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Are we being really honest ????

April 29 2012

As I seat at home in front of the fire, reading some of the Forum, enjoying some of the considerations and humour ( great stuff, well some of it ), a conversation that I had this morning with one of the ladies from the site came back to me....It seems to me, that most of us (both, all genders ) are quite happy to present a FACE or personality were: sex, bodies, and bang wam is all that there is, we hide a bit behind bravados, conquests, experiences, and achievements as well as wit....but there is not much talk about why we are all REALLY here for...I, personally believed, that we are here to experience true connection, whether for one night, multiple meetings, relationships and all the other grey area in between...I strongly believed that we are all seeking that incredible communion of body and mind that happen when to people get together and open up to each other (as much or as little as they are able/allow themselves to do so)......Body contact, surrender, openness, sharing, exploring, pleasuring and true fusion is what we are all here for...( at least I am, and seems that my lady companion today is as well)It is a lot deeper than just bodies having sex together.....it is about experiencing a real melting of personas were everything else disappear for a while and bliss of communion happens.There is nothing more accelerating and magic that when a women really opens up to me....True bliss !!!I guess that is why it is SOOOO ADICTIVE Just my thoughts....What do you think ?????

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    NoFuzz there was a thread,Sex Without Emotion which probably covered some of what you are referring to. People are here for different reasons,everyone's wants and everyone's situation is slightly different. Personally I want to have a connection with someone I am, or going to have ,a sexual relationship with. Having sex with total strangers ,a person you will never see again ,can be very hot I know,just not what I am looking for. x Hugs H

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    JUst here for the sex....I dont want to know your name, I dont want to talk to you, kiss you, even look at you. Meet me in the dark, local parking spot will do, dont say a word, just bend me over the bonnet of the car and connect with me Baby.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    For a root .. my vibe needs a night off every now and again! Hugs...xFunlovingx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Completely disagree NoFuzz... you obviously haven't been reading my emails! I would say alot of men are here just to get their end wet. xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I tend to agree. I really think we're all looking for a connection of some kind, even if it is just one night or a few hours of satisfying sexual pleasure. Connection doesn't necessarily have to mean relationship or even feeling, because if there is no connection in sex, then it's not GOOD sex.   A good connection during a sexual encounter is something that will put a smile on your face every time you think back to that moment.   The ideal connection leaves you craving for more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I was fortunate to have met a man from here and had that connection once .....now broken   But I completely and totally agree with Meeka...most guys (not all) are here to park it somewhere for a hour or so (or maybe even a nite, if your lucky) and once every blue moon, the two parties may connect and it may lead to a month of meetings..and god forbid even beyond a month   NoFuzz..I would say your thinking on this subject would not be shared by many of your fellow sex...although I do like where your heads at..

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Yes, I agree ....But I am talking about is what is that they (we) desire, what is that we are after wanting " just to get their end wet "That is what nobody seems to talk about...the motivation behind it....I guess it is there, whether we think and are conscious of it or not...Back to you

  • QLDtwo4fun

    QLDtwo4fun

    14 years ago

    We are here looking for sex, with people like ourselves. Hopefully slightly more than a one nighter, some ongoing regular fuck buddy couples would be good.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Meeka100' Completely disagree NoFuzz... you obviously haven't been reading my emails! I would say alot of men are here just to get their end wet. xxMeeka If I want to get my end wet, I have a shower

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    May object ;)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'Vagabonde' May object ;) does who I tell him to!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm back for the forums mostly, and as a friend said, with hope. The hope that I might find someone on here who is into the things I am, who is into me as much as I am into him, resulting in absolutely mind-blowing sex.I think it's a vain hope, but nonetheless, I still look for it online as it's rare I meet single, appropriate men in my day to day life, the problem I guess with having mainly queer friends.I've had some good sex from here, and made some excellent friends, but I suppose I'm looking for something more, that doesn't happen when you meet a guy from sites like these. The men on here are, as Meeka said, mainly just interested in getting their ends wet. A quick (or not so quick) tumble but a separation of heart, cock, and mind. They see the women on these sites as being easy, as only being willing open cunts and mouths (and do we have a friend?). Yes, I'm generalising, but as with most generalisations, the basis is in truth.So MrNofuzz, good luck to you in your search, and kudos to you for looking to have a connection as well as just sex. You're in the minority. Hopefully it works for you!Cheers! :D

