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At what point do you remove the privilege of Private Gallery?

June 08 2011

Hi all,Just wondering at what point do you remove the privilege of someone having access to our gallery We are finding that some and not all... once we give access we never hear from them again!We include in our messages " if you dont like what you see please let us know" We are grown up and can take a no thanks.It is easy for them to contact us in the first place and we are very careful of who gets it..... i think How do we work out who is just after the perve and who is real??? Thanks for your thoughtsplaymatewantd42

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I tend to open my PG to guys that I may be interested in meeting and then leave it for a day ... after that I go in and see if they have opened my message ... if I can see that they have opened it and if I haven't heard back I go in and take them off my Access list to PG's! 0 Hope that helps! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Can someone please tell me how I go about removing someone's access to my private photos? I don't want people having access to what I usually look like once they've rejected me Thank you for your help!Bella

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Thank you for you thoughts and understanding of the working of this site a bit better as we are only newbies.I though i was being a bit harsh with removing the PG but im glad to know im not lolCheers D&B

  • LeoQueen

    LeoQueen

    15 years ago

    With couples we tend to give them a week. They need a bit of time to look together and discuss whether they are both interested and most couples these days have busy lives. That is assuming that they reciprocate with their PG. If they just keep looking but don't reciprcate we bin 'em ! I think a good feature to use is the two PG's. In PG 1 we have just our faces, so the perves are always a bit disappointed with that. We save the PG 2 (with the good stuff) for those we think we have made a connection with.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Is it possible to give them access to one photo gallery at a time? Put a few plain and basic pics in gallery1 to show them what you look like and keep the nicer/sexier ones in gallery2 for when they get back to you. That way you can sort the serious from the perves.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We have face and body pics in our public gallery... and only open private one to people we have met, saves on photo collectors :> But then leave it open...why close it? Keep in mind it may take weeks till people line up a meet with a couple or single, so please leave the PG open . We are sick of re asking for PG because people close it after a day??? Many of us are juggling a list of couples and single girls/guys, and when we get time off go to our list and say "who was this?...great!, they've closed their Private gallery ...zzzz...ok forget them, too hard. NEXT." Bernie

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    AdventureTime/ Bernie, I totally understand what you are saying What we are getting a lot of is "dont have pics here due to small town" but the main one is "have them on our mobile" now im also touching on another forum... We are from a small town and i hide nothing lol proud to be who i am and my man is the same... But finding that the 'picture hunters' are finding us/me more than people that want to meet.I would not close it to a person/couple that we have meet... but maybe keeping it closed till we do meet may be the better option!Time to shuffle some pics around i think ThanksD&B

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'Incognito_Bella'Can someone please tell me how I go about removing someone's access to my private photos? I don't want people having access to what I usually look like once they've rejected me Thank you for your help! Bella You just go to your Home page ... scroll across to "Lists" ... scroll down to "Private Gallery Access" ... then you just click on who you have given access to and then select remove! xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We wont close our p/g untill there is a reason to. Like the others have closed theirs, so we take that as a unwritten message saying we are not interested in you guys. Same as blocking, You / We are saying, we dont want to meet you. We cant be bothered copying photos ....anything you see on your screen can be saved. But we expect it open till we meet as we will refresh in our minds what you look like just before we walk out the door to meet you. If we went check and found p/g deleted and no face photos on your public gallery, we would not turn up, and send a note / text saying why! We arent looking for your pink bits, But wont say no either! We want to see who we are meeting!\ Others are not getting xxx rated pinkie bits in our p/g, so the picture collectors must be dissapointed with us...lol! On that subject RHP wont let us put a real ugly photo in p/g 2 !!!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    as soon as you like ... ?????

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I know its our PG but it is there for the people that we hope to meet. They can see the real people that we are!The reason i asked....Contact from another member with no pic... They said due to there profession they couldn't put up pics but had some in there phone. They gave us there number after a message or 2 between us... so we gave them the pg and mobile number.Then nothing............ no sms on our phone of there pic..... but they did view our PG Next day we got a sms asking if we had some more pics.... WTF!!!!!! we still dont have any of you was the reply message.So after a few hours we got a sms with a female body!!!! no face... just a body but who's was it???? was it there's.... was it yours????.... we got no idea!!!!!!So should i have removed it after the morning sms???... after an hour of them viewing it??? I just didnt want to come across as harsh or rude cause thats just not me till i need to be Hence the original question!playmatewantd42

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Just how I do it as my PG1 is a bit of a mish mosh of old and new...even some things that you have to strap into if you really want to fly, so I open it then check to see if the message has been read then close it back up again. I can always open it again later if I get an answer or reciprocal pictures. I just love the "show me a face pic" bit pitched by the 500:1 crowd who show you cleavage then want to see everything but the kitchen sink. | Oh those plumbing shots...those are in PG2 and guests can't see those. Too bad, they are a bit artistic too even if the the tap does seem to have a bit of a leak in it. |

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    We would probably delete access to our p/g and forget about them. Move on if it does not feel right or gets too hard. Last couple that kept asking us for photos is now a single male profile! Quoting 'playmatewantd42' I know its our PG but it is there for the people that we hope to meet. They can see the real people that we are!The reason i asked....Contact from another member with no pic... They said due to there profession they couldn't put up pics but had some in there phone. They gave us there number after a message or 2 between us... so we gave them the pg and mobile number.Then nothing............ no sms on our phone of there pic..... but they did view our PG Next day we got a sms asking if we had some more pics.... WTF!!!!!! we still dont have any of you was the reply message.So after a few hours we got a sms with a female body!!!! no face... just a body but who's was it???? was it there's.... was it yours????.... we got no idea!!!!!!So should i have removed it after the morning sms???... after an hour of them viewing it??? I just didnt want to come across as harsh or rude cause thats just not me till i need to be Hence the original question!playmatewantd42