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Are threesomes the new vanilla?

August 30 2014

I told a friend that my ultimate turn on was fmf with me as the star and it turns out I'm vanilla!, who knew!?. I know there's guys that like to be locked in rubber diving suits and walked around like a pug but when did fmf become a cliche?, call me retro but I like what I like.

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  • RHP

    RHP User

    11 years ago

    Ask your mates, how many of them have been there? Not that many I reckon. - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    vanilla but I would say cliche. Every man's fantasy, it is a bit 'yawn' when that is all you guys have in your repertoire. Even more so when 'you are the star', it sounds even more like boring porno sex. But each to their own, I am sure you are not the only man (or woman) still with that fantasy. I was chatting with a guy who I had the aforementioned threesome with and he asked me if I could go back to one on one sex after the group thing and I said, you bet, I love my one on one stuff. Now that sounds boring to most but not to me.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I wonder what they'd think if you'd said you want a FMF with you being the star but with both women donning strapons. Would they still think you vanilla? Sorry OP. I can't sleep and that's usually when I get evil thoughts

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I wouldn't get off on someone taking a dump in my chest or in my mouth but each to their own level of pervertedness. "I like what I like" too. Putting my knickers on my man's bread plate in front of a cute waitress in a restaurant, instructing him to go change into them in the bathroom for the night but send me a pic before returning to the table.... is probably more my style. Then of course I'd have to look at the photo on my phone later on whilst the waitress is topping up my wine glass with my date looking very sheepish - that's more my kind of flavour ;)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Most straight guys have fmf in which they are the centre of two women's attention as a fantasy, nothing new there at all and I'm surprised that you found that surprising. Whether or not it's vanilla though is a bit of a different issue and more open to individual interpretation.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I wouldn't say NO to A FMF or any other form for that mater. I wouldn't say no to some mmf or strong kink if my mood took it... Fuking is fuking but love making (regardless of the number of people) is mmmm

  • MissBishere

    MissBishere

    11 years ago

    Well if they are I want try some vanilla please! - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Well maybe they meant that it was a common fantasy, and why not. It's wonderful being the starfish in the middle. I know I really love watching my lover being pleasures by a few people. Hearing the groan and seeing the shaky legs. Yum! Otherwise yes, I suppose people in the scene might consider that just the norm.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Hot!!! I would live to be the start in that 3sum - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'Missb72' Well if they are I want try some vanilla please! - Posted from rhpmobile Would you like nuts with that?

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Worn women's underwear. But Chillihoney, that may just change if I met you for dinner!!! Done the straight MFM thing, it's excellent seeing the lady being the centre of attention - but the Holy Grail of FMF has eluded me so far... :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'ralf74' vanilla but I would say cliche. Every man's fantasy, it is a bit 'yawn' when that is all you guys have in your repertoire. Even more so when 'you are the star' A very common fantasy for men, and yes I would call the idea itself pretty vanilla. I think there is a difference between fantasizing about it and actually having an FMF though. I've met several men who have admitted if the opportunity presented itself, they may not have the guts to actually go through with it.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    I don't know about wearing my dates underwear Chilli ;-), Is that Bridget Jones style? If I were taking you out I'd be hoping you'd gone commando;-).

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    A cliche sounds worse than vanilla, now im not only adventurous but also lovingly predictable!. I guess being the focal point of the threesome is because it's my fantasy scenario, though I have to say that it's not a deal breaker if im not the "star".

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Not adventurous and boringly predictable, thanks auto correct you saved me from not looking like a fuckwit once again.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    might be vanilla. Actually carrying it out, not so.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'anywhereisbetter' A cliche sounds worse than vanilla, now im not only adventurous but also lovingly predictable!. I guess being the focal point of the threesome is because it's my fantasy scenario, though I have to say that it's not a deal breaker if im not the "star". Who cares what anyone else thinks? Threesomes are fantastic. I for one think you should strive for your dream.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Meeka is right. Any combination of a threesome is a nice fantasy. Go for it. I hope it becomes a reality for you :) - Posted from rhpmobile

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Quoting 'anywhereisbetter' Not adventurous and boringly predictable, thanks auto correct you saved me from not looking like a fuckwit once again. I liked lovingly predictable better, sounded so adorable. xo

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    hmmmm.......as a CD Girl..........also as a male............grrrr................I love multiple interaction............certainly no one is the star............threesomes are wonderful.........interaction fun...........NO stars. well......orgasm yes........but mutual interaction..........is wonderful

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    So have we had the threesome yet?

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    Its certainly cliche, and only those that have done it know its not about the man being the center of pleasure its about your partner and her friend being the focus, sure you can lap up that moment when they are both going down on you at the same time, (seriously you'll mentally screenshot that for life) but its about them and its a tonne of work. Epically awesome work! :)

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    But if its vanilla.... there are far more guys saying they have had vanilla.... than actually have. DG

  • 6exxy

    6exxy

    11 years ago

    It's not every mans fantasy Not saying I wouldn't go there but it not a fantasy of mine.

  • RHP

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    11 years ago

    many different qualities of vanilla OP.imitation vanilla, vanilla essence,vanilla paste and the real deal...the pod of the orchid..So which one are you OP:-)