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Are you making the most of the medium?
May 08 2012
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RHP User
14 years ago
...but then, you already knew that, didn't you?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Do you use all of the search functions provided? Only every now and again...If I get told that a profile is hot whether it is male/female/couple or Trans I will go and take a look...but that is about the only time I do!Do you search for and attend the parties in the events section? Only if I am told that there is an Event on like Melbourne drinks, otherwise no.Do you moon over the Hot or Amateur pics? and furthermore comment on them to show your appreciation? Never have looked at them in my whole time here...Do they have males? If they do I might just have to go and perve!DO you read Bessie and Jeff hehe ? Never!Do you take part in the weekly surveys? I don't get any weekly surveys...I do get them every now and again and yes I do take part!Have you ever been in the webcam chat rooms to watch someone wank or flick the bean? Yes, God Yes and OMG yes! But unfortunately it has been ruined by the people that aren't there for fun sexy times and complain about cock cams that I hardly go in anymore!Or have you just stuck with the bare minimum, sent a few messages and met up with a compatible playmate? I rarely send my one free message a week and thinking back...any guy that I have initiated contact with, I have never met! I have although met a few guys through them sending me the initial message!or do you simply come to chat in the forums these days? I love the Forums and if it wasn't for the Forums I wouldn't have had lunch with your lovely self and others from in here! And I will say it again...Studly's cheesecake ROXS!.What things have you made the most out of in your time here? or found works really well for you..All the wonderful people I have met from the Forums...the hot sexy times I have had with guys that I met through this Site and the fact that at a click of a button I can watch a hot guy wanking on cam as I play with my vibe! Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
We've all been there though haven't we, had a favourite that went poof?You aren't alone. Now Im pretty sure that was last week already, can't you move on?I'm trying very hard to take each new thread on it's own merits, surely you can at least try to do the same?.But no, I dont 'just' come in to chat at all, I've done a few firsts with the tools on offer here lately...such as actually searched for a particular thing and found it had my first browses through the Amateur pics , (which are absolutely fantastic some of them) well done peeps and it was particularly nice to see some familiar faces from the forums in there!.It was a while ago now but I have also ventured in to watch a lovely young man on cam, it wasn't so scary afterall, a bit confusing if you're used to the flow of the forums...because it moves really fast . But yeah, not too scary
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RHP User
14 years ago
You certainly HAVE made the most of a lot of things then good for you!.Jensman, I'd actually say no to that...I dont know anything about what you might use here on rhp???I can gather from past posts that you aren't looking to play, but as for all the rest I'd have no idea, how could I you might be a fan of the amateur pic sets, just because you dont play doesn't mean you can't look. Come on, we're all dirty perves at heart lol
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RHP User
14 years ago
Do you think I had it removed Mrs P?I can assure you I didnt
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RHP User
14 years ago
We have done a few searches when we first joined. Although now we couldn't be bothered as it just comes up with the same old faces.RHP automatically show's you new members the meet our criteria when they join.We look at the events section every now and then. Although haven't attended any.Couldn't be bothered with the hot amateur pics. We are hear to meet people in person not collect pictures on the pc.Who is Bessie and Jeff?We have taken part in a few surveys.Webcam & chat rooms bore us both tears. Same reasons as amateur pics.What works well for us Sending and receiving messages from honest people that know what they want. Exchanging PG's and then saying yes or no to meeting in person. Simple and takes all the fluff out of the possess.Tim
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RHP User
14 years ago
...I thought your's was a nice benign subject but it looks like it may go the way mine did. So many angry people.
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RHP User
14 years ago
we have a look at some profiles now and then....but it seems these days that even a look is a promise to play, so we tend to use all the search parameters we can....to exclude those we arent looking for....our time here tho is to read messages and post a few words here n there on the forums.........