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Very interesting post fantastic observations. Im glad you have someone who agrees with you. would love to meet her.   Firstly i would say men who play with couples are usually just wanting to get their dicks wet and male halves of couples playing with single ladies often only want to get their dicks wet. Sex with no connection of any kind. not even for an hour is a waste of time and effort for me.   Secondly, It would be good if the replies addressed all of your comment not little bits of it.   How would sex with some one who justs wants to wet their dick play out. "Hi am horny , your hot , lets fuck," brief touch here and there for 10 to 20 minutes then and few position changes ," I'm cumming ,oh your so hot , was it good for you , gotta go thanks c ya later". How many times have you had an experience like that ? if more than one your are picking the wrong men.   However, NSA sex exists. but is it NFA . (devoid of all feeling)   Quoting no Fuzz" I, personally believed, that we are here to experience true connection, whether for one night, multiple meetings, relationships and all the other grey area in between Different things mean different things to different people . a simple example is if i say "house"no one else will visualise the same house I do. In addition . overall people on rhp are no different to those that are not , no better or no worse , but in many cases looking for what they dont get or cant get conventionally   FOR MOST PEOPLE SEX "is about experiencing a real melting of personas were everything else disappears for a while and bliss of communion happens." "Body contact, surrender, openness, sharing, exploring, pleasuring and true fusion is what we are all here for.." who is not here for any or all of this? I'm here For a root .. xFunlovingx you are in the perfect place then ......... is that x for used to be funloving or for no funloving for you i.e just a replacement "vibrator" . Can we meet so you can teach me how to have feelingless. meaningless sex Meeka no offence but that may have everything to do with you and your selection of playmates and your relationshp status , what do you think? now now put your claws back Overall very interesting that all the initial responses were from long standing rhp members . so ladies what are you REALLY looking for?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm just here for sex....lots of hot rough sex Hugs roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Let's see who has this on their profile "really want someone to spend time with " and I'm happy to travel for weekends " Does not compute with the forum post " only here for sex "

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I'm just here for the forums .... Really!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Haven't you ever gone away for the weekend and not left your hotel roomiest???.....just spent the whole time fucking someone's brains out??? Do you not "spend time with someone" when bonking them silly?? Hugs roxxy

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'NoFuzz' Yes, I agree ....But I am talking about is what is that they (we) desire, what is that we are after wanting " just to get their end wet "That is what nobody seems to talk about...the motivation behind it....I guess it is there, whether we think and are conscious of it or not...Back to you Not too long ago a discussion came about with some friends of mine, when they had been approached via message by someone who seemed okay to start with, yet he had in his profile "Just spending time with the ladies on here until I meet a girlfriend" That actually told us a lot of exactly what the intent is behind it and no, he hasn't been the only one either. We are constantly being given that impression in the majority of messages we receive daily.As you were told previously, you really are the minorty here and obviously approach a woman as a fellow human being....just yesterday I had to remind a man that us women aren't here in a fucking shopping catalogue format, where some of the men seem to think they can decide..."yep, I'll have one of her, she looks ok..oh and two of that".While most of the time I can keep my cool and ignore the idiots, remind myself that I am a strong and decisive woman who just knows what she wants sexaully, sometimes it gets on top of you when you are called a fussy/shallow/petty/bitch/slut as most of us are when we dare to reject some utter moron with anger issues

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sedusa....If you wanted Meeka to put her claws back, you wouldnt have baited her like that.I'd have my hands covering my butt too if I were you just sayin'

