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Are women more polite these days? Is this the new NO?

August 23 2012

In my time here on RHP I have met many wonderful women. And chatted to many more as well. Yes, I have been lucky, but I was wondering, Are women becoming more polite in their replies? When I first got on, I dashed off emails with headers like "Hey, great profile, you wanna f--k?", and I wondered why they never answered. Well I quickly worked out that they didn't like me complimenting their profile, but still no luck. Anyway, one lovely lady sent me a beautiful email, I think it was only 25,000 words or something like that about the wonders of the world and blah-blah-blah. I think there were one or two negative things in there about my email, but only one or two So I have been more successful with a different style. And I have noticed that women are now replying with emails along the lines of "Thank you, I am definitely interested. I am just so swamped at the moment, but I will get back to you"And guess what? Yep, you got it, never hear from them again. Nope, nary a word nor a glance. So I was wondering, is this the new "NO! I don't want to talk to you, I don't want to meet you, NOW stop bugging me....", well you get my drift.I enjoy reading all the forum posts and look forward to your ideas.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    hi mr satisfaction, We are both very interested in your comments and as you put it "would u like to fuck?" We both find the straight to the point and no beating around the shaven bush the better tact. Your profile pic is what attracted us most to you... nana k has a liking for mysterious grey silhouettes. go figure? Also your vast array of private gallery pics again is another means to a womans "wide on" achieving status. but wait... theres more... do you come with free steak knives and are you as genuinely humble as your profile indicates? In finalising this feeble attempt at an intoiduction to you, we would like to say " thank you we are definitely interseted but alas.. too swamped at the moment, but.. we will get back to you."

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I think it is never easy to say go away NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. So somehow we have to say it in a way not to fracture the male ego to much. I don’t know how you say it to women>>>>tell me, what you say to a woman when she sends you are flirt and she is not what you like? Also, It is a downer for me too, when a man ask me in his first sentence will you fuck me.....sorry, even this is a sex site we are no whores on here...and yes we are females and a little bit different then you men, I don’t know what your life experience is and how you rrelated to women in your life........maybe you need to rethink this a little bit . To many men on here have the preconception....ohh I am just writing words like......I AM HORNY NOW" honest, Who gives a fuck.......you are horny" NOW" on top of their profile and think women will be impressed ......we are not. Women on here are bathing in a " honey pot ".....ohh wow sooo many to choose from.....we get swamped...so we can choose....so its up to you to impress us. You think you are not doing it why should I.....again its your loss.... because you want to score...we dont care.....as I said so many men line up. So many men are horny NOW even without saying it in the first sentence WE KNOW. I hope I have given you a bit of a reason why and could help you. Also next time when you write or send a flirt...think long and hard about it before you send it of. Just pretend you care.....and love us beautiful females.....even if it is only a "sex site". Cheers Litonya

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    and still laughing.....REALLY!!!!!........thanks for making my day

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    So, you lied about your age, your eye colour is a secret, and there are no pics of you at all.... Tell me, as I'm dying of curiosity, have you actually met anyone from this site in person yet?

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Mr.Satisfaction that you live sooo far away...I would love a new set of steak knives....only problem is how many of those items on your list would I have to engage in to get them....x Hugs H

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Hey Hun :) Shock Shock I actually agree with you Litonya..Well Done Hun it saves me typing a saga you just did it for me he!he! Enjoy as always Lu :) x

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Its just a little tweak you need to your profile is all. Just the basics like all the people have explained and to say your younger then your age is rather odd thing to do. Most people shave a few years off their age on here.   If you want someone to take you seriously, as in you do want to meet off-line, then you need to market yourself and know what your target group is.   The shotgun approach only works if your a Greek god and have a huge dick and long tongue and only want the woman to get off and not yourself. See what I mean, if your not the male version of a unicorn then you need to work on that profile.   Most women stay polite up to a point, but depends on the day and how many foolish men have gone before you with the same messages. good luck

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Thanks for a great laugh...that is the funnniest stuff I have read in ages.. Hugs...xFunlovingx

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Mate, you have restored my faith in human nature! Still, the same old post about why is everyone rude was somewhat re-imagined and gave me a laugh :)

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Even though I agree with Madamdragonfly's post (Litonya.......you go girl!!) I'm left wondering.......are you serious or did you just post this to make us laugh? Because, if it was just for a laugh, it definitely did that here to me.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I'm with Litonya on this... That reply IS the new no, as it's the only reply that you guys will accept!Whenever I'm honest and say, Sorry, I don't think you're my type, the answer's range from:'No problem, dumb ugly bitch', to'So what is your type?', to'Whyyyyyyyyyy? I paid membership just to email you :'( 'So I'm absolutely guilty of sending a reply along the lines of 'I'm currently swamped with emails, not looking at the moment', before blocking the person. A little pinch of dishonesty saves me the saga of back and forth emails increasing in my irritated tone and high blood pressure.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Any reply is better than none at all. Man up and deal with it...