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RHP User
14 years ago
No one knows you have viewed their profile Mike if you'd prefer to go incognito lol. But I guess you're still using the options in the search form , even if it is to sort of work back to front...yours is just aimed at weeding out rather than 'looking for' , nothing wrong with that.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I just went to look at the Amateur pics and could only see girls ... sigh! Are there no hot men that put pics up at all? Gimme Gimme Gimme.... Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'D_G_T' No one knows you have viewed their profile Mike if you'd prefer to go incognito lol. But I guess you're still using the options in the search form , even if it is to sort of work back to front...yours is just aimed at weeding out rather than 'looking for' , nothing wrong with that. yea we had our profile set so no one saw we had looked, for a very long time, now we figure that as we only look at profiles that fit our wants, per the search page, its not so bad..... most of the time tho we only peek at profiles that have messaged or flirted with us...and some days that'll take the first half an hour or more after we log on....we tend to seek those who like what we like, or who at least tick enough of the boxes that we have ticked.... as a couple, we already have our ideal partner.....what we seek is a little fun...some fantasy play..... no point pursuing that with anyone who doesnt closely match our preferences is there?
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RHP User
14 years ago
I now come for the fights, it makes Jerry Springer look like a religious revival show!So many here that think they own the forums, so many nasty people who think they know everything that is going on but alas so sadly wrong.This place use to be fun, now it is like work with egotistical wannabe's trying to be the biggest kid in the playground.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I like to try anything once, so I think I've had a go at everything here.Find the chat rooms generally very boring, although part of that is how unreliable they are. We both like the Amateur Pics and occasionally some further reading. Parties are good - Mrs C loves a dress up.Mostly the forums though, which used to be a lot of fun.Mr C
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'jensman1903' ...I thought your's was a nice benign subject but it looks like it may go the way mine did. So many angry people. Way too much negativity in here, doesn't seem to matter what the topic is.Finding other pastimes more interesting lately.Mr C
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RHP User
14 years ago
Except for the forums, this site is pretty lacklustre.:(
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RHP User
14 years ago
I'm sure there's more fun to be had yet.
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RHP User
14 years ago
...is raining men !I read the forums inbetween
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RHP User
14 years ago
Do you use all of the search functions provided? Rarely.... Do you search for and attend the parties in the events section? Yes - there arent nearly as many clubs in Perth as there was a few years ago...so one relies on the generosity of people opening up their homes for private parties..have attended some great parties as a result ..thankyou Do you moon over the Hot or Amateur pics? and furthermore comment on them to show your appreciation? No have never looked but curious now DO you read Bessie and Jeff hehe ? Whose Bessie and Jeff ? that would be a no Do you take part in the weekly surveys? No but have entered a competition once and won some movie tickets which was nice Have you ever been in the webcam chat rooms to watch someone wank or flick the bean?No but again curious now Or have you just stuck with the bare minimum, sent a few messages and met up with a compatible playmate?Id have to say that is mainly me or do you simply come to chat in the forums these days? Yes enjoy the forums...although find them perplexing nowadays...What things have you made the most out of in your time here? or found works really well for you Ive met some terrific play friends here and also some lovely people off line thanks to the forums and some awesome people via the forums online who live back East...they are all treasures...and mates
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RHP User
14 years ago
I found RHP quite by accident & found the forums intriguing. Guess I just find peeps fascinating D_G_T :-) I get a lot of chat requests & will partake in a bit o' banter (if I have the time). That's about my lot ... KK x
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RHP User
14 years ago
I used to use most features - but now it's just forums... I need discretion so won't be a paying member, just looking for a friend with benefits that has to be intelligent enough if she was interested - otherwise she'd not be worth it :-) It happened three times in the couple of years I was here so no regrets - and waiting again for someone to have regular hot chat with or more - even though not likely in small town where I am but prob in Melbourne where stuff happens more often so I travel down regularly :-)
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RHP User
14 years ago
I would have to say yes I am making the most of this as a medium for what I use it for- to find compatible people, chat, view, gain info from forums as well as a bit of light hearted social banter. This is not in reference to you DGT but I feel the need to back MrsP u. We were told the thread was boring and that they are supposed to have a short life and be informative- now to me that's half of it and the other is social and fun and I think both are acceptable. Fun and boring are very individual things. I think it was unfair for the fun police/ forum dictators to deliberately have the thread closed and a bit hypocritical that they are posting happy birthdays and constant uninformative social posts- which I have no problem with except that going by what they say is unacceptable.Oh I don't do surveys I only look at pic sets to see what potentials comment and masturbation makes me hornier so I stay off of cam- I prefer to mentally distract in the forums when I am home alone with kids asleep.Cass xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Since when does a forum need to be short lived?
