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Around the traps
May 21 2011
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not at all. I figure they're either not found what they want, yet, or are finding exactly what they want over & over. Good on them for reaching out to get the satis faction they probably deserve.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I've only been on RHP for about 3 months now and I've never thought or considered that girls that have been on RHP for a while, must be sluts!! It just seems like a ridiculous premise..I think we all have our ouwn reasons for being on the site and it seems ludicrous (and incredibly judgemental) to consider a woman a slut just because she decides to stay on the site. I'm stunned that he was so fucking rude in his message to you to be honest...To me it reflects on his character, not yours..tell him to take a long jump of a short plank and fuck off!!
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
To have stuck around here for 18months? That's staying power!! CheersHan x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Give me the scoundrels name and I will become the proverbial lioness protecting her cub! Maybe he does know you. After all he virtually called you a slut and I do that! Why did he bother to send you a messgae in the first place if all he wanted to do was tell you that you wouldnt be meeting his Mamma any time soon? Gosh, I hope you told him he was more than welcome to meet yours and how upset you were that he didnt give immediate undying devotion and extend an invitation to the next family gathering.
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RHP User
15 years ago
He probably had a go at you, because he isn't getting any. If that is his attitude we dont want him here at all, what does he expect virgins. If so he is soo on the wrong web site. I havent been on the site long and have met some lovely people, also a couple of odd ones. So far Im having a great time. Lets tell these odd bods where to go.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Tell him to stop sending generic messages then Focus lol. Can't say that Ive come across those sentiments on here......yet....give it time haha
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RHP User
15 years ago
Well you must have felt special recieving that one :). Poor pathetic fool that he is. To assume if you have been on here for a long (?) time your not a nice girl. If he wants what he considers a "Nice" girl then what the hell is he doing on here. Surely he should be logging into some christian singles chat room or whatever the fuck the so called morally perfect do. BTW we are "Nice" girls here........naughty and nice and open and honest.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Another example of someone who assumes because we are here we will fuck their brains out the moment they contact us.
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RHP User
15 years ago
I prefer to think of myself as a bit of a tart...and a tease. That cheap slut suit never fit anyway...Armani has a great Tart Collection that can be custom tailored, and actually fits better over time. There is a conundrm...you could become even more selective. Funny how life teaches us lessons along the way that we might have never expected in the places that we would have least expected to learn them. Short form, it sounds like someone holding a rock in hand... | ...and standing in front of their own glass house. | | Never devalue your own real estate...it's all you've got.
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RHP User
15 years ago
it is 6pm on Saturday and I have just been invited by a random stranger to make tonight memorable for him. As if he were doing me the favour by granting me the opportunity! He likes foreplay apparently so it may well be to my advantage. . This wasn't really a response to your thread but having just read a message from someone who completely and totally assumed I am a slut, I felt the need to share.
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RHP User
15 years ago
OK I will admit I did initially call him a wanker but you should have seen the first message he sent me - telling me how much he liked my profile and how, like me, he was open to a long term relationship.....bahahahahaha...clearly a case of looking at the pretty pictures . Fionabee - I knew I should have mentioned you (well I did actually) but didnt think it was worth bringing him home to meet Mother after all it is quid pro quo - he can meet mine after I have met his . DGT - really you havent had the so why are you on here?? type responses to rejection?? Sheesh girl how come those ones dont message me??? Oh wait they can probably read and dont contact me in the first place. , Ticklish - I felt very special receiving such a well thought out message....I almost did mention that maybe he was looking in the wrong place but I figured he was dellusional enough maybe he wouldnt understand. It does make me wonder that people think we arent good enough to take home to Mother....I dont know about any of the other ladies but there are some people from this site that I would introduce to my Mother (oh wait I have already oops) but there are people from my so called real life that have very little chance of ever meeting her. . CM - hmmm does the Armani tart collection come with a nice skirt selection for those of us opposed to pants (well wearing them anyway)?? Could fix a number of my problems with one foul swoop.... . irresponsibity - didn't you realise he is God's gift and you should feel very privileged to have received a message from him??? BTW I get those type of messages all the time - hmmm maybe my profile isnt worded properly I obviously attract the wrong type of person. . Why should it matter where you have meet someone?? If you are single and happen to find the person of your dreams on an internet dating site (or in the personal hygiene aisle of the supermarket) why should it matter the circumstances of your meeting??? Shouldnt all that matter be that you have found someone who makes you happy??? , Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Has anyone ever looked at rhp's testimonals. Apparently you can meet the love of your life on here. Other so called "vanilla" sites might not openly talk about sex like RHP but........................any site where you can meet people is really about finding someone you are sexually attracted to. Unless you have a hand holding fetish I guess. Focus......I always enjoy your posts and you seem like an awesome woman to me. Have fun x
