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Art of Conversation
December 22 2012
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RHP User
13 years ago
I think what we receive partly based on what we put out there. Your profile is mainly template and does not contain any real imagery. It makes me wonder if this influences what men contact you. Any email I receive that is not articulate will usually get a "No, thank you" response. As a result I've only met men that I can have great conversations with.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Sorry OP ..but the truth is..............this is a site designed for people to hook up for sex, in one form or another.... Its not for wooing Dont get me wrong...Im a wordy girl....and I understand where you are coming from..but you know their blokes..they aren't wired like us and thats not their fault...they dont have to make a concerted effort on here - its their cock doing all the talking...if your lucky . Yes every so often...you will come across a absolutely gem..conversation wise..............(and they will so live on the other side of the country - but I digress) ...but hon..it starts with you...............exactly how much effort did you put in in your templated profile..??? Having said that...my own profile is shite at present......but theres a whole story there !!! Good Luck hon..but expect nothing...and remember ...everything initially starts with you...
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RHP User
13 years ago
So...I could be wrong but....give a little and get a little...otherwise enjoy your plastic!!
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RHP User
13 years ago
of mine once said''If I want a conversation,I will talk to my husband''.....depends what you want Miss Purr.Nothing better than a sexy lover who can string a few words together,but sometimes it's nice just to have hot jungle sex with a man whom you leave speechless
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RHP User
13 years ago
Also, that you make a comment in your profile that you are "selfish, and prepared to make you work hard" I'd say you're going to enjoy that vibrator of yours.....which is a pity, because your photos are pretty damn nice...if I do say so myself :)
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RHP User
13 years ago
no doubt the sex gets better when you can converse with someone
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RHP User
13 years ago
Some blokes still don't seem to get that women need to be stimulated mentally! Dudes, the whole have cock and can fuck line is getting a little tired. Try something new please! :p
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RHP User
13 years ago
But we as men only get smarter when having sex....cos we're plugged into the genius' lol.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am not a double adaptor you know! Well only sometimes. Lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
BAHAHAHA
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RHP User
13 years ago
and to have a good conversation.I may not be up to the required intellectual standard.but i love to be fkd by a nice ck lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
of women here who are size queens DG and while a tongue and fingers are indeed yummy there is nothing like a hard fcking with a delicious cock...not obsolete yet boys.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Typically,(note typically) men desire sex in order to acheive emotional closeness. Men are not taught to believe that sex should only happen in the confines of a loving relationship, which means an emotional connection does not need to occur first.For example, a 10 yr old girl believes the prince charming fairytale, that loves comes first then sex. where a 10 year old boy finds his dads porn collection and shows all his mates.
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RHP User
13 years ago
If women under 25 were capable of talking about anything that was actually interesting, do you honestly think I'd be as interested in older women as I am, as sure as I live and breathe?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Not all women think this way at all.... And you have missed the point entirely. Yes women are wired differently we need you to turn us on mentally and I want to know that you are a strong intelligent man not a little boy that still wants to pick his dick in any hole he sees. But of course maybe this something that comes about with age?
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RHP User
13 years ago
That is an interesting point thought. Do men need to be in a sexual "relationship" before they can feel emotionally close to a women? Or man? What ever the case may be.
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RHP User
13 years ago
You mean they actually like to talk.....too? Greedy little creatures, these women.
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me, I want sex with someone who I feel close to. Where there is that near-instant "connection", rare as hens teeth but oh so worth it when it all falls into place. Not just a random hole for me to stick my dick into. If all I wanted was a hole, I'd pay a professional for half hour twice a week. But that's just me. Everyone is different.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Your right there, with age, tho i say more maturity, some men take longer to grow up then others. Dont worry men do need emotional connection, emotional connection is what keeps a life long relationship going and its not always after sexual encounter. I know some what you would call, hard, tough men that had very strong emotional connections before sexual..So basically, it all depends of the individual, man or woman, whats going on in their lives. In the RHP world, the adult sexual dating world. 99% of men on here are for one thing and thats a fact. Dam im sweating, must of used a new part of my brain just then lol
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'Meeka100'That is an interesting point thought. Do men need to be in a sexual "relationship" before they can feel emotionally close to a women? Or man? What ever the case may be. Sex, without substance, is just "masturbation inside of a hole. - DG" It's meaningless, empty, unfulfilling, and it's not for me.
