers
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RHP User
16 years ago
...this guy is one. However!! What gets me in these situations is that women are more than happy to accept whatever a bloke tells them. For some reason women generally won't talk to each other and they let themselves get played - and this dude is playing both his wife and your friend.Maybe it's the cool logical part of me but I prefer to have some open communication. When I've been cheated on before I found out (hard to hide stuff from me, I work in IT!) and contacted the other woman straight away. We had a bit of conversation but then she cut me off because she didn't want to know that she was being played too. I did what I could so I absolve myself of responsibility for the hurt she subsequently encountered because she was too smitten to be rational.I'm not a man hater, but I do think women are the fairer AND stronger sex, and I don't believe that guys should ever have the opportunity to play us. They wouldn't get that opportunity if women weren't so competitve when it comes to guys. It's 2010, we (women that is) don't need men to survive in this world. Sure it's nice to have a partner, someone to share life with on an equal footing, in a trusting relationship, but I'd prefer to be alone than be with a guy who can't make up his mind, than be with a guy who treats me (and anyone else) like shit, than to be with a guy who is happy fucking with other peoples emotions.I love it when I hear stories of how women have been conned and they get together to exact revenge. This to me is much better than one woman hating another because of the crap her bf/husband/partner has spun without ever talking to the 'other' woman/women.
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RHP User
16 years ago
Reminds me of the movie Fatal Attraction....The only innocent party here is the wife....Hopefully both parties can move on....and take it as a lesson learnt.A guilty conscience needs no accuser Leelee
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RHP User
16 years ago
Not always the guys that do that, i know someone that a woman did it to, just to have sex with him. That sucks....so it goes both ways
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RHP User
16 years ago
Agreed it does take 2 to tango, but makes u wonder why the man goes to such lengths just for a bonk!!!( ie lying, deceiving). Girls i am a great believer in KARMA.......learn by your mistakes and be more vigilant when searching for men. xxxxx
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RHP User
16 years ago
..ruining it for the rest of us... i believe he is to blame, yes, and then there will always be the partners who listen to their husbands, and really should a listen to the other womens side also.. and make a gut judgement, then deal with it. if she wants to stay with her guy n sort it out, no prob, but really go with your gut and sort out the issue, not just blame the other women and then still be pissed at husband, cause its not called "womens intuition" for nothing... hope that made sense ? ( and yes i do believe women do this also and the problem is reversed) ... and what do i mean by ruining for the rest of us.. mrc and i are seeing if an open relationship is for us, we are going well with it, but as you can imagine, if mrc is out , and he starts chatting to a nice woman and they have a bit of a connection, then he is honest and says he is married and this is our situation... then game over... but we will continue to be true to ourselves and what we want in life, and we are happy because we choose to be.. and some people dont choose happiness.. x much love msC ..(ps thanx for listening, or reading, mrc away at the moment :( and i am desperate for adult conversation) xx
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RHP User
16 years ago
And you can be pretty sure that this guys wife won't be giving him the benefit of the doubt next time. She sided with him rather than with her and believed his side of the story. Hopefully she'll wise up and realize she's married to a dick in every sense of the word lol I agree with caramel cream, attached players who lie are ruining it for the rest of us. I'm married, I'm honest about that but I also have my wifes complete support in this, I don't lie to her, never have and never will and I won't meet with a woman who is here without her husbands knowledge either. What ruins it for me is that there are so many of these guys out there either pretending to be single or separated or having permission that the few of us who actually DO just aren't believed anymore. As for what signs to look for... like already mentioned yes, look for ring marks, weird contact times etc. But you DO have to have some degree of trust and its unfortunate but sooner or later you're likely to get burned. Don't let it disillusion you about all of us though, for some of us honesty is part of our nature :)
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RHP User
16 years ago
Hey everyone What you have told me here is exactly what I told my friend to be on the look out for and here is hoping that she takes some of the comments on board, more for her sanity than anyone elses.I like what you said Miss Honey and yeah nothing wrong with doing a little bit of a background check.I might start charging females for me to do a background check on peeps, at least I will get something out of this site LOLWalks away into the nite PK !!!
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RHP User
16 years ago
Gloriously Crazy RHP Topic I confess to being lost halfway through it, but this is SO rhp Forums. This post should be guilded by...help Me out Earl...Guilders or something because that, my friends is online, swnging/dating in 2010. A snapshot, right there. Hope everyone comes out of it ok but great post, will keep us con - suuuumed for ages. Well done ! vBadDog
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RHP User
16 years ago
"why don't you come to your senses"are blokes so desperate for a rootthey can fuck theres and so many other lives?sex aint that grand man.you right Bad Dog. forum gold man.beats the shit out o Ramsay St.....ahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahaEarl
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