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"Ask Me" Profiles .......

June 17 2012

Hi all   I'm interested if other RHPers make assumptions as I do when reading profiles that are mostly filled in with "Ask Me"?     - Eye Colour, Hair Colour, Hair Length - Ask me - please look in the mirror if not sure!   - Race - Ask me - if you end up meeting the person of your desire it will be obvious to them anyway   - Star Sign - Ask me - why...don't you know?   - Relationship - Ask me - attached/married   - Drinking - Ask me - alcoholic   - Smoking - Ask me - smoker!!!! - About Me - Ask me - boring loser type with nothing going for them - Looking For - Ask me - PERFECT RHP MATCH: faceless married alcoholic, smoker, lacking in the looks department who has bored themselves out of their own planetary alignment to the point of being raceless!   Now that's a catch....lol   SFxx

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    ... love your definition of a "perfect" match! Sadly, I think you may be onto something there! KK x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i only have 2 "ask me"s and that's body type and looks, I have plenty of photos in public gallery where both can be seen quite clearly. I prefer others to judge my looks, one person's Brad Pitt is another's Quasimodo :D   And there isnt a really accurate Body Type selection to suit me IMO.     It smacks of laziness or secrecy when the profile is filled with them though, so I just move on.       Nat ;)

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    14 years ago

    If finding out about you requires asking I'm not interested. I like to be able to look at a profile and know that there is some hope of compatibility. I don't care what your racial background is, so I suppose if you are more comfortable with 'ask me' that's the only time that answer is OK.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    whats more annoy is ,you send a message asking to start up a conversation to answer thier stupid ..ask me .question and they dont reply.that.. ask me ,statement should be removed from rhp..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Oh thats right the guts of your profile !! lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    My profile gets bombarded on a daily basis, so if its a choice between a communicative being who has the details filled out in their profile and they provide a pic...of their face....so I know what kind of person I am dealing with, then Mr, ms, or Mr and Mrs Ask me either don't get a response or they don't get much of my time. Same with friend requests from ppl who I haven't talked to or met.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    .....why I don't bother replying to your message when you're profile is trash.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Thanks for your replies.   NEXT is usually my response to Ask Me profiles. I accept the occasional Ask Me is OK. It's the ones where almost every point left with no information. No information = no interest!   Love a good creative profile and there are some real gems out there. Sexy, funny, witty and full of character. Now that's the person I enjoy meeting.     SF xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If I am in the seret service,ASIO,a very famous actor ,singer,politician...or perhaps I am a delusional illusion,a fake,a time waster ....but please ask ,I could be just what you asre looking for. x Hugs Moneypenny

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Assumptions are (1) fake (2) lazy (3) ArrogantAnd the answer is the same NEXT !

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Ask me because I'm a Guest user and can't send the message. I need you to initiate the contact by asking me questions that my profile could easily have answered in the first place. But I definitely, definitely want you to send me a message asking me.A message I can then read and ignore.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    So you ask them but they never respond...wtf? lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    "Ask me" extremely frustrating, even more so when the describe yourself section and the what you are looking for sections are filled with little to no info either. Just put it all out there and if you then get replies, they are the people for you!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Starting a new fast food chain and advertising your choices as "pot luck burger" "could be anything wrap" and "you never know what you're getting" sub! Sorry, I'm just not that hungry ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    In my opionion, I'd say people with "Ask Me" profiles are not interested in meeting anybody and are just there to gauge what reaction they get from people. Personally, I wouldn't bother with them at all.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I am the same SF Also have the same issue with profile builder responses in the about me's - it show's such a lack of creativity and communication skills.Hmmm is anyone looking for an unimaginative, boring lovers that find it hard to express themselves, have no attention to detail or individuality?Cass xxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Making the assumption that someone is arrogant shows a high level of arrogance.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Glad to see we all seem to be on the same page!   Hopefully it will inspire some more creativity in those "Ask Me" profiles. Nothing sexier than creating imagery in the mind and the anticipation of where it could lead.     SFxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'bhappy2meatu'whats more annoy is ,you send a message asking to start up a conversation to answer thier stupid ..ask me .question and they dont reply.that.. ask me ,statement should be removed from rhp.. I agree, makes no sense!   Plenty more out there that CAN read and write and are happy to reply.   SF xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Profiles that state, often in BIG CAPITAL LETTERS, that anyone without a visible face pic will be either ignored or blocked - yet often the owner of said profile either has no pics, or no face pics!   As for the 'ASK ME', I always assume the worst, same goes for anything criteria missing in a profile. If they don't want to answer, they are hiding something :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Oh Cass is just so right!Michael

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I get the "see my photo" thing... for attractiveness.. but Ask me is Lazy, if you can't be bothered filling out a complete profile are you going to be bothered with foreplay???