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'multiples_xxx' I would have to say yes I am making the most of this as a medium for what I use it for- to find compatible people, chat, view, gain info from forums as well as a bit of light hearted social banter. This is not in reference to you DGT but I feel the need to back MrsP u. We were told the thread was boring and that they are supposed to have a short life and be informative- now to me that's half of it and the other is social and fun and I think both are acceptable. Fun and boring are very individual things. I think it was unfair for the fun police/ forum dictators to deliberately have the thread closed and a bit hypocritical that they are posting happy birthdays and constant uninformative social posts- which I have no problem with except that going by what they say is unacceptable.Oh I don't do surveys I only look at pic sets to see what potentials comment and masturbation makes me hornier so I stay off of cam- I prefer to mentally distract in the forums when I am home alone with kids asleep.Cass xxx Clearly they have followed in Mrs.P's steps as she posted it first it would seem, not to wish me a Happy Birthday, but to make certain that I knew 'exactly' how many people dislike me...her quote Cass before it was removed was, "Though I understand if others don't wish to post" would have to be one of THE lowest things I have seen to date on these forums.To follow me around the entire forum all morning, biting at my ankles, at my every word, even after asking her to try and move past it had no effect. Then comes the Birthday post, thankyou Mrs P for trying so hard to humiliate me on my birthday, though I am grateful for the other honest best wishes from posters, I would have much rathered it not be made a public fucking joke. The hounding I had today has made me sick to my eyeballs, dont bother to go and look, the majority of posts have been removed and I dare say by her own hand, because thats how she operates. We've all seen it before, a little rampage before the cleaning crew comes in to clean up the carnage, so as not to sully the image.Personally I like my rants to stay put, if Im old enough and ugly enough to lose my shit on a public forum, I will sure as hell 'own it' afterwards, and if Ive made a total arse of myself, then I should be made to look at it over and over again so I can cringe in horror at my big mouth..Back to you ground control the forums are allllllll yours
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RHP User
14 years ago
not sure which "Theme" to follow in this thread.. so, will do them both.... :) The chat room allowed me to lose my virginity on RHP.. i couldnt "Crack it" on the forums, or messaging or flirting.. and.. for a long time, not even in chat.. but.. a lady hit me up, and liked the fact I kept snipping away and TRYING to get into conversations.. She took me home and "Did" me.. must have told some of her friends I was real... because all of a sudden, I could at least get a comment or two.. AND get into a few conversations.. Then.. I went along to a few "Coffee shop" meets... NOTE HERE::: "this is much more suitable to meet and greet instead of an alcohol venue" shame they dont seem to happen much these days. Met some wonderful people there... and this furthered the network values.. I Look at the hot pics etc.. and USED to comment.. but as far as I can see... never got one single step from that.. I do not do pub/club meets because people on the piss piss me off :), and as far as I have seen on the events list, being a single of my age, I am not even welcome to attend MOST private do's. THE FORUMS!!!! it is good to get noticed.... eventually.. and it gives me the opportunity to further define the people who take interest in me, obviously by following who they blend with, and who they detract from. I have discovered some fakes on here over the years - and yes.. it has been years.. I have three personas on this site, all of them have been ME I will add, and had been built to satisfy my "THEN" sexual proclivity. Some of you DO know all three of me :) THE FORUMS!!!! MY great old Mother was a member of CWA, a Church group, and Rosary Group,and P&C, Legacy and/or P&F. (depending on which school we all went to) I have been a member of youth groups, martial art Dojo's, Rural youth, SES, and clubs I can't even remember anymore.. Including a 4 month foray where, in some cases, our very lives depended on the group togetherness.. In ALL of these groups, there was dissension!!! In some, it was overbearingly so. My point is.. "IF humans cannot get along in basic harmony involved with organisations achieving almost sacrosanct status in our society, WHY, and HOW on earth do we eeven SLIGHTLY expect us to do it on here, a sexually driven environment? Remember, SEX is THE most fought after entity on the planet.. every single living organism is driven by that Primary Mandate.. Primary, being NUMBER ONE. Pure Biology.. what we are seeing here, is just that, manifesting itself in the Psychologly of Biology.. Advanced Organisms, fighting for supremacy WTF: *grins* I am a fckn caveman.. what the fck do I know about this crap... POST ON people... cavey :)