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'NoFuzz' Yes, I agree ....But I am talking about is what is that they (we) desire, what is that we are after wanting " just to get their end wet "That is what nobody seems to talk about...the motivation behind it....I guess it is there, whether we think and are conscious of it or not...Back to you I think if men were really after a connection they wouldn't act the way that they do on RHP. I don't believe that a majority of men (NOT ALL SO DON"T SHOOT ME) would consider having a connection with a women from a sex site.If there is a connection then that is a bonus for them... they are not actively seeking this here. Now, what are you referring to when you say connection? You mean sexual chemistry. That heat between two people where you can't wait to get each others clothes off? Well of course we all want that. But you can have this without necessarily having a true connection with someone. So again, most of the women that have responded have assumed connection means meeting of the mind... connecting on a higher level not just sexual. xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    More view points required before conclusions can be reached lol but can you spend a weekend not talking, not making eye contact and only having meaningless feelingless sex in other words just getting wet several times and in the dark lol just the thing that fantasies are made of . d_g_t so glad you could join on , I had my stopwatch going to see how long it would be. we are still missing some of the other usual suspects x

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sedusa...how very condescending of you. But then again, I can tell from your profile pic that you would have MANY MANY men looking at your profile so you would know what I am talking about. Now, not sure if you swing both ways but I can tell you are a little naive so let me tell you. Those boys are not interested in connecting with you. No, sweetie they just want to bend you over and ram your arse. They may or may not compliment you on your pretty eyes as they slide their cock in and out of your mouth not too sure. Call me a crude bitch if you want... but I want you to know I am holding back here believe me! LMFAO. Now, I don't believe any of the other strong independent woman that have agreed with me above have said that we are crying into our hankies because the big bag meanie fucked us and ran? Did we say this? No we did not and I find it insulting that you have made this assumption to be honest. Do you think all women are silly? Yes, I have been on RHP for two years now. Thanks for doing your research, but I can count the men I have met and played with on one hand. Because I am not after meaningless boring sex. Because for me, sex without connection is totally boring and mundane. So the truth is yes I am mainly here for the forums because I like to flirt and play with my friends. My status is single... yes obviously this has alot to do with why I attract men. Yep you got me there! My comment was perfectly reasonable. I think most men are here to get there end wet, pure and simple. Did I say there was anything wrong with that? In has its time and place too.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'sedusa' I'm just here for the forums .... Really!! Umm yes... sorry if this offends you. Yes, I am here for the forums seems a bit hard to believe these days I know but when I first joined the forum was bloody fantastic. It was so much fun, we all flirted and laughed. It really was great and I have made lots of really good friends from the forum, both female and male. And of course my good buddy who I just knew I had to meet as soon as I read his forum posts... he has made it all worthwhile. Talk about connection! Fark... could have ripped his clothes off there and then on our first meeting... well except we were in a crowed pub. Do I want that connection? Fuck yeah! Jeez I thought this was a free country.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Don't you think the majority of female profiles maintain that idea for the majority of men you refer to ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Well, mainly, I am here because sites like RHP are great for meeting (even if only online) like-minded people. People with quirks, kinks, bends etc, just like mine. For example, how many pubs clubs etc would one have to go to, week in and week out, before one finally runs into a lady who likes putting a strapon, on, and giving it to a guy?? Yet here, one only has to do a search, and up comes quite a number of ladies like that, within 50 k of where I live. <<---- Thats the main reason I am here (altho looking for a lady who likes using a strapon, is only there as an example, for the right lady, I might say Yesssssssss lol).From there, it becomes a little more difficult, because it now boils down to what I want, which is very different from, why I am here.And I want, nay need, some connection with the person/persons. While a lot of guys here would not have, I said NO, to a couple, on the weekend. They wanted to meet, in a carpark, in 30 mins, and just go for it. We haven't even met in person yet. So, NO it was, as I have absolutely no idea whether I suit them, they suit me, we have anything in common whatsoever. All I knew, was they are a male n female couple, and wanted dirty sex in a carpark. Carparks aren't an issue, I have a long history of carpark sex, lol (Helen, where are you when I need you?). For me, there has to be some connection, or NO will be the response.Having said that, these types of sites are FULL of guys, who would have said Yes, full of guys who think that because a lady or couple are on a site like this, then ALL they have to do is ask, and said lady/couple, MUST say yes. If you are reading this and are one of those guys, then book yourself in, for an attitude adjustment.So, in conclusion, I am here to find like-minded people, in the hope that when I do find those people, I can also come across some who I connect with on many different levels, and let the cards fall where they may.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Don't you think the majority of female profiles maintain that idea for the majority of men you refer to ?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    how does that work exactly ? Nothing is free and no country that forces its citizens to front up to vote or be fined is free . My last comment on this post is if most the men just want sex why are so many women still here , wait now I get it they are just here for the forums and looking for people who see the world the same way they do , birds of a feather . Thanks to all for your delightful comments glad you could join us . Thanks nofuzz great conversation starter .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I occasionally flirt with the idea of what it might be like to find that from a site like this and I actually think there are odds that it might, after all meeting someone one here presents a unique opportunity to learn about that persons wants and needs pretty early on in the piece... and if you are compatible it could go from there...   That said, whenever I meet someone my expectation is zero... noting, zilch... I dont even expect to necessarily have a good conversation. I meet with the understanding that we need to sit face to face for me to see if there is anything between us that is mutually interesting the more u find the more fun it is (it could be sexual or otherwise, its hard to predict what meeting a new person might lead to)... I love that though.. Im often surprised... people are interesting :)   the caveat to this is that even if there are conections I tend not to think of anything developing in a relationship sense beyond casual meets or fwb type scenarios but if something did develop I would decide then how far I wanted it to progress... why build preconceptions? let it happen how ever its going to happen... whether thats purely physical, emotional, a mix... roll with it...   its not black and white all the time... though sometimes it is and thats awesome too. LS

