jigjam

jigjam

M59 F50

Are they or aren't they ????

May 30 2011

I know we have all done it, that is wondering if our so called straight friends are actually in the scene. So my question is how do you bring the subject up without revealing your secret life. Any experiences or tips?

Comments

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Have you ever played nude golf?.... It's still about club selection, stance, grip and ... ahem ... swing.....Ok.... maybe just ask straight out.HugsStalky

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    I know my straight friends are just that.....straight! And the reason I know this is because I do not live a double life. I am outspoken about what I do. I dont bother to hide it from anyone, family or friends......well that is not strictly true.....select family member only

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    In my experience..Don't even think about asking them or letting them know you swing. Wigs them out or they think they might get an easy lay...lol.. A lovely guy from Perth actually said over the weekend at how surprising that so many people from Bunbury are on this site..Am I curious to know who they are? Nope ! I only know a handful ( I have small hands). :P And def too close to home for me. Maybe try lil hints on your Facebook..Naughty jokes.. hot naked men pics ..then some quotes about how men shouldnt talk with thier mouths full and just eat more muffins.. lol. sweetpetite xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

  • RHP

    RHP User

    15 years ago

    Quoting 'stalky' Have you ever played nude golf?.... It's still about club selection, stance, grip and ... ahem ... swing.....BAHAHAHA...love it!! In seriousness though, it is a hard one to approach isn't it? (Possibly another unintentional golf pun... )I guess you just have to figure out if the juice is worth the squeeze...

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    SECRET???? lol....

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    is that the general procedure??? just 'announce' to one and all who couldn't care less, just what we get up to??? cheers! ...

  • Mr_MrsJones

    Mr_MrsJones

    13 years ago

    It kinda depends on the reason WHY you are wondering about it. Is it because you may be interested in extending the friendship? Or is it just because they seem like the kind of people that might be? Really the only way to find out is to ask outright. But once those words are out there you can't put them back in! Once those friends know or think they know something like that about you it could come back to bite you in all sorts of ways that you were not really expecting. We sometimes let things slip a little and some of our friends and acquaintances do know. On the whole our family do not know. The things that worry us the most about being loud and proud are possible ramifications for our children at school and the misunderstanding of some people about the lifestyle and they beliving that we are either an easy target for a bit on the side of their marraige or that we fall down with our legs open at every possible opportunity.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    We have a close bunch of friends who know about our "choice" to share with others..Lol. We find its all about the trust you have with them. Once they have had time to absorb it, they find our choice interesting and itching to know more.

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    I dont name the site because I dont want friends checking out my profile. But I do talk about things I have read and learnt from the forums. When they want to know where I read/learnt that, I just say it was on a naughty site :)

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    Out with it. If they no longer want to be your friends, then they never were!!

  • RHP

    RHP User

    13 years ago

    its no secret here...bit hard to hide that we play, when the membership includes workmates of both, friends of us both, and family members of both....... we dont publicise, but then we certainly dont live under a veil of secrecy...its no big deal for either family (parents were nudists/swingers when they were young)..............