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RHP User
13 years ago
I am sure DG wasn't always so smart. In fact I am sure he has masturbated in a hole or two in his youth. GB that wasn't the question though. To feel emotionally connected to a women do you have to be sleeping with her?
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RHP User
13 years ago
I hate auto correct almost as much as I hate proof reading my comments. LMFAO
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RHP User
13 years ago
For me...I need a connection before sleeping with someone.. I need that feeling of mutual desire, care, and respect.
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coach74
13 years ago
I'm not sure all guys dislike the verbal imagery. Meeka, no you don't need sex first, but if ur that strongly connected as a guy u are probably holding back the urge to have sex....at that point to the point of almost swallowing ur tongue- Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
13 years ago
Quoting 'kontacted' YIn the RHP world, the adult sexual dating world. 99% of men on here are for one thing and thats a fact. WOW .. I didn't know that this one person .. could speak for all the other men on this site .. marvelous piece of work .. unfortunately .. from the guys I have met here .. i would say your % are way off ... try 75% maybe ... some are here for friendship / relationships/ and / or sex ... They are not ALL (99% here) JUST FOR SEX
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RHP User
13 years ago
something on the OP's profile ..."Its all about me"eeeeek....... oh dear......
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RHP User
13 years ago
Clearly noone else exists in his world??? Makes you wonder a little eh??
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RHP User
13 years ago
that kontacted is being so honest in his posts.Maybe not 99% of men are here looking for sex,many are just looking..er I think the correct term is perving ,but I digress.I find it fascinating to glimpse into the mind of a man.Lobotomys are so messy.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Seeing that I tried to make conversation with you Ms Lesley... you decided best that your contacts that you thought were the better ones... are actually not. Maybe you shouldn't judge a book by its cover and get to know the person before doing so... unfortunately you only have yourself to blame on this topic. cheers rob
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RHP User
13 years ago
'conversation' is a must...as sex without some kind of 'connection' is more like masturbation than not.
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RHP User
13 years ago
Howabout we don't use posters' real names, unless they have done so themselves in the same thread?
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RHP User
13 years ago
Always love the forums, have a rant, and see where it goes. Some very good points about the profile, havn’t looked at it for a while. Hmm, badly worded, obviously not a good night. Just a quick comment Rob, don’t get personal in the forums, yes I blocked you, I’m not what you are looking for or perhaps needing, and you just popped up every time my computer was on. As I suggested, try listening more. Just keep it out of the forums, and don’t use names. I have been with RHP on and off for years, away for about a year under this user ID and yes just a guest user at the moment. Plenty of people I regularly meet with I have met with from this site both and regular one offs. Sorry for those with the idea I was using plastic only. While on assumptions, I worked for about 15 years in the sex industry. Feel in love with a client (it does happen), married 18 years, children etc and we are still very good friends, and lovers. Tertiary background and professional (different profession) job. My point was simply, I'm tied of every message (many messages every day) from particularly young men, where the message consists of a simple 'want to lick you pussy and shove my cock into you'. 'I’ve got 9 inches' etc etc. Make it dirty, make it graphic, Not too much I have not heard, see, or even done over my many years. But make it more than “stick my hard cock in you”. Really. That’s it. Surely we can expect some attempt to build excitement and mental stimulation, give me a reason to want to meet you. Show the sort of imagination you might use in the bedroom. It may have been many years ago, but can still put on a game face, but don’t want to. Genuine stimulation and excitement, and that is more than just the physical for me, it includes my mind. If all else fails, yes there is the plastic. Or glass, or silicon, or ….
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