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    sorry to dissappoint you but no I don't swing both ways and no not many men look at my profile and if they do it's patently obvious that I'm not interested. I'm sure though there are no shortage of guys who would oblige you in that way seem as you are so au fait with that . (lol rofl ) I sure have found your buttons . Have the other ladies you have mentioned really agreed with you on the honesty issue . Do you usually resort to crassness when you don't get your own way or do you save that for when you have nothing better to say. I am a tad disappointed in the gutter talk but not entirely surprised . If you dont like my point of view feel to not to read my posts .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Connection can mean a lot of things for different people and in different situations....That is the problem with language...you can say something or meant something that is heard or understood completely in a different way.A connection can be just sexual, and can be more as well...Some of us can allow ourself to be more open than others ( to anyone, it does not need to be with that special someone).I have had great intense connections with people that I did not know, and we enjoy that moment of intimacy, without looking back.My point, and it is hard sometimes to explain it accurately, is that I believe, that we are all looking for that connection, whether consciously or not. That is the real reason that we enjoy sex so much......What is sex otherwise ????Just rubbing of some body parts with a bit (hopefully lots ) of juices....And I repeat....Nothing more exquisite to me than when a women REALLY opens up to me....not just having sex, but opens deeply and takes me real deep with pleasure and desire into herself ....OR....maybe I am delusional.....that is always possible

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'sedusa' Don't you think the majority of female profiles maintain that idea for the majority of men you refer to ? Possibly... but my profile doesn't read that way so why do they continue to send me emails that tell me they want to pound my ass into mince meat and that they want to suck on my big fat titties? Why sedusa why?

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'sedusa' sorry to dissappoint you but no I don't swing both ways and no not many men look at my profile and if they do it's patently obvious that I'm not interested. I'm sure though there are no shortage of guys who would oblige you in that way seem as you are so au fait with that . (lol rofl ) I sure have found your buttons . Have the other ladies you have mentioned really agreed with you on the honesty issue . Do you usually resort to crassness when you don't get your own way or do you save that for when you have nothing better to say. I am a tad disappointed in the gutter talk but not entirely surprised . If you dont like my point of view feel to not to read my posts . I LURVE being crass, that is part of my charm so I am told. And believe me I was holding back... but that is me if you don't like the way I write just skip over it. There is no way that you are not getting loads of hits from men. Don't believe you even for a itty bitty second. Look on your who has viewed your profile list........ all men right. Yep, I find you condescending that is true. So will not read anymore of your posts. Thanks for that tip.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Dear D_G_T, I admit to a certain curiosity as to what type of messages you (and women in general) receive here. I'm assuming that the stupidity and lack of originality of men means you get a lot of "Hey Ba-bee, I'm gunna to be the best root you ever had, come suck my cock now! ", but if we ignore those for the moment, are they mostly just after NSA rooting? Or couples who want that FFM threesome with someone they never have to see again?I guess if I really want to know I should just create a girl profile with some hot pics from facebook/myspace and wait for them to roll in... But there are enough fake profiles already.Personally I want to meet people who I like, who like to fuck. Not really interested in chasing women who are going to say "That's disgusting!" and mean it if I mention BDSM. Or have massive hang ups about having my dyke/gay friends over for dinner. Quoting 'D_G_T' That actually told us a lot of exactly what the intent is behind it and no, he hasn't been the only one either. We are constantly being given that impression in the majority of messages we receive daily.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    .So help me to understand here Sedusa....you are having a jab at the ladies in here why? Because you dont believe that they know the content of 90% of their own messages stating that these men really do only want a wet knob?oryou are having a jab because you feel that you dont fall into this category and are unhappy that it's not being recognised?.As Meeka and some of the other posters have stated, there are the minority of course that would like a deeper connection. So where aren't you being given some credit there?.Or is it entirely possible that you are showing us another side you think we 'need' to see? One where you take a dislike to some small comment and then belittle us for it?That's really showing us huh we are nothing but cattle to be milked and called a silly moo for having a brain or opinion.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'sedusa'My last comment on this post is if most the men just want sex why are so many women still here , wait now I get it they are just here for the forums and looking for people who see the world the same way they do , birds of a feather . When I was single I was on here to meet guys. Some wanted a connection of some kind but many just wanted to get their end wet. Guys that want connection are in the minority, wet enders account for the majority. Some are (shock horror!!) only here for the forums (you can get off the floor now) and some only pop in from time to time for the events.Why are the women here if men just want to get laid? Maybe the women hope to avoid condescending, patronising jerks and find someone who wants more than his knob wet and who will show them the respect they deserve. They are rare birds indeed but they do exist. Now that I am in a permanent relationship I am (get ready to fall down again) only here for the forums and maybe, just maybe I can make friends with people who are into bdsm (aka people who see the world the same way I do). Birds of a feather? If that's the way you want to put it then flock it, that's fine with me.See you all in the aviary.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'sedusa' Don't you think the majority of female profiles maintain that idea for the majority of men you refer to ? Such as having a stock photo as your profile pic of someone who is in fact a black man and not caucasian at all,you need to be very careful when using black and white's it really can be deceiving.And you then have the fucking NERVE Sedusa to come and tell the women of RHP that they have got some men pegged all wrong.......let me tell you , it's not all I'd like to peg right now.But good on you mate, for giving your' bothers in arms' an even WORSE rep and yes I did omit the r on purpose

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'andy_rdx' Dear D_G_T, I admit to a certain curiosity as to what type of messages you (and women in general) receive here. I'm assuming that the stupidity and lack of originality of men means you get a lot of "Hey Ba-bee, I'm gunna to be the best root you ever had, come suck my cock now! ", but if we ignore those for the moment, are they mostly just after NSA rooting? Or couples who want that FFM threesome with someone they never have to see again?I guess if I really want to know I should just create a girl profile with some hot pics from facebook/myspace and wait for them to roll in... But there are enough fake profiles already.Personally I want to meet people who I like, who like to fuck. Not really interested in chasing women who are going to say "That's disgusting!" and mean it if I mention BDSM. Or have massive hang ups about having my dyke/gay friends over for dinner. Quoting 'D_G_T' That actually told us a lot of exactly what the intent is behind it and no, he hasn't been the only one either. We are constantly being given that impression in the majority of messages we receive daily. Get back to answer this more thoroughly for you a bit later. My personal profile is pretty straight up about what Im looking for, but I still get some, and so do my friends. I will give you a good insight of what we are given on a daily basis.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    it is very easy to make baseless claims , to resort to vilification and to make false assumptions , so to set the record straight 1. Of the 300+ monthly views of my profile 99% are female despite certain individuals being concerned I may be getting more attention than them. 2. I am caucasian not that my skin colour is an issue for me but obviously is for some bigots out there 3. My profile photo is an original of me part of an experimentation with black and white Photography 4. Birds of a feather do flock together much as fools never differ But I digress , so nofuzz do you feel your question has been adequately dealt with . It would be good to get more input on this

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    And I thought I was the only straight male here who was getting viewed and hit on by guys...   Meeka: you rock kiddo.. I do wish we could meet sometime - I thought you and Stalky were coming to Orange .. :( Thinking about it, you should have Brought D_G_T along... and and .. and..   I get so little CONTACT on here, I would be justified in saying.." I am only here for the forums.. " Fck.. WHY THE HELL ELSE WOULD I STAY ON HERE PAYING ALL THAT MONEY???   *smiles*   Cavey (gutted)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    quod erat demonstrandum . for the record I have been blocked by people after a display of crassness name calling abuse and attempted racial and sexual vilification . Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned , you reap what you sow and usually get your just desserts and if you can't handle truth stay away from honesty posts . Let me guess the mutual admiration society has moved to a new forum and are stroking their ruffled feathers in chat group . Thanks to those for their honesty and to the people that I have connected with

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    14 years ago

    The following are some examples of the types of emails that I personally receive on a daily basis to the tune of around 40+Clearly, not one of these people has actually read my profile - I have also never chatted to any of these people and have no established connection with them in any way - other than the fact that they either saw me on cam or they simply looked at the part of my profile that really interested them....things like if I have a shaved pussy and if I'm Bi or if I do anal etc....If you read my profile it quite CLEARLY states my wishes and explains exactly why I am here.That's this month anyway. The reason I'm here next month might be completely different. There's a point in there if you can find it!So yeah - in the year I've been on here this has been the ABSOLUTE pattern of email tone I have rec'd from the majority.There are the odd gems that just shine on through though and it's clear that they are a 'thinking' and intelligent person. That's where I invest my timeNever rent your head space to a bad tenant I say! Unfortunately, there are a lot of bad tenants living on RHP.Before anyone has a go at me for posting my emails - that just it - they are MINE and I have not left reference to any usernames.liked ur profile n thought id drop a line 2 say hi. im tall n slim. freinly n easygoing. im considerate of others and aim to please. very hetro but 3way ok with likewise. work full time as club manager very good at oral and am good stayerlove to smack nice bums when theyre naughty.enjoy cpls parties also have fem buddy who likes to playhave a great day. hope to hear back from u----------------------------------------------------------wanna meet up sms me 043193 cheers----------------------------------------------------------Hey When you catch a breath - message me with a time we can get together x-----------------------------------------------------------Nice pics..***and *** here..We are from Cronulla.. We are only new on here and just seeing what this site has to offer.. we would be interested in chatting in maybe catching up for some fun if you are interested let us know..*** loves getting licked out while I bend our playmate over :) check out our PG-----------------------------------------------------------Hey sexy Hanna. Love watching you on cam! Can i have access yo your pg please babe? I used to live in Brissy and visit quite a bit so if you're keen to maybe meet up to sometime xx----------------------------------------------------------i was justs watching u on cam..damn u are hot and very sexy...love your hair ...you are amazing i would fly over or fly you over just for dinner babes..call me if u can 0417 0----------------------------------------------------------female profile*** and me *** are in town for 2weeks. hoping u had the time to join us for some fun times x x x x if u r r keen drop us a line. ----------------------------------------------------------hi Great profile. We are heading up your way later this year. Could we pls have access to your other photos. ---------------------------------------------------------I was attracted to your profile because you sound genuine and look deliciousI know I a a bit older but I hope youill read on anyway.I am good at relaxation and sensual body rubbing that relaxes you slowly then builds up the sensuality which in turn releases your body tension. This takes as long as it needs to and normally leaves one in a totally relaxed and tension free state.I was hoping you would like to try it out some time. I travel about SEQ in my work and would love to catch up and see how it goes-------------------------------------------------------Hello,,,how are you,,, i get down your way a fair bit,,, maybe we could meet up sometime-------------------------------------------------------

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    14 years ago

    Whilst it might not sound like much to anyone else - it completely shits me when and if you send me a message saying how much you loved my profile and then ask me to meet up in the same breath...... CLEARLY did not read my profile.Personal Opinion time now - I would never look for love on this website. It did find me last year and that was interesting but it didn't last. I was not looking for it - it found me!I listen to some of the girls and yes, some of the guys chatting and it scares me that some are actually hoping to meet the love of their lives on RHP. It will SO RARELY happen and work.Why? Because this IS a sex and swingers site and of course, will attract the demographic it specifically targets.If you want to be really honest then perhaps it's time we all fess up to the fact that we all have 'spares' on reserve in a place like this - meaning that if one doesn't take your fancy there is surely another one that will right behind them and often you end up having several 'meaningful' friendships until you eventually stumble across a time and a place and the person that is right for that moment.HmmmmHanna xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Go on and on about your racial vilification all you want. Your profile picture comes up in 6 places on the web , one of which asks if you would like to see 'more shots of this model' in the zoomed out shot you can see the whole body and head , then next one being in full colour. You think you know a lot about the people you mention, you know nothing. I do not need any other person than myself to recognize that you my dear are a total wanker and a fake one to boot :P. Your first mistake here is in thinking that the girls of rhp are stupid ......wrong! Why don't you go and tinyeye your own pic , then be sure to get back to me about who is the stupid one. If not, feel free to go fascinate someone else .

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You know Sedusa, you actually remind me a lot of my old friend Chuck, except I'm not sure he actually knows what vilify means ;) you have that same whingy whiny type style about you. "wah wah wah, look what that mean girl said about me" grow a set ffs!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I love the connection between myself and a partner during sex, erotic, intimate and passion are what make really good sex with the right person. I have found over the years that I need these things and I believe it's human nature but that doesn't mean we all want a relationship just a connection for a few hours to satisfy our needs both emotionally and physically. But having said all that sometimes it's great to just meet a woman bend her over and cum all over her ass and leave a hand print ;) other times it's nice to fall asleep in their arms after spending hours exploring each other then wake up and do it all over again then go your separate ways.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I don't believe for a second that anyone is going to find a meaningful relationship on this, or any similar site. Because most everyone is phony. Phony photos, phony description. Or at the very least, not entirely accurate. I feel its just a Society of exhibiting voyeurs. (You got it, me included)Sex is the goal. That is what people need and want.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    If only the internet was what scifi said it would be... Then Mistress DGT would be saying "Kneel slave!" and inserting a chunky ball gag in the Sudusa avatar's mouth, strapping it tight, and hoisting him to the whipping post. Far more satisfying than a keyboard whipping.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    of shit

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I just read your profile... So I read it as I am here to talk to friends I already know.. And if I want new ones I will contact you! So bugger off! Lol Shame!,, is there a button on here where you can have a profile and hide from strangers.. ? Correct me if I am wrong... Also re profile. There is a reason resumes are now only 1 page.. People can't be bothered reading.. I however do.. A well thought out and not to long (yes I can't be bothered reading a novel either) Profile gives insight to the person. I like a man that makes an effort In their profiles and msg, they get my attention. And further re profiles.. Men don't read profiles.. They follow their nose.. Ever seen a bloke nearly crash into a pole perving..he didn't care she was hanging onto her husband. Lol And why would men's motivations be any different on here than at the pub.. Most just want a hit and run..and usually don't Care if it was any good for you.. Most of these guys are pretty easy to spot.. The username is a good starting point.. Lol. Nd just for the guys to me a penis is better looking in your jokes.. They are functional items not decorative .. Lol my opinion. Lol. So don't keep showing me. Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Sorry thought had selected with quote.. Hanna_ybbn's profile. Lol

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quoting 'cavey50' And I thought I was the only straight male here who was getting viewed and hit on by guys...   Meeka: you rock kiddo.. I do wish we could meet sometime - I thought you and Stalky were coming to Orange .. :( Thinking about it, you should have Brought D_G_T along... and and .. and..  Hey Cavey, yes Stalky went up to Orange about two weeks ago but it was only a quick trip there and back in a day.. he didn't have time to meet up with anyone... and he was with his wife so I probably would have been a little obvious sitting in the back seat. xxMeeka

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Quantity is easy...Quality is a Gift ....for however long We Desire to share in it

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    I mostly don't want a guy trying to psychoanalyse me or get into the depths of my soul when my work on a daily basis is all about that - in which I am expected to be so very available yet professional about their lives, needs, difficulties and so on. Yet it is equally important for me to feel a connection to want to connect sexually. One guy I have met and continue to see has managed to get me to open up a lot, but he is rare and not at all slow and sensual...,.and like when men want you, nothing seems to keep him away. We are able to be friends and lovers, and we know where the limits for us rest in our connection, what we both want from it. I must say though, if a guy is a little too mooshy its a turn off for me...I have had to be a strong female all my life and dont want a super soft guy. I don't need him doing my hair and nails...I'd rather he nails and hammers me. If he's too ' sensitive' and not enough alpha I just start dominating completely... And I might bite him when he's going to kiss me if he's being too much like that if I think that will spark him up a bit..or tease and restrain for same effect if I can see that as more likely to produce some braun in him. I tend to avoid mooshy guys. But it is nice to be able to talk while waiting for him to recover...but if its all a bit too much, i'll make him shut up by sitting on his face. Sorry to be a bitch.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    i agree with most of your theory

  • Hanna_ybbn

    Hanna_ybbn

    14 years ago

    Hey Cat505 I'm not being an idiot or trying to be difficult - I don't understand what it was you were saying. Yes, I can be a little slow sometimes, sorry.I'd like to understand what it was you were saying to me though.Hanna xx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    Pictureless andy dont project your fantasy on to me, maybe meeka willl oblige you with your fantasy but dont hold your breath coz she knows you just want to get your dick wet .but if you pay a bondage professional looking for payiing clients you will be the plucked turkey   as for your friend chuck all he wanted was a good fuck but could get no satisfaction and moved on.   M____t can only dominate men like you who want to be dominated . As for this turkey being plucked she will be more like a cat getting skinned.   a,d and m maybe you should get together for an mfm might turn out to be just what you need,   back to the the subject of honesty , we need a bigger sample size and we already have evidence of all the positive comments revceved by a really gorgeous . honest woman. and no comments from those whom are not reading my posts ,

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    hey cat new to this i net etc but msg chat or e mail me and i'll send you what you want lol redkev

  • RHP

    RHP User

    14 years ago

    You seriously need to relax. You said what you thought and you got strips torn off. Deal with it and move on. Quoting 'sedusa' Pictureless andy dont project your fantasy on to me,