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Are "unicorns" really this hard to find online??
April 24 2016
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RHP User
10 years ago
The age thing wouldnt work for me. Mr is in my age range but I wouldnt be attracted to a woman half my age. Thats just me, but its one reason why you may be finding it hard. Possibly the younger women that would be attracted to mrs might think mr is too old for them.
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AnnieWhichway
10 years ago
To be able to message possible unicorns. If you look at the long term membership rates, its only the price of a cup of coffee per week. Why wouldn't you?
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RHP User
10 years ago
Don't need to be seeking you guys out....they get enough messages I'm sure to make it a full time job..... But..... If you can't message people, how on earth do you believe you'll be noticed ??? - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Agree with DP, the age difference between the two of you is probably going to be an issue for a few women. I am contacted quite regularly by couples with a male partner a fair bit older (15 years or more gap) than the female partner and I'm afraid the dynamic just doesn't work for me. Having said that, there would be women out there who don't mind the age difference....but you do really need to be able to message them if you want to have a chance and stand out among the many couples looking for single women on here. Most single women on here are guests so they can't message people and for the ones in the larger cities anyway, they don't need to as they receive enough messages to keep them very busy. I'm not sure from your credit card comment whether you think there may be safety issues with handing over your credit card details, but I've been paid up a few times at various stages of my time on here and have never had an issue of that nature.
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RHP User
10 years ago
You've taken a good step posting here as there are lots of folks that read the forums and never post. I'm sure that this plus other posts that you may make in the future will help tip the odds. A paid membership, even a basic one, will let you be a bit proactive and send out notes to people you are interested in. As far as the details of a credit card, I personally am more comfortable with online security than I am at a lot of shops where I do business in person. You could also organize for an EFTPOS direct debit card and keep only a small balance linked to that account at any one time...I do that and trust online banking. All the best and best of luck!
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RHP User
10 years ago
If you're a quest. - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
when ppl say "we dont get attention"....but they are guests hiding in a pile of profiles who dont bother to put any effort in. BTW, you arent "handing over credit card details", you are paying for a service through a secure payment gateway. Slight difference , no? - Posted from rhpmobile
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3somePlz
10 years ago
Hi all, thanks for taking the time to reply with some helpful advice, like I said, we are new to this and whilst we are no dummies, we figured asking the group would bring faster and better answers to the "newbie" type questions we have. After all this time our age difference is nothing to us but we are aware it is unusual and some of the comments have confirmed our suspisions that it could be a road block here. Its also good to hear that there appears to be no issues with CC details, just wanted some feedback before taking up membership (which, we know will greatly enhance our chances but you never know what feedback you may get for that either) Thanks everyone for your honesty, its very helpful and much appreciated. - Posted from rhpmobile
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3somePlz
10 years ago
Hi Fr33Spirits, aren't you clever with all your knowledge! I bet that made you feel really good, didn't it.., using big words and CAPS to tell us how stupid we are.. lol. That was great! Thanks for the giggle... - Posted from rhpmobile
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RHP User
10 years ago
Probably worth verifying your profile too. It doesn't matter to everyone but to some people it's important. And not hard to do. Attending meet & greets will give you the opportunity to meet some awesome people. There's also a national meet & greet in October in Adelaide, details will be up "soon"
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Katkat
10 years ago
You should try going to party & get a single woman to join in the fun then you will have a threesome or another lady with her man more like a foursome. I always get couples asking me to join them but I just don't have the time hence why I prefer to go a party when I get a chance. - Posted from rhpmobile
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Lovinit28andKC72
10 years ago
Yes age is a bit of a bugger with people, it plays a huge part when choosing playmates for yourself and it comes down to personal preference. For me being heteroflexible, not bisexual, I prefer my men younger (30ish to 40ish) and my women older (40ish to 50ish). Good luck on your journey. 💋
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RHP User
10 years ago
A big issue is the sheer number of couples, and men looking for small number of said unicorns. The numbers are just diabolical. Before dipping in, you might want to have a good look at the profiles and numbers of active unicorns in your area, and read those profiles carefully to to see if they and you are a good match. Advise: Know your market. Verify your profile. Have a profile that represents you and your wants, and gives are clear indication of the experience you seek and can offer Best of luck.
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RHP User
10 years ago
We are of the same age range and don't find it an issue but in saying that i guess it depends on who you are attempting to meet. Over the years there has been hot patches and cold patches as people come and go from these sites, we initially had more success with Unicorns at sex parties but that progressed as we found Unicorns like meeting people in organized public settings/venues rather than from instantaneous online emails. It takes time or randomness generally.Being a member tends to help alot otherwise you just look like the other 3000 guest profiles begging for someone perfect to email them.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Quoting 'Stirry' Don't need to be seeking you guys out....they get enough messages I'm sure to make it a full time job..... - Posted from rhpmobile You are onto something here :) "Full time unicorn" :) :)
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RHP User
10 years ago
but that was when I started this post now I've forgotten. Oh that's right what she said Quoting 'Lovinit28' Yes age is a bit of a bugger with people, it plays a huge part when choosing playmates for yourself and it comes down to personal preference. Oh yes I remember before Unicorns were a rare and endangered species, used to see them frolicking in their natural environment. Ah those were the days I tell you but no one believes you now.
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RHP User
10 years ago
Any time anywhere give me a call - Posted from rhpmobile
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UnclaimedPants
10 years ago
We organise events and such and we know a number of these rare individuals we could introduce you to...... - Posted from rhpmobile
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