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RHP User
14 years ago
misquote... I said I HAVE three personas.. SORRY... It was supposed to read.. "I have HAD three personas" never have two of them overlapped :) cavey
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RHP User
14 years ago
Quoting 'cavey50' I do not do pub/club meets because people on the piss piss me off :), and as far as I have seen on the events list, being a single of my age, I am not even welcome to attend MOST private do's. In ALL of these groups, there was dissension!!! In some, it was overbearingly so. My point is.. "IF humans cannot get along in basic harmony involved with organisations achieving almost sacrosanct status in our society, WHY, and HOW on earth do we eeven SLIGHTLY expect us to do it on here, a sexually driven environment? cavey :) Hey Cavey I don't agree with one of your posts (out of the two that I am now quoting!) I have been to alcohol pub meets and greets and must say other than one person...I have never found anyone to be rolling drunk...As a non drinker I know where you are coming from...completely....But you should give them a bit of a try...it is not all raging alcoholics at all...It is a great group of people who are mostly responsible and are just out to have a fun time! . I totally agree with the second part TOTALLY...I went to a Spiritualist Church for about 6 years and was one of the prime "healers"....nothing religious..just massages with a bit of a help from Guides/Angels/Psychic ability mixed in! There were two of the most horrible women there that did nothing but bitch (I actually took one outside half way through a "healing" and told her to "shut the fuck up"! )The Reverend was totally on my side and the hatred that came out of these two women was unbelievable! I ended up leaving as I found it very off putting that here we are in: and I quote you "organisations achieving almost sacrosanct status in our society" then where do you find it? It made me lose faiith in humans for a while until I just came to the conclusion that whether it was a Church or not...they were just bitches! I do miss the place as everyone else was wonderful...but just couldn't stand to go back if they are still there! Makes you wonder huh? Hugs...xFunlovingx
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RHP User
14 years ago
We feel the same and even a quick meet over a coffee were you get the opportunity to meet others in person carry's so much more weight in our books than years of online talk . Although if it happens to be a bar then we are ok with it as long as getting drunk isn't the focus of the night its all good.timQuoting Cavey50: I went along to a few "Coffee shop" meets... NOTE HERE::: "this is much more suitable to meet and greet instead of an alcohol venue" shame they dont seem to happen much these days.
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RHP User
14 years ago
At one time or another I've used most of the services here on RHP...I use to write stories, I've ogled to redhot pics and even laughed at some on hot or what, I've searched but not a lot unless I'm looking for someone in particular, I've read some very hot secret stories and I've even posted in the events section and been to other events, once I was even on cam in the chat room but I've never actually watched. I was too busy lol. I love RHP most of the time, I must, I keep coming back lol Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
14 years ago
I didn't see the Birthday thread til the night. My comment was in relation to getting the most out of what I pay for- as that thread was a social past time that I rather enjoyed.What I was getting at is a forum is for everyone that posts or reads and I think it unfair for people to dictate and limit what it's about except the RHP gods. For the record I think it's fine to make informative posts, make spurious claims, funny observations, chat with other forum buddies, have beefs- without vilification or defamation (as the rules state) say happy Birthday, play word games that may or may not amuse everyone, long posts, short posts, long threads, short threads, flirting, advertising, post threads purely for amusement and not information; e.g, what did you do on the weekend? What song are you listening to atm? two words? etc. And I wouldn't be so arrogant as to have threads closed on purpose just because I or a few on line buddies didn't like it.I disagree with some dictating regardless of how long they have contributed what can and can't be- it's a public/ inclusive forum not a private/ exclusive one.Happy Birthday for yesterday I try and milk an extra day I call it an Earth Day- the first day you are out of the womb for the whole day hahaha so I hope your Earth day is better than yesterday ;) Cass xxx
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RHP User
14 years ago
Start a new thread. If it get's shut down, start another. Don't lament the closure of a thread, look forward to the next.