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have read some of the testimonials and also know of many more that have found their life partner on here. While I havent found my life partner (I really am not looking for that person) I have had the bonus of having found someone with which I share a lovely and mutually beneficial sexual relationship with - and have done for about 12 months now. I know for a fact that I wouldnt have met this person without RHP's help. , Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
G2lton - well I definately know I have been getting my share of the fun on here and really I have met some of the most fantastic people that i would never have met otherwise....now I (and a few others) do call myself a slut but purely in an affectionate way - somehow I dont thinkn this person actually meant it in the same tone. . Andraxx - thanks my sweet...dont worry I wont be going there anytime soon....I was just a little intrigued that he thought this way....makes me wonder what it is he is seeking. . Hanna - I'll let you in on a secret - the sandpit wont let me go....it keeps sucking me back in time and time again...I would suggest running but having seen you posting a bit yourself lately me thinks you have already been sucked in ...Welcome to the ooze pond. . Meggsie - believe me when I say that there are some absolutely fabulous people on this site it just amazes me that people think because you happen to be a member of this site then you arent long term material and the fact that someone should be so audacious as to be a member on here for any decent length of time - well shucks! they cant be nice people at all. . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Not literally but piss him off. You would have to be one of the best contributers to the forums. You generally have a slant on a subject without putting too many people down. Wankers are just wankers. Luv you and keep it up.
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RHP User
15 years ago
You and me both have been here for a while!!! and we love it!! wtf brush him lovey Gosh I have been on this site for soooo many years, in and out of relationships... I love RHP xxx
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Hanna_ybbn
15 years ago
I suspect you might have a good point Han x
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RHP User
15 years ago
just a quick thought - for those who have been here a while longer than me - do we get a plaque or gift when been here for a predetermined length of time??? I dont know 5 yrs +??? . Orbitron - thanks hun....I think he blocked me after telling me he didnt want to argue the point with me....I wont be going there any time soon. . BlackStilletoes - MsShoes you are one of my favourite people here (you lareday knew that) and we do have an absolute blast up and down the East coast - dont forget we have the west coast to do later this year. , Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
I have been on her for 14 months (thereabouts) now. I can count oon one hand the number of people I have been intimate with during that time. I may have met heaps of them though....By his reconing I am a slut? l YES!!!!!!! l Always wanted be be one!
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RHP User
15 years ago
I was a slut years before the advent of the world wide web, let alone RHP. The dude's a dumb arse and I don't even wish to meet his mother now. Hugs Stalky
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RHP User
15 years ago
What does that make me? I've been on and off here (mostly on) since the beginning of 2007. I'm meeting no-one's mother! PMSL Unless, Focus I can meet yours??? You sound like an awesome duo of women. Can you meet someone's mum if you don't want to sex with their child In the words of Kevin Bloody Wilson "Oh the festival of light keeps trying to save my fucking soul" my retort "I'm having none of it cos its my fucking hole," Wildly amused by the moral minority
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RHP User
15 years ago
Stalky and Gypsy - you are both more than welcome to meet my Mum - oh wait Stalky already has...oh well Gypsy go right ahead and meet my Mum...lol...but Stalky you raise a good point - would he have introduced me to Mum if he had met me in a bar??? (reagrdless of whether my membership on here was known or not) . Fionabee - well I didnt learn these habits from anyone else now did I??? . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
" just by your inital attitude to my generic message shows your somehwhat of a veteran on here, which makes you not a very nice girl at all. not someone id introduce to mum.. " What an insult .. first to receive a generic message .... god i so hate them ... but even more so to mage a generalisation and an ASSUMPTION .. about you based on the length of your membership .. or on you knowledge of the system and how it works .. again your knowledge and information .. he just wasnt adult or mature enough to cope with your level .and intelligence .... hence the insulting statement to make HIMSELF feel more superior instead of inferior .. Give him a miss big time .. not worth the down time ..