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ffs truly we can not win!! I have tried to be more polite and answer all messages...sometimes with a template reply like you experienced ........better than no reply? I guess not.....maybe I'll just go back to silence......you know that movie "he is just not that into you ?? some guys " most" should watch that !!! No reply..shes not into you ........

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    ffs truly we can not win!! I have tried to be more polite and answer all messages...sometimes with a template reply like you experienced ........better than no reply? I guess not.....maybe I'll just go back to silence......you know that movie "he is just not that into you ?? some guys " most" should watch that !!! No reply..shes not into you ........

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Polite is the new black havent you heard?It much nicer for us saying no very politely, as we dont get as many of the," Well good then!!! ur fat slag anyway, wouldnt fuck ya with my mate's dick" replies from our unwanted advancees Thankyou, have a nice day.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I agree with all of the above words from my wise sisters! I don't even respond to someone who doesn't have profile pic and less likely to respond to someone who has a profile pic of their male pride and joy! It's always nice to leave something to the imagination! Oh and thanks for the hot tip Ladies I have to go off and edit my profile now, and lie about my age!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Obviously they're just too busy with me dude. I know it's a hard job, but hey someone has to :p

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Excactly what are you talking about? Do you mean to say that women aren't immediatly impressed with your manly profile? Or is it that when you approach them with "hi wanna fuck" they don't rush to your place with their panties dragging on the ground? I am bewildered that your approach hasn't worked because when I approach women on the street with this line I find I need to be able to duck really quick. I was sure this approach would work much better online so when I receive a reply I start polishing the equipment in anticipation. Unfortunately by the time I have finished polishing I no longer need to see them as badly. Mike

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'DeliciousCplBris'ffs truly we can not win!! I have tried to be more polite and answer all messages...sometimes with a template reply like you experienced ........better than no reply? I guess not.....maybe I'll just go back to silence......you know that movie "he is just not that into you ?? some guys " most" should watch that !!! No reply..shes not into you ........I'm new on here but if there is NO attraction at all, I dont reply - discourteous perhaps, but I dont have time to asnwer one liners. Put some effort in and lets see where it goes. I put effort into the messages I send when I choose to make the first move.I figure that with no reply, they'll take the hint!

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Quoting 'wiccan_beltane' Even though I agree with Madamdragonfly's post (Litonya.......you go girl!!) I'm left wondering.......are you serious or did you just post this to make us laugh? Because, if it was just for a laugh, it definitely did that here to me. Thanks for all your replies to my first post. To clarify, I thought this was a sex site and yes I was guilty of sending crass emails at the start. Changing that to send more tailored ones still elicited no response. Yes, I may "tweak" my profile, but not at the momentQuoting 'MsElle40' So, you lied about your age, your eye colour is a secret, and there are no pics of you at all.... Tell me, as I'm dying of curiosity, have you actually met anyone from this site in person yet? And so what if I am younger than I say. Quirky is my middle name and I like being quirky. And have you died of curiosity yet? Because it is none of your bees wax whether I have met anyone from this site? My eye color is hardly relevant and I don't trust the integrity of the site to load pics. So, put that in your pipe and smoke it!Quoting 'xFunlovingx' Thanks for a great laugh...that is the funnniest stuff I have read in ages.. Hugs...xFunlovingx Thank you xFunlovingx, glad you had a laughQuoting 'Litonya'      I think it is never easy to say go away NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO. So somehow we have to say it in a way not to fracture the male ego to much. Yes Litonya, it is easy. Just say it. I'm not going to bother with someone who says No, I mean, what's the point. And thank you everyone else for all of your answers. Enri

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Once again, you just have to wait until someone is attracted to you... since you have no pics up, you may be waiting a while. Yes okay, you may add in your messages that you can send pics via email as you don't trust the sites integrity... but since there are so many men to choose from, most of us probably prefer to just move on to the next message, because, as said above some guys can get really rude when politely told 'no', so if we agree to give you our email and then see from your pics that there is no attraction, it is even harder to give a polite 'no thanks' because for some reason, accepting your email and pics has meant that it's game on apparently! and then you have some nut emailing you and that is a pain in the ass! Sorry, but some idiots have ruined it for the nice guys.   I don't really understand the logic behind lying about your age... but hey, even though I'm no longer a blonde, I still have blonde moments. On that note, meeting a stranger in a strange place, the last thing I want as a gift would be steak knives. lol

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