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RHP User
14 years ago
I think a few people need to get over things and up their meds!!!! I'm no one cares lol but I really like the secret stories that people write. Some of those are really hot to read Hugs roxxy
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RHP User
14 years ago
Sigh... DGT is gone. Bugger!! Naughty naughty girl that she is. Another of my buddies gone.Cass, start another thread if you want. Is someone stopping you or something? You know people go and have a bit of fun and dive bomb threads here and there. This isn't something new. It's happened before over the years and no doubt will happen again. Normally it is done with a big tongue in their cheek sense of fun.... but sometimes things are said on both sides that just shouldn't be said. I thought that this had happened so I reported this to the RHP moderators. I am pretty sure I wasn't the only one..... I don't think signalling anyone out like that is very nice, but that is my opinion. I don't like anger and fighting... so I choose to not respond to the troll of this forum.... well apart from the odd occasion that I can't control my Italian temper. So shoot me I couldn't give a flying rat's arse. Woo hoo!! xxMeeka
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RHP User
14 years ago
My posts were in context to the OP. I had not really considered starting another, it seems a bit like warfare....I am a lover not a fighter but I am an opinionated one :PYeah I can understand that Meeka I did think the 'dive bomb' was funny and clever... so I would have to add that to my list of things I agree with as well ;) there is just the innocent bystanders that get mixed up in it lol :) Can't they bomb penis size and how to find a cougar threads :PI just find it interesting and a bit puzzling seeing as though there are lots of other non informative threads that have been going for ages- that could be seen as "boring" (which were both said to be the issue with the 2 words thread) 1 'fun thread' that was started by one of the bombers along with heaps of others that they post on. Are they going to have them closed too???Nowhere does it say that threads have to be informative- some can be just for pure amusement of some. It is not like it didn't have posts on it for ages it was still active with several contributors and frequent randoms. I just found it ironic that they call others the fun and moral police when seemingly they profess to know what's in the best interests of the forum and what the forum is and isn't about. Just an observation.Cass xxx Jensman: My issue is not with the thread closure so much as the double standard. I will leave it now or start a separate thread on it.
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RHP User
14 years ago
*Crikey* !!!! I'll Be Buggered... I missed a WHOLE lot somewhere... Knew there waas tension SOMEWHERE.. didn't know it was Lethal Force.... :(\ Cavey
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RHP User
14 years ago
I was on this site for several years under a different name and utilised it to the fullest extent. I have made many many friends from here. Some I will now have as firends for life. Not all are play buddies...infact, very few are. I was driven away by the "fun / forum" police once before mainly because I do have a tendancy towards being rather outspoken. I logged on one day to face yet another barrage of abuse by people with absolutely no sense of humour. One who really need to get a life away from thier keyboard God and finally thought.... "I dont need this shit" So I left. I came back because I do so enjoy the forums That is all I am here for this time around and I refuse to be driven away by the words of a few small minded types who need to get a life away from the all might Keyboard God. Yes all the topics are repeat ones but the people are different...some of them. So am I making the most of my RHP experience? Yes. Past and present rhp is serving the purpose that I want in this time and place.
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RHP User
14 years ago
The problem with using some of the functions is that if you try and send women or couples messages and you are a single guy...they get so many so they usually don't read them...and private chat requests? forget about it...send a private chat request without asking and you get crucified and then they say that it is rude....i think some people are just a bit too fucking up tight...this is a sex/dating site....people want to contact people and if you are online and i like what i see i'm sending a chat request...if you don't like it.....thats your problem.Otjher tools like the forum and the search functions are great but i find that people are just not honest....old pictures from 10 years ago when they were hot and now they are not....orientations where they say straight but they are very bi but don't want people to know...silly shit.
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RHP User
14 years ago
Ooooooh Cavey,may I please ,please,have a foursome ,with you and you,and the other you?What a thought.....there is a Neandrthal heavenx Hugs H ps wise words about th SEX stuff.....gets a little overheated in the Pies Bakery....too much sugar , rushes to the head,makes ya dizzy.
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