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RHP User
15 years ago
...And I quote..."But what minutes! Count them by sensation, and not by calendars, and each moment is a day". ~Benjamin Disraeli Nicely said Ben!xxJ
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RHP User
15 years ago
We do have a blast, both natural I guess lol Oh yes the West Coast, just tell me when and where??? xxx ps Focus there are some unreal people here, lets put our energy with them...Not focusing on the toxic...
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RHP User
15 years ago
Does he expect to get approval from his mother before he jumps into bed with a woman? Who is this mummy's boy that wants to please her more than himself? Sounds like a vanilla git that is a bit lost on this site. Sounds like he needs a Domme to set him right lol.Slut? I am a slut and proud of it!Suggestions for a slut flag welcome
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RHP User
15 years ago
Nice butt Focus! Luv the pic!!
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'MistressT'Nice butt Focus! Luv the pic!! You just want to see some stripes put on it - am wise to you . But you may have a point - if he is so interested in the idea that witht he right person a relationship would be possible (part fo the generic message initially sent) then why does he also hold the view that anyone here for any length of time is 'not a nice girl' and not suitable to meet Mum - hmmm how do you have a relationship without meeting family? , Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hi Focus. I met your mum but you forgot to meet mine lol before you ran away to Sydney. Where has everyone gone. Only a few of the crowd here. But it hasn't changed. Oh. I don't think that poor misguided fool is on the right website. Musta mistaken it for e harmony. Fab. XxxX
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fab69'Hi Focus. I met your mum but you forgot to meet mine lol before you ran away to Sydney. Where has everyone gone. Only a few of the crowd here. But it hasn't changed. Oh. I don't think that poor misguided fool is on the right website. Musta mistaken it for e harmony. Fab. XxxX Long time no hear. I trust all is going really well for you.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hallo Gorgeous Focus and RHP folks, How sad that we are still having this conversation about sexually liberated women being lesser creature, or goddess forbid 'sluts'. I have been internet dating for nearly 5 years. As in life you meet some awesome and interesting people and you meet some far below minimum standards for courtesty and thoughtful interaction. I have my reasons for conducting my personal life as I do, without monogamy or committment, and I refuse to be judged on so little information by emotionally underdeveloped, shallow wankers. I am POLY AMOUROUS and proud! Good for you for sorting him out gorgeous. And wow, I love your mum, dear lady you sound so awesome. Peace! Jane
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RHP User
15 years ago
Quoting 'fab69'Hi Focus. I met your mum but you forgot to meet mine lol before you ran away to Sydney. Where has everyone gone. Only a few of the crowd here. But it hasn't changed. Oh. I don't think that poor misguided fool is on the right website. Musta mistaken it for e harmony. Fab. XxxX Mwah! Gorgeous man...you are right I forgot to meet yours hmmmmmm next time I up your way maybe??? . Jane - sounds like we have meet some of the same people...lol... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
...someone didn't read your profile properly, or just has an issue with comprehension.
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RHP User
15 years ago
Hey people, If we take these kind of folk seruiously it onlt encourages them. In cyber space there is a term for this kind of creature....."Trolls" Trolls dont want to meet anybody or contribute in any constructive way. Their motivation is to inflame, insult and stir up ill will. Many of them are young and think it's great fun.... What do we do when children are naughty to get attention? I rest my case .....lol The Blueman x
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RHP User
15 years ago
Krissy - welcome. Those of us who are now deemed sluts (due to length of service) do hereby welcome a wonderful new member to the group. May you uphold all of our firm beliefs and have a damn good time...lol . RC - obviously he didnt read my profile and only looked at the pretty pictures....if he had learnt to read then he would never have messaged me in the first place . Blueman - trust me I didint let him think I agreed with his statement, nor that he was worthy of any more attention than a passing curiosity when I responded to his messages I just want to know if this is a common misconception... . Kisses Focus
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RHP User
15 years ago
Focus, your profile is clear in what you want and for him to then decide that he 'knows' you from your profile and any message just shows how far up his ass this guy had his head.We have met you and well will be honest and say that we greatly enjoyed your company and found you one hell of an interesting person (as we did a number of people that drinks) and there is no goddam way that we could agree with what that guy has said to you.Yes, you are confident and that scares many guys and even intimidates a number but that does not mean abuse is deserved nor warranted, nor does you rejecting his advances, but sadly he is one of those guys that decided that if 'she does not want me, then she is in the wrong'. We say stuff him and we hope his left hand is cold comfort for what he has said.PS. Yes they are nice pics indeed, Sheba does enjoy the current one Shell and Gaz
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