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Are validations useful to women?
February 25 2018
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DynamicCouple36
8 years ago
We don’t like validations. For us they are like notches on a bed post and are akin to advertising how many people, from here, you have slept with. And they don’t necessary mean that a profile is real. We prefer verifications. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Validations do not always talk about sex, it could be that they are real..they show up and have a personality But some women like to try the new goods not previously loved used ones. Kmart or Good Sammy.🤓
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RHP User
8 years ago
When I was here a while back I had a lass who wanted to give me a validation as she appreciated the gentleman I was. She wrote a wonderful validation. It didn't seem to make any difference but I thought it was nice as it was about who I was not about what I could do for her. I would advise you to avoid the he's a great lover type validations as that makes not an ounce of difference. For what you can do for one may not be something that does it for others. All the best in this place bloke
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RHP User
8 years ago
More than 3 is a definite turn off. Ideally context be at least a little descriptive about the person not just their prowess in Le boudoir. Can’t stand template ones. Waste of time. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
On validations including the ones I had on my other profile. I put them on for the guys to show others they were a real person and a bit about personality. Helps on here so they might have more of a chance for some more dates. Mine were Ok and more about being a real person too. Looking back they might have appeared a bit slutty maybe. Don't know but irrelevant now because they are no longer there. I do use validations and verifications to confirm people are real. But still chat first before a final decision.
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RHP User
8 years ago
Big time!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Big time!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Big time!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
Big time!!
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RHP User
8 years ago
I find validations a complete and utter turn off. WTF would i want to know via a website of how popular people are. isn't that up to me ?..............Most in my mind is just BS, and just looking for self importance. I choose not to contact people like that
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RHP User
8 years ago
I think as a man, there’s no issues. Kinda validates you’re real and actually showed up ☺️ I also take note of the fact someone was impressed enough to write one. More interested in how you are as a person more so than “ability”. As a woman....? The usual double standard 😒 I’m assuming. Heaven forbid a woman having her cake 😜 But I do wonder, what do men think? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Lionsdoll1' I think as a man, there’s no issues. Kinda validates you’re real and actually showed up ☺️ I also take note of the fact someone was impressed enough to write one. More interested in how you are as a person more so than “ability”. As a woman....? The usual double standard 😒 I’m assuming. Heaven forbid a woman having her cake 😜 But I do wonder, what do men think? I can see the double standard........good point you raise there!a woman a slut and the guy it a stud..............such a clusterfuck - Posted from rhpmobile
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Freaky_Fun
8 years ago
If someone has 50 validations l don't bother. You may have fucked 50 people l just don't need to know about it.
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RHP User
8 years ago
...is another man's poison. Very old saying and of course there is a pun there. I will make up my own mind and expect others to do the same. 😉🙃⚡️ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Is that mine, has been written by a woman I’ve never met face to face but have spent considerable time on the phone with... She decided to write a piss take one for me after a similar conversation, and I decided that it was funny enough to use it... But as I said, I’ve never met her...so the validation could very well be just from a friend or your own fake profile...if you’re that way inclined.... See the dilemma ?? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
And it doesn't apply to me. Sure I want a woman with a great personality but I also want her to crave cock like a champion! It's never put me off a lady if she's had a lot of sexual partners. If anything it's a bonus as I want to know that the blood running through her vains is red hot!!! This world would be such a beautiful place if we valued promiscuous women more.
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RHP User
8 years ago
You’re a special and rare find. 🙌 Unfortunately some of us women have such cravings and red hot boiling blood but then face issues such as disrespect, judgement and some men think that’s all it takes is a dic pic to get us going 😡 It’s complicated and unfortunately probably won’t change any time soon. A quote from one of my favourite movies; “Men might flirt with a woman like that but he won’t marry her.” If only men valued a woman’s sexuality and her personality and her caring nature with respect ✊ - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
8 years ago
Quoting 'Lionsdoll1' You’re a special and rare find. 🙌 Unfortunately some of us women have such cravings and red hot boiling blood but then face issues such as disrespect, judgement and some men think that’s all it takes is a dic pic to get us going 😡 It’s complicated and unfortunately probably won’t change any time soon. A quote from one of my favourite movies; “Men might flirt with a woman like that but he won’t marry her.” If only men valued a woman’s sexuality and her personality and her caring nature with respect ✊ - Posted from rhpmobile Lionsdoll1 - That last line is a bit much, no? LOL if only... It works both ways... :p
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RHP User
8 years ago
I feel exactly the same about men’s profiles with lots of validations. It proves nothing beyond the fact it seems ego propping. And a woman’s with lots doesn’t make her slutty, I’m just not going to read more than a handful so they serve little purpose. So I agree with both Lionsdoll and Pommy. I assume we are all promiscuous and I have encouraged one or two women I’ve met to explore their sexuality with gusto. Don’t judge them for that one bit and they don’t judge me. BB - Posted from rhpmobile
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WishingWell
8 years ago
As a single woman on here yes Solace85 I do look for the males profile to be verified and have at least 1-2 validations. But generic templates mean nothing to me at all.. It's surprising how judgemental people can be on this site as I'm guessing the majority of us AREN'T